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Imagine if this lady was your girlfriend:

1. She's aged 28
2 A single mother whose baby is 6yrs of age
3. Her parents are divorced and have moved on with their lives afterwards. The man is remarried and same with the woman.
4. She wears legchain, Nose ring and waist beads.
5. Partially beautiful, but not educated enough. She first lied she had an ND until I began to probe into her claim and noticed she didn't go beyond secondary education. Her attitude and behaviour made me doubt her claim in the first place. You're chatting in proper English and she's replying with Pidgin all through.
6. Lies a lot. Even about the simplest things. Needless lies. She fell sick at some point, lied to me it was Malaria and Fever after doing a test. Same moment, while she held her phone and was on Facebook, she had initially asked A.I about ABORTION pills. This got me worried. I confronted her, she said it was her friend who used her phone to type that shit on Facebook A.I. I requested for her friend's number, inquired about same and her friend denied it. Before this discovery, she was sick and throwing saliva everywhere and I jokingly asked if she was pregnant( I hadn't slept with her at this point in the relationship since we were just a month or two into it). Same friend of hers had even asked her same question about if she was pregnant. She lied against her friend. Left with no other alternative, she came up with another story, claiming that she did family planning. And she was suffering from the impact of same family planning, reason for her health situation at the time. How can a single lady be doing family planning?
I asked if she was a hookup girl. She denied. She did the family planning because of her ex boyfriend since they were knackiing raw. I then asked, is your ex aware of this family planning? She said No. Is he aware that you're sick as a result of the family planning u did because of him? She said No. So now, how do you date a guy, you did family planning just because of him, yet he isn't aware?. You're even sick as a result, and he is not aware. What if you die?
In my mind, I believe she did an Abortion too.

7. I can't touch this lady's phone. She wouldn't even drop it for a second as long as we are together. She won't also take her calls. At some point I got worried and I asked her to pick those calls right in my presence, but she refused. After her refusal to pick, I wanted to see who the caller was as the phone was ringing, but she didn't allow me. I didn't want to drag with her, so I kept my cool.
8. The first day I asked her out, I got home, we began chatting, and she started telling me that she was Hungry. Ah!
I wanted to cut her off immediately, but I decided not to. Since then, it's being one complain or the other. I do all I can for her, not because of anything, but for humanity sakes. However, I must meet the needs of my loved ones and close male friends before I can meet hers. I've only had sex with her once(Three rounds) and since then, I've just being indifferent towards her.
9. She doesn't take corrections at all.
10. One more thing she does that breaks me is her constant plea for help on her WhatsApp status. For instance, she will post a picture of a gown on her status and say "Babe pls buy this for me"

Again, she will write, "Christmas dey come and my babe never ask me wetin I want for Christmas. Babe Naso" ?

So many of such. But I wouldn't reply to her status after viewing. She will then msg me directly and ask for those things.

11. Her mum remarried and she's in another State with the husband. Yesterday, she called me asking me for some money to send to her mum to buy drugs. I was shocked. Where is her husband?
I didn't have and I told her straight up. Before she Made this request, earlier same day, she had told me she would be going to the market to buy a few things for herself. I said ok. Later she came up with the request of 10k to send to her mum for drugs. Sincerely I didn't have to give her, if I had, I would gladly help. After all, I do more than that for her and even her friend. I then asked that she takes out of that money she intended using to buy things from the market and send to her mum for drugs since her health was more important. But she came up with another story. She said she does contribution of 5k monthly and that it was her turn to get hers. But she hasn't being given yet. She will be given the next day. So it's not like she has the money available yet. But u sounded so sure of going to the market as if u already had the money In your possession.

12. Why is she living in her friend's house?
Her friend is married with two kids and living in a two bedroom apartment with some other relatives. What is my babe doing there for God's sakes? She has her own apartment according to her. I've not being to her house before. So why can't she stay in her own place and give this couple some privacy?.
She will close from work and go there. Stats there for weeks and not check her own house. It's really strange to me.
I'm tired of the whole thing honestly. Though, my mind don commot from her matter. Just want to be piping her . We don't have a future together.
If you take this girl out and you guys are talking, she's always carried away by the loud Music there, she will start singing and dancing while we are talking. She'll tell u she's listening..

