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Leg chain definitely a sign

SisterAnn:
I wear a leg chain when I feel up to it and I'm not close to the nonsense you are yapping here. I have a man that adore me so much and I can go to the moon and back for.

You need to see how myopic you sound stigmatizing leg chain.

If you are in the habit of attracting toxic women who also love to wear leg chains, you should check on yourself properly. It's not about a leg chain or any jewelry!

If you a responsible man, you won't always attract razz women.

If you smoke and drink excessively, always broke, no business acumen, yahoo boy with 15m today, broke in the next six months, always ganging and banging, no future ambition, can't keep his eyes off anything in skirt, then you would be attracting your likes.

Ẹhn hẹn, na you fit tok sense like dis as you bí Obidient so. Na wa o.

Di sense wey you nor get for Politics section, na for here you get am, wonderful.

Chai, as I go give you "like" ontop did ya post go pain mi small sha.

Anyway, per the thread topic, no one is tormenting the man, it is his love for the superficial, as you aptly stated, that is causing him problems.

aswani:
Ẹhn hẹn, na you fit tok sense like dis as you bí Obidient so. Na wa o.

Di sense wey you nor get for Politics section, na for here you get am, wonderful.

Chai, as I go give you "like" ontop did ya post go pain mi small sha.

Anyway, per the thread topic, no one is tormenting the man, it is his love for the superficial, as you aptly stated, that is causing him problems.

Sharaaaaap! Weigh-Ray.

I have no advice for simps. He should take responsibilities for his silly actions

Interesting

marlow1962:
Na lie, she no dy torment your brother, na your brother dy torment himself cus of the love of baddie.

If your brother dy responsible, as him see baddie with leg chain, him no supposed take such person serious cus such person belongs to the street.

No be lie you cap my brother

The signs are usually there but love usually blinds men to make ruinous choices. Your brother is cooked with that monster.

pansophist:
It’s a natural law that the weak will always suffer. It doesn’t matter if the weak person does the right thing, is kind, generous and faithful.

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I love that you say this. I have always thought that one of the most cardinal sins for which we will be judged is weakness.

duduade:
Cooked up stories

I am a man but I smell lies all over this OP post

OP go find something better to do

My own baby brother too is seeing hellll in the hands of his wife in the UK.

The system there has placed the black man at the very bottom of the totem pole/food chain - lower than animals.

Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.

My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years.

The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".

I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.

We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

The chain worn on her body part has nothing to do with the fact that your brother failed to look for genuine love but rather chose to buy it.
Never flaunt wealth , owned or “borrowed/acquired “ to please a spouse. Make it clear where you are financially and your plan for the future. Why will a trained doctor depend on another human for survival?
Yes, Kogi girls have their history but they also have good ones too. Besides, no tribe is innocent here.
The problem is that your brother is not facing the root cause of his predicament. You guys are chasing shadows. Next week you will tell us about the tattoo on her left arm.

Where is the link between chain-wearing and this story?

MikeofKd:
Nobody knows your character, this is a faceless forum ,you can lie all you want here but defending leg chain is absurd , it is bad and those who wear it are very much dangerous people , hype yourself and call yourself good all you want , e no concern me.

She is just DELUSIONAL..na so most of their gender be,they love to paint a false narrative from reality of life,just imagine her yeye talk, Leg chains na redflag,she agree or not doesn’t change the fact about it so allow her enjoy her delusions.

Namaster:
As matter of Public Safety, kindly identify your brother.

NOBODY should be treated by a REEET-HERDED Doctor like him.

First, he made the HORRIBLE mistake of wifing up a leg-chain-wearing demon in human form.

Having anything to do with a woman who wears leg chains is like dining with a man who has HORNS—you'd deserve everything you get.

Leg chains on a woman is like being WRAPPED in a RED FLAG that doubles as a SCREECHING ALARM.

Your brother IGNORED such an obvious red flag.

Then the MUGU borrowed money to SPONSOR a visa with a LEG-CHAIN-WEARING woman as the main applicant while attaching himself as a MERE dependent.

Your brother is a THREAT to Public Safety!

MADNESS!

