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What’s the easiest way to break up with a toxic n disrespectful partner, please be specific n direct to the point. I need a way to leave the relationship 😒 please help me 😩 cos I can’t deal wit it anymore, minute she’s all loving n calm, the next minute she’s so rude, disrespectful and all.

Please help me 😩🥺

Ghosting, shut down all communication for like 90 days. No calls, no contact, block all communication means, if possible go far away and let distance do it's work

Rynny:
What’s the easiest way to break up with a toxic n disrespectful partner, please be specific n direct to the point. I need a way to leave the relationship 😒 please help me 😩 cos I can’t deal wit it anymore, minute she’s all loving n calm, the next minute she’s so rude, disrespectful and all.

Please help me 😩🥺

how else do you wNt to than using the exit door? there is this undertone of you still in love, from way you've have typed things out.

two ways, either you take a long walk or you seat her to a convo of severance.

SEGLIZ:
how else do you wNt to than using the exit door? there is this undertone of you still in love, from way you've have typed things out.

two ways, either you take a long walk or you seat her to a convo of severance.

Um..the thing I don’t even know where to start from 🥺

ayoncox:
Ghosting, shut down all communication for like 90 days. No calls, no contact, block all communication means, if possible go far away and let distance do it's work

But we sorta live together. And I really wanna quit but the feeling I be having like she’ll be really hurt, I’ve tried changing her to my Taste, all effort seems abortive 💔 am really drained n tired 😪tho she’s a nice person when it comes to other things but disrespect is the issue, she talks down on me, insults me, and blame it on anger.

Rynny:
➜What’s the easiest way to break up with a toxic n disrespectful partner, please be specific n direct to the point. I need a way to leave the relationship 😒 please help me 😩 cos I can’t deal wit it anymore, minute she’s all loving n calm, the next minute she’s so rude, disrespectful and all. Please help me 😩🥺

Walk away from the toxic and disrespectful individual. The person obviously does not respect or regard you. So, why do you feel obligated to give him/her what has not been given to you? Walk away! 🥱🥱🥱

Rynny:
➜But we sorta live together. And I really wanna quit but the feeling I be having like she’ll be really hurt, I’ve tried changing her to my Taste, all effort seems abortive 💔 am really drained n tired 😪tho she’s a nice person when it comes to other things but disrespect is the issue, she talks don on me, insults me, and blame it on anger.

You tried changing her to your taste? Sounds more like you are equally an abusive/toxic element in the relationship. 🥱🥱

Anyway, let her know you are done trying to control her and moving out. And make certain you have all your bags packed and already at the door immediately. Don't spend a minute longer than today. That way, she can have time to immediately work towards getting a replacement roommate. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Walk away from the toxic and disrespectful individual. The person obviously does not respect or regard you. So, why do you feel obligated to give him/her what has not been given to you? Walk away! 🥱🥱🥱

I really want it to work but seems I be putting in too much efforts to what isn’t there. There was a day she made a statement, “I don’t see us ending in marriage, n just dating hoping where ever the relationship go” and that broke me deeply. Thats when I knew I’ve left myself belittled in so many ways.

Kobojunkie:
You tried changing her to your taste? Sounds more like you are equally an abusive/toxic element in the relationship. 🥱🥱

Anyway, let her know you are done trying to control her and moving out. And make certain you have all your bags packed and already at the door immediately. Don't spend a minute longer than today. That way, she can have time to immediately work towards getting a replacement roommate. 🥱🥱

When I say change her, I mean like having convos with her, letting her know what I don’t feel comfy wit or like. So as she can change but …. Wait…🤔 she lives with me tho, I don’t live with her

Rynny:
➜I really want it to work but seems I be putting in too much efforts to what isn’t there.
➜ There was a day she made a statement, “I don’t see us ending in marriage, n just dating hoping where ever the relationship go” and that broke me deeply. Thats when I knew I’ve left myself belittled in so many ways.

I don't want it to work for you both, given that you already admitted to being part of the abuse and toxicity in the relationship.🥱🥱

2. You both need to find other partners whom you would not need to be toxic towards. There is nothing good about being in a toxic relationship, for either of you. She already told you that she does not see herself marrying someone as toxic as you, and you already revealed that she is toxic for you. So, best you both move away from each other immediately. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
I don't want it to work for you both, given that you already admitted to being part of the abuse and toxicity in the relationship.🥱🥱

2. You both need to find other partners whom you would not need to be toxic towards. There is nothing good about being in a toxic relationship, for either of you. She already told you that she does not see herself marrying someone as toxic as you, and you already revealed that she is toxic for you. So, best you both move away from each other immediately. 🥱🥱🥱

Saying she doesn’t see herself marrying someone like me came from the fact I don’t yell, react or do nothing, even when I caught her cheating

Rynny:
➜When I say change her, I mean like having convos with her, letting her know what I don’t feel comfy wit or like. So as she can change
➜ but …. Wait…🤔 she lives with me tho, I don’t live with her