Lastly, I asked about her baby's father and she got really very aggressive with me. She said I should never ask her about the guy.
That the guy absconded when he learnt about the pregnancy. In fact he denied the pregnancy. And the family of the guy do not care about the child. I asked if she knows the location(State, town or Local government area) of the guy, and she said NO. But how is it possible for her not to have heard anything about the location of the guy? Is that possible?
Mind you, they were mates in secondary sch and started knackiing until they both graduated. So how is it possible that none of their ex school mates can tell where he is?
His family members too ?
She claimed to have deleted the guys number from her phone.
She lies a lot so I don't even believe this part of her story. I suspect the guy is even around and still pipping her.
I asked again, do you mean that since you have birth to your daughter, the father hasn't seen her? She hasn't answered me yet.

This is just too much for me to take.
Her parents failed in parenting. She doesn't even have a blood sibling. She only has step siblings.

Nlfpmod

DeclanR:
Imagine if this lady was your girlfriend:

1. She's aged 28
2 A single mother whose baby is 6yrs of age
3. Her parents are divorced and have moved on with their lives afterwards. The man is remarried and same with the woman.
4. She wears legchain, Nose ring and waist beads.
5. Partially beautiful, but not educated enough. She first lied she had an ND until I began to probe into her claim and noticed she didn't go beyond secondary education. Her attitude and behaviour made me doubt her claim in the first place. You're chatting in proper English and she's replying with Pidgin all through.
6. Lies a lot. Even about the simplest things. Needless lies. She fell sick at some point, lied to me it was Malaria and Fever after doing a test. Same moment, while she held her phone and was on Facebook, she had initially asked A.I about ABORTION pills. This got me worried. I confronted her, she said it was her friend who used her phone to type that shit on Facebook A.I. I requested for her friend's number, inquired about same and her friend denied it. Before this discovery, she was sick and throwing saliva everywhere and I jokingly asked if she was pregnant( I hadn't slept with her at this point in the relationship since we were just a month or two into it). Same friend of hers had even asked her same question about if she was pregnant. She lied against her friend. Left with no other alternative, she came up with another story, claiming that she did family planning. And she was suffering from the impact of same family planning, reason for her health situation at the time. How can a single lady be doing family planning?
I asked if she was a hookup girl. She denied. She did the family planning because of her ex boyfriend since they were knackiing raw. I then asked, is your ex aware of this family planning? She said No. Is he aware that you're sick as a result of the family planning u did because of him? She said No. So now, how do you date a guy, you did family planning just because of him, yet he isn't aware?. You're even sick as a result, and he is not aware. What if you die?
In my mind, I believe she did an Abortion too.

7. I can't touch this lady's phone. She wouldn't even drop it for a second as long as we are together. She won't also take her calls. At some point I got worried and I asked her to pick those calls right in my presence, but she refused. After her refusal to pick, I wanted to see who the caller was as the phone was ringing, but she didn't allow me. I didn't want to drag with her, so I kept my cool.
8. The first day I asked her out, I got home, we began chatting, and she started telling me that she was Hungry. Ah!
I wanted to cut her off immediately, but I decided not to. Since then, it's being one complain or the other. I do all I can for her, not because of anything, but for humanity sakes. However, I must meet the needs of my loved ones and close male friends before I can meet hers. I've only had sex with her once(Three rounds) and since then, I've just being indifferent towards her.
9. She doesn't take corrections at all.
10. One more thing she does that breaks me is her constant plea for help on her WhatsApp status. For instance, she will post a picture of a gown on her status and say "Babe pls buy this for me"

Again, she will write, "Christmas dey come and my babe never ask me wetin I want for Christmas. Babe Naso" ?

So many of such. But I wouldn't reply to her status after viewing. She will then msg me directly and ask for those things.

