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A girl of 18 - 23yrs have zero financial strength, have no career of her own. she is coming in as a full time burden to you.

Majority of them are not mentally ready for marriage , they have no ideal knowledge of what they want.. she will love you today, wake up tomorrow and develop feelings for another,, many of them will hate you in future for taking away their youth with marriage..

Majority of them are not virgins.. they are sexualy exposed at a very early age..

In conclusion if a younger woman is not bringing finances, not bringing a good career and not bringing virginity,, how are they better than a woman in her late 20s or 30s..
As man of 33yrs l have dated a lot of them and God knows l will be deceiving my self if l will be taking any of them to the altar,, beyond sex most of them have zero knowledge about life and it realities..just tik tok and social media trends..
Guys who married their age mates and mature girls seems to be enjoying life to the fullest quietly and we are here trying to follow societal norms..
As a man think deeply about this in your free time.. l am done with all this small girls honestly..

Allow us to catch them young. Everything very erect and intact.

You didn’t lie at all with your write up


Date them at your own risk ⛔️

That one dey. While they're good for the aesthetics and youth, I prefer older ladies for that mature woman beauty, curves and experience. Emotional and financial stability is key.

There are still some virgins 25 - 27yrs, only that they are few

You didn't lie bro..
The one I just managed to like
She even gave me her number...

She always on Facebook, and I tiktok, mehn I just ghosted her...

The beautiful ones are not yet born but can we see that African method is still the best? Where your family is preparing you for marriage and you grow into it. But this ITK people came and said she must finish school, get work and career, forgetting that after that, she will still do something in society. They even used to protect our women from useless boys and men who only want to totori her hotspot.

We filled her mind with books, but left her roots behind.
We gave her education of the world, yet neglected the lessons of her home.
We opened her eyes to knowledge, but left her heart untethered to culture.
We built her intellect, but abandoned her heritage.

Women remain the most important specie for a good society.

SixSeven:
The beautiful ones are not yet born but can we see that African method is still the best? Where your family is preparing you for marriage and you grow into it. But this ITK people came and said she must finish school, get work and career, forgetting that after that, she will still do something in society. They even used to protect our women from useless boys and men who only want to totori her hotspot.

We filled her mind with books, but left her roots behind.
We gave her education of the world, yet neglected the lessons of her home.
We opened her eyes to knowledge, but left her heart untethered to culture.
We built her intellect, but abandoned her heritage.

Women remain the most important specie for a good society.

Yes....you are very correct.

women and children

what do you expect to get from a girl of 18 - 23yrs( young girl) ?

life advice

you are acting like you got some new information, it is like saying a guy of 18-23 years old is ready for marriage, infact what are you gonna learn from him? nothing

Vikto17:
A girl of 18 - 23yrs have zero financial strength, have no career of her own. she is coming in as a full time burden to you.

Majority of them are not mentally ready for marriage , they have no ideal knowledge of what they want.. she will love you today, wake up tomorrow and develop feelings for another,, many of them will hate you in future for taking away their youth with marriage..

Majority of them are not virgins.. they are sexualy exposed at a very early age..

In conclusion if a younger woman is not bringing finances, not bringing a good career and not bringing virginity,, how are they better than a woman in her late 20s or 30s..
As man of 33yrs l have dated a lot of them and God knows l will be deceiving my self if l will be taking any of them to the altar,, beyond sex most of them have zero knowledge about life and it realities..just tik tok and social media trends..

As a man think deeply about this in your free time.. l am done with all this small girls honestly..

But this is what I've been preaching about notwithstanding the social media rhetoric that it's better to marry very young ladies. Unless you're well to do, it costs more to marry a girl within the age of 18-25 as most are either in school, way too naive about how a family should be run, are unemployed or yet to be employed etc.

It's why you see some men lament that after marrying such a lass, they're compelled to set up a business or sponsor her to learn a trade. In today's world, unless you're a well established man (which takes years to accomplish or from a wealthy home), you need to marry a woman who knows how money works and earns a livelihood - which should be sustainable, legitimate and consistent.

I believe every woman, just as every man, should earn an income. It's an integral part of adulthood, so expecting an 18 or 20 year old to be an income earner so quickly is very unrealistic. For the that reason, as a man in his 30s, your best bet is ladies above the age of 27. At that age, she earns an income from a business or job and knows how to take proper care of herself as an adult before you come into her life.

