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Challenges of every family man by Truvelisback(op): 9:28am On Dec 16, 2025
Good day, fellas. Challenges, every family man can relate to. grin

Re: Challenges of every family man by Caaz: 9:35am On Dec 16, 2025
Na you give chances to them.


The side chick part is the most painful...see how she grabbed the balloon...funny enough baba fit nor dey finish one round with his wife at home o...but he go dey pound side chick 3 full rounds.

My condolences to men that are cheating!!!
Re: Challenges of every family man by Nobody: 10:27am On Dec 16, 2025
We need to call this what it is: the struggles of a 'poor provider' or a rich man who lacks discipline. There’s no reason to be chasing side chicks when you can't even afford to dress well; it shows a total lack of priorities.

Also, if you’re still struggling to get by, starting a family is a burden you aren't ready for yet. You have to be honest with your parents and siblings and tell them not to expect much while you're still building your future. Focus on your rent and your well-being first.

If the man is rich, he has the leverage to walk away from any side chick causing him stress. Everything boils down to his financial capacity and discipline
Re: Challenges of every family man by pansophist(m): 10:32am On Dec 16, 2025
Funny thing be say the side chick fit dey see more money than both landlord, parents, siblings, wife and kids combined.

grin
Re: Challenges of every family man by Jennyclay(f): 11:07am On Dec 16, 2025
Nigeria men can never be faithful and they want their wife/girlfriend to be faithful and loyal to them undecided

Bunch of jokers undecided

If you can cheat as a man then your woman should too. Don't start what you can't finish. everyone have feeling, don't hurt someone’s daugther and expect her to understand undecided
Re: Challenges of every family man by Samantha125(f): 11:28am On Dec 16, 2025
If you can build your own house, install a solar system, dig up a borehole and connect it to your household for water supply, install heat pumps, and get married to a career woman who'll help with buying the groceries and other household essentials, you wouldn't have to worry about the landlord and you'll have less bills to pay.

Your siblings won't financially depend on you forever, get them something to do instead of always expecting handouts from you.

Aged people here in SA recieve monthly pension grant, meaning minus one problem... grin grin grin... The best thing you can do is make sure they have a comfortable home.

Problem solved... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Challenges of every family man by Diamond098454(f): 12:25pm On Dec 16, 2025
Caaz:
Na you give chances to them.


The side chick part is the most painful...see how she grabbed the balloon...funny enough baba fit nor dey finish one round with his wife at home o...but he go dey pound side chick 3 full rounds.

My condolences to men that are cheating!!!
that's men for you

Always in the arms of his side chick
Re: Challenges of every family man by Diamond098454(f): 12:27pm On Dec 16, 2025
pansophist:
Funny thing be say the side chick fit dey see more money than both landlord, parents, siblings, wife and kids combined.

grin
hahaha hahaha

Some men are capable
Re: Challenges of every family man by Truvelisback(op): 12:34pm On Dec 16, 2025
Samantha125:
If you can build your own house, install a solar system, dig up a borehole and connect it to your household for water supply, install heat pumps, and get married to a career woman who'll help with buying the groceries and other household essentials, you wouldn't have to worry about the landlord and you'll have less bills to pay.

Your siblings won't financially depend on you forever, get them something to do instead of always expecting handouts from you.

Aged people here in SA recieve monthly pension grant, meaning minus one problem... grin grin grin... The best thing you can do is make sure they have a comfortable home.

Problem solved... cheesy cheesy cheesy
In some areas, I think SA government are better than Nigerian government. Aside that, being a man is tougher. It takes money 💰, I mean real money 💰 to achieve those things you mentioned above.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Truvelisback(op): 12:37pm On Dec 16, 2025
Jennyclay:
Nigeria men can never be faithful and they want their wife/girlfriend to be faithful and loyal to them undecided

Bunch of jokers undecided

If you can cheat as a man then your woman should too. Don't start what you can't finish. everyone have feeling, don't hurt someone’s daugther and expect her to understand undecided
it is vice versa. Don't be one sided.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Truvelisback(op): 12:39pm On Dec 16, 2025
Diamond098454:
that's men for you

Always in the arms of his side chick
Some women forced or pushed some men to have sidechicks.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Diamond098454(f): 12:45pm On Dec 16, 2025
Truvelisback:
Some women forced or pushed some men to have sidechicks.
no no no some of these men have a good and calm wife at home
Re: Challenges of every family man by Samantha125(f): 1:00pm On Dec 16, 2025
I know, but it's worth it and a great investment... Even if it happens that you lose your job, you wouldn't have to worry about accomodation, water, and electricity.