How many times u wan bring this your P here with diff moniker

Ocbooking:
How many times u wan bring this your P here with diff moniker

Who be dis one again?
Nawaooo

You still Dey call her babe😳
See you, see paternity fraud🤝🤝🤝

I’m not gonna lie, it seems like you’re either turning a blind eye or just straight-up ignoring your gut instinct on this one. Good luck, though😊

DeclanR:
Imagine if this lady was your girlfriend:

1. She's aged 28
2 A single mother whose baby is 6yrs of age
3. Her parents are divorced and have moved on with their lives afterwards. The man is remarried and same with the woman.
4. She wears legchain, Nose ring and waist beads.
5. Partially beautiful, but not educated enough. She first lied she had an ND until I began to probe into her claim and noticed she didn't go beyond secondary education. Her attitude and behaviour made me doubt her claim in the first place. You're chatting in proper English and she's replying with Pidgin all through.
6. Lies a lot. Even about the simplest things. Needless lies. She fell sick at some point, lied to me it was Malaria and Fever after doing a test. Same moment, while she held her phone and was on Facebook, she had initially asked A.I about ABORTION pills. This got me worried. I confronted her, she said it was her friend who used her phone to type that shit on Facebook A.I. I requested for her friend's number, inquired about same and her friend denied it. Before this discovery, she was sick and throwing saliva everywhere and I jokingly asked if she was pregnant( I hadn't slept with her at this point in the relationship since we were just a month or two into it). Same friend of hers had even asked her same question about if she was pregnant. She lied against her friend. Left with no other alternative, she came up with another story, claiming that she did family planning. And she was suffering from the impact of same family planning, reason for her health situation at the time. How can a single lady be doing family planning?
I asked if she was a hookup girl. She denied. She did the family planning because of her ex boyfriend since they were knackiing raw. I then asked, is your ex aware of this family planning? She said No. Is he aware that you're sick as a result of the family planning u did because of him? She said No. So now, how do you date a guy, you did family planning just because of him, yet he isn't aware?. You're even sick as a result, and he is not aware. What if you die?
In my mind, I believe she did an Abortion too.

7. I can't touch this lady's phone. She wouldn't even drop it for a second as long as we are together. She won't also take her calls. At some point I got worried and I asked her to pick those calls right in my presence, but she refused. After her refusal to pick, I wanted to see who the caller was as the phone was ringing, but she didn't allow me. I didn't want to drag with her, so I kept my cool.
8. The first day I asked her out, I got home, we began chatting, and she started telling me that she was Hungry. Ah!
I wanted to cut her off immediately, but I decided not to. Since then, it's being one complain or the other. I do all I can for her, not because of anything, but for humanity sakes. However, I must meet the needs of my loved ones and close male friends before I can meet hers. I've only had sex with her once(Three rounds) and since then, I've just being indifferent towards her.
9. She doesn't take corrections at all.
10. One more thing she does that breaks me is her constant plea for help on her WhatsApp status. For instance, she will post a picture of a gown on her status and say "Babe pls buy this for me"

Again, she will write, "Christmas dey come and my babe never ask me wetin I want for Christmas. Babe Naso" ?

So many of such. But I wouldn't reply to her status after viewing. She will then msg me directly and ask for those things.

11. Her mum remarried and she's in another State with the husband. Yesterday, she called me asking me for some money to send to her mum to buy drugs. I was shocked. Where is her husband?
I didn't have and I told her straight up. Before she Made this request, earlier same day, she had told me she would be going to the market to buy a few things for herself. I said ok. Later she came up with the request of 10k to send to her mum for drugs. Sincerely I didn't have to give her, if I had, I would gladly help. After all, I do more than that for her and even her friend. I then asked that she takes out of that money she intended using to buy things from the market and send to her mum for drugs since her health was more important. But she came up with another story. She said she does contribution of 5k monthly and that it was her turn to get hers. But she hasn't being given yet. She will be given the next day. So it's not like she has the money available yet. But u sounded so sure of going to the market as if u already had the money In your possession.

