₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
It’s a natural law that the weak will always suffer. It doesn’t matter if the weak person does the right thing, is kind, generous and faithful.

Morality is the second layer after survival, and survival requires strength first, then morality. Your strength status should be non-negotiable, then you will be alright when the other party betrays.

Your brother failed on this foundational, natural law, hence he is suffering in the hand of a baddie. He places himself in the weak position, which renders all his good deeds insignificant.

He should not have made himself the dependent. Either she is the dependent or they stay in Nigeria. You can’t be the sponsor and be a dependent, it’s foolishness.

Secondly, his discernment is in the level of a toad. I don’t care how a woman can pretend, I know a bad woman if I see her. Infact no matter how good a woman is, a man should always put himself in the dominant position, since he is expected to lead and provide.

That marriage won’t get better. He should seek an exit route. It is easier to marry a good woman than repair a broken one.

SisterAnn:
I wear a leg chain when I feel up to it and I'm not close to the nonsense you are yapping here. I have a man that adore me so much and I can go to the moon and back for.

You need to see how myopic you sound stigmatizing leg chain.

If you are in the habit of attracting toxic women who also love to wear leg chains, you should check on yourself properly. It's not about a leg chain or any jewelry!

If you a responsible man, you won't always attract razz women.

If you smoke and drink excessively, always broke, no business acumen, yahoo boy with 15m today, broke in the next six months, always ganging and banging, no future ambition, can't keep his eyes off anything in skirt, then you would be attracting your likes.

Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.

My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years.

The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".

I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.

We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

MikeofKd:
Nobody knows your character, this is a faceless forum ,you can lie all you want here but defending leg chain is absurd , it is bad and those who wear it are very much dangerous people , hype yourself and call yourself good all you want , e no concern me.

Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.

My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years.

The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".

I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.

We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.

My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years.

The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".

I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.

We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

SisterAnn:
I wear a leg chain when I feel up to it and I'm not close to the nonsense you are yapping here. I have a man that adore me so much and I can go to the moon and back for.

You need to see how myopic you sound stigmatizing leg chain.

If you are in the habit of attracting toxic women who also love to wear leg chains, you should check on yourself properly. It's not about a leg chain or any jewelry!

If you a responsible man, you won't always attract razz women.

If you smoke and drink excessively, always broke, no business acumen, yahoo boy with 15m today, broke in the next six months, always ganging and banging, no future ambition, can't keep his eyes off anything in skirt, then you would be attracting your likes.

MikeofKd:
Nobody knows your character, this is a faceless forum ,you can lie all you want here but defending leg chain is absurd , it is bad and those who wear it are very much dangerous people , hype yourself and call yourself good all you want , e no concern me.

marlow1962:
Na lie, she no dy torment your brother, na your brother dy torment himself cus of the love of baddie.

If your brother dy responsible, as him see baddie with leg chain, him no supposed take such person serious cus such person belongs to the street.

ExudeLoveToAll:
What do you expect when almost prostitutes wear leg change, almost al female social deviants wear leg change, when you are in the minority you will otherwise unknowingly bear the tag of these ladies. When they say Nigerians are drug dealers or Internet fraudsters by people abroad, they say this because of people who have decided to bring the name of Nigeria in disrepute just like you finding yourself in the league of people who do stuffs that are antihetical to societal development. Until majority of leg chain wearers behave decently this prejudice won't change.

SisterAnn:
I wear a leg chain when I feel up to it and I'm not close to the nonsense you are yapping here. I have a man that adore me so much and I can go to the moon and back for.

You need to see how myopic you sound stigmatizing leg chain.

If you are in the habit of attracting toxic women who also love to wear leg chains, you should check on yourself properly. It's not about a leg chain or any jewelry!

If you a responsible man, you won't always attract razz women.

If you smoke and drink excessively, always broke, no business acumen, yahoo boy with 15m today, broke in the next six months, always ganging and banging, no future ambition, can't keep his eyes off anything in skirt, then you would be attracting your likes.

MikeofKd:
Nobody knows your character, this is a faceless forum ,you can lie all you want here but defending leg chain is absurd , it is bad and those who wear it are very much dangerous people , hype yourself and call yourself good all you want , e no concern me.

marlow1962:
Na lie, she no dy torment your brother, na your brother dy torment himself cus of the love of baddie.

If your brother dy responsible, as him see baddie with leg chain, him no supposed take such person serious cus such person belongs to the street.

duduade:
Cooked up stories

I am a man but I smell lies all over this OP post

OP go find something better to do

zenburster:
Now what does her leg chain have to do with anything?

It appears like your brother in question, you also dont have too much sense.

Good for both of you.

May the legchain-wearing woman continue to show your family pepper.

Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.

My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years.

The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".

I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.

We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

marlow1962:
Na lie, she no dy torment your brother, na your brother dy torment himself cus of the love of baddie.

If your brother dy responsible, as him see baddie with leg chain, him no supposed take such person serious cus such person belongs to the street.

Maitunbi:
Madam I have a question for you: why do you wear leg chains? How does it add to your physical attractiveness?

MikeofKd:
Nobody knows your character, this is a faceless forum ,you can lie all you want here but defending leg chain is absurd , it is bad and those who wear it are very much dangerous people , hype yourself and call yourself good all you want , e no concern me.

DissTroy:
I have always avoided intimacy with women who dress that way: leg chains, nose rings, multiple piercings, tattoos, drink, smóke, abuse drúgs etc.

I judge women harshly by how they present themselves. I have ALWAYS avoided women who are always in the thick of controversies only and involved in gender wars. Once I see "gender advocate" nonsense, I flee.

I have no empathy for men entangled with such women. They walked right into it.

I like my women cultured, feminine, composed and private.

AfDapone:
Wearing leg-chain means the wife is open to sleeping with other men as approved by the (stupid, gullible, woke) husband.

joseph1832:
private outside but a tigress inside, no?

placeofallure:
Stop eeeeeeet?
Leg chain is no different from earring or bracelet or necklace. It's just another item of fashion. There's nothing special or untoward attached to it. A saintly looking lady without make up and all its trappings can give a man hell on Earth. What would you ascribe her attitude to?