You have started again ooooooooo with your savage and brutal response, since TINUBU appointed you as Special Advice for Marital issues, you have been Firing from all cylinders, hahaha mucheche Hahaha oturugbeke hahaha 😂

Dotherightthing:
My own baby brother too is seeing hellll in the hands of his wife in the UK.
The system there has placed the black man at the very bottom of the totem pole/food chain - lower than animals.

Indians, Arabs, Asians, even South American marriages dey OK for their but the moment your brother steps there has to label the system as being racist only against black man in marriage?

Kobojunkie:
Indians, Arabs, Asians, even South American marriages dey OK for their but the moment your brother steps there has to label the system as being racist only against black man in marriage?

What are you saying now The system is skewed against the black man

After devil na woman .

pansophist:
It’s a natural law that the weak will always suffer. It doesn’t matter if the weak person does the right thing, is kind, generous and faithful.

Morality is the second layer after survival, and survival requires strength first, then morality. Your strength status should be non-negotiable, then you will be alright when the other party betrays.

Your brother failed on this foundational, natural law, hence he is suffering in the hand of a baddie. He places himself in the weak position, which renders all his good deeds insignificant.

He should not have made himself the dependent. Either she is the dependent or they stay in Nigeria. You can’t be the sponsor and be a dependent, it’s foolishness.

Secondly, his discernment is in the level of a toad. I don’t care how a woman can pretend, I know a bad woman if I see her. Infact no matter how good a woman is, a man should always put himself in the dominant position, since he is expected to lead and provide.

That marriage won’t get better. He should seek an exit route. It is easier to marry a good woman than repair a broken one.

Chai, Discernment of a TOAD, 🐸, Hahaha oturugbeke hahaha 😂

You people have brought this una backward-thinking topics to front page again.

Leg chain is just a fashion assesory. It doesn't in anyway determine the behaviour of anyone, and doesn't not identify anyone.

Dem don swear for your brother…
He financed the traveling and made himself the dependant? If no be swear, tell me Wetin e be?
Because love can not make someone mumu like that.

Wo… God will liberate your brother…everybody with him cup of akamu

Leg chain is a red flag and having al those bad character shows that she is for the streets

helinues:
Ladies leg chain is actually sexy to me. With jump trouser and bad flat shoe.. oh lala

bro just becareful. Most ladies are poorly brought up, adding leg chain or feminists worsen it

Hin brother GIUDE na why

Leg chain? It's just a fashion

He'll scale through though.

Fake story

marlow1962:
Na lie, she no dy torment your brother, na your brother dy torment himself cus of the love of baddie.

If your brother dy responsible, as him see baddie with leg chain, him no supposed take such person serious cus such person belongs to the street.

Close range shot!

Let ur brother focus on bettering his life.
Let his stop being a dependant.
He should think less of the relationship and start building his life without her.

ExudeLoveToAll:
What do you expect when almost prostitutes wear leg change, almost al female social deviants wear leg change, when you are in the minority you will otherwise unknowingly bear the tag of these ladies. When they say Nigerians are drug dealers or Internet fraudsters by people abroad, they say this because of people who have decided to bring the name of Nigeria in disrepute just like you finding yourself in the league of people who do stuffs that are antihetical to societal development. Until majority of leg chain wearers behave decently this prejudice won't change.

No mind am. I am sure she is not any different. Just like a thief will never accept he/she is a thief. They will keep explaining and justifying...

Double0h7:
Would it be less painful if she tortured him without a leg chain on? 🥴

😂 one would think the leg chain is the culprit and she's being possessed by it

helinues:
Ladies leg chain is actually sexy to me. With jump trouser and bad flat shoe.. oh lala

Lol... Public perception and stereotypes are such interesting concepts.

I swear, I grew up hearing nothing but negative things regarding the following:

Ankle, waist, and nose accessories/adornments on women
Tattoos
Multiple piercings on each ear



It took a lot of self education and mental liberating to get such superstitious and uneducated nonsense off my head.

Amiee99:
😂 one would think the leg chain is the culprit and she's being possessed by it

The Leg chain propaganda and blackmail remain in full force...!

Religion will never let a lot Nigerians reason clearly.