Stop listening to social media illiterates who are largely unexposed, uneducated, embittered and frustrated. Real life is different o

Guys who married their age mates and mature girls seems to be enjoying life to the fullest quietly and we are here trying to follow societal norms..

Actually, it's social media rhetoric. Societal norms have changed to expect the woman to contribute to the household except the man is well established or they live in deep rural areas. Social media rhetoric tells you as a man in his mid-30s to marry an 18 year old, whereas the teen is yet to be employed or earns a consistent, sustainable and legitimate income. How many men are like Pa Ned who can singlehandedly take care of their household and even in-law expenses?

I've told you people many times - stop listening to illiterates who now have access to the Internet. Obasanjo caused it sha.

Older women are bae.


Experience is always the best teacher.

Yes the 60 and above are better suited.

Radarada... How many of the so called mature abi older ladies are mentally ready for married life. 89% just need the name and title but aren't ready to play the part. They still want to live independently off you, claiming it's their right with all the modern false classifications. If you like marry a dinosaur it's her mind that matters and not her age. Any girl with the right mind and attitude from 23-27++ is good to go.

Older women are not bae anything, they're problems! The major problems of society today starts with thier twisted ideas and they infect and corrupt the younger ones!

LoL

Age is not maturity, you can 60 and think as if you are 20. You can be 20 and be reasonable like 60! when it comes to women, marry with compatibility.

If you marry a girl between 18-25 you will regret it, they are still in their whoring age, I know this because i have dated many. Age is just a number and some would be more matured regardless the age but believe me, any girl between that age bracket whether mentally matured or not won't make a good house wife, I am 32 and any girl I want to marry should be at least 27-30 e get why, j have seem my married friends that got married to 18-25 and 27-30. And believe me, those 18-25 marriage never lasted, while 27-30 that are mentally ready and financially stable are still very much in their various marriages,

Not that they don't misbehave but the divorce rate in lower comparing to the later

kiddaz:
Yes the 60 and above are better suited.

Radarada... How many of the so called mature abi older ladies are mentally ready for married life. 89% just need the name and title but aren't ready to play the part. They still want to live independently off you, claiming it's their right with all the modern false classifications. If you like marry a dinosaur it's her mind that matters and not her age. Any girl with the right mind and attitude from 23-27++ is good to go.

Older women are not bae anything, they're problems! The major problems of society today starts with thier twisted ideas and they infect and corrupt the younger ones!

You still fail to comprehend what the op is saying, he doesn't mean that older ladies don't misbehave, but on a scale, if you really check out, you will discover that 95% of failed marriages are the Gen Z's girls, most of them are made baby mamas because they don't have direction in life, if you make a mistake and marry one on this category, u go regret am

What's the difference with what you described above and that of older women? Same older women who still thinks you owe them money? Abeg talk another thing.

Any Nigerian woman is a financial burden to you irrespective of age. Any Nigerian lady can whor3 around irrespective of age, ask those pipping married women of over 30. So I will prefer to marry the younger version of problem

kiddaz:
Yes the 60 and above are better suited.

Radarada... How many of the so called mature abi older ladies are mentally ready for married life. 89% just need the name and title but aren't ready to play the part. They still want to live independently off you, claiming it's their right with all the modern false classifications. If you like marry a dinosaur it's her mind that matters and not her age. Any girl with the right mind and attitude from 23-27++ is good to go.

Older women are not bae anything, they're problems! The major problems of society today starts with thier twisted ideas and they infect and corrupt the younger ones!

oga when it get to your turn go and marry 10yrs old ,, l am speaking from core experience ... if it get to ur turn marry a girl that is always dancing on tik tok

I agree 💯.

However, could you believe I've also seen some ladies in their late 20s with zero sense and zero knowledge about life?

I know of one always chasing clout online with no iota of seriousness for her life. Yet, she's already a graduate!

God will help our ladies but for 18 -23, for me it's a no-no. Primarily because I can't relate with someone that can't reason on the same frequency with me. She can hardly take care of herself without your input and she will want you to fund every of her lifestyle. She can't even contribute to your career and life