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Jman06:
Honestly, at 29/30 yo, their chances of finding good husbands have become limited as no decent young man with his masculinity intact would want to wife any lady above 27yo.

Their best baits is to search from among widowers, single dads and polygamous men. That's the consequences of not setting one's priorities right and hooking up a decent man when they were much younger. They must have been deceiving themselves that they could get a man whenever they want to marry

NiRfreak:
The post is more like sharing my feelings about their milestone age
I never actually envisaged that people wud ask about them. feels somehow though

pocohantas:
I thought all NL guys sisters are married to rich nice men and driving limousine o. At least you are truthful. Your comrades are still living in their delusion.

Please don't worry about your sisters because marriage doesn't even benefit men. So I wonder which man you expect to be entrapped with them. They will be fine.

Sonnobax15:

I can feel your pain bro..

It's not easy to see one's sisters come of age only to see them being chewed and smashed by different men for free of charge

God wil definitely send their own Moses to come and rescue them

Diamond098454:
NL men have sisters? Hmmmmmm I thought guys in NL don't have sisters and female relatives

@30 they must have had 1,2,3 or 4 EXS

Oladimmm:
Gimme the light skinned one

Second wife though there is plenty money to go round

Diamond098454:
NL men have sisters Hmmmmmm I thought guys in NL don't have sisters and female relatives

@30 they must have had 1,2,3 or 4 EXS

Tohsynetita1:
Can I meet them?

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes her sister gets married to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer for husband. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

OMO, like play, like play, those little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
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God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , to my eyes they feel young.
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Orlandoo:
This your sarcasm is already stale. You can do better.

SuperOnyi:



You're not in touch with reality. Nairaland would make you believe nonsense until you touch grass. They said a lot about Igboland until I went to see for myself. Twitter banters makes me think all men think the same.

Social media would have you believe that virgins don't exist no more, until you touch grass.

pocohantas:
They do, but their sisters are all married to rich good men. The ones with single sisters, na feminists no make their sisters marry.

I thought men know who to marry and who to fck? So wetin hold their sisters? The chicken has come home to roost. They should help each other marry their sisters. #SisterSwap

Diamond098454:
you have said all

They should help themselves marry off their sisters

Well said
Good morning.........

NiRfreak:
All these noise by you and your ilk is not necessary. You should see how I highlight their positive trait which if I see in other 29/30 ladies I won't hesitate to give them a chance....Their life still makes me believe there are still cool 29/30 ladies out there
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If a man is sure of the family & upbringing a lady comes from, and meets a simple minded hardworking lady, of course 29/30 can still be attractive if the character and worldview is not messed up by current craze.
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What I mean by worldview is...... view about life, children, sex, marriage, men, religion and success

You should see how I highlight their positive trait which if I see in other 29/30 ladies I won't hesitate to give them a chance....Their life still makes me believe there are still cool 29/30 ladies out there.

If a man is sure of the family & upbringing a lady comes from, and meets a simple minded hardworking lady, of course 29/30 can still be attractive if the character and worldview is not messed up by current craze.

NiRfreak:
Yes that's a concern but i hardly get into rough brawl with anyone here. I don't know why I feel so about them lately

pocohantas:
Yea right, because your sisters are now evening🗞s, you realised you can give 29/30yo women a chance. How else do you convince your bros that your sisters (as expected), are premium evening newspapers?

Four years ago, below was the kind of woman you wanted and advised. A sharp contrast of your MSc wielding and graduate sisters

https://www.nairaland.com/6483414/why-decided-marry-uneducated-woman

By 2025, when it hit close to home, you moved on to this __ https://www.nairaland.com/8526810/most-important-criterion-when-selecting

I am not mocking your sisters, I will never do that to a fellow woman. But I love how life and reality humbles us all.

NiRfreak:
All these noise by you and your ilk is not necessary. You should see how I highlight their positive trait which if I see in other 29/30 ladies I won't hesitate to give them a chance....Their life still makes me believe there are still cool 29/30 ladies out there
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If a man is sure of the family & upbringing a lady comes from, and meets a simple minded hardworking lady, of course 29/30 can still be attractive if the character and worldview is not messed up by current craze.
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What I mean by worldview is...... view about life, children, sex, marriage, men, religion and success

NiRfreak:
Yes over time, I've embraced and developed more mature spiritual values, However, I still stand by my stance that I can marry an uneducated lady so long she can read, write and express herself. There are a lot of secondary school graduate who can do that. And who are as well positive about life, business and God and less dramatic about inter-gender wars.
Even if my pool now includes graduates, it still doesn't consider vengeful, men hating, irreligious, selfish, hyper-sexualised ladies even if she carries PhD.
Of course my first criteria of judging a lady before anything else is her sense of dress...... And if had such taste be rest assured how much I inculcate it into them and none even gets fascinated by the fashion craze that sees young gal exposing themselves

pocohantas:
I thought all NL guys sisters are married to rich nice men and driving limousine o. At least you are truthful. Your comrades are still living in their delusion.

Please don't worry about your sisters because marriage doesn't even benefit men. So I wonder which man you expect to be entrapped with them. They will be fine.

Diamond098454:
chewed and smashed

So, you understand how you guys handle girls on bed good

All you guys sisters and female relatives will be handle the same way

NiRfreak:
All these noise by you and your ilk is not necessary. You should see how I highlight their positive trait which if I see in other 29/30 ladies I won't hesitate to give them a chance....Their life still makes me believe there are still cool 29/30 ladies out there
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If a man is sure of the family & upbringing a lady comes from, and meets a simple minded hardworking lady, of course 29/30 can still be attractive if the character and worldview is not messed up by current craze.
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What I mean by worldview is...... view about life, children, sex, marriage, men, religion and success

Lawalemi:
Every phase in life with their issues.

University admission, employment wahala, marriage wahala.

The reason we must prepare our kids for these phases and not allow the phase meet them so suddenly that they struggle with it.

They should become intentional about getting a man and I pray God answer your prayers on them..

Sonnobax15:
. I'm a good example to my younger ones bro .

My younger neice got married last year and another one's about to marry by the end of this year .

I no dey get sisters wey dey shook-shook anyhow .

I remembered one time ago when three ladies boarded my Keke...They were all complaining about how men have been disappointing them .. Funniest thing was that they were complaining about how they paid a pastor to match-fix them with single men in his church but the pastor failed to do that........When they alighted my Keke,I looked at them and from my own eye guage,they were about the same age with your sisters

Anyways,I wish your sisters well bro........ Honestly,I dey feel your worries....... It's well with them🙏

Orlandoo:
This your sarcasm is already stale. You can do better.

pocohantas:
Congrats on that. I am really happy for you because we grow and evolve.

Sadly, your sisters have to wait for other guys to brace up and change their mentality. Tell them to join Nairaland and pick from the pool of eligible bachelors you identified here.

NiRfreak:
Of course they have no use for nairaland banter, they live a quiet life on Facebook, LinkedIn, only recently joined X.
It's amazing how you took on the beer banters so seriously... Those anonymous old banters makes Nairaland the unique comic playground we all loved to visit, cool off, and talk uninhibited.
Meanwhile you are old enough on NL to differentiate a serious post from satire . Isnt it the NL-Romance section gender war culture?

pocohantas:
And still not picked?

Maybe Shiloh next or you give it time. It will happen for them when other men get welcoming of their age group. They might ne dating and keeping it cool until it matures. Who knows?

Tenrack:
see swear.