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Kobojunkie:
Say no to poverty, abeg! A woman has a right to require that any man interested in her should at least pay for her meal. If you no fit, then walk on by! Stop painting them black just because you no fit. There are men out there who fit, and those are the ones the ladies are more interested in, not you.

tanigororo:
➜Everybody has right, the Man too has the right to say NO. the man has the right to call out entitlement mentality

An entitlement mindset is the belief that you deserve special privileges, recognition, or rewards without earning them, often stemming from feeling owed or superior, leading to expectations of immediate gratification, a lack of gratitude, and frustration when reality doesn't match inflated desires, ultimately harming relationships and personal growth. It's a disconnect where individuals feel rules don't apply to them, expecting others to fulfill their needs without reciprocation, even while potentially hiding deep insecurities.

Kobojunkie:
. At least make an effort to learn the correct meaning and application of terms before moving forward.
The girl did not showcase an entitlement mentality. Rather, she expected that the potential suitor would, in exchange for needing her time and attention, at least begin by paying for her food. She has a right to put a price on her time and attention, and yes, he has a right to say no to her. However, he refused to at least showcase his interest in the way she expected, while expecting that she would further give him more of her time and attention than she had already given to him.

bmd1010:
that's the meaning of entitlement

Kobojunkie:
3. Say no to poverty, abeg! 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
I suggest you work on your language comprehension skills beginning now for 2026, at least!

Namaster:
GREEDY FHOOL!

Someone she just met THAT day.
NEVER even talked for up to an hour.
But she immediately assumed he should bear the BURDEN of feeding her.

All because he EXPRESSED interest in her.

In the mind of the average Nigerian lady, ordinary "hello" from a man is sufficient grounds for BILLING.

That's why I LAUGHED about the post on FP yesterday where a girl was beetching about a handsome guy that was staring at her inside a SHOPPING MALL without saying "Hi".

Now, this one said "Hi".
But he didn't say it with MONEY.

This level of ENTITLEMENT is why Shiloh is such a profitable hit year after YEAR.

MANY of them will D.I.E in SHILOH!

A man says Hi and you automatically expected him to SPONSOR your lunch.

MADNESS!

Kobojunkie:
. At least make an effort to learn the correct meaning and application of terms before moving forward.
The girl did not showcase an entitlement mentality. Rather, she expected that the potential suitor would, in exchange for needing her time and attention, at least begin by paying for her food. She has a right to put a price on her time and attention, and yes, he has a right to say no to her. However, he refused to at least showcase his interest in the way she expected, while expecting that she would further give him more of her time and attention than she had already given to him.

tanigororo:
➜So her attention is for sale or she is Hungry?

Kobojunkie:
She made it clear that her attention and time do not come for free. If she was hungry, she was able to pay for her own food, was she not? So, try to engage your brain in this, too.

So she felt pained that the man refuses to feed an hungry look lazy entitled adults, who believe she is precious enough to be fed.

I just listened to the phone recording, also saw her response video, and yes, that is what she said to the man... she has no time to waste on men who can't afford her price. Simple!
What did you learn from the recording

Kobojunkie:
. Always take time to learn the correct meaning and use of a term before you go around attempting to fashion it as a weapon against others.