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Men, giving a woman more money will not make her happy. It will make her dependent on you financially. It is not your duty nor responsibility to make a woman happy. She's not a child you have to give treats to please. She's an adult, responsible for her own happiness.

Odebayo4010:
Men, giving a woman more money will not make her happy. It will make her dependent on you financially. It is not your duty nor responsibility to make a woman happy. She's not a child you have to give treats to please. She's an adult, responsible for her own happiness.

We have heard you...but you know that's impossible.. however it's wisdom to give only your wife... mother... sister... daughter... especially daughter.. so that one preying mantis will not take advantage

If she is your legally married wife, you will be rewarded by spending on her by Almighty God, but if she is not your legally married wife and you are doing ad.ultery or for.nication with her and spending money on her, you will be committing sin and needs to repent








There is no issues with spending money on women but just be guided!

Please specify and categorize the woman...


Wife, sister, girlfriend, daughter, hookup, random girl, friend, mother, street begger girl, etc.!

This is a dare, right? Come and stop me.

Odebayo4010:
Men, giving a woman more money will not make her happy. It will make her dependent on you financially. It is not your duty nor responsibility to make a woman happy. She's not a child you have to give treats to please. She's an adult, responsible for her own happiness.

You can't give what you don't have

You may not be given your girl money but some men are buying good cars for their girl naaa , real men are taking care of their woman and when you see such girl you will know that she's with a real man

Money get odor

NL guys pretend a lot and I don't like it.

naijapikin2:
We have heard you...but you know that's impossible.. however it's wisdom to give only your wife... mother... sister... daughter... especially daughter.. so that one preying mantis will not take advantage

You have spoken like my dad.

Odebayo4010:
Men, giving a woman more money will not make her happy. It will make her dependent on you financially. It is not your duty nor responsibility to make a woman happy. She's not a child you have to give treats to please. She's an adult, responsible for her own happiness.

maybe this one no dey Nigeria. Oga here money no love no loyalty. No matter how much you feel hard as a man you need a loyal woman to always cure your congin and without money bro you go suffer for the relationship.

naijapikin2:
➜We have heard you...but you know that's impossible.. however it's wisdom to give only your wife... mother... sister... daughter... especially daughter.. so that one preying mantis will not take advantage

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whitecement:
➜If she is your legally married wife, you will be rewarded by spending on her by Almighty God,
➜ but if she is not your legally married wife and you are doing ad.ultery or for.nication with her and spending money on her, you will be committing sin and needs to repent
➜There is no issues with spending money on women but just be guided!

Stop lying to him! 🥱🥱🥱

2. Men generally spend more on sidechicks and prostitutes than on wives. Yes, a woman literally benefits less from wifing a broke man. Na suffering pro-max be her guaranteed fate. 🥱🥱

3. No, allow him to experience and learn the hard way. Life always has lessons for people like him. 🥱🥱

Help women sha.

Dont be unnecessarily stingy to a woman, and give to the same extent you would give to a man.

Also, the very word ''giving'' implies altuism. You do not count it, unless you have hidden intentions such as, but not limited to privatisation, swiping reservations, and possibly nefarious intentions.

Just give freely as true giving should be, and expect nothing. It is also okay not to give, you can exercise such right.

But do not give, and tie it to an unspoken obligation, which you expect that she should understand, confirm and fulfil. That is not giving, its manipulation.

Diamond098454:
You have spoken like my dad.

Your dad is a wise man🙏

Giving women money will always happen.

From the first man that allegedly gave a woman money...PERLIK YUBENJI...till Jesus comes...it will continue to happen..

Just spend reasonably, Urgent 2 to 5k every day is 1.8 million in a year.

Another year has ended what have you achieved in savings?

So just give what you can afford to who you are dating, and stop keeping multiple partners, it is expensive, Those small small money amounts to huge sum at the end of the year and remember, it's not your responsibility to pay her house rent if her parents are still alive.

Diamond098454:
You can't give what you don't have

You may not be given your girl money but some men are buying good cars for their girl naaa , real men are taking care of their woman and when you see such girl you will know that she's with a real man

Money get odor

NL guys pretend a lot and I don't like it.