If you feel a person needs to change so that you can feel better with the relationship you have with them, what that means is that the relationship is wrong for you and for that person. 🥱

2. Tell her you are done with the relationship and let her to move out immediately so you can both find yourselves better lives with other individuals.🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
If you feel a person needs to change so that you can feel better with the relationship you have with them, what that means is that the relationship is wrong for you and for that person. 🥱

2. Tell her you are done with the relationship and let her to move out immediately so you can both find yourselves better lives with other individuals.🥱🥱

Thanks 😮‍💨

Rynny:
➜Saying she doesn’t see herself marrying someone like me came from the fact I don’t yell, react or do nothing, even when I caught her cheating

From your own words, you are both not good for each other, and I don't see why you want to suddenly flip this to make it seem you were mistaken in admitting this.

Kobojunkie:
From your own words, you are both not good for each other, and I don't see why you want to suddenly flip this to make it seem you were mistaken in admitting this.

🤦

Rynny:
➜🤦

The least you can do is pay for her transportation back to her family or friend's place. But it is OK to break up with someone you are already aware you are not compatible with. It is better than us waking up to another crime story about some lover/boyfriend/husband murdering his wife/girlfriend/lover, or the other way around. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
The least you can do is pay for her transportation back to her family or friend's place. But it is OK to break up with someone you are already aware you are not compatible with. It is better than us waking up to another crime story about some lover/boyfriend/husband murdering his wife/girlfriend/lover, or the other way around. 🥱🥱

Thanks 😮‍💨

Rynny:
But we sorta live together. And I really wanna quit but the feeling I be having like she’ll be really hurt, I’ve tried changing her to my Taste, all effort seems abortive 💔 am really drained n tired 😪tho she’s a nice person when it comes to other things but disrespect is the issue, she talks down on me, insults me, and blame it on anger.

you don jam narcissist

Narcissist girlfriend can kill you, they drain your energy. They crave light in men but uses their darkness to destroy the light.
They always want you sober, mood swings and manipulative skills of tears.


Just one way to win against narcissist girlfriend is to ghost her completely.
Go no contact, block her everywhere and never return after ghosting her cos she will destroy you completely out of revenge.

They are happy when you have and mock and disrespect you when you are low.
They compare you to others for you to feel small of the man you are.


As a man not matter the beauty never accept disrespect.


That girl they cheat on you with two other guys, you are just one of her supply.

Ghost her with no contact

Im so sure she also never apologies. Thats not your girlfriend, she’s just using you. No matter how much convo or the tone, she will never change/listen. The only solution is to walk away from such relationship. You are not her man

flexxyworld:
➜Im so sure she also never apologies. Thats not your girlfriend, she’s just using you. No matter how much convo or the tone, she will never change/listen. The only solution is to walk away from such relationship. You are not her man

. Stop projecting! His issue is not the same as yours. 🥱🥱🥱

ManknowThyself:
Narcissist girlfriend can kill you, they drain your energy. They crave light in men but uses their darkness to destroy the light.
They always want you sober, mood swings and manipulative skills of tears.


Just one way to win against narcissist girlfriend is to ghost her completely.
Go no contact, block her everywhere and never return after ghosting her cos she will destroy you completely out of revenge.

They are happy when you have and mock and disrespect you when you are low.
They compare you to others for you to feel small of the man you are.


As a man not matter the beauty never accept disrespect.


That girl they cheat on you with two other guys, you are just one of her supply.

Ghost her with no contact

You just highlighted it all 😮‍💨😮‍💨

flexxyworld:
Im so sure she also never apologies. Thats not your girlfriend, she’s just using you. No matter how much convo or the tone, she will never change/listen. The only solution is to walk away from such relationship. You are not her man

She always takes everything that am the one at fault, lately I just consistently apologize for the ones I do n don’t do, I just apologize for peace to reign cos am tired of constant quarrels, and if I decide to go quiet with she start acting weird, after few days she comes back saying how of a feminist or woman have I become that she went quiet I also went quiet. And I be like you hurt me with your words and insulted me and you still want me to come beg you, the reply was “That’s what real men do”😮‍💨

ayoncox:
you don jam narcissist

Omo

Did she move in with you or did you move in with her?

Is she violent? There’s a lot to consider when breaking up with someone you live with. Depending on the health of a relationship, breaking up could be the most dangerous thing to do if you don’t have an exit strategy.

Double0h7:
Did she move in with you or did you move in with her?

Is she violent? There’s a lot to consider when breaking up with someone you live with. Depending on the health of a relationship, breaking up could be the most dangerous thing to do if you don’t have an exit strategy.