12. Why is she living in her friend's house?
Her friend is married with two kids and living in a two bedroom apartment with some other relatives. What is my babe doing there for God's sakes? She has her own apartment according to her. I've not being to her house before. So why can't she stay in her own place and give this couple some privacy?.
She will close from work and go there. Stats there for weeks and not check her own house. It's really strange to me.
I'm tired of the whole thing honestly. Though, my mind don commot from her matter. Just want to be piping her . We don't have a future together.

Just want to be piping her pele o plumber
All this complaints is for what exactly?

Bro l will advice you run for your dear life, run and never look back, that woman u r calling your babe is the shortest way to your early grave, don't say we didn't tell you and again avoid single woman at all cost, if u like still dey call am ur babe, it's your own personal problem

Pupanchie:
Bro l will advice you run for your dear life, run and never look back, that woman u r calling your babe is the shortest way to your early grave, don't say we didn't tell you and again avoid single woman at all cost, if u like still dey call am ur babe, it's your own personal problem

Alright Sir..

DeclanR:
Imagine if this lady was your girlfriend:

1. She's aged 28
2 A single mother whose baby is 6yrs of age
3. Her parents are divorced and have moved on with their lives afterwards. The man is remarried and same with the woman.
4. She wears legchain, Nose ring and waist beads.
5. Partially beautiful, but not educated enough. She first lied she had an ND until I began to probe into her claim and noticed she didn't go beyond secondary education. Her attitude and behaviour made me doubt her claim in the first place. You're chatting in proper English and she's replying with Pidgin all through.
6. Lies a lot. Even about the simplest things. Needless lies. with no other alternative, she came up with another story, claiming that she did family planning. And she was suffering from the impact of same family planning, reason for her health situation at the time. How can a single lady be doing family planning?
I asked if she was a hookup girl. She denied. She did the family planning because of her ex she refused. After her refusal to pick, I wanted to see who the caller was as the phone was ringing, but she didn't allow me. I didn't want to drag with her, so I kept my cool.
8. The first day I asked her out, I got home, we began chatting, and she started telling me that she was Hungry. Ah!
I wanted to cut her off immediately, but I decided not to. Since then, it's being one complain or the other. I do all I can for her, not because of anything, but for humanity sakes. However, I must meet the needs of my loved ones and close male friends before I can meet hers. I've only had sex with her once(Three rounds) and since then, I've just being indifferent towards her.
9. She doesn't take corrections at all.
10. One more thing she does that breaks me is her constant plea for help on her WhatsApp status. For instance, she will post a picture of a gown on her status and say "Babe pls buy this for me"

Again, she will write, "Christmas dey come and my babe never ask me wetin I want for Christmas. Babe Naso" ?

So many of such. But I wouldn't reply to her status after viewing. She will then msg me directly and ask for those things.

11. Her mum remarried and she's in another State with the husband. Yesterday, she called me asking me for some money to send to her mum to buy drugs. I was shocked. Where is her husband?
I didn't have and I told her straight up. Before she Made this request, earlier same day, she had told me she would be going to the market to buy a few things for herself. I said ok. Later she came up with the request of 10k to send to her mum for drugs. Sincerely I didn't have to give her, if I had, I would gladly help. After all, I do more than that for her and even her friend. I then asked that she takes out of that money she intended using to buy things from the market and send to her mum for drugs since her health was more important. But she came up with another story. She said she does contribution of 5k monthly and that it was her turn to get hers. But she hasn't being given yet. She will be given the next day. So it's not like she has the money available yet. But u sounded so sure of going to the market as if u already had the money In your possession.

12. Why is she living in her friend's house?
Her friend is married with two kids and living in a two bedroom apartment with some other relatives. What is my babe doing there for God's sakes? She has her own apartment according to her. I've not being to her house before. So why can't she stay in her own place and give this couple some privacy?.
She will close from work and go there. Stats there for weeks and not check her own house. It's really strange to me.
I'm tired of the whole thing honestly. Though, my mind don commot from her matter. Just want to be piping her . We don't have a future together.

you still dey call her your babe? Lmao. Better delete that Shediat number from your phone and cut the dirt from your life. If you like no hear. Single moms are bad news. I'm a case study. Oboy remove yourself from unnecessary headache and financial mess.

