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DeclanR:
Let me tell you, yes I agree she needs urgent psychological help. I've even told her this but she doesn't even know or understand what that means in the first place. Again, she is someone who can't be taught. She's not Teachable. Doesn't admit errors and she's not accountable.
Initially, I didn't have such mindset of just pipping and swipping her. I had wanted to build life with her. But believe me, the girl is stressing and draining Me. I'm an introvert. I even hate to talk too much, but this lady keeps doing so many strange things that are unbecoming of her Age. She claims to love me and says it all the time, but her actions betray her words. From the outset, I was so serious with her that she even had to confess to her female best friend about the love and seriousness I was showing towards her. But as I began to realise how terrible she is, I began to change how I relate with her

Try to sit her down and hear her story very well. Do all you can within your power to let her heal. She may not be terrible as you assume. Who knows, you are with her for such a time like this.

bestman09:
Try to sit her down and hear her story very well. Do all you can within your power to let her heal. She may not be terrible as you assume. Who knows, you are with her for such a time like this.

Alright brother.
I'm trying to see how she can come over to my place today so I can talk with her.
So we can interact.
If I didn't love her, I would have walked away the moment she did abortion and lied to me that it was family planning that backfired.
She's actually doing family planning and I'm not sure that was what caused her fever and malaria for some weeks that she couldn't go to work. She obvious had an abortion

Tenrack:
I met mine. A pathological liar, a thief, and also a gaslighter. She no dey gree lemme touch her phone as well. Very manipulative. This one even picks calls in my presence just to show me that she's genuine. But she is deadly af. Single mom of 25years now. My regret is I didn't cut her off on time. I'm still bearing the financial pain. No keep am for anything. Delete the animal from your life. Find a single girl without a child if you can't do without females. I don warn you o bro. You can't achieve anything with a single mom. Life go tire you.

Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha so you guys are now running 🏃💨💨🏃💨💨from single mothers hahaha hahaha hahaha

Use your own tongue to count your teeth. However never marry a single mother. They are filled with bitterness, regret and anger.

DeclanR:
Let me tell you, yes I agree she needs urgent psychological help. I've even told her this but she doesn't even know or understand what that means in the first place. Again, she is someone who can't be taught. She's not Teachable. Doesn't admit errors and she's not accountable.
Initially, I didn't have such mindset of just pipping and swipping her. I had wanted to build life with her. But believe me, the girl is stressing and draining Me. I'm an introvert. I even hate to talk too much, but this lady keeps doing so many strange things that are unbecoming of her Age. She claims to love me and says it all the time, but her actions betray her words. From the outset, I was so serious with her that she even had to confess to her female best friend about the love and seriousness I was showing towards her. But as I began to realise how terrible she is, I began to change how I relate with her

Leave her alone if you cannot fix her. Stop the excuses. You don't have respect for yourself. Your story tells me more about you than her if you don't know. Your earlier response proves that to me too.

Diamond098454:
Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha so you guys are now running 🏃💨💨🏃💨💨from single mothers hahaha hahaha hahaha

wetin funny? 🤣

Tenrack:
wetin funny? 🤣

they said single mothers and divorcees are better because of their experience that we the singles are still growing to understand life

Honestly if you can't figure out what to do in situations like this, something is wrong somewhere.

My Bro honestly I want to know why you keep on feigning blind eyes to her bad behaviors and immoral ways even when we both know the truth of who she really is.
I don't wanna say much but one thing I want you to know is that ladies like this can't be saved and can never change for good. Trying to change her will definitely put you at the loosing end which I guarantee you will regret and embarrassed at the level of foolishness you've portrayed towards the girl.
Be a man, know your worth and leave what's meant for the street, to the street .

SixSeven:
Leave her alone if you cannot fix her. Stop the excuses. You don't have respect for yourself. Your story tells me more about you than her if you don't know. Your earlier response proves that to me too.

Who cares about your opinion Mr fix.
Why not go and fix her?
Rubbish?

Negroid001:
You be Obonte. Search the word up.

You too

Palmercole:
My Bro honestly I want to know why you keep on feigning blind eyes to her bad behaviors and immoral ways even when we both know the truth of who she really is.
I don't wanna say much but one thing I want you to know is that ladies like this can't be saved and can never change for good. Trying to change her will definitely put you at the loosing end which I guarantee you will regret and embarrassed at the level of foolishness you've portrayed towards the girl.
Be a man, know your worth and leave what's meant for the street, to the street .

Exactly. I wonder why some a particular commenter here keeps scolding and blaming me for my inability to fix her. The fact that I was patient from the onset till now shows that I had wanted to fix her if she was willing and ready.
No guy can be patient enough to keep a lady that made financial demands on you the first day u asked her out. Any guy would have backed out immediately. How about me discovering that she was on family planning?
How about the abortion tin I saw on her phone?
Did abortion for her ex and lied to me it was Malaria she had, reason for her sickness at the time. She was also trying to extort money from me in order to buy drugs during same period. Yet I remained with her

I don't understand some of you guys sha. I couldn't read past #6 cos it was all irritating that a guy man will still be in doubt as to what he should do with such a lady.

Baba marry her ooh... She's 100 yards wife material and make sure you invite me please. I will come

kiddaz:
I don't understand some of you guys sha. I couldn't read past #6 cos it was all irritating that a guy man will still be in doubt as to what he should do with such a lady.

