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Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by mbaise1000: 2:56pm On Dec 26, 2025
Chijeep:
She only wants peace.
This type of woman is rare in this age
Peace?
What type of peace?
Personally, I know that this woman is not a Christian for those saying she is a Christian, and the husband will not be a Christian if she agrees with her and marry another woman because of his wife's condition even if his wife agrees. To every Christian, marriage is for better or for worse, because every Christian knows that God doesn't make mistakes and that nothing in this life is by chance.
BTW if she is a Christian, she will not give up on herself and on God,
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by DeltaBachelor(m): 2:58pm On Dec 26, 2025
Chai. Women like this are very very scarce o
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by advanceDNA: 2:59pm On Dec 26, 2025
olabrad:
That's a sign of selflessness.

A man with such a woman has discovered a precious stone
If na ur sister, u go hail am as she no focus on getting better.....
Na the werey she wan marry for her husband go kill am before the cancer......because the new wife will not want her to recover and claim her spot......

.na woman is happy sharing her husband with another woman...na condition dey cause am...
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by bigiyaro(m): 3:01pm On Dec 26, 2025
brain54:
She should worry more about her health...

And her cancer.

It's hitting me like misplaced priorities... like chasing rats when your house is on fire!
she is a wise woman, simply look at the bigger picture.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by slimmax: 3:04pm On Dec 26, 2025
If only her gender will see things from certain perspective and emulate but… .. trust em, they must have everything to themselves
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by geoworldedu: 3:12pm On Dec 26, 2025
Dogalmighty17:
By this act alone God should heal her.
God cannot even heal himself. Just forget it. It's part of nature.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by nairalanda1(m): 3:17pm On Dec 26, 2025
In this tinubu economy.

They will drain his bank account for him.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by kingthreat(m): 3:18pm On Dec 26, 2025
One thing is sure, she loves her husband.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by nairalanda1(m): 3:18pm On Dec 26, 2025
mbaise1000:
Peace?
What type of peace?
Personally, I know that this woman is not a Christian for those saying she is a Christian, and the husband will not be a Christian if she agrees with her and marry another woman because of his wife's condition even if his wife agrees. To every Christian, marriage is for better or for worse, because every Christian knows that God doesn't make mistakes and that nothing in this life is by chance.
BTW if she is a Christian, she will not give up on herself and on God,
Nigerians don't worship God. They worship enjoyment.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by Houseontherock1: 3:22pm On Dec 26, 2025
olabrad:
A woman has taken to social media to announce that she'll like to marry a second wife for her husband.

She said she was diagnosed with cancer and won't be able to satisfy her husband sexually, hence her decision to get the husband a second wife that can satisfy him sexually!

What do you think?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyZNGMYbp6s?feature=shared
She knows her husband has no love for her, she knows the man didn't marry her for better for worse but only for better... otherwise, why would sex be a priority for either of them at this point? Misplaced priority
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by maasoap(m): 3:33pm On Dec 26, 2025
dawnomike:
I love her selflessness... But, marriage is for better for worse!!!
If the table were to be turbed around, we would expect the wife to endure till the end... So, her husband should endure out of love for his wife!
Only if the wife wants to endure to the end. We have seen or heard many cases where wives left the marriages even the kids in some cases and never looked back.
Besides, the report says it is the wife who is actively searching, not the husband
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by Ezmans: 3:45pm On Dec 26, 2025
brain54:
She should worry more about her health...

And her cancer.

It's hitting me like misplaced priorities... like chasing rats when your house is on fire!
she said she have decided to die peacefully because of expenses from her husband
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by We4all: 4:07pm On Dec 26, 2025
Eye service woman. Instead of her to focus on her health, she is yepping nonsense just to look good in the eyes of her husband and the public. She is pretending not to know that her husband already has a side chic.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by Kaczynski: 4:25pm On Dec 26, 2025
Irony of human and their relationship



Man fall sick maybe of stroke, wife runs helter skelter to fend for husband.

Woman fall sick maybe of cancer or stroke, husband ignores wife to fend for herself.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by portacabin: 4:26pm On Dec 26, 2025
brain54:
She should worry more about her health...

And her cancer.

It's hitting me like misplaced priorities... like chasing rats when your house is on fire!
Did you watch the video to the end
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by delishpot:
pansophist:
Way better than her being stubbornly monogamist and the man goes out to cheat.

If the man will still perform his conjugal duties and treat all wives with respect (Islam have a good template for the successful practice of polygamy), then they have my blessings
See talk. If it was the husband that was sick, would the woman's sexual pleasure be expected to awaken?
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by olabrad(op): 4:50pm On Dec 26, 2025
Houseontherock1:
She knows her husband has no love for her, she knows the man didn't marry her for better for worse but only for better... otherwise, why would sex be a priority for either of them at this point? Misplaced priority
The man don't love her but has sold most of his properties to pay her hospital bills.

Uuu need deleiveriance from the spirit of Sttupeed Thinking!

And yes, sex is very important.

Because uuur libido is diead doesn't mean every other human out there walks around with diead libido
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by olabrad(op): 4:51pm On Dec 26, 2025
advanceDNA:
If na ur sister, u go hail am as she no focus on getting better.....
Na the werey she wan marry for her husband go kill am before the cancer......because the new wife will not want her to recover and claim her spot......

.na woman is happy sharing her husband with another woman...na condition dey cause am...
Yes, I will, and I will understand her decision!
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by delishpot:
SixSeven:
In the past, especially in Igbo communities, this was normal. Women found second wives for their husband to
1. Help with the house (this is the most important factor because the family is number one and this is why we had strong communities, a village raises a child not gated houses or high rise buildings)
2. Be a sister wife
3. Help with the man

Today, they are busy telling us that a man's sexual health will go down from 40. I laugh in Jamaica grin



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfnj18-iAgg?

