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I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Ibtxxo(op): 10:22am On Dec 16, 2025
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by duduade(m): 10:25am On Dec 16, 2025
😂😂😂😂

Una never ready
When you ready, you either do the do or dump the family
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Ibtxxo(op): 10:29am On Dec 16, 2025
duduade:
😂😂😂😂

Una never ready
When you ready, you either do the do or dump the family
Is that how you did your wedding
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Ocbooking: 10:31am On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Is that how you did your wedding
Make those so called Ndi inchie marry the lady
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by FreeSpirited: 11:00am On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
Is her husband alive or not, even regardless,
.
You will end up being the husband of both... Knacking mother and daughter. If you love urself run from that family because they are setting you up for that taboo sex.
Reason is because if you end up paying, psychologically it will affect you and the mum, your psyche will torment you that you have the right to her waist. And she too, when devil use her, she will see you as an alternative husband that can succour her when she's emotionally down or tempted. Oga run. Thats a generational problem you one enter so
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by saintopus(m): 11:18am On Dec 16, 2025
That's a great idea, pay for both and get both. I envy you guy
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Baronthecelebri(m): 12:37pm On Dec 16, 2025
Hahahahahahaha 😀 😀 😀 😀,na you wan marry na,when we say don't marry, you think that we're stupid.
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Dikastan: 12:39pm On Dec 16, 2025
I have never heard of this tradition in Igbo land before. In my own part of Igbo,it is only when the woman dies that her husband or his children will be asked to pay the bride price before they bury their wife or mother if the father is no more
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by 1x2x3: 12:43pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
She not being married properly means she birthed out of wedlock. Does it mean everyone in that community who birthed out of wedlock must have their bride price paid by their son in law? Ask those illiterates questions.
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by drnoel: 12:52pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
They are talking to themselves.
If you woman wants to stay single they can continue, marriage is not by force
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by joeyswift(m): 1:17pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
Nna them don bless you with two wives. You buy one and they ended up telling you to add small thing on top and take the second. You gonna own mama and daughter. Cheers
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Diamond098454(f): 2:17pm On Dec 16, 2025
Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha I can't stop laughing omo na mama and pikin you dey marry be that.

Enjoy

Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by pointblank247(m): 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2025
The first thing I want to say is that the op is a lier.
What you met there is that there is a traditional marriage (also called igba nkwu) right of the mother that was not completed. NOT THE BRIDE PRICE.
I repeat NOT THE BRIDE PRICE.

The ndi ichie or anyone cannot call you a wife any Where in Igbo land if your bride price wasn't paid. You can not even join the married women of the community for anything.
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Gotocourt: 3:07pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
knack her belle sharply grin
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Sirchiboy: 3:13pm On Dec 16, 2025
Diamond098454:
Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha I can't stop laughing omo na mama and pikin you dey marry be that.

Enjoy
Hmmmmm
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by SeeWahala: 4:49pm On Dec 16, 2025
Sirchiboy:
Hmmmmm
so now it's that You will use one account and create thread and another one to be bumping it? undecided

I've asked if Seun pays you before haven't I? 🤔
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Blessedarethepe(m): 5:10pm On Dec 16, 2025
Just knack her belly make the chain rule continue....no be you go pay that thing
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Emmabyte: 5:10pm On Dec 16, 2025
Op go back to them and ask questions, what you just said is not adding up
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Looking4you: 5:29pm On Dec 16, 2025
From my perspective, i think it's not actually about the mum's bride Price, it's about your free self to willingly do things without considering Money.
If the lady is worth it, you won't have to bother about paying her mum's bride price
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Moveittothem: 5:30pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
Is her father late? Does she have an elder brother or an uncle? Let them go and pay for her mom's bride price; if they don't have the money, you can borrow or dash them. That's if you think your wife to be is worth the sacrifice, or you move on to another woman.


I presume her father is/was broke to not have paid for her wife's bride price. Nawa Sha
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Helpout12345: 5:49pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
Run fast. You go see shege
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by PulaPower: 6:15pm On Dec 16, 2025
Dem wan sell the pikin, sell her mama join for you..

Biafra and business 😃
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by bigpriik: 6:20pm On Dec 16, 2025
FreeSpirited:
Is her husband alive or not, even regardless,
.
You will end up being the husband of both... Knacking mother and daughter. If you love urself run from that family because they are setting you up for that taboo sex.
Reason is because if you end up paying, psychologically it will affect you and the mum, your psyche will torment you that you have the right to her waist. And she too, when devil use her, she will see you as an alternative husband that can succour her when she's emotionally down or tempted. Oga run. Thats a generational problem you one enter so
Guy you too dey watch xvideos stop it's not good for you well being
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by saintmm(m): 7:21pm On Dec 16, 2025
More information is needed to understand the situation
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Pootle: 7:36pm On Dec 16, 2025
you don buy two wive
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Kobojunkie: 7:41pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
➜Wetin I no go see for igbo land. My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl. Who does that?
You see scam, you no run? huh
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Lushka(m): 8:33pm On Dec 16, 2025
And you never Usain Bolt?
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Johnsown1(m): 9:24pm On Dec 16, 2025
It happens if your father in-law didn't pay the bride price of his wife. So please help the man and clear his name if your capable. Tradition must be obeyed and same thing is applicable to death too.
can't kill cow to bury one's father if cow was not killed for the burial ceremony of his dead elder brothers or dead grand father. It's either ram or cow are killed for the numbers of people that died before him or it will forgotten
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by Dzzzz: 9:32pm On Dec 16, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
You a big liar…Carry that nonsense lie go front Abeg..
Re: I Was Asked To Pay The Bride Price Of My Girl Mum Before I Could Marry Her by kpankpangolo: 10:49pm On Dec 16, 2025
Go and record a video of the ndi inchie stating what you claim because I do not believe this. Lying is a hobby in this useless forum.

Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?
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