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My Wife Admitts She Visited A Guy But There Was No Sex

Women get bored of having just one sexual partner in marriage. I have seen it first hand. Upon all my knacks, styles, lasting in bed, big gbola, good loving, helping out in chores, all round support. My wife still went to spend night with a guy, and by chance I got to find out. And after initially trying to blame me for "pushing her", she later owned up that she was just bored and needed a new flame. And started trying to bobo me that there was no sex, that the guy (her colleague in the office) was just a friend. That she just needed a space to clear her head. I said all those na story for the gods. Clear your head from what? when we were all happy and laughing all week, knack Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday back to back cos its ovulation period. Then Friday, you up and comfortably spend the night with another guy, without blinking.

You see how DNA problems start? Well, the marriage is done. Its a pity cos she was a nice person. But this crossed the line and I'm no simp.

She told me she was going to visit her female colleague for the weekend, starting from after work on Friday evening. Infact, she had been telling me all week.

I coincidentally saw the same female colleague when I went to pick my car from the mechanic workshop, the lady did not see me. So I called my wife and asked her if she was with the lady and she said yes, so I said lets move the call to video, that I wanted to say hi to the lady. She said the lady is in the kitchen...later, she called back and put the phone very close to her face, I said, let me see the lady na. She was angry that why am I sounding as if I'm suspecting her, that she is very offended, etc etc. I just smiled and didn't say anything else. This was Saturday morning.

So, she cut short the visit and came home on Saturday night, and started trying to find out what I have discovered (for her decide whether to keep up the lie or modify it), so I told her I saw the other girl at the mechanic workshop and I that for her to lie meant she was with someone she wasn't supposed to be with. So, I think at that point, she realized the best option for her was to tell the truth halfway (not the whole truth) - what I mean is that, she admitted it was a guy (true), but that there was no sex (lie).

This is not a matter for public discuss.

I comment my reservation

"Women get bored of having just one sexual partner in marriage" who is boring.

If either partner in marriage is bored, they should work together to unbore each other by adding spice to their boring sex.

It's a MANIPULATION technique called Trickle Truthing.

They ALL use it.

First, comes the BLATANT lie—female friend.

When that lie becomes unsustainable, then a little TRICKLE of truth—It was actually a MAN but nothing happened.



If you continue to press her, another truth will trickle out—something did happen but it was JUST a kiss.

Then, it'll turn to just BJ and no penetration. They didn't even get naked.

Then, it'll become they did get naked but he just RUBBED the tip on clit.

Then FINALLY, it'll be we had sex but it was just ONCE.



MEN who still marry today are just deceiving themselves.

The next lamba will be that she slipped on a banana peel and landed on his diick.

Newton2024:
My Wife Admitts She Visited A Guy But There Was No Sex

Straight divorce bro.

If you allow her to emotionally blackmail you into forgiving her, just know u r finished - and I mean it literally.


TO THOSE OF YOU WHOM YOUR WIFE WORKS, SCHOOLS, OR JUST DO ANYTHING THAT TAKES HER OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR 2 HOURS EVRYDAY, JUST KNOW SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU - IF SHE IS NOT DOING IT YET, SHE WILL DO IT LATER.

You don't believe me? No problemo!



You may find it hard to accept this fact, WOMEN ARE SO BIGAMOUS BY NATURE! NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO TO SATISFY THEM, BELEIVE ME YOU CAN NEVER EVER SATISFY THEM! THEY SO BADLY NEED DIFFERENT SPERMATOZOA ONCE IN WHILE. Pray they don't go getting it from someone far far far below your level! Yes you heard me right! They dont know what dignity means. They only see dick where you see wheelbarrow pusher or okada rider.

Thts why you will put her in a mansion, buy her the latest cars, she will still somehow manage to fk ur gateman, your driver or even your office errand boy - or even eff the guy that sales vegetables to her in the market!



I am really glad I know them so well.

Straight divorce, she is already in love with the guy women's towtow and heart are connected

This is content.
What you should be posting is" how I sent my cheating wife parking and she safely arrived at her father's house after retrieving the bride price.

