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Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by irumole1975(op): 2:16am On Dec 24, 2025
This is a lesson to men who lie to women and ghost them for nothing at all.

Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by kpankpangolo: 2:32am On Dec 24, 2025
Source: One man in my village.

irumole1975:
This is a lesson to men who lie to women and ghost them for nothing at all.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Chicagoesontop: 2:57am On Dec 24, 2025
Girls go soon use this avenue begin cash out
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by matify83:
Understanding Promises and Contracts

Definition of a Promise

A promise is a commitment made by one party to do or refrain from doing something in the future.
It signifies an intention to act in a certain way, which can be communicated verbally or in writing.
The person making the promise is known as the promisor, while the person receiving the promise is the promisee.

When a Promise Becomes a Contract

Not all promises are legally binding contracts. For a promise to qualify as a contract, it generally must meet certain criteria:

1- Offer and Acceptance: There must be a clear offer made by one party and accepted by another.

2- Consideration: This refers to something of value exchanged between the parties, which can be a service, payment, or goods.

3- Mutual Assent: Both parties must agree to the terms of the promise.


Enforceability of Promises
In some cases, a promise can be enforced even if it does not meet all the criteria of a contract. This is often due to the doctrine of "promissory estoppel," which allows a promise to be enforced if:

A-The promisee relied on the promise to their detriment.

B-The reliance was reasonable and foreseeable by the promisor.

C-Enforcing the promise is necessary to avoid injustice.

Conclusion
While a promise can be a component of a contract, it does not automatically constitute one.
Legal enforceability depends on the presence of specific elements like consideration and mutual agreement.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by GanagiBitrus:
Dead on Arrival case.

Unless there is a document signed by the man promising marriage, with clearly-stated details of how & when to actualise the marriage.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Dogalmighty17: 7:40am On Dec 24, 2025
People have the right to change their minds at any time.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by SonOfZeus: 7:41am On Dec 24, 2025
Impossible, I’ll promise Njideka marriage just to sample that flower, she can’t sue me! Yesterdays newspapers have no legal right
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by iLoveYouToo(m): 7:41am On Dec 24, 2025
He must've milked her too. He like ladies out there who do same deserve the hammer of the law . Let it slam
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by LarryMurphy: 7:41am On Dec 24, 2025
Not all promises are legally binding contracts. For a promise to qualify as a contract, it generally must meet certain criteria:

1- Offer and Acceptance: There must be a clear offer made by one party and accepted by another.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Kdut: 7:42am On Dec 24, 2025
Fake story. Word of mouth is not a binding contract.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by iLoveYouToo(m): 7:42am On Dec 24, 2025
Dogalmighty17:
People have the right to change their minds at any time.
Why ghost her, there are better ways. Although it's easier to criticise, we have to har the man's side of the story
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by jeff1993: 7:43am On Dec 24, 2025
Lol fake news and rubbish stuffs!!!!

That means we will also sur our politicians for fake promises that are not kept too. Promises are meant to be fulfilled or broken!!!!
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by nairalanda1(m): 7:46am On Dec 24, 2025
If there was some documentation or written stuff...then the woman has a case, but if not, she should move on

Anyway, this one is the usual Stories on Twitter. No names, no nothing.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Emma1Oj(m): 7:47am On Dec 24, 2025
Ha!!

They shod not bring this system to Nigeria oo..

They shod leave us with our promise and fail style.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Lukuluku69(m): 7:47am On Dec 24, 2025
matify83:
Understanding Promises and Contracts

Definition of a Promise

A promise is a commitment made by one party to do or refrain from doing something in the future.
It signifies an intention to act in a certain way, which can be communicated verbally or in writing.
The person making the promise is known as the promisor, while the person receiving the promise is the promisee.

When a Promise Becomes a Contract

Not all promises are legally binding contracts. For a promise to qualify as a contract, it generally must meet certain criteria:

1- Offer and Acceptance: There must be a clear offer made by one party and accepted by another.

2- Consideration: This refers to something of value exchanged between the parties, which can be a service, payment, or goods.

3- Mutual Assent: Both parties must agree to the terms of the promise.


Enforceability of Promises
In some cases, a promise can be enforced even if it does not meet all the criteria of a contract. This is often due to the doctrine of "promissory estoppel," which allows a promise to be enforced if:

A-The promisee relied on the promise to their detriment.

B-The reliance was reasonable and foreseeable by the promisor.

C-Enforcing the promise is necessary to avoid injustice.

Conclusion
While a promise can be a component of a contract, it does not automatically constitute one.
Legal enforceability depends on the presence of specific elements like consideration and mutual agreement.
So, Sir if a man promised to marry a lady and the lady relied on that promise and chase every other suitors away or ignored their marriage offers and the man failed to marry her eventually.

