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Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by RealSolution001: 3:46pm On Nov 17
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by RealSolution001: 3:48pm On Nov 17
Help me to have people's opinions on this. Thanks.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Cerebellum: 3:50pm On Nov 17
It myt End in Premium Death grin

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Thattallgirl(f): 3:59pm On Nov 17
Spiritual level is important in every relationship but people like looking away. If u are comfortable if or when it goes south, you can ask her out.
Cerebellum:
It myt End in Premium Death grin
cheesy cheesy

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by baralatie(m): 4:15pm On Nov 17
are you musulumi

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Cerebellum: 4:17pm On Nov 17
Thattallgirl:
Spiritual level is important in every relationship but people like looking away. If u are comfortable if or when it goes south, you can ask her out. cheesy cheesy

You ladies love brave guys that will die being one useless Hero..This is not India film.,Lady

Anyways, Let's connect nah ,I tall too o grin

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Jack005(m): 4:17pm On Nov 17
grin grin
Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by TheCork(m): 4:19pm On Nov 17
RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?


angry

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by 1beat(m): 4:20pm On Nov 17
YES if you're ready to face the consequence
NO if you want stress free life

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Thattallgirl(f): 4:21pm On Nov 17
Cerebellum:


You ladies love brave guys that will die being one useless Hero..This is not India film.,Lady

Anyways, Let's connect nah ,I tall too o grin
Lol I didn't say he should be a hero. I gave him a hidden answer cheesy he should figure it out wink
*Runs outta thread*

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by RealSolution001: 4:26pm On Nov 17
Who has dated one before? Give me full gist. I'm talking about first hand experience.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Liposure(m): 4:26pm On Nov 17
The ball is in your court

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Cerebellum: 4:30pm On Nov 17
Thattallgirl:
Lol I didn't say he should be a hero. I gave him an hidden answer cheesy he should figure it out wink
*Runs outta thread*

No no nah
Haba...Run keh

Oyar reply let's talk like two tall people wink

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by TheCork(m): 4:31pm On Nov 17
RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?




bro..who care if she member of robin hood or mary hood.....juss yansh & move on to tha next gadddemit....it aint like u tinkin of settling!! (real talk)..
actually bro let me link u with sweetcunt97 from nairaland...she date anytin sir!!
wink

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Truvel(m): 4:39pm On Nov 17
Dating Her Is Like Dating D Daughter Of A Native Doctor. U Know What Dat Means?

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by empire02: 5:01pm On Nov 17
Is she not a human being like other girls??
What if shix the girl God has destined you to marry ? Or are you trying to say that no white garment member will make heaven'

My advice, go ahead.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Abouwaza(m): 5:12pm On Nov 17
Why not

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by KinSlayer: 5:39pm On Nov 17
Don’t let stereotypes and stories from people stop you from missing out on a potentially good thing. Live without fear. The best person I have ever met in my life was a brotherhood boy that I bullied in secondary school. He paid my wickedness with kindness in spite of all my bullying, even to the extent of giving me his own biro in exam hall,(no, not a spare, the one he was writing with). I didn’t even realize how awesome this dude was at the time, I realized how emotionally far ahead of me he was on reminiscing. That boy changed my life outlook, and his parents,(both of them are brotherhood) did a damn fine job.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by LordIsaac(m): 5:42pm On Nov 17
OP, of the over 2billion + women on earth it is trouble you want to fall in love with... Ok o. That was how I was warned about someone attending one ordinary white garment church like that and I didn't listen... Until the trouble began; it was God himself that saved me.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Rareoil(m): 5:55pm On Nov 17
LordIsaac:
OP, of the over 2billion + women on earth it is trouble you want to fall in love with... Ok o. That was how I was warned about someone attending one ordinary white garment church like that and I didn't listen... Until the trouble began; it was God himself that saved me.