Perhaps you should wait for a more concrete evidence while you keep monitoring her. If a woman cheats once, she will do it again if she thinks you have forgotten or moved on

Let's assume there was no sex this time around what about previous visitations and prolly subsequent visitations too.

The truth is, it's not easy to stop immediately the escapade have started and the other partner either Husband/Wife is always at the recieving end and mostly don't end well

Marriage is a scam. Get as many baby mamas as possible then when you turn 50, look for a 55 years old rich lady and spend your retirement with.

Of course, she told you what you want to hear. You're telling us as if she is a truthful woman to be believed in the first place! You don enter oooo...sir.

To her Papa house straight up, no gree make Dem gaslight you with Jesus stories 📌💯

Naw you are back to being single

bigpriik:
Straight divorce, she is already in love with the guy women's towtow and heart are connected

Worse still, the other guy she took all these risks for – to cheat on her husband, won't settle for her once she's divorced.

I blame you for even allowing her to sleep over the weekend outside your home with a friend, no matter the friendship

You are a mumu man.

No problem,just thank God you knew. She would be smarter next time.

Also, don't love anyone again.

Marriage is a contract

Things that never happened

Another rage baiting post.
Because what fuckery is that?

Some men are not good in love making

They don't kiss and romance there wife very well before visiting the last bus stop
.

There are three stages both the men and women should try and complete those stages before the main stuff.

This is husband and wife matter take it to your in-laws.

The natural order of things is man meets woman. Man and woman live together as partners and birth children. After a few years; five to seven, man and woman separate. Woman goes off to find a new partner. I guess man does the same. Society as a whole raise the children.

With our independent lives and selfish societies, this is no longer the case. Marriage should not be a prison. Break out of it when tired.

The story is not different from a guy saying

We didn’t have sex, I only put the cap for 5seconds

If OP believes his wife, then he can believe that Bible stories are real

obiekunie01:
Straight divorce bro.

If you allow her to emotionally blackmail you into forgiving her, just know u r finished - and I mean it literally.


TO THOSE OF YOU WHOM YOUR WIFE WORKS, SCHOOLS, OR JUST DO ANYTHING THAT TAKES HER OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR 2 HOURS EVRYDAY, JUST KNOW SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU - IF SHE IS NOT DOING IT YET, SHE WILL DO IT LATER.

You don't believe me? No problemo!



You may find it hard to accept this fact, WOMEN ARE SO BIGAMOUS BY NATURE! NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO TO SATISFY THEM, BELEIVE ME YOU CAN NEVER EVER SATISFY THEM! THEY SO BADLY NEED DIFFERENT SPERMATOZOA ONCE IN WHILE. Pray they don't go getting it from someone far far far below your level! Yes you heard me right! They dont know what dignity means. They only see dick where you see wheelbarrow pusher or okada rider.

Thts why you will put her in a mansion, buy her the latest cars, she will still somehow manage to fk ur gateman, your driver or even your office errand boy - or even eff the guy that sales vegetables to her in the market!



I am really glad I know them so well.

d op is finishly finished.

Jerchance:
Worse still, the other guy she took all these risks for – to cheat on her husband, won't settle for her once she's divorced.

That's the funny thing in all of it. They risk it all for nothing

Diamond098454:
Some men are not good in love making

They don't kiss and romance there wife very well before visiting the last bus stop
.

There are three stages both the men and women should try and complete those stages before the main stuff.

This is husband and wife matter take it to your in-laws.

Wonderful! Mrs lecturer please expanciate more on the three stages

oz4real83:
I blame you for even allowing her to sleep over the weekend outside your home with a friend, no matter the friendship

When I read that part I was shocked. Even ordinary girlfriend no go bold open mouth tell me that bs talk more my lawfully wedded wife. Even if she smoke dragon shiid My presence alone go clear her doubt. The op is very weak. She's been trying it before now and she has seen she can get away with wtv.

In my culture a married woman doesn’t sleep anywhere but her bed. This modern day madness has levels!