1) Without quality time, your relationship will not survive. Carve out half an hour a night, and at least one day a month when you the two of you spend time exclusively together.

2) You will both need security, comfort. A good relationship is built on compromise and give and take on both sides.

3) Keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell and show your partner how much you need him, but don't cling, as that can make your partner feel trapped.

4) Encourage him to listen to you, by showing appreciation when he does. By the same token, show interest when he talks to you.

5) Learn to do the one thing that will restore good feeling in your relationship - giving your partner a genuine and loving smile.

6) Hidden resentments poison a relationship; so if something bothers you, say it. While men are wary of emotional conversations, they love to find solutions. Express your problem and then ask him to help you find the answer.

How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.

If you and your partner answer these 1000 questions, I guarantee that you will know each other better than 99% of couples on the face of the earth.

well said k angel i totally agree with u

I got this from a newpaper article I read yesterday: If you love the wrong person, loving them the right way would not make any difference.

Be sure that all that effort is being invested in the right place, otherwise, you will simply be wasting your time.

@liftedone, How long does it take you to cook the life

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good points.

liftedone:

I got this from a newpaper article I read yesterday: If you love the wrong person, loving them the right way would not make any difference.

Be sure that all that effort is being invested in the right place, otherwise, you will simply be wasting your time.

Are you saying that u saw this from a newspaper article?

@kate_angel
Please source as liftedone has stated.

Try to have lots of things in common. Do more things together. Most importantly, establish a friendship daily.