Please what happened

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by samuelchimmy(m): 5:57pm On Nov 17
TheCork:



bro..who care if she member of robin hood.....juss yansh & move on to tha next mennnn.....it aint like u tinkin of settling!! (real talk)..
actually bro let me link u with sweetcunt97 from nairaland...she said she lookin for husband actualy
wink
worst advice. Hansh and move on?

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by LordIsaac(m): 6:01pm On Nov 17
Rareoil:


Please what happened
A long story.
Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by SarutobiEky(m): 6:10pm On Nov 17
RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?
it's a free world bro.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by TheCork(m): 6:15pm On Nov 17
samuelchimmy:
worst advice. Hansh and move on?

huh? was wrong with foking n movin on sir?..... are u a pastor sir? undecided

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by rowland545(m): 6:55pm On Nov 17
Brozz is it not a church... I attend d church...and I can tell u ...its like other normal churches.

So if u love her go for her...don't let stereotype kill ur luck with a good woman.


That's my two cents

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by emkz: 7:12pm On Nov 17
There is nothing wrong in dating her. Let me share a story with you that totally changed my worldview about them.

We had a member who used to live in our house. He didn't eat meat. And when food is shared to him during Christmas, he'd reject the stew (principles). Once in a while, he used to host his church members and they used to sing and dance and eat. We used to stay away scared of ten, but they always seemed happy. He always had family members around living with him, and even trained an outsider who was rejected by his extended family. He trained another cousin of his. As kids, he always allowed us to come to his apartment to watch movies and would leave us there when he was going out. We knew where he kept his key incase someone came and needed a place to sleep.

Something happened and he started losing weight. There was rumour that he had HIV because he had a weakness for women. He spent sometime in the hospital until the hospital could not do anything for him again. He returned home emaciated and unable to care for himself. Everyone, including his family, abandoned him. His girlfriend whose siblings he catered for abandoned him. No one wanted to go near him, including those who he had helped. My younger sister was very angry when the people he had helped were no where to be found, and said she'd chase any family member that comes to his house to eat once he gets well. She was barely 12 when she said this.

Then his church stepped in. Everyday, different members would come to look after him and clean him, bathe him, cook for him and spend time with him. They later took him to the church. Our neighbours visited him there and narrated to us how much he was cared for. Parents did not prevent their children from going around him.

He died in the church under the care of his fellow church members, who became his family when he needed one. He was a dedicated member of the church and despite his weakness for women, he was a genuinely nice man. When I used to walk around without slippers, he gave me money to buy and told me not to tell my parents (my parents refused to buy me slippers after I had cut more than six pairs). He was not a rich man, but he was a nice man. I will never forget him.

Such people likely make heaven than others.

So forget about the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star (I still don't know anything about their belief system) and assess your partner on the basis of her persona. Then find out about the beliefs, convictions and doctrines of the Brotherhood of Cross and Star. Then you'd realize many of us criticize in ignorance.

Don't lose a beautiful thing for something as flimsy as religion. There is more I can share about another white garment church, but it is irrelevant to this discussion.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by Samfloxin(m): 7:51pm On Nov 17
Olumba Olumba be that oooo. Spirituality matters in marriage oo. No go marry person wey go dey do incantation in the name of prayer,make evil spirits no full your house.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by mobileboy: 7:55pm On Nov 17
When I saw brotherhood I thought it's a secret cult before I read further

If it's just religion differences continue with her nothing do you

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by RALPHOW(m): 7:59pm On Nov 17
Once your mind/spirit says NO, just forget about the relationship before you enter GAUUUUUUUUUuuuuuuuu.

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by RealSolution001: 8:02pm On Nov 17
LordIsaac:
OP, of the over 2billion + women on earth it is trouble you want to fall in love with... Ok o. That was how I was warned about someone attending one ordinary white garment church like that and I didn't listen... Until the trouble began; it was God himself that saved me.

Please can you share what actually happened?

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Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Girl Who Is A Member Of Brotherhood Of Cross & Star? by gfon(m): 8:10pm On Nov 17
Nothing dey happen,na your fears dey worry you. If you too scared,just rub anointing oil on your john thomas anytime una wan do the do.

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