In fact, these guys are so ridiculous that they said that practice was lesbianism in Africa. They attempted to use it to promote LGBTQ but these are the same people that reject African polygamy. 🤡🤡🤡 They wan rewrite history for their demonic purposes. This is why Christianity still has a controversial legacy in the South East and South South today if you go through history. The missionaries conflicted with the people's cultures and called it demonic. They attempted to replace it with Christianity. It is another reason why Islam is more culturally acceptable among the Yoruba and Hausa, they did not have a religion that condemned polygamy, it only placed restriction on the number. I remember back then, some Christian men divorced their other wives and it became a controversy. People were asking, what do you want to do with the other women now? Who will marry her? We know what the Bible says about polygamy but it's not a conversation we are ready to have. The whites will practise serial polygamy but they will say your own is one man one wife. Religion eh grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kltztNcQUA.

You know what annoys me the most that I am surprised my people never open eyes for? When Caucasians want to do it, they glorify it, they make it look nice. When it's Africans, oh no, they are giving birth like hernimals, they are this, they are that. They just don't like you guys and they are too haughty to admit that they copied us. The brainwashed Africans, instead of thinking for themselves have been chained with a foreign hard drive and memory that is regurgitating what the white man wants to tell him about yourself instead of what your mothers and fathers who lived here knew before the white man arrived. QED


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlWop3StRKI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLV_nsVBiYw
And as Dem marry multiple wives, they still have side chicks. Give polygamists something holy to swear on that they don't have side chicks outside their marriages and see how many will agree to swear.
You can fool f••lish women that polygamy stops adultery tho. I have lived long enough to know that men with multiple wives still carry side chicks up and down.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by SixSeven: 5:21pm On Dec 26, 2025
delishpot:
And as Dem marry multiple wives, they still have side chicks. Give polygamists so.ethi g holly to swear on that they don't have side chicks outside their marriages and see how many will agree to swear. You can fool f••lish women that polygamy stops adultery tho. I have liv d long enough to know that men with multiple wives still carry side chicks up and down.
Thank you. I like your comment

I have also lived long enough to know that a man will cheat, married or not. A woman will too.

A married man who will not cheat on his wife will not cheat, whether he has one or 496 of them.

A married woman who will not cheat on her husband will not cheat on him, whether he's cheating on her or not. Some of them even close up once the man has gone and become celibate.

I have seen each of these, so it's up to you to choose what works for you. I have seen men who decided to close shop once they have philandered enough in their youth and are looking for Virgin Airways girl to marry. Some of them stop, some of them don't stop. Some of them stop if their wife gives birth to a female child, some of them stop when their female children start puberty or become teenagers, some never stop. Some people say when they get married, they will stop masturbándome but it never stops and some people who were pure before marriage become wild after tasting the honeypot.


There are men whose wives stepped out and they did not pay her back and there are men who say that is the solid red line a woman can cross. There are men and women who will pay back if their partner cheats with another cheating.

Teni's father had 3 wives, the women decided not to marry after the man died. They are free to do that but they decided not. The Alaafin of Oyo had a young wife, everyone knows the taboo Portable crossed with his wife. Those are women in polygamy. The eyes sees what it wants to and people choose what they want to do, it is easy to blame it on something else or someone else but oneself.



A man asked, why do we hear more about broken marriages than successful marriages?

Because thousands of airplanes land safely each day but the only ones that make the news are the ones that crashed. You even know the names of the crew, something you probably don't worry about when boarding and leaving the plane even when the pilot makes announcement. Such is life wink

Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by femi4: 6:26pm On Dec 26, 2025
Her health should be her priority

Talk is cheap..Orisa je n pe meji obinrin, o de nu
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by Mypeople2(m): 6:40pm On Dec 26, 2025
olabrad:
A woman has taken to social media to announce that she'll like to marry a second wife for her husband.

She said she was diagnosed with cancer and won't be able to satisfy her husband sexually, hence her decision to get the husband a second wife that can satisfy him sexually!

What do you think?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyZNGMYbp6s?feature=shared
I understand her a lot. She means well but she is inviting problems , I mean problems . I mean serious problems. She may even die at the end before the cancer kills her . Just like what Fela said " Problem dey sleep yanga dey go wake am, wetin he dey find ? Palaba he dey find, palaba he go get oo"
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by olabrad(op): 8:24pm On Dec 26, 2025
Houseontherock1:
She knows her husband has no love for her, she knows the man didn't marry her for better for worse but only for better... otherwise, why would sex be a priority for either of them at this point? Misplaced priority
The husband has no love for her but sold most of his properties to pay for her cancer treatments.

What a duomb, highly myopec reasioning!
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by justli: 9:24pm On Dec 26, 2025
Your wife is diagnosed of cancer and she is dying, and all you care about is your erecttion and ejaculation?
This despicable and highlights everything wrong with modern society. Terribly selfish humans.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by Laple0541(m):
Didn’t he your husband has mouth to talk for himself?

Deeper life! Spiricoco wan go polygamous!

The primary issue is she needs assistance financial or otherwise to fight the cancer, and every other issue is secondary or tertiary.
Re: Woman Is Searching For A Second Wife For Her Husband by Mrexcell(m): 9:34am On Dec 27, 2025
BarrElChapo:
what kind of Christianity is this woman practicing, i just stopped watching when she talked about who delivered her as a child. where is the for better for worse vow that they took on their wedding day or has their church now permitted polygamy under certain circumstances?
She doesn't even believe in God healing power instead she is looking for another woman that will come into her home and destroy it for her the devil has finally succeeded too bad.
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