Some churches now choose life partner for there member. There was a case where the pastor sampled 4 ladies to a young man, unfortunately, they are all older than the man. The man rejected the pastor's approach to his marriage. He choose a lady that is not even a member of there church and he was excommnicated from the church.
Now, is it right for the church or pastor to choose life partners for there members?

what church is this?

Not right at all!

Besides, I think church / god sucks.

But, that's just my opinion.

Are u sure those ladies weren't virgins before they become a member,the pastor had his way with them and promise a hook up which he's tring to do.
Mehn ting dey happen for churches nowadays.

i dont suscribe to when a pastor chooses a wife or husband for a member infact it is very very very very wrong

yes if you are a member of a church u should let your pastor know who you want to marry but that doesnt mean that the pastor would chose for u even if the pastor has an opinion he is free to air his opinion but its d persons decision to take whom he or she would marry

a pastor can never chose for me becos no be me and d pastor go they live for d same house when i get married
shey na me choose wife for such a pastor
so no pastor go choose for me

rubbish. this na cooked up rubbish story. where the pastors dem dey?

No is not a cooked up story. The church is in Enugu. I cannot remember the name very well. I think it is Shelter something something Ministry. I am not too sure of the name. But i realy happened.
There was a story where one guy was accusing his pastor of taking away his wife because the wife was given to him buy the pastor. In this case, the church is AGM in Aba.

its not a church its a cult or a movement.

yes its the truth i hav seen where ladies or guys will walk up to their pastor to tell them that they want to marry someone and the pastor will discourage them instead the would chose someone else for them

Why will a church impose ur partner on u,
that is very very wrong.
I for one will not allow that to happen to me, why will my pastor imposed on me
and i think the problem nowadays is that most people are now blindfolded by their church doctrines
which is affecting alot if us.

why would a church wanna impose partner on people, even God wont, although, i would God to tell people who to marry, cos that will reduce the rate of divorce.

Maka y? Thats crap!

please do not let anyone choose a spouse for you it will blow up in your face!