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Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by tunde1200(m): 6:29pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
Human can't do without sex and people hardly stay out of sexual relationship but despite how sweet love making can be, the truth remains valid

Good morals, self control and self discipline is the best way to stay safe.
You said all disciplines
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by SixSeven: 6:31pm On Dec 19, 2025
udder:
Even masturbation is not safe.

Once got thick semen stuck at the base of my urethra. I was unaware for 2 days until I started having difficulty urinating.
Instead of masturbating again, I started forcing it out gradually with several urinations not knowing I was irritating my urethra.

The burning pain started the following day. If I was sexually active, I would have concluded I had an infection - the only difference was there was no discharge.

The irritation disappeared after a week without treatment.

Moral of the story is - No enjoyment without risk. Life is short and something must kill a man. STDs are overrated and usually treatable.
How old were you when this happened? How long had you been masturbating before this?
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 6:38pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
Human can't do without sex and people hardly stay out of sexual relationship but despite how sweet love making can be, the truth remains valid
Good morals, self control and self discipline is the best way to stay safe.
And how would you define good morals where casual sex is concerned? I think it ultimately has to be about having a deep sense of responsibility for one's own health. I see no reason why an adult should carelessly indulge in sex, knowing fully well how not everyone has a deep regard for themselves and their health. undecided
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 6:40pm On Dec 19, 2025
T0BY:
Shout out to those guys/men that don't sleep with anything on skirt despite the strong and powerful sexual urge. Having multiple partner isn't an achievement but then everyone is free to make a choice and live their life.
Nothing that one does without involving the use of one's brain and intelligence is really an achievement. undecided
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Fortune118005(m): 6:43pm On Dec 19, 2025
oxygenlove:
God said… go yee into the world .. be fruitful and multiply…..

That statement is hormonal in nature for human body functions .. (The testosterone and estrogen) playing vital role in sexual health can’t be underrated....

If you don’t have sex for a long time .. you will be f^cked upp….

F^ck and have rest of mind…. Before konji kee you…
Shut up my friend and stop misinterpreting the Bible.
Nonsense!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by always247: 6:50pm On Dec 19, 2025
sex is overrated recently one of friends got hiv
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by pigmania: 7:01pm On Dec 19, 2025
always247:
sex is overrated recently one of friends got hiv
You don't mean it, hope he is not distributing it. The babe wey give am wicked oh!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 7:05pm On Dec 19, 2025
tunde1200:
You said all disciplines
yes.......... Mr tunde
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 7:06pm On Dec 19, 2025
Dpsychologist:
As if we haven't been with ladies before and how they crave for sex.
smile smile smile smile hahaha hahaha hahaha
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 7:11pm On Dec 19, 2025
MEGAWATCH:
99 what?

Hmmmm!

Try and fear God small na sister!

You just demonized men and paint woman white as the angels they are abi?

Nawaoo!
but it's true and you knew it

Do you know the can of dangerous situations you guys put women into ? Still they resist you know what am talking about
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Cmanforall: 7:15pm On Dec 19, 2025
Dpsychologist:
One uncomfortable truth many don't like to talk about is the real health risk that comes with multiple sexual partners especially when basic sexual health practices are ignored.

When people move from partner to partner without regular testing or proper treatment, infections don’t just disappear on their own. Untreated STIs can linger, worsen, and become easily transmissible.
Sometimes, you don’t even need a diagnosis to sense that something isn’t right : unusual odors, discomfort, or recurring symptoms are warning signals, not “normal.”

This reality has made many people cautious not out of judgment, but out of self-preservation. The fear of contracting an infection is real, and it’s valid. Sexual freedom without responsibility eventually creates consequences for everyone involved.

This isn’t about shaming any gender. It’s about accountability, hygiene, and health discipline.

Regular testing. Prompt treatment. Honest communication. Respect for your partner’s well-being.

Those are the real markers of sexual maturity.