Tenrack:
you still dey call her your babe? Lmao. Better delete that Shediat number from your phone and cut the dirt from your life. If you like no hear. Single moms are bad news. I'm a case study. Oboy remove yourself from unnecessary headache and financial mess.

That's the surest thing to do now bro.

I've never met such a lady before now

henrybomb:
Just want to be piping her pele o plumber
All this complaints is for what exactly?

Nobody forced you to read what I posted. Nobody forced you to comment too.
Try to be civil and decorous for a second

DeclanR:
Nobody forced you to read what I posted. Nobody forced you to comment too.
Try to be civil and decorous for a second

The truth is always bitter to the ears
Continue piping my bro you will learn the hard way

DeclanR:
That's the surest thing to do now bro.

I've never met such a lady before now

I met mine. A pathological liar, a thief, and also a gaslighter. She no dey gree lemme touch her phone as well. Very manipulative. This one even picks calls in my presence just to show me that she's genuine. But she is deadly af. Single mom of 25years now. My regret is I didn't cut her off on time. I'm still bearing the financial pain. No keep am for anything. Delete the animal from your life. Find a single girl without a child if you can't do without females. I don warn you o bro. You can't achieve anything with a single mom. Life go tire you.

henrybomb:
The truth is always bitter to the ears
Continue piping my bro you will learn the hard way

na why I dey advise am to delete the idiot from his life

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

And you are still calling her my babe


You are meant to be one of her maga o

😂 If you know what's good for you and your generations

Desist from this relationship

But then you thinking that you just want to be doing free chopping won't allow you desist

A true Man with high self esteem will have left

You both fit each other

Tenrack:
na why I dey advise am to delete the idiot from his life

Leave am him no need advice
Let him pipe further till he hits the rock bottom where he cant pipe no more

If I say my mind now, moderators go block me. Roddi Pipper continue

Tenrack:
I met mine. A pathological liar, a thief, and also a gaslighter. She no dey gree lemme touch her phone as well. Very manipulative. This one even picks calls in my presence just to show me that she's genuine. But she is deadly af. Single mom of 25years now. My regret is I didn't cut her off on time. I'm still bearing the financial pain. No keep am for anything. Delete the animal from your life. Find a single girl without a child if you can't do without females. I don warn you o bro. You can't achieve anything with a single mom. Life go tire you.

I'm so so sorry about your ordeal in the hands of that Lucifer. Omorr... You really see things.its seems all of these singu mothers are the same everywhere. It's same story always

What makes a man a correct guy is the ability to discern nonsense from a mile away.
This situation isn’t just a red flag, it’s every color of flag rolled into one. Red, blue, violet, chocolate, rainbow, I mean all of them.

How do you see hell clearly and still decide to walk straight inside?
Tell me, what exactly do you expect to gain from such a relationship other than tears, more tears, with a touch of gnashing of teeth?

A real Gee knows when he meets certain girls that this one like this after one or two mouth I ain't going near this babe again and knows a babe to get serious with when he meets one. When you use your head instead of your heart, everything becomes clear, like fried meat displayed in a show glass.

If you truly love yourself, avoid that lady.

Guys love blaming innocent girls when things go wrong, but the truth is, they saw a pool of shit and still chose to dive in.

Flex Gee

duduade:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

And you are still calling her my babe


You are meant to be one of her maga o

😂 If you know what's good for you and your generations

Desist from this relationship

But then you thinking that you just want to be doing free chopping won't allow you desist

A true Man with high self esteem will have left

You both fit each other

Ok. Thank you

weslay:
If I say my mind now, moderators go block me. Roddi Pipper continue

Say it in a mild way to avoid being banned.

So guys with this kind mental principles still they exist.
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Make I not talk.


Go borrow money for lapo pay for her head and open shop for her.
That girl will build a better home.

