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A woman has taken to social media to announce that she'll like to marry a second wife for her husband.

She said she was diagnosed with cancer and won't be able to satisfy her husband sexually, hence her decision to get the husband a second wife that can satisfy him sexually!

What do you think?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyZNGMYbp6s?feature=shared

Way better than her being stubbornly monogamist and the man goes out to cheat.

If the man will still perform his conjugal duties and treat all wives with respect (Islam have a good template for the successful practice of polygamy), then they have my blessings

I love her selflessness... But, marriage is for better for worse!!!
If the table were to be turbed around, we would expect the wife to endure till the end... So, her husband should endure out of lo e for his wife!

She should worry more about her health...

And her cancer.

It's hitting me like misplaced priorities... like chasing rats when your house is on fire!

pansophist:
Way better than her being stubbornly monogamist and the man goes out to cheat.

If the man will still perform his conjugal duties and treat all wives with respect (Islam have a good template for the successful practice of polygamy), then they have my blessings

You mean same Islam that says husbands should beiat their wives?!

Yorubas have been marrying multiple wives before Islam came. The concept of marrying many wives didn't start with Isleam. People were already doing so long before Isleam began

olabrad:
You mean same Islam that says husbands should beiat their wives?!

Yorubas have been marrying multiple wives before Islam came. The concept of marrying many wives didn't start with Isleam. People were already doing so long before Isleam began

I just use Islam as example o. If Yoruba culture of polygamy works, then good as well. It should be fair sha, and no women should be maltreated.

Ever since Serah made that mistake, the whole world has not rested.

U sick..but na how another person go cum dey bother you..... ?? Be like make I flog this woman 76 strokes or cane

By this act alone God should heal her.

This can never be our wicked resident other gender

what kind of Christianity is this woman practicing, i just stopped watching when she talked about who delivered her as a child. where is the for better for worse vow that they took on their wedding day or has their church now permitted polygamy under certain circumstances?

She only wants peace.
This type of woman is rare in this age

It's from a place of pain and selflessness

Women dey really try. Imagine if it was her husband with cancer or even stroke. I am sure her concern would be how to nurse him to health, not her sexual satisfaction.

I pray she finds him a 2nd wife. Hopefully that one never falls ill, because the man must knack.

advanceDNA:
U sick..but na how another person go cum dey bother you..... ?? Be like make I flog this woman 76 strokes or cane

That's a sign of selflessness.

A man with such a woman has discovered a precious stone

e no sha reach her mind..

Women?!

God forbid. This is fake news

e no sha reach her mind..

Women?!

Why is she looking for 38/40.. so that she no go fit born again for the husband or max born only one..

Tosyne2much, U get one girl for madam ?

He marries a second wive who comes and starts praying that the cancer kills her quickly. God heals her of cancer and the new wife is angry. Problem starts, she asks the husband to send the new wife away, but mr man has tasted the forbidden fruit and refuses.


Woman, You better be prepared to live with what you are asking for.

She loves her husband so much...

Abi she's looking for house girl I fear who no fear women

God bless her... Side chick would have been more appreciated.

Living together with 2 women might likely kpai the man than the ill wife

It's not from a clean mind. That I can tell you.

BarrElChapo:
what kind of Christianity is this woman practicing, i just stopped watching when she talked about who delivered her as a child. where is the for better for worse vow that they took on their wedding day or has their church now permitted polygamy under certain circumstances?

She did not say she still attends the church. Calm down your nerves

Shouldn't you be focusing on your health ma'am

Offpoint1:
God bless her... Side chick would have been more appreciated

She is not yet serious. Did her husband marry her through social media?

In the past, especially in Igbo communities, this was normal. Women found second wives for their husband to
1. Help with the house (this is the most important factor because the family is number one and this is why we had strong communities, a village raises a child not gated houses or high rise buildings)
2. Be a sister wife
3. Help with the man

Today, they are busy telling us that a man's sexual health will go down from 40. I laugh in Jamaica



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfnj18-iAgg?

In fact, these guys are so ridiculous that they said that practice was lesbianism in Africa. They attempted to use it to promote LGBTQ but these are the same people that reject African polygamy. 🤡🤡🤡 They wan rewrite history for their demonic purposes. This is why Christianity still has a controversial legacy in the South East and South South today if you go through history. The missionaries conflicted with the people's cultures and called it demonic. They attempted to replace it with Christianity. It is another reason why Islam is more culturally acceptable among the Yoruba and Hausa, they did not have a religion that condemned polygamy, it only placed restriction on the number. I remember back then, some Christian men divorced their other wives and it became a controversy. People were asking, what do you want to do with the other women now? Who will marry her? We know what the Bible says about polygamy but it's not a conversation we are ready to have. The whites will practise serial polygamy but they will say your own is one man one wife. Religion eh


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kltztNcQUA.

You know what annoys me the most that I am surprised my people never open eyes for? When Caucasians want to do it, they glorify it, they make it look nice. When it's Africans, oh no, they are giving birth like hernimals, they are this, they are that. They just don't like you guys and they are too haughty to admit that they copied us. The brainwashed Africans, instead of thinking for themselves have been chained with a foreign hard drive and memory that is regurgitating what the white man wants to tell him about yourself instead of what your mothers and fathers who lived here knew before the white man arrived. QED


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlWop3StRKI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLV_nsVBiYw

Nothing wrong with the idea of a second wife.

I hope she doesn't regret this later.

This type of thing doesn't end well.

Ask Sarah

Chijeep:
She only wants peace.
This type of woman is rare in this age

Peace?
What type of peace?
Personally, I know that this woman is not a Christian for those saying she is a Christian, and the husband will not be a Christian if she agrees with her and marry another woman because of his wife's condition even if his wife agrees. To every Christian, marriage is for better or for worse, because every Christian knows that God doesn't make mistakes and that nothing in this life is by chance.