Ignoring infections doesn’t make them disappear, it spreads risk. And no moment of pleasure is worth long-term health damage.

If we want healthier dating and sexual environments, responsibility has to be part of the conversation not an afterthought.
Social media and content creators are now promoting sex sex sex. These should be regulated!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 7:15pm On Dec 19, 2025
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Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by fattprince(m): 7:21pm On Dec 19, 2025
T0BY:
Shout out to those guys/men that don't sleep with anything on skirt despite the strong and powerful sexual urge.

Having multiple partner isn't an achievement but then everyone is free to make a choice and live their life.
I always tell girls I date that I can't just be with one lady (I say this because I don't know we will date as I didn't think they like me until they make it glaring, and my number 1 mumu button is when a girl likes me) they usually agree and just accept it but immediately we start dating like this I hardly talk to another lady talk more of dating them. I
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie:
Cmanforall:
➜Social media and content creators are now promoting sex sex sex. These should be regulated!
Sex has always been an exchange between two consenting humans. Religion/tradition has tried at gatekeeping this access — for the umpteenth time—to no avail. Social media is merely highlighting this fact. undecided

Teach your girls and your boys all they need to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases from a very young age, so that when they are old enough to decide on sex themselves, they already have the wisdom to move forward with care. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by MEGAWATCH: 7:26pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
but it's true and you knew it

Do you know the can of dangerous situations you guys put women into ? Still they resist you know what am talking about
Please I'm not judging you, I'm only curious with your statistics and how certain you are with it.

It's well shaa, na God go judge better las las.

😂
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 7:29pm On Dec 19, 2025
MEGAWATCH:
Please I'm not judging you, I'm only curious with your statistics and how certain you are with it.

It's well shaa, na God go judge better las las.

😂

Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by maasoap(m): 7:45pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
Human can't do without sex and people hardly stay out of sexual relationship but despite how sweet love making can be, the truth remains valid

Good morals, self control and self discipline is the best way to stay safe.
You meant "self protection" grin because that's the real deal. All these morals, control and discipline sounds like avoiding the truth
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by maasoap(m): 7:50pm On Dec 19, 2025
udder:
Even masturbation is not safe.

Once got thick semen stuck at the base of my urethra. I was unaware for 2 days until I started having difficulty urinating.
Instead of masturbating again, I started forcing it out gradually with several urinations not knowing I was irritating my urethra.

The burning pain started the following day. If I was sexually active, I would have concluded I had an infection - the only difference was there was no discharge.

The irritation disappeared after a week without treatment.

Moral of the story is - No enjoyment without risk. Life is short and something must kill a man. STDs are overrated and usually treatable .
I don't think HIV or hepatitis B is overrated. And not many guys and ladies take STIs seriously at the initial stage until it's late
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by QuinQ: 7:52pm On Dec 19, 2025
judewrites:
Of course.....

When a man meets a woman sexually, a lot is happening spiritually.

Most people are deceived by the intense pleasure that comes with sex.
My sincere question is. WHY doesn’t it apply to hookers and big men. They sleep with different men everyday for years, then retire when old, and get married or something. And it's been around since forever, even Rahab was a Harlot!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 7:53pm On Dec 19, 2025
maasoap:
You meant "self protection" grin because that's the real deal. All these morals, control and discipline sounds like avoiding the truth
habaaa....... Avoiding the truth? How because i don't really get you
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by professore(m): 8:02pm On Dec 19, 2025
Mmmmm
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by always247: 8:19pm On Dec 19, 2025
pigmania:
You don't mean it, hope he is not distributing it. The babe wey give am wicked oh!
the guy is married. he has been treating stubborn malaria and typhoid for so long until recently they discovered its hiv
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 8:21pm On Dec 19, 2025
always247:
the guy is married. he has been treating stubborn malaria and typhoid for so long until recently they discovered its hiv
. Hope his wife is not already infected. And I hope this will be the final sign she needs to realize she should not be in that marriage. undecided
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by judewrites: 8:23pm On Dec 19, 2025
QuinQ:
My sincere question is. WHY doesn’t it apply to hookers and big men. They sleep with different men everyday for years, then retire when old, and get married or something. And it's been around since forever, even Rahab was a Harlot!
Our destinies differ.

