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Re: How Should I Go About This? by Compliant(m): 8:18am On Dec 11, 2025
PureSperm:
I'm a Christian by religion.
1. Every clean lady must wash after sex, know this and have peace of mind.

2. Washing after sex does not stop pregnancy, know this and have peace of mind.

3. After dating her for 3 years, you cannot abandoned her, else you face the consequences which is always abject poverty, I am 100% sure she must have told you before now

4. Even if she get pregnant for you, your female children must become idol worshippers also, i am 100% sure she must have told you or she is still looking for a way to tell you,. The mother will tell you immediately after marriage don't worry

5. YOU ARE IN A VERT VERY BIG MESS THAT EVEN YOUR PASTOR WILL NOT BE ABLE TO HELP YOU BECAUSE YOU NOT A CHRISTIAN BUT A CHURCH GOER

ALL ABOVEE IS TRUE AND I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE

Re: How Should I Go About This? by PureSperm(op): 11:00am On Dec 11, 2025
Compliant:
1. Every clean lady must wash after sex, know this and have peace of mind.

2. Washing after sex does not stop pregnancy, know this and have peace of mind.

3. After dating her for 3 years, you cannot abandoned her, else you face the consequences which is always abject poverty, I am 100% sure she must have told you before now

4. Even if she get pregnant for you, your female children must become idol worshippers also, i am 100% sure she must have told you or she is still looking for a way to tell you,. The mother will tell you immediately after marriage don't worry

5. YOU ARE IN A VERT VERY BIG MESS THAT EVEN YOUR PASTOR WILL NOT BE ABLE TO HELP YOU BECAUSE YOU NOT A CHRISTIAN BUT A CHURCH GOER

ALL ABOVEE IS TRUE AND I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE

Bro, you're so right.
Re: How Should I Go About This? by Archer007: 9:47am On Dec 12, 2025
Nothing wrong in all shes doing ..if you say shes fetish how about your mum ? My advice is consult your mother on the marriage ahead of both of u future if you are in doubt !
Re: How Should I Go About This? by bigl: 8:04pm On Dec 12, 2025
Hey chief, i got notified that you sent me an email but it never entered my inbox ...

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.
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