When you give birth to a male child bring him up to be a[b] real man[/b] aka a man that does what girls want want, buy cars for them take care of their needs etc

Unfortunately you won't want your male child to be foolish but will expect another guy to be foolish where you are this is why mother in-law and wife always issues because they expect their husbands to be foolish but don't want their son's to be foolish towards other women . It's even worse when it's boyfriend and girlfriend where you find yourself

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to him! 🥱🥱🥱

2. Men generally spend more on sidechicks and prostitutes than on wives. Yes, a woman literally benefits less from wifing a broke man. Na suffering pro-max be her guaranteed fate. 🥱🥱

3. No, allow him to experience and learn the hard way. Life always has lessons for people like him. 🥱🥱

Why not enter the zone that is more profitable according to you or you are already there without my knowledge?

ExudeLoveToAll:
When you give birth to a male child bring him up to be a[b] real man[/b] aka a man that does what girls want want, buy cars for them take care of their needs etc

Unfortunately you won't want your male child to be foolish but will expect another guy to be foolish where you are this is why mother in-law and wife always issues because they expect their husbands to be foolish but don't want their son's to be foolish towards other women . It's even worse when it's boyfriend and girlfriend where you find yourself

my male child will take care of his babe. I won't bring a male child into this world that will be looking down on women, bullying them and insulting them no no no

My son will know it's a duty of a man to care for his woman

My son will do a perfect work on his woman.

Diamond098454:
my male child will take care of his babe. I won't bring a male child into this world that will be looking down on women, bullying them and insulting them no no no

My son will know it's a duty of a man to care for his woman

My son will do a perfect work on his woman.

good luck to looking for that real man first before making your son a real man.

No one is insulting and looking down on women if you are an asset to yourself and the society. You can't be a liability and be delusional that as an adult you will fold your arms and one foolish guy will come take care of you because you are an adult child(lady), if you have this mentality good luck to you and that foolish man(real man) that will give u thumbs up.

ExudeLoveToAll:
good luck to looking for that real man first before making your son a real man.

No one is insulting and looking down on women if you are an asset to yourself and the society. You can't be a liability and be delusional that as an adult you will fold your arms and one foolish guy will come take care of you because you are an adult child(lady), if you have this mentality good luck to you and that foolish man(real man) that will give u thumbs up.

I'm that woman every intelligent, handsome and hardworking young man needs in his life because I have a lot to offer and a lot to bring on the table

Smile smile smile
Diamond zukwanuike
Diamond rest naaa

Apart from family services, light bills, foodstuff, water, school fee, children clothes, household items and maintenance, you should only be giving your woman money for efforts or work she did, a way of appreciating her.

If you start giving her money anyhow including for things valueless, that is when ur financial holdings will start going down the drain, and the entitlement mentality of the woman will aid more destruction. She may not even know that she is wrecking you, but can't stop that money-pedestal you already put her. She may not even value you again and look at you as a slave bought to satisfy her.
Many damages to dis. Even the woman is still being destroyed, because she can't think creatively or critically again when always on freebies.

And never stress yourself to give women billions!
Give her little near the initial large amount she is always expecting.
As far you cough out something(must not be big but enough to purchase something), and she sees that you are really appreciating her for a job or work or her consistent motherly duties and responsibilities at home, she will gladly accept and value that little money.

To the OP it is not a crime to give money to a woman, don't get it twisted, it depends on who she is to you

The pronoun "woman" has a very large meaning

Sister,
Aunt
Niece
Mother
Daughter
Grandma


And another thing is most people undervalue the statement that "charity begins at home!" Let's say you are multimillionaire, or billionaire, will you leave your family members to be poor and suffering and be sharing money to people outside?





We are talking of legal Union or marriage here not promiscuity or lewdn.ess!


Please try to get things right!




There are still good women out there!
Just pray that God give you a good woman!

You can actually help them when they are in need.
There is nothing wrong so far they aren't rude and acting like you owe them.

You can give them selfless or with a request. Just help them cross that period.
There is absolutely nothing wrong making a request for something in return to grant them the favour. It's all upto you to determine

everythingtall3:
Just spend reasonably, Urgent 2 to 5k every day is 1.8 million in a year.

Another year has ended what have you achieved in savings?

So just give what you can afford to who you are dating, and stop keeping multiple partners, it is expensive, Those small small money amounts to huge sum at the end of the year and remember, it's not your responsibility to pay her house rent if her parents are still alive.

Mathematics 😂😂😂

Diamond098454:
You can't give what you don't have

You may not be given your girl money but some men are buying good cars for their girl naaa , real men are taking care of their woman and when you see such girl you will know that she's with a real man

Money get odor

NL guys pretend a lot and I don't like it.

Your Definition of Real Men and Their Woman please?