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I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

IFuckWell:
I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

We have to be sure you are not peller.

Python25to30:
We have to be sure you are not peller.

How far with your accomodation, it has been a matter of serious concern for we low earners in lagos

This one is not even a Nairaland member. ROFLMAO.

IFuckWell:
I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

IFuckWell:
I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

Tell us exactly what you mean by "Make it in life." At least start by explaining your goal and why you believe you will not make it.

Kobojunkie:
Tell us exactly what you mean by "Make it in life." At least start by explaining your goal and why you believe you will not make it.

Bro I need me a car and a house, something to boost my sense of self-worth and self-regard among others. I keep growing old. However, my job pays pittance.. I spend over 80% per month on just self maintenance.

I don't have no savings sufficient enough to ever buy me a a suitable car or house. Some of my friends already have these and it's getting difficult to be able to associate with them.

I'm always ashamed whenever I walk down my street - old man like me, no car, no house or a woman (which woman go even look my side)?

IFuckWell:
➜Bro I need me a car and a house, something to boost my sense of self-worth and self-regard among others. I keep growing old. However, my job pays pittance.. I spend over 80% per month on just self maintenance.
➜ I don't have no savings sufficient enough to ever buy me a a suitable car or house. Some of my friends already have these and it's getting difficult to be able to associate with them.
➜ I'm always ashamed whenever I walk down my street - old man like me, no car, no house or a woman (which woman go even look my side)?

1. So, what you want to validation from other people as a means of improving your self-worth, not in yourself —that emptiness inside of you can only be filled by you doing inner work and not the external nonsense?

2. Well, to raise your savings so you can purchase what you need, you need to get a better-paying job, to start with. If a car is what you feel you need to get the external validation you long for, then you need to get a higher-paying job. What is keeping you from applying directly for higher-paying jobs both locally and internationally?

3. And this shame you feel is because you do not have the external validation you seek, right? Why not begin by learning to love yourself from the inside so you no longer go around seeking external validation, which typically pays little dividend in the end. After you get the car and the house, you will find yourself wanting more and more external validation... that pit is bottomless. Try to seek internal validation while you are where you are, at least. And if after that you still feel the need to gain external validation, then you know what to do.

The economy is making everyone to be depressed, even me is thinking about ending it all

Na the new begging format be this?

Relax guy , this is just a phase. It shall pass.

U are wat u say, pls change ur mindset and try again, if u don tire wetin me i go talk, no do abeg

But I fuckwell

IFuckWell:
I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

IFuckWell:
I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

Abeg drop your charger if you done tire..

IFuckWell:
Bro I need me a car and a house, something to boost my sense of self-worth and self-regard among others. I keep growing old. However, my job pays pittance.. I spend over 80% per month on just self maintenance.

I don't have no savings sufficient enough to ever buy me a a suitable car or house. Some of my friends already have these and it's getting difficult to be able to associate with them.

I'm always ashamed whenever I walk down my street - old man like me, no car, no house or a woman (which woman go even look my side)?

You claim you f*ck well yet you still have no woman

IFuckWell:
Bro I need me a car and a house, something to boost my sense of self-worth and self-regard among others. I keep growing old. However, my job pays pittance.. I spend over 80% per month on just self maintenance.

I don't have no savings sufficient enough to ever buy me a a suitable car or house. Some of my friends already have these and it's getting difficult to be able to associate with them.

I'm always ashamed whenever I walk down my street - old man like me, no car, no house or a woman (which woman go even look my side)?

Go commit suicide na...so .what about does guys that sleep under bridge in Lagos...why Dem no kill themselves ....

Bro ..go hustle ....manage wat u have...and pray...

Nigeria is not a playground ...and Lagos is not a classroom...

The worst thing that can happen to a man isn't failure, it's seeking outer validation. Note that by doing this you've compromised your being. I doubt you can ever make it with this mentality

Semyflu:
How far with your accomodation, it has been a matter of serious concern for we low earners in lagos

Big problem

IFuckWell:
I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

are you waiting for my permission?

IFuckWell:
I'm always ashamed whenever I walk down my street - old man like me, no car, no house or a woman (which woman go even look my side)?

Be honest, how old are you?
if you can't be honest on a faceless forum then forget about success in this life, just use your last coin to buy a nice navy grade ROPE

IFuckWell:
I don't think I'll ever make it in life. And I'm tired.

First change your moniker from ifuckwell to ipraywell or ipreachwell, then leave the rest to God.
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This current fvck life won't lead you anywhere if you continue for the next 50years, retrace your step, seek God. And be content with little you have, in due time, God can direct you to be blessed.

IFuckWell:
Bro I need me a car and a house, something to boost my sense of self-worth and self-regard among others. I keep growing old. However, my job pays pittance.. I spend over 80% per month on just self maintenance.

I don't have no savings sufficient enough to ever buy me a a suitable car or house. Some of my friends already have these and it's getting difficult to be able to associate with them.

I'm always ashamed whenever I walk down my street - old man like me, no car, no house or a woman (which woman go even look my side)?

At the bold, comparison is the thief of joy.

SamuraiXXX:
You claim you f*ck well yet you still have no woman

Nor mind am, person wey jus dey catch cruise.

Make he use dat him skill take beta him life.

Why are you still alive? Fear or you no get rope?

Have you ended it all now