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Odebayo4010:
When a woman does not have her way she gets angry, she wants to destroy and burn everything down. As long as she's in charge she's happy but if she's not, she's sad. You see, for many women it was never about love. It was about control. They want to find a senseless donkey who will do as they please. Don't be that donkey.

Sirchiboy:
I have not recieve my Xmas chicken money.
I am serious oooo.
Make I no give you belle for night if you no send am

Odebayo4010:
When a woman does not have her way she gets angry, she wants to destroy and burn everything down. As long as she's in charge she's happy but if she's not, she's sad. You see, for many women it was never about love. It was about control. They want to find a senseless donkey who will do as they please. Don't be that donkey.

Sirchiboy:
Should I dropy azza

Diamond098454:
I don't have money
I'm a student

Smile smile smile smile
We are on public forum oooooo

Samantha125:
Of course it's about control, the world would've been chaotic had it been we didn't step in to take control over you... That's why English says "behind every successful man, there's a woman".

Why do you think many men change for the better the moment a woman comes into their lives?

ManknowThyself:
You are perfectly right but it must be the right woman!!!!!!!!
Who is a right woman?
A woman who is real, respectful, discipline but not perfect.
You can never be successful with all women but the right ones.


Anyway, most modern kings built their kingdom without women from believe, discipline, dedication and hard work with grace and mercy of God.

Such kings can only accept a modern woman with ancient cultural values and principles of marriage as the queen of their kingdom.

Have seen women!
All women can cook and clean but not all is respectful and discipline.

Most kings are only permitted to marry a queen that respect them and their kingdom.

Enjoy the rest of your night

Samantha125:
You'll never know who's the right person until you grow old with them.

Samantha125:
You'll never know who's the right person until you grow old with them

ManknowThyself:
It easy to know the right woman during relationship, even when you don't want her the greater man in you which is your intuition will expose she's the right one

As a man always have a quiet alone time with your thoughts.

Sweet dreams

ManknowThyself:
It easy to know the right woman during relationship, even when you don't want her the greater man in you which is your intuition will expose she's the right one.

As a man always have a quiet alone with your thoughts.

Sweet dreams

Samantha125:
I'm sure all the divorced men also said the same thing when they got married to their now ex wives.

And it's always those men who think they know the right ones that always end up as divorcees.

ManknowThyself:
Most divorced men never truly followed their intuitions with clarity but with emotions

Clarity marries alignment
Emotions marries misalignment.

My clarity can never settle for less neither the wrong connection.
You must inspire me by resonating in my frequency as a woman.

I'm not perfect but knows what I truly appreciate in a modern woman.
Not beauty but intelligence and discipline.

In my principles, beauty sit at the back of character and attitude.

Life is all about choice, others experience shouldn't define my choice.

Samantha125:
I'm sure they all said the same thing, but still ended up as divorcees.

Reason I only take marriage advice from elderly couples, the rest can take the back seat.

Samantha125:
Of course it's about control, the world would've been chaotic had it been we didn't step in to take control over you... That's why English says "behind every successful man, there's a woman".

Why do you think many men change for the better the moment a woman comes into their lives?

Tenrack:
The same way your heartless sister is currently controlling her current fiance right? Smiles.

Odebayo4010:
When a woman does not have her way she gets angry, she wants to destroy and burn everything down. As long as she's in charge she's happy but if she's not, she's sad. You see, for many women it was never about love. It was about control. They want to find a senseless donkey who will do as they please. Don't be that donkey.

ManknowThyself:
Yes you right about that reasons for advice from elderly couples but not all elderly couples are happy in their homes.

When we stop pretending and truly look inward for happiness, there will be few divorce men and women in the society.

Many are married but no truly happy, you can only fully appreciate life when your happiness is authentic from within not from status or societal validation.

Any way not until men men start chosen intelligence and discipline over beauty they can never be a better generation that have respect for humanity.

Samantha125:
I'd rather take my chances with elderly couples than these two minutes couples who'd play marriage experts just after two minutes of exchanging their vows only to wake up the following day to find them divorced.

Even I don't consider myself as eligible to be giving people marriage advice, I need at least 20 to 25 years to consider myself as a proper person to be advising people about marriage. Even so, I'm not sure if my marriage will reach the goal I'm hoping for because the future can be unpredictable, but I'm hoping for the best.

Intelligence without wisdom doesn't build a long lasting marriage while many of you would get married to disciplined decent women and start taking their decency for granted, forcing them to reveal that beast they've been suppressing within them... Go and watch The Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

infogenius:
Bros, this ur take too extreme o.

Not every woman wakes up plotting “control” or ready to burn house if she nor get her way.

Plenty women just want respect, peace, and partnership—same thing most men want.

Yes, some women (and plenty men too) love control pass anything. When things nor go their way, dem turn beast: anger, manipulation,
revenge. That one na human being problem, not “woman nature.”

I’ve seen wives wey submit, support, build with their husbands through hell, no complaint.


I’ve also seen husbands wey turn dictator the moment money enter hand.

The real truth:

Power and control tempt everybody.
Some women abuse it.
 Some men abuse it worse (with fist, cheating, or silent treatment).

Don’t paint all women as “beasts in nature” because of the bad ones u don meet.


That same brush fit paint all men as dogs because of the players and abusers wey full street.

Look for a woman wey get sense, respect, and fear of God.
 She go add to ur life, not turn u to donkey.

And if u find her, treat her right so she nor turn to the “beast” u dey fear.


Relationship na two people wey choose peace over power.


That’s the winning formula. 💯

Samantha125:
My sister or not, we're all controlling you...💃💃💃

Before your girlfriend or wife, it was your mother who was controlling you.

ManknowThyself:
No intelligence without wisdom, when you are intelligent it means you can activate your wisdom for success.

Yes you right about that it's both side experiences that turns people to activate their beast side. Everyone has beast personality in built, when pass their safe limit it gives vibes of strength.

When an empathy encounters toxicity in a modern woman he truly care about, it turns him into a beast and every other women bear the brunt of his experience. Thats why it's better to heal before entering new relationship.
You don't need to punish Sandra because of what Jennifer did to you.
You just have to heal and cherish the next person for who he or she is.


Anyway, age doesn't guarantee maturity only experience and clarity does. We don't have to do things out of emotions and feelings but clarity.


My clarity is infinity! It can only improve.
I can only wife a queen, with intelligence and discipline not beauty. I want a home were my kids we have their mother forever by myside. I'm not a fan of getting baby mama cos my kids deserve the right of their mother with them as one united family.
It's better to adopt kids than to separate your children from the happiness of a true family.


All women are beautiful, can clean and cook but not all are intelligent and discipline.

My kingdom is ONLY PERMITTE me to marry a queen with intelligence, respect and discipline.

I'm not perfect , do have my flaws but can never settle for less.

Tenrack:
my mom brought me into the world. She gets a pass.

Samantha125:
Your wife will only be by your side forever only if you treat her right.

Whether you settle for less or not, if you don't treat her right, she'll one day up and leave.

ManknowThyself:
Yes right about that, I'm not a beast neither a gentle man but kind. I don't beat nor abuse women but can walk away with dignity.

That's why I'm taking my time to settle for the queen of my kingdom cos she has a big role to play as the only queen.

The woman that win my heart will be adore, cherish and loved forever. She's a queen and must be treated with respect and dignity including her family.

All i care about is peace and stability of my kingdom. My wife is the stability and I'm the structure.

So in unity, we can have one happy united family.

Not until I see that queen can never settle for less.

Samantha125:
Okay, enjoy your kingdom...