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PureSperm:
I'm a Christian by religion.

if you can not convince her to practice the same religion, Do you think she'll be a loyal partner?

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PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH PRACTICING TRADITIONAL NIGERIAN RELIGION.

STOP BEING MENTALLY COLONISED BY THE BRITISH INVADERS AND LOOTERS WHO LEFT 65 YEARS AGO!

Your ancestors were HIGHLY CIVILISED PEOPLE WITH A NOBLE SPIRITUALITY THAT PREDATES CHRISTIANITY AND ISLAM BY THOUSANDS OF YEARS.

May we not carry bone wey go hook us for throat.

A woman peeing and washing up after sex reduces risk of urinary tract infections (UTIs):

Urinating after sex helps flush out bacteria that may have entered the urethra during intercourse. This is one of the most effective ways to lower the chance of UTIs.
Washing the external genital area with water can also help remove any residual bacteria, though it’s less effective than urination for UTIs.



2. Improves hygiene:

Cleaning the genital area can help prevent irritation, odor, and discomfort.



3. No effect on pregnancy prevention:

Washing up after sex does not prevent pregnancy or protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Contraception and STI prevention measures (like condoms) are still necessary.

Xoxo, you have nothing to worry about. Those who told you washing up and peeing stops her from getting pregnant are obviously misinforming you.

Datinf a fetish lady is a no go area for me nonetheless, thinking of marriage... It's all a matter of choice for you now though.

The dream is a vision what would happen

dawnomike:
Datinf a fetish lady is a no go area for me nonetheless, thinking of marriage... It's all a matter of choice for you now though.

bro, I've been considered about marriage,but with what I've been seeing recently, I'm thinking about aborting the mission.

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.

Are u married to her that you want her to get pregnant?

dawnomike:
Datinf a fetish lady is a no go area for me nonetheless, thinking of marriage... It's all a matter of choice for you now though.

WHAT IS MORE FETISH than hanging a bloodied sacrificed dead white man on your neck?

Or ritually drinking his blood and eating his flesh?

RITUAL CANNIBALISM?

Do you think that is normal?

HOW DARE YOU CALL African religion "fetish" when you walk and breathe FETISHISM YOURSELF?

Guy!!!
Thank your God for now that she has refuse to conceive for you by washing out ur semen.
Her Mama na mother spiritual and even ur girl too dey there and yet you still want advice to whether go ahead or step aside right?
RECEIVE SENSE IN JESUS NAME

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.

Make she no wash up after doing the do? E be like na u get problem...u like am por smelly smelly

Firstcitizen:
Girl be washing the thing after the side guy donnit to prepare for the main guy

So she won't wash after doing it with the main guy?



Every sensible person knows he/she is suppose to freshen up before and after sxx.

PureSperm:
I'm a Christian by religion.

If you marry her, she'll make you a traditionalist and there is no going back on that. Flee while you can.

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.

that shouldn't stop her from getting pregnant.

Quick question; have any girl got pregnant for you before?

Check your sperm quality.

Peeing after sex is a good thing to keep infections away. Ask any doctor, that doesn't mean your sperm won't reach its destination, also go and check yourself to know if you are not sterile

Are you so immature? Are you 18 years of age? You know the right thing to do but just because you are already hypnotize you don’t have the will power to do it. Don’t you know that after marrying her you will follow her to serve the juju? You follow her to tie those white and red clothes and do fetish things. If you don’t want to do it the juju will kill you

Run oooh.. Those guys don't have an independent mind. Na wetin the gods/prophets tell dem dey believe. Some go say they don't have sex on so so day.

Neddstark:
If you marry her, she'll make you a traditionalist and there is no going back on that. Flee while you can.

That will be the Best Thing that's ever happened to him.

What has your imported, fake white saviour ever done for you but collect money for your pastor's mansion and jet?

PureSperm:
The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same.

Flee fornication....better to marry than have sex carelessly.

However, if she's into idolatry, you need double deliverance because you are yoked to her through sex.

For even posting this here, it seems you don't have sense! You are aware of the practices of this family, including your girl, and you dare to seek an opinion on whether to go ahead and marry her. Go ahead na!

I hope you are a traditional religious worshipper too! You cannot serve Jesus and be seeking advice.

Don’t mind that small boy

PulaPower:
A woman washing her p-part after sexx is normal..

Sonnobax15:
. . No be lie bro.... Almost every young banny for ughelli na igbe she dey serve

I de tell u bro..I just lock up since I got here o

Hmmm, 🤔 tell her to give you sure odds

judewrites:
Flee fornication....better to marry than have sex carelessly.

However, if she's into idolatry, you need double deliverance because you are yoked to her through sex.

The original IDOLATRY is that CROSS OF A DEAD WHITE MAN ON YOUR NECK.

WHO IS HE?

Some guys came from Europe with guns and bombs to steal and loot and massacre your ancestors, and you adopted their god.

HOW FOOLISH.

You think it's the same hole she used to pee that your dick also enter?

I'm really surprised by how uneducated people can be

Bahamas95:
So she won't wash after doing it with the main guy?



Every sensible person knows he/she is suppose to freshen up before and after sxx.

Yes! Wash for main guy then wash for side guy. An iteration of rituals done by runzgals then hide under the canopy of hygiene

"Reasons "
"An urgent need to wash or shower can be a sign of:"

Washing away evidence: The person may be trying to remove unfamiliar scents (like another person's perfume or aftershave), physical evidence, or an unfamiliar partner's "trace" to avoid getting caught.
Damage control: Immediately cleaning themselves might be a form of damage control, especially if they know they might get caught through other means later.
Guilt or compartmentalization: For some who are cheating, returning home and immediately washing might be a way to "cleanse" themselves of the act or compartmentalize their actions to cope with guilt.
Avoiding emotional intimacy/aftercare: The immediate rush to the shower can indicate a lack of desire for aftercare or emotional connection with their current partner, which might be a symptom of a broader issue in the relationship"

Don't start what you can't





Finished

You want her to get pregnant outside wedlock you should be hanged.