1. Can this promise be enforced (Estoppel) because she relied on the promise to her own detriment?
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Gotocourt: 7:47am On Dec 24, 2025
I chop breakfast, thank God I didn't lose my mind cheesy
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Chucks13: 7:48am On Dec 24, 2025
So na by force be marriage or what?
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Kobicove(m): 7:48am On Dec 24, 2025
I don't understand why some guys do this...If you have no intention of marrying a lady then don't lead her on by making promises of marriage you have no intention of keeping angry
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by SAMBARRY: 7:49am On Dec 24, 2025
Lmao he wan run chris Okafor format on her,he no know say

1. Women are getting less tolerant of deceit and manipulation
2 he think say na naija

I like as these naija men dey go abroad dey show themselves. Yorubas say character na like smoke, you no fit hide am,e must come out sha.shebi naija women wey sabi take your lies and bs no be better people abi,hernnn go meet the ones wey go pour pepper for una eyes. At least go live for country where laws protect women from your bad behaviour
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Dalohad: 7:49am On Dec 24, 2025
Source: Trust me bro.

Iro nla..
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by simpleseyi: 7:50am On Dec 24, 2025
I thought you women say you don’t need men. So the situation has gone so bad that you are now using yourself as Iyawo Saara , begging for marriage and suing for marriage
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Kobicove(m): 7:50am On Dec 24, 2025
SAMBARRY:
Lmao he wan run chris Okafor
He's going to learn the hard way that the US is not Nigeria where you can do that sort of rubbish and get away with it!
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by saphiere(f): 7:50am On Dec 24, 2025
Sane countries is where to live.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Sirchiboy: 7:51am On Dec 24, 2025
irumole1975:
This is a lesson to men who lie to women and ghost them for nothing at all.
I will like to marry the Lady..
I need her control
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Kobicove(m): 7:51am On Dec 24, 2025
Chucks13:
So na by force be marriage or what?
The court won't force him to marry the lady but he will get severe financial sanctions
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by simpleseyi: 7:52am On Dec 24, 2025
Kobicove:
He's going to learn the hard way that the US is not Nigeria where you can do that sort of rubbish and get away with it!
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So in the US, a man can be forced to marry a woman, is it now according to Sharia Law?
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Rapture4real(m): 7:52am On Dec 24, 2025
matify83:
Understanding Promises and Contracts

Definition of a Promise

A promise is a commitment made by one party to do or refrain from doing something in the future.
It signifies an intention to act in a certain way, which can be communicated verbally or in writing.
The person making the promise is known as the promisor, while the person receiving the promise is the promisee.

When a Promise Becomes a Contract

Not all promises are legally binding contracts. For a promise to qualify as a contract, it generally must meet certain criteria:

1- Offer and Acceptance: There must be a clear offer made by one party and accepted by another.

2- Consideration: This refers to something of value exchanged between the parties, which can be a service, payment, or goods.

3- Mutual Assent: Both parties must agree to the terms of the promise.


Enforceability of Promises
In some cases, a promise can be enforced even if it does not meet all the criteria of a contract. This is often due to the doctrine of "promissory estoppel," which allows a promise to be enforced if:

A-The promisee relied on the promise to their detriment.

B-The reliance was reasonable and foreseeable by the promisor.

C-Enforcing the promise is necessary to avoid injustice.

Conclusion
While a promise can be a component of a contract, it does not automatically constitute one.
Legal enforceability depends on the presence of specific elements like consideration and mutual agreement.
This reminds me of law of contract ICAN Business and Company Law
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by Kobicove(m): 7:52am On Dec 24, 2025
simpleseyi:
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So in the US, a man can be forced to marry a woman, is it now according to Sharia Law?
No court will ever force him to marry the lady but they will penalise him
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by GiftofGod77(m): 7:52am On Dec 24, 2025
matify83:
Understanding Promises and Contracts

Definition of a Promise

A promise is a commitment made by one party to do or refrain from doing something in the future.
It signifies an intention to act in a certain way, which can be communicated verbally or in writing.
The person making the promise is known as the promisor, while the person receiving the promise is the promisee.

When a Promise Becomes a Contract

Not all promises are legally binding contracts. For a promise to qualify as a contract, it generally must meet certain criteria:

1- Offer and Acceptance: There must be a clear offer made by one party and accepted by another.

2- Consideration: This refers to something of value exchanged between the parties, which can be a service, payment, or goods.

3- Mutual Assent: Both parties must agree to the terms of the promise.


Enforceability of Promises
In some cases, a promise can be enforced even if it does not meet all the criteria of a contract. This is often due to the doctrine of "promissory estoppel," which allows a promise to be enforced if:

A-The promisee relied on the promise to their detriment.

B-The reliance was reasonable and foreseeable by the promisor.

C-Enforcing the promise is necessary to avoid injustice.

Conclusion
While a promise can be a component of a contract, it does not automatically constitute one.
Legal enforceability depends on the presence of specific elements like consideration and mutual agreement.
You are very correct. These are the elements or components of the law of Contract. This should be read by all to have a good understanding of how it works. Thanks for educating and refreshing us with such rich content.
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by SAMBARRY: 7:52am On Dec 24, 2025
Dalohad:
Source: Trust me bro.

Iro nla..
of course it will be iro nla because e no sweet you for belle grin

Typical grin
Re: Nigerian Man Sued In The US For Promising Marriage To A Lady And Later Ghost Her by simpleseyi: 7:53am On Dec 24, 2025
Kobicove:
The court won't force him to marry the lady but he will get severe financial sanctions
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He will not, and the lady cannot do anything about it, and you too are just exciting yourself over nothing
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