Fear God and leave the woman alone. You just want to be piping her... You can see that she has foundational issues but you are not acting like a man that you should. You are telling us about her faults. What about yours? Read my comments here, I no de support women and their manipulative struggles but on this one, I blame you. This girl looks like someone who has father issues. You can look up to the mom. You either want redemption or you will be part of her bad decisions. Who is the father of her child? What's he doing about his child?

What I see here is a girl that was not properly groomed and now instead of you to be a bridegroom, you are taking pride in her ruin. You either want to be someone who influences her in the right direction or you want to participate in her wrong decisions. I see a girl who is looking for every means to survive, she is not guided, mended or mentored well. As a man, will you be happy your child is used for GoFundMe updates? She needs redemption and no one has sat her down to rewire her brain. You are just a player in the games unfortunately. It is easier to build strong children than broken men/women.

I wish to help because of that child but what you will not eat, don't put near your nose. When you are done and if you want to help her, let me connect her with people that will repair her life and make her take responsible decisions and stop repeating the broken pattern from her family. No be everything be fork fork forj.

Kennatic:
Tell me, what exactly do you expect to gain from such a relationship other than tears, more tears, with a touch of gnashing of teeth?

Free sex. He is enjoying it until she closes the cookie jar or he sees another person.

The babe really needs help psychologically. Her life is really messed up and she's battling on how to cover all the mess.
You are only interested in piping her like you said but she truly needs some psychological help.

bestman09:
The babe really needs help psychologically. Her life is really messed up and she's battling on how to cover all the mess.
You are only interested in piping her like you said but she truly needs some psychological help.

Let me tell you, yes I agree she needs urgent psychological help. I've even told her this but she doesn't even know or understand what that means in the first place. Again, she is someone who can't be taught. She's not Teachable. Doesn't admit errors and she's not accountable.
Initially, I didn't have such mindset of just pipping and swipping her. I had wanted to build life with her. But believe me, the girl is stressing and draining Me. I'm an introvert. I even hate to talk too much, but this lady keeps doing so many strange things that are unbecoming of her Age. She claims to love me and says it all the time, but her actions betray her words. From the outset, I was so serious with her that she even had to confess to her female best friend about the love and seriousness I was showing towards her. But as I began to realise how terrible she is, I began to change how I relate with her

SixSeven:
Fear God and leave the woman alone. You just want to be piping her... You can see that she has foundational issues but you are not acting like a man that you should. You are telling us about her faults. What about yours? Read my comments here, I no de support women and their manipulative struggles but on this one, I blame you. This girl looks like someone who has father issues. You can look up to the mom. You either want redemption or you will be part of her bad decisions. Who is the father of her child? What's he doing about his child?

What I see here is a girl that was not properly groomed and now instead of you to be a bridegroom, you are taking pride in her ruin. You either want to be someone who influences her in the right direction or you want to participate in her wrong decisions. I see a girl who is looking for every means to survive, she is not guided, mended or mentored well. As a man, will you be happy your child is used for GoFundMe updates? She needs redemption and no one has sat her down to rewire her brain. You are just a player in the games unfortunately. It is easier to build strong children than broken men/women.

I wish to help because of that child but what you will not eat, don't put near your nose. When you are done and if you want to help her, let me connect her with people that will repair her life and make her take responsible decisions and stop repeating the broken pattern from her family. No be everything be fork fork forj.

That's your business oga.

You be Obonte. Search the word up.

SpencerForbes:
You still Dey call her babe😳
See you, see paternity fraud🤝🤝🤝

I’m not gonna lie, it seems like you’re either turning a blind eye or just straight-up ignoring your gut instinct on this one. Good luck, though😊

He’s a small boy that has been s.ex starved for a decade. That is how they behave when they jam any woman wey open leg for them, no matter how bad or dilapidated the woman is.

Saturnalia:
He’s a small boy that has been s.ex starved for a decade. That is how they behave when they jam any woman wey open leg for them, no matter how bad or dilapidated the woman is.

Ancient of days, thank you. I hope your old age is giving u credit alerts now. Uncouth boy