She moved in with me, the relationship is messing with my mental health, I can’t concentrate like she literally gets pissed at every little thing, stuffs couple laugh over she gets pissed and flips and start been insultive and saying all manner of hash words, even when I say it ok she keeps talking. So has portrayed this attitude even while we went out sometime, cos I went to get an item I asked her to wait for me, cos I had to delay a bit, when I got back you needed to see the way she be yelling …… and talking a lot of stuffs. I felt embarrassed and Omo… I honestly don’t have an exit strategy, am so tired…

Rynny:
What’s the easiest way to break up with a toxic n disrespectful partner, please be specific n direct to the point. I need a way to leave the relationship 😒 please help me 😩 cos I can’t deal wit it anymore, minute she’s all loving n calm, the next minute she’s so rude, disrespectful and all.

Please help me 😩🥺

Hello Bros, just go for deliverance because your Mùmù too much. Don Romeo, when you are ready to breakup, you will breakup

Rynny:
She always takes everything that am the one at fault, lately I just consistently apologize for the ones I do n don’t do, I just apologize for peace to reign cos am tired of constant quarrels, and if I decide to go quiet with she start acting weird, after few days she comes back saying how of a feminist or woman have I become that she went quiet I also went quiet. And I be like you hurt me with your words and insulted me and you still want me to come beg you, the reply was “That’s what real men do”😮‍💨

Dude how old are you?

WTF is going on here?!

Someone lives in YOUR house rent-free.
CHEATS on you.
BELITTLES you.
INSULTS you in private and in PUBLIC.
She TORTURES you mentally and emotionally.

And I'm 100% certain you are enduring all this NONSENSE without getting laid.

Yet you are HESITANT to throw her out.

You are a BROKEN man!
You were broken by a WORHE too.

Here's your SALVATION:
1. Call a MALE friend, colleague or sibling to come to your place. NOT a weak person like you.

2. Call her family/friend to come pick her up.

3. PACK her bags MINUS everything you bought for her.

4. You and your male HELPER should throw out ALL her belongings.

5. NO NEGOTIATIONS!

6. If she INSULTS you, keep quiet. You are USED to that.

7. If she TOUCHES you, do something that'll make us read about you on Nairaland FrontPage.

8. DO EVERYTHING TODAY!

9. If you succeed, thank your helper PROFUSELY and buy him a couple of drinks.

10. Get and READ these 2 books: No More Mr Nice Guy and The Manipulated Man.

Namaster:
WTF is going on here?!

Someone lives in YOUR house rent-free.
CHEATS on you.
BELITTLES you.
INSULTS you in private and in PUBLIC.
She TORTURES you mentally and emotionally.

And I'm 100% certain you are enduring all this NONSENSE without getting laid.

Yet you are HESITANT to throw her out.

You are a BROKEN man!
You were broken by a WORHE too.

Here's your SALVATION:
1. Call a MALE friend, colleague or sibling to come to your place. NOT a weak person like you.

2. Call her family/friend to come pick her up.

3. PACK her bags MINUS everything you bought for her.

4. You and your male HELPER should throw out ALL her belongings.

5. NO NEGOTIATIONS!

6. If she INSULTS you, keep quiet. You are USED to that.

7. If she TOUCHES you, do something that'll make us read about you on Nairaland FrontPage.

8. DO EVERYTHING TODAY!

9. If you succeed, thank your helper PROFUSELY and buy him a couple of drinks.

10. Get and READ these 2 books: No More Mr Nice Guy and The Manipulated Man.

Good advice respect!!!!!!!!


He doesn't need anyone with him to send her out, there is a beast in every empathy when pushed above limit. That beast have to rise in him, God brought that girl to his life for lessons and the time is over.

All need to do send her on errand to buy ice cream and pizza for herself that you are tired can't go with her.

Then when she leaves, pack all her belongings including the ones you bought for her outside your appartement. Change the lock to your protector, wait outside for her when she comes back you bounce out to chill with a rap of local weed when you smoke, a bottle of beer when you drink.

Don't go home for a week, lodge or go to your trusted friend place.


Block her everywhere, but nothing on earth should make you beat her any day. Avoid her like plaque cos narcissist girlfriend can destroy your life by destroying your mental health.

As a man your mental health is your productive theater.


I know every narcissist girl within five minutes of communication cos they are never at fault always shifting blames to avoid accountability.

God help you , you have to be a man as the real empathy you are. Wake up that beast in you!!!!!!!!

Rynny:
She moved in with me, the relationship is messing with my mental health, I can’t concentrate like she literally gets pissed at every little thing, stuffs couple laugh over she gets pissed and flips and start been insultive and saying all manner of hash words, even when I say it ok she keeps talking. So has portrayed this attitude even while we went out sometime, cos I went to get an item I asked her to wait for me, cos I had to delay a bit, when I got back you needed to see the way she be yelling …… and talking a lot of stuffs. I felt embarrassed and Omo… I honestly don’t have an exit strategy, am so tired…

So, why won’t you end the relationship?

Have you lost confidence in your ability to find someone better? It’s better to be alone than to be lonely and abused in a relationship. When you’re ready nobody will tell you to leave. You haven’t suffered enough yet…