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She is actually 21
I have been talking to her and I am still at shock that she is just 21

Not a big deal...

Hope you have genuine intentions though? If the feeling is mutual then why not. She is an adult.

My dad was exactly 11 years older than my mom... that's not my justification but nothing wrong with it.


Just that these days is different from older days marriages. Just make sure your goals, values, personalities etc align!

Make sure you have a very good intention for her. Also make sure her guardian are aware of your relationship.

She might be smart but still, she is a very young adult and may not defend her interest well. If you’re ready to marry and she is not, then be the bigger person and cut it off.

What makes a good man is self-restraint, to not exploit a person even if they won’t know.

People marry at fifteen and twenty in this country. This one is asking JAMB questions.

Axzobr:
She is actually 21
I have been talking to her and I am still at shock that she is just 21

11 years is not much but make sure she has got a "good" head on her shoulder. I am 15 years older than my partner and we are not going "soft".🥱

11 years older is perfect

When am ready to have a bf that is gonna be the perfect age gap to look after

Why not?

Diamond098454:
11 years older is perfect

When am ready to have a bf that is gonna be the perfect age gap to look after

I am 20 years older than you can we start from there

I want to be turning you like Egusi soup way don sawa

😁😁😁

Diamond098454:
11 years older is perfect

When am ready to have a bf that is gonna be the perfect age gap to look after

How old are you?

It's ok.

pulsa:
How old are you?

abeg help me ask her ooooo...

Olachase:
I am 20 years older than you can we start from there

I want to be turning you like Egusi soup way don sawa

😁😁😁

Since I joined nairaland, I’ve never laughed this hard😂😂😂😂

“Egusi wey don sour, sawa” 🤣

Not a problem,I am 11 years older than my wife and we are fine

Olachase:
I am 20 years older than you can we start from there

I want to be turning you like Egusi soup way don sawa

😁😁😁

And after that na she go turn you like custard wey don cast.😁😁😁😁

Diamond098454:
11 years older is perfect

When am ready to have a bf that is gonna be the perfect age gap to look after

Why did you delete my post na? Is it because it has over exposed you?

You know this year confession is heavy, as some of us now know that it means you did kerewa with your father, uncle, neighbours husband and husbands.

That is why you people can never say who disvirgined you

So, you are used to eating old people.

Badt gurl

Axzobr:
She is actually 21
I have been talking to her and I am still at shock that she is just 21

Yes!

Axzobr:
She is actually 21 I have been talking to her and I am still at shock that she is just 21

The likely reason why you are shocked she is 21 has a lot to do with your maturity level than hers.🥱🥱

Axzobr:
She is actually 21
I have been talking to her and I am still at shock that she is just 21

A 21 year old lady is already ripe for marriage

Diamond098454:
11 years older is perfect

When am ready to have a bf that is gonna be the perfect age gap to look after

I have been asking you to come and be my second wife. I don't know why you are running

AfeezShomorin:
I have been asking you to come and be my second wife. I don't know why you are running

I can't share the same food with your first wife... Remember she made you rich

It's akin to trying to train a dragon as they're at their hoe phase at that point.. Make of this whatever you may. Selah!

It’s not just advisable but it’s perfect , when you are old and grey she will still have strength to run after the kids. And Ofcourse she will still be a looker for the duration you will be alive.

She's an adult.

Trust me it's better to date an adult female you're 11 years older than as long as you've known her a little and she has sense

It's too small nah....
It should be like 50 years difference...
That one is better 😂

Best age

Younger poosey anyday,anytime

Not old cargos

Olachase:
I am 20 years older than you can we start from there

I want to be turning you like Egusi soup way don sawa

😁😁😁

Who be this man

I'm not supposed to laugh at this but welll

I don't see anything wrong with it so long as she's already matured

21 year old is no go area for me

They are not ready mentally for marriage yet

I fit chop clean mouth but for marriage na capital no

Girls of today are not like our mothers

I am 2 years older than my babe she is 31 and
We have been together for 5 years and once I come back Nigeria I dey marry her straight

NOTHING wrong.

Just Make sure You are not a dinosaur.

Not when she is talking about Tiktok, Peller and Jarvis
You are Talking about Ishawuru and Ayamatanga.