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Diamond098454:
go ahead tell me. I know how to manage public opinion and this one that's coming from you hmmm I'm curious already so, speak

Kelle443:

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Diamond098454:
Maybe she meant no harm but what about the guy in question? What if he comes back trying to hit on you? Thinking you were given him a green light? Guys can't get things off their head till they have you.

I went to Abuja to spend sometimes with my cousin sister (married) to cool off my head . When i get to their house I mate only the security guard. I went inside wear different thing thinking my cousin sis will be the first tocome home

Long story cut✂ down, it was her husband that first returns home hmmmmmm
hmmmmmm I have to fly back to school (PH) the following morning

I only told my cousin that I get serious test to write that morning 9am and I must be in ph by 7.45am

essentialone:
Ok DD, I will tell you.

My opinion is that while it is not wrong for a lady to visit her married sister or married cousin sister, that visit if possible should be limited to a day's visit. If you are staying for days, book a hotel room. Same with females visiting their female friends who are married. That is not an excuse for the husband to lose self control with his 3rd leg, but the sea does not drown who does not come close to it.

My opinion is, let the younger sisters of the man be the ones to visit for long days. And let the younger brothers of the wife be the ones to visit for longer days. In that case you maintain extended family unity, and also prevent the scandal that happens with spouses having sex with relatives or friends of their spouses.

Forgive me if you don't like this opinion. But I see it as preventable. In the olden days, there is a reason why it is the sisters of a married Lady who carry her luggages on their heads to escort her out of the compound on the day of their traditional wedding. And they are the ones who do ashoebi and stuffs for her. By and large, they are doing her a send forth. As in BYE BYE. They get to see when they get to see. Not jumping on the next available road trip to her house. No naa. You forget that female siblings and female relatives have similar kind of beauty. Unless he is a perfect gentleman with self control. If not, the same features that attracted him to your sister will also attract him to you.

Let me hide before DD will spark. Hahahahhahaha

Diamond098454:
my dear that would have been a total family scandal

reddingtonblack:
Bros ! there is nothing wrong if a sister visit her Sister matrimonial home and stay for days ... my babe sis visit us she stayed for a month
infact in my friend places, the wife sis doing Nysc just left the place ... not for one day did we even reason her features whether she get yansh or not

Even my babe lil sis I see her like i dont see her .. Buh she did well dressing well herself

no be say you go come my house like goodlady, dey wear pant and tops that bring out your breast dangling each day then expect me to be Pope Reverend .. dont tempt me n say you are disappointed that my message to Women

Diamond098454:
Long story cut✂ down, it was her husband that first returns home hmmmmmm
hmmmmmm I have to fly back to school (PH) the following morning

I only told my cousin that I get serious test to write that morning 9am and I must be in ph by 7.45am

hatchy:
Your English is very terrible. I can't believe I'm reading what a supposed undergraduate wrote.

greatiyk4u:
But then, did he collect even if na kiss?

Diamond098454:
Maybe she meant no harm but what about the guy in question? What if he comes back trying to hit on you? Thinking you were given him a green light? Guys can't get things off their head till they have you.

I went to Abuja to spend sometimes with my cousin sister (married) to cool off my head . When i get to their house I mate only the security guard. I went inside wear different thing thinking my cousin sis will be the first tocome home.
You're a very wise lady. Make dem no come use their third leg shift your life. God bless you. Skme men can't control themselves. He was supposed to be the kne to give you an excuse to go out to buy skmeothjng, then he'd just stay there till his wife returned. Been jn that situation before. In that kind of scnenerio when you're not sure if the girl has a mission, just dash out like Joseph to avoid stories touch....
Thank God you spoke to your legs.

Long story cut✂ down, it was her husband that first returns home hmmmmmm
hmmmmmm I have to fly back to school (PH) the following morning

I only told my cousin that I get serious test to write that morning 9am and I must be in ph by 7.45am

reddingtonblack:
Why you cut ✂️ the Interesting part of the Movie, the husband arrives n saw packages that drove him hard rite 🤣 you wicked niyen

truth be told, whether your sister will come home 1st is relevant, You know she does not stay alone and there are others ..esp. men

You shouldnt have wore stuff that will enable dangling or features that will make others feel uncomfortable

i have dis sweat pant i bought, i notice it brings out my lining down there ... i stopped wearing it out infact i dump it

Buh you women like lookin for Men trouble innocently that was how pocohantas was wearing night gown to Gym b4 d

odinga1of:
As a CIA operation agent, I can confidently say u received Doggy and flew back to PH

Diamond098454:
no no no no no

essentialone:
Ok DD, I will tell you.

My opinion is that while it is not wrong for a lady to visit her married sister or married cousin sister, that visit if possible should be limited to a day's visit. If you are staying for days, book a hotel room. Same with females visiting their female friends who are married. That is not an excuse for the husband to lose self control with his 3rd leg, but the sea does not drown who does not come close to it.

My opinion is, let the younger sisters of the man be the ones to visit for long days. And let the younger brothers of the wife be the ones to visit for longer days. In that case you maintain extended family unity, and also prevent the scandal that happens with spouses having sex with relatives or friends of their spouses.

Forgive me if you don't like this opinion. But I see it as preventable. In the olden days, there is a reason why it is the sisters of a married Lady who carry her luggages on their heads to escort her out of the compound on the day of their traditional wedding. And they are the ones who do ashoebi and stuffs for her. By and large, they are doing her a send forth. As in BYE BYE. They get to see when they get to see. Not jumping on the next available road trip to her house. No naa. You forget that female siblings and female relatives have similar kind of beauty. Unless he is a perfect gentleman with self control. If not, the same features that attracted him to your sister will also attract him to you.

Let me hide before DD will spark. Hahahahhahaha

Diamond098454:
wow.... Thanks for the compliment, have a pleasant weekend dear💕

reddingtonblack:
😀🤣 ... To mens club thats not a logical defence .. @least you know "Your sis" dont live alone in that house

ok lets even assume your sister came home 1st, if what you are wearing is " indecent" if the Man enter later, it will still register in his head .. the only difference is that your sista presence wil make him comport himself ... buh the bell down there rang anyways like pocohantas will fondly say, that thing as mind of its own lets be guided

essentialone:
After dribbling round, you came back to my points. It is good to visit your sister or allow your sister visit you in your matrimonial home and stay for days. But please pray nothing happens. But if anything does happen, just accept it because you knew it may happen.

odinga1of:
Even those that slept with Ezra Elubi/Olubi denied it and deactivated their X account.

Women nature. Enjoy!

Diamond098454:
but my sister's husband should see me as his younger sister and shouldn't have feelings for me in any way.