Baba marry her ooh... She's 100 yards wife material and make sure you invite me please. I will come

No Na guy

Diamond098454:
they said single mothers and divorcees are better because of their experience that we the singles are still growing to understand life

who said that nonsense? The person must be very stupid.

Tenrack:
who said that nonsense? The person must be very stupid.

don't mind them

How was your day?

DeclanR:
Exactly. I wonder why some a particular commenter here keeps scolding and blaming me for my inability to fix her. The fact that I was patient from the onset till now shows that I had wanted to fix her if she was willing and ready.
No guy can be patient enough to keep a lady that made financial demands on you the first day u asked her out. Any guy would have backed out immediately. How about me discovering that she was on family planning?
How about the abortion tin I saw on her phone?
Did abortion for her ex and lied to me it was Malaria she had, reason for her sickness at the time. She was also trying to extort money from me in order to buy drugs during same period. Yet I remained with her

if you don't discharge this foolish entity, I promise you, she'll pin fake pregnancy on you. And you'll spend a lot. My brilliant ex single mom did that to me. I was just wasting my limited resources on her lies and fake sickness. Better run

Diamond098454:
don't mind them

How was your day?

I'm fine o. Thank you. Hope PH is treating you well sha. The Christmas sef is not christmasing

Tenrack:
if you don't discharge this foolish entity, I promise you, she'll pin fake pregnancy on you. And you'll spend a lot. My brilliant ex single mom did that to me. I was just wasting my limited resources on her lies and fake sickness. Better run

Hmmmmm... Omorr.. these single mothers are all the same. They have many similar traits everywhere.
Their babies fathers are always being portrayed in bad light.
They will tell u, u must also love their babies. They bill you to fend for themselves and their babies, say all manner of bad things against the father of their babies then go behind and be sleeping with same guy they are insulting

Tenrack:
I'm fine o. Thank you. Hope PH is treating you well sha. The Christmas sef is not christmasing

hahaha hahaha ph is trying

My dear the Xmas hmmm everyone is crying

Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha ph is trying

My dear the Xmas hmmm everyone is crying

lol you sef dey complain ke. Wetin happen to your plenty husbands na🤪

Tenrack:
lol you sef dey complain ke. Wetin happen to your plenty husbands na🤪

hahaha hahaha hahaha you are funny

DeclanR:
➜Lastly, I asked about her baby's father and she got really very aggressive with me. She said I should never ask her about the guy. That the guy absconded when he learnt about the pregnancy. In fact he denied the pregnancy. And the family of the guy do not care about the child. I asked if she knows the location(State, town or Local government area) of the guy, and she said NO. But how is it possible for her not to have heard anything about the location of the guy? Is that possible?
Mind you, they were mates in secondary sch and started knackiing until they both graduated. So how is it possible that none of their ex school mates can tell where he is? His family members too ?
She claimed to have deleted the guys number from her phone.
She lies a lot so I don't even believe this part of her story. I suspect the guy is even around and still pipping her.
I asked again, do you mean that since you have birth to your daughter, the father hasn't seen her? She hasn't answered me yet.
This is just too much for me to take. Her parents failed in parenting. She doesn't even have a blood sibling. She only has step siblings.

She's not the problem here. You are! Why? Because you think it is your place to go around the lives of others and condemn them for not fitting in with the particular delusion inside your head regarding others. If you are not interested in here, then walk away! There are plenty of other people out there who love and appreciate that same woman the way she is.

DeclanR:
➜ Let me tell you, yes I agree she needs urgent psychological help. I've even told her this but she doesn't even know or understand what that means in the first place. Again, she is someone who can't be taught. She's not Teachable. Doesn't admit errors and she's not accountable.
Initially, I didn't have such mindset of just pipping and swipping her. I had wanted to build life with her. But believe me, the girl is stressing and draining Me. I'm an introvert. I even hate to talk too much, but this lady keeps doing so many strange things that are unbecoming of her Age. She claims to love me and says it all the time, but her actions betray her words. From the outset, I was so serious with her that she even had to confess to her female best friend about the love and seriousness I was showing towards her. But as I began to realise how terrible she is, I began to change how I relate with her

. From your OP, what she does not need is you in her life. You already have your mind made up that she is the problem, and I wonder why you continue to cling to her if you don't yourself have problems of your own that equally require psychological intervention. You remind me of men— empty inside— who go out of their way to find and intentionally date women they consider broken to make themselves look good. 🥱🥱

DeclanR:
I'm so so sorry about your ordeal in the hands of that Lucifer. Omorr... You really see things.its seems all of these singu mothers are the same everywhere. It's same story always

they banned me earlier check the image below

DeclanR:
I'm so so sorry about your ordeal in the hands of that Lucifer. Omorr... You really see things.its seems all of these singu mothers are the same everywhere. It's same story always

they banned me earlier check the image below the worst thing that could ever happen to man is to end up with a single mom

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Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha hahaha you are funny

you know say na true I dey talk na. Fine Shima like you say Christmas no go well ke

bestman09:
Try to sit her down and hear her story very well. Do all you can within your power to let her heal. She may not be terrible as you assume. Who knows, you are with her for such a time like this.

who be this one?