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Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Chaiiii! So una still dey date women wey no get their own money

Should we tell him? Anyways, the only thing I have to tell you is go to loan app and borrow or sell some of your properties or sell family land. If none of these are available which I understand, I would advice you to sell one of your kidney, atleast you no go complain say you no get kidney to sell. Good and virtuous women like your GF are rare, so you need to do anything to keep her. Other women are demanding $1M for Christmas and their boyfriends are paying, so yours is small sef. Your girlfriend is so considerate ooooooo. Bro if you wan sell kidney, I can prescribe some good hospital for you. I sincerely envy your relationship, bro. What God has joined together, I dare not put asunder.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

I think d Op is catching cruise..😂😂😂😂😂😂..he want to know what people will say..but I will give you one tactics!! Don't leave her, Infact borrow loan from opay or online merchant, double d money for her..and forever she will b yours...only of you go last long tho!!🥲😂 Bcuz billing go don pai you before then...thank you for taking good care of your woman ..you are a good man

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

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Cruise…..
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Bro, forget about years you've spent together. The gospel truth is she's already out of the relationship, she isn't there again but want to have a reason to hang the blame on you. I will advice you not to see her as your girl again because you are obviously dating yourself presently. This new year, please build yourself, focus on your goals, channel your energy for emotion, love, etc to actualise your goal. Also, learn how to be confident in yourself. You can get any woman you want and keep if you play your game right. Keep this at the back of your mind, if your woman isn't sacrificing in the relationship, it will always be easier for her to walk away. Create an aura that you always have admirers out there, yet you are faithful to her.

You are just paying for love..she should go and work..if she is already working, what stops her from using her own fund to make her hair..
Girl no get, man no get, but the girl dey blame the man for her brokeness .


Oga, look that for eye and ask her what's her life's goals

Better dump her this Christmas period, and enter 2026 debt free.

If she dumps you first,you will be heartbroken. Do it first, and be free from all the heartaches that comes with it.

NB: Be intentional, and smart in dating or situationship in 2026


Modified *18th January, 2026

Dumping a woman first is sweet. Don't allow breast or offer of p*ussy to whine you

A man in love is a foolish man.

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the
conversation started. She has been
demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

All this small boys self,and this was pushed to front page?
😂😂😂😂

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Red flag 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩.
Say No to orphans ladies in 2026

Rage bait.

That's all I have to say.

Consider it a blue flag pls!

What you should do is:

1. Give her the request!

2. Next February 14, double the same request and give her!

3. Next December triple her request and give her!

You know what to do. Do it fast.

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

bro if she threaten to dump you, tell her your done. Wetin you dey wait for? 110k as per?

Let me listen to the elders first before I comment

Only Nigerian ladies will brokeshame you for what they can't afford

Telling her to barber her hair is wild tho,even if you can’t afford to give her the money,there are better things to say..

Concerning the impending breakup,mama no longer rates you,prepare for the inevitable,nothing last forever

Please spell words correctly when you post

The issue here isn’t hair or clothes, it’s entitlement and emotional pressure. If someone can threaten the relationship over money, you need to rethink the future and have an honest discussion about expectations.

If she knows your current status why was she demanding for that kind of money. Let her go with 2025 and plan your life for 2026 peacefully. One love, don't play

Flag kor skirt ni.....better go and give your life to Jesus

You see that the flag is red and you are asking again.

It is yellow flag.

Why tell her to cut hair?

This is not a red flag at all

This is nothing but pure comedy

your babe actually wants to break up, she is looking for excuses. abeg break up with her.

tactics ni

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Young man seek God and take off into your future without her. Don't say no one told you!!

Well well well. Something is wrong with that cutting hair statement. Also something is wrong with the ending relationship with 2025 statement.

One thing is sure. 2025 will come to an end...

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

How old are you and your gf