The big mistake we make is to compare ourselves with other people.

What we lose to sex outside marriage is proportional to the greatness of our destiny.

What I really mean is the greater your destiny, the greater the loses to sex outside marriage.

That's why you should be extremely careful with your own destiny and stop looking at others who are misbehaving sexually because what they lose cannot be compared with what you lose!

As for certain 'big men', many of them use sex as occultic means to upgrade financially!

As for those reading this_apologies for drifting from the topic!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie:
judewrites:
➜Our destinies differ. The big mistake we make is to compare ourselves with other people.
What we lose to sex outside marriage is proportional to the greatness of our destiny. What I really mean is the greater your destiny, the greater the loses to sex outside marriage. That's why you should be extremely careful with your own destiny and stop looking at others who are misbehaving sexually because what they lose cannot be compared with what you lose!
As for certain 'big men', many of them use sex as occultic means to upgrade financially! As for those reading this_apologies for drifting from the topic!
A prostitute— she probably had sex with more men than are currently alive in your entire village today — who lived thousands of years ago, has her name near immortalized. You are telling us that by not having sex, we can protect this assumed greater destiny, supposedly greater than that of this particular prostitute? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

The literal cognitive dissonance that powers these religious delusions —all contradictions-ridden, mind you— person no fit buy am for market at all. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 8:29pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
smile smile smile smile not 60 but let say 99

Which i come first smile smile smile
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Fantabulous imagination. Pure pure pure fantasy.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by lailo: 8:33pm On Dec 19, 2025
I already dey look 50 in my front and I never in my life get any STI or STD. Sexual discipline is the secret.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 8:44pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Fantabulous imagination. Pure pure pure fantasy.
DeepSight ........... When you say something back it up with reason (s)
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by always247: 8:48pm On Dec 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
. Hope his wife is not already infected. And I hope this will be the final sign she needs to realize she should not be in that marriage. undecided
I dont know if she is infected but they are still together and she shows no sign of leaving the marriage
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 8:53pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
DeepSight ........... When you say something back it up with reason (s)
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You are the one that came up with the fantastic 99%. Dont you think you should back that up.
As for me, I know from experience that that is simply not true.

The truth is closer to women being every bit as horr.ny as men/ indeed in many cases much more - however cultural practices the world over tend to permit men to express their sexual liberty with greater abandon. This does not mean that women do not get down as actively - they are simply quite often more discreet owing to cultural norms.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 8:54pm On Dec 19, 2025
judewrites:
Our destinies differ.

The big mistake we make is to compare ourselves with other people.

What we lose to sex outside marriage is proportional to the greatness of our destiny.

What I really mean is the greater your destiny, the greater the loses to sex outside marriage.

That's why you should be extremely careful with your own destiny and stop looking at others who are misbehaving sexually because what they lose cannot be compared with what you lose!

As for certain 'big men', many of them use sex as occultic means to upgrade financially!

As for those reading this_apologies for drifting from the topic!
Your theory is attractive but reality doesn't bear it out. Otherwise all these small girls who sleep with big men and politicians will become senators and geniuses. Solomon had 1000 women and was greater than people who had one! Genghis Khan was so sexually prolific that 8% of Asians were his direct descendants!

Still, I believe the best thing is to avoid multiple partners (which nature wired men to NOT be able to do when there is an attractive and willing female available to them! grin)

Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 8:58pm On Dec 19, 2025
always247:
I dont know if she is infected but they are still together and she shows no sign of leaving the marriage
CHEEZZZUUUSSSS!!!!😩😩😩
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