And like Mariah angel said in one of her threads, plant as many fruit trees in your yard as possible as well.
Truvelisback:
In some areas, I think SA government are better than Nigerian government. Aside that, being a man is tougher. It takes money 💰, I mean real money 💰 to achieve those things you mentioned above.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Wealthyonos(m): 1:41pm On Dec 16, 2025
Something must kill a man, or a man must kill something.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Truvelisback(op): 3:55pm On Dec 16, 2025
Samantha125:
I know, but it's worth it and a great investment... Even if it happens that you lose your job, you wouldn't have to worry about accomodation, water, and electricity.

And like Mariah angel said in one of her threads, plant as many fruit trees in your yard as possible as well.
Yes, you are right but let me be honest with you. The cost of living in Nigeria is very tough now.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Samantha125(f): 3:58pm On Dec 16, 2025
The cost of living is tough everywhere.
Truvelisback:
Yes, you are right but let me be honest with you. The cost of living in Nigeria is very tough now.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Hypnotise: 9:01pm On Dec 16, 2025
Samantha125:
If you can build your own house, install a solar system, dig up a borehole and connect it to your household for water supply, install heat pumps, and get married to a career woman who'll help with buying the groceries and other household essentials, you wouldn't have to worry about the landlord and you'll have less bills to pay.

Your siblings won't financially depend on you forever, get them something to do instead of always expecting handouts from you.

Aged people here in SA recieve monthly pension grant, meaning minus one problem... grin grin grin... The best thing you can do is make sure they have a comfortable home.

Problem solved... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Very simple. In addition, substitute work/job for businesses that generates passive income monthly, and everyday would be a holiday.
Re: Challenges of every family man by Kobojunkie: 2:04am On Dec 17, 2025
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Challenges, every family man can relate to. grin
Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Challenges of every family man by Tenrack: 5:11am On Dec 17, 2025
Caaz:
Na you give chances to them.


The side chick part is the most painful...see how she grabbed the balloon...funny enough baba fit nor dey finish one round with his wife at home o...but he go dey pound side chick 3 full rounds.

My condolences to men that are cheating!!!
grin :Dna the cheating part get you. 🤣
Re: Challenges of every family man by Love800(m): 6:49am On Dec 17, 2025
If you are social aware(ideas) and formal, you will manipulate everything up there listed by the OP.

Sometimes life is not too hard, its the individual's choices dat brings chaos!
Re: Challenges of every family man by Sicklebear28: 10:25am On Dec 17, 2025
Caaz:
Na you give chances to them.


The side chick part is the most painful...see how she grabbed the balloon...funny enough baba fit nor dey finish one round with his wife at home o...but he go dey pound side chick 3 full rounds.

My condolences to men that are cheating!!!
grin grin grin grin. Oboy the way side chicks grab the balloon no be here ooooo
Re: Challenges of every family man by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:00pm On Dec 17, 2025
Jennyclay:
Nigeria men can never be faithful and they want their wife/girlfriend to be faithful and loyal to them undecided

Bunch of jokers undecided

[b]If you can cheat as a man then your woman should [/b]too. Don't start what you can't finish. everyone have feeling, don't hurt someone’s daugther and expect her to understand undecided
But when it comes to spending money there is no equality grin u are deceiving your self deluded one grin
Re: Challenges of every family man by DMCA: 11:12pm On Dec 23, 2025
Jennyclay:
Nigeria men can never be faithful and they want their wife/girlfriend to be faithful and loyal to them undecided

Bunch of jokers undecided

If you can cheat as a man then your woman should too. Don't start what you can't finish. everyone have feeling, don't hurt someone’s daugther and expect her to understand undecided
Someone's daughter is easily replaceable cool
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