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Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 8:09pm On Dec 11, 2025
so 4rm a womans perspective ...thats what she thinks
Diamond098454:
I won't advice you to leave her

Do you know why? Because you love her
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 8:13pm On Dec 11, 2025
really..how..tell me
RealityKings1:
Use a mirror to break the spell
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by meobizy(m): 8:52pm On Dec 11, 2025
This boy with his stories. Yesterday, it was a traditional worshipper. Today, a cherubim and seraphim member.

Livingiconrebor, come and see your brother. 🥱

Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by LIVINGICONREBOR:
meobizy:
This boy with his stories. Yesterday, it was a traditional worshipper. Today, a cherubim and seraphim member.

Livingiconrebor, come and see your brother. 🥱
You no use kpankpangolo again? You of all pple should know I don't post trash to gain traction. Ain't got no millisecond for that.🥱
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by csamii: 10:49pm On Dec 11, 2025
Find scissors cut that waist bead!
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by duduade(m): 3:05am On Dec 12, 2025
And you still call her a fiancee



You have been truly trapped into a bottle 🍾
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by tanigororo: 3:24am On Dec 12, 2025
Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz
JobberMan dey Job us
You didn't add the part of she given you Okro or Vegetable eat.
Details of how her thought kept you restless.
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:58am On Dec 12, 2025
You don enter 1 chance
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by AllBlack: 9:28am On Dec 12, 2025
Mistersolar:
...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz
Nothing is wrong with her
something is wrong with your entire being.
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by infogenius(m): 11:15am On Dec 12, 2025
Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz
Bros, wetin u dey go through no be ordinary love at all.
30 years old, strong guy, rejecting better girls, yet one single mother wey no add anything to u, wey dey cheat openly and rub am for ur face, still get u on choke-hold… na textbook spiritual manipulation.

The signs clear:
• U nor dey sleep, nor chop, nor focus.
• Better options dey front, u nor even look twice.
• 4 days no talk, u still dey run back like remote control.
• Waist beads suddenly enter the matter (even if she claim na “nearby market,” that thing no be fashion again for this context).

Good thing u don open up to ur mum and Alfa don confirm wetin dey happen. That’s the biggest step.

How to break free right now:

1 Go back to the same Alfa today or tomorrow and beg am for the exact solution — prayers, what to burn, what to avoid, everything. No assume, collect full prescription.

2 Cut her off completely starting from this night
◦ Block every number and social media.
◦ Delete chats and pictures so midnight no go carry u scroll.
◦ If she get anything of urs, collect am back or leave am.
◦ If u get anything of hers, throw am comot.

3 Stop every physical contact — no seeing her “one last time,” no collecting anything from her hand again.

4 Occupy ur body and mind
◦ Go back to all the work u been dey reject.
◦ Hit gym or field every evening.
◦ Stay around family and correct guys.

5 Speak to urself every day:
“I am free. This thing no hold me again. I choose peace.”

The moment u start these steps, the fog go begin clear.
In two weeks max, u go look back and wonder how u been dey suffer for wetin no worth am.

U nor weak, u just dey under influence.


Once the thing break, u go bounce back stronger.


Start this night, guy. U go dey alright. 💪🙏
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 12:42pm On Dec 12, 2025
maybe u took me 4 someone else,its my first personal topic here
meobizy:
This boy with his stories. Yesterday, it was a traditional worshipper. Today, a cherubim and seraphim member.

Livingiconrebor, come and see your brother. 🥱
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 1:08pm On Dec 12, 2025
i dont know u personally ,but i really appreciated this piece..i appreciated u inputs..i wiill..tanks
infogenius:
Bros, wetin u dey go through no be ordinary love at all.
30 years old, strong guy, rejecting better girls, yet one single mother wey no add anything to u, wey dey cheat openly and rub am for ur face, still get u on choke-hold… na textbook spiritual manipulation.

The signs clear:
• U nor dey sleep, nor chop, nor focus.
• Better options dey front, u nor even look twice.
• 4 days no talk, u still dey run back like remote control.
• Waist beads suddenly enter the matter (even if she claim na “nearby market,” that thing no be fashion again for this context).

Good thing u don open up to ur mum and Alfa don confirm wetin dey happen. That’s the biggest step.

How to break free right now:

1 Go back to the same Alfa today or tomorrow and beg am for the exact solution — prayers, what to burn, what to avoid, everything. No assume, collect full prescription.

2 Cut her off completely starting from this night
◦ Block every number and social media.
◦ Delete chats and pictures so midnight no go carry u scroll.
◦ If she get anything of urs, collect am back or leave am.
◦ If u get anything of hers, throw am comot.

3 Stop every physical contact — no seeing her “one last time,” no collecting anything from her hand again.

4 Occupy ur body and mind
◦ Go back to all the work u been dey reject.
◦ Hit gym or field every evening.
◦ Stay around family and correct guys.

5 Speak to urself every day:
“I am free. This thing no hold me again. I choose peace.”

The moment u start these steps, the fog go begin clear.
In two weeks max, u go look back and wonder how u been dey suffer for wetin no worth am.

U nor weak, u just dey under influence.


Once the thing break, u go bounce back stronger.


Start this night, guy. U go dey alright. 💪🙏
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 1:55pm On Dec 13, 2025
we were about doing introduction ,tho were trying to get pregnant first
atilla:
Op. Are u guys living together?
Have u done introduction between the families ?
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by kiddaz: 2:39pm On Dec 13, 2025
Mistersolar:
we were about doing introduction ,tho were trying to get pregnant first
With someone who cheats on you regularly? You no dey fear for your lifehuh

Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by atilla(m): 3:40pm On Dec 13, 2025
Mistersolar:
we were about doing introduction ,tho were trying to get pregnant first
Okay now is the best time. Before pregnancy enters the matter.
If one of your friends told you this ame problem what would you advice them to do?
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 3:44pm On Dec 13, 2025
bro thanks again, ive started the steps..got spiritual soap from another woman mum introduced me to,i use am throway am enter river,d tin is i dont blive in these stuffs,just living normal...moving forward i got to becareful especially with these single mum....so day 1...will let u know if i feel free
infogenius:
Bros, wetin u dey go through no be ordinary love at all.
30 years old, strong guy, rejecting better girls, yet one single mother wey no add anything to u, wey dey cheat openly and rub am for ur face, still get u on choke-hold… na textbook spiritual manipulation.

The signs clear:
• U nor dey sleep, nor chop, nor focus.
• Better options dey front, u nor even look twice.
• 4 days no talk, u still dey run back like remote control.
• Waist beads suddenly enter the matter (even if she claim na “nearby market,” that thing no be fashion again for this context).

Good thing u don open up to ur mum and Alfa don confirm wetin dey happen. That’s the biggest step.

How to break free right now:

1 Go back to the same Alfa today or tomorrow and beg am for the exact solution — prayers, what to burn, what to avoid, everything. No assume, collect full prescription.

2 Cut her off completely starting from this night
◦ Block every number and social media.
◦ Delete chats and pictures so midnight no go carry u scroll.
◦ If she get anything of urs, collect am back or leave am.
◦ If u get anything of hers, throw am comot.

3 Stop every physical contact — no seeing her “one last time,” no collecting anything from her hand again.

4 Occupy ur body and mind
◦ Go back to all the work u been dey reject.
◦ Hit gym or field every evening.
◦ Stay around family and correct guys.

5 Speak to urself every day:
“I am free. This thing no hold me again. I choose peace.”

The moment u start these steps, the fog go begin clear.
In two weeks max, u go look back and wonder how u been dey suffer for wetin no worth am.

U nor weak, u just dey under influence.


Once the thing break, u go bounce back stronger.


Start this night, guy. U go dey alright. 💪🙏
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 4:08pm On Dec 13, 2025
i would even rebuke him 4 choosing a single mum firstly
atilla:
Okay now is the best time. Before pregnancy enters the matter.
If one of your friends told you this ame problem what would you advice them to do?
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by always247: 7:36pm On Dec 13, 2025
if you its a curse or juju then its not, because if its you wont even think its
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by atilla(m): 7:56pm On Dec 13, 2025
Mistersolar:
i would even rebuke him 4 choosing a single mum firstly
So follow ur own advice. Rebuke her. Let her understand u don't want anymore. Don't be sad for 50 years over 50hours
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 13, 2025
There's nothing like juju on you. That's just your mere imagination, for the fact that you're conscious to write thi means you're not under any spell or charm.

The truth is you have a soft mind towards her which on most case will be due to her emotional stories she has told you.

I know men like you, funny set of weak men that claim to be strong men 😂😂.

You're not strong but the opposite towards ladies. So what you need right now is to completely move on away from her.

Start by blocking her on WhatsApp and other social media and then delete her number from your phone since you can't control yourself.

Just take your mind off her completely even na piping she dey give you find another person
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 4:44pm On Dec 15, 2025
thank you very much...i appreciate
Ediko1:
There's nothing like juju on you. That's just your mere imagination, for the fact that you're conscious to write thi means you're not under any spell or charm.

The truth is you have a soft mind towards her which on most case will be due to her emotional stories she has told you.

I know men like you, funny set of weak men that claim to be strong men 😂😂.

You're not strong but the opposite towards ladies. So what you need right now is to completely move on away from her.

Start by blocking her on WhatsApp and other social media and then delete her number from your phone since you can't control yourself.

Just take your mind off her completely even na piping she dey give you find another person
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Helpout12345: 5:34pm On Dec 15, 2025
Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz
I just have some questions to ask you first

1. How is kn.cking with her?
2. Does she cook for you? How is the food?
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 1:02pm On Dec 16, 2025
yeah she do cook on some occasion and other one is fantastic ...but hey hows dat important
Helpout12345:
I just have some questions to ask you first

1. How is kn.cking with her?
2. Does she cook for you? How is the food?
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Helpout12345: 2:28pm On Dec 17, 2025
Mistersolar:
yeah she do cook on some occasion and other one is fantastic ...but hey hows dat important
It's the segs she is using to confuse your head. It's a trap.
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by extroveee(m): 2:26pm On Jan 12
Dealing with marine powers is the thiughest battle to face, but you can free yourself only if you're willing to.

When you've make up you mind to free yourself quote me I will tell you what to do.
Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 3:19pm On Jan 12
im willing....and may God help u too...so what do u suggest
extroveee:
Dealing with marine powers is the thiughest battle to face, but you can free yourself only if you're willing to.

When you've make up you mind to free yourself quote me I will tell you what to do.
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Evergrind: 4:16pm On Jan 12
Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz
The same thing I faced in Lagos in 2023, single mother of one boy, from the Yoruba, a cherubin and seraphine member too, Omo I saw hell that year, she was cheating on my face and there was nothing I could do rather than staying put, I was more of a cuckold then
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Evergrind: 4:18pm On Jan 12
ogashman:
Nobody used any juju on you. U have fallen in love with her.
You won't understand my bro, I have been in very similar situation like this before, and I was forming Hardman then too until e clear for my eyes
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 4:20pm On Jan 12
haaaaaaaaaa
Evergrind:
The same thing I faced in Lagos in 2023, single mother of one boy, from the Yoruba, a cherubin and seraphine member too, Omo I saw hell that year, she was cheating on my face and there was nothing I could do rather than staying put, I was more of a cuckold then
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 5:40pm On Jan 12
was she rude and disrespectful
Evergrind:
The same thing I faced in Lagos in 2023, single mother of one boy, from the Yoruba, a cherubin and seraphine member too, Omo I saw hell that year, she was cheating on my face and there was nothing I could do rather than staying put, I was more of a cuckold then
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Evergrind: 5:53pm On Jan 12
Mistersolar:
was she rude and disrespectful
Yes because she knows she has conquered you?
Re: How Do I Break Loose Of This Single Mother..urgent by Mistersolar(op): 11:39am On Jan 13
how did u break loose,and how long did it tk u
Evergrind:
You won't understand my bro, I have been in very similar situation like this before, and I was forming Hardman then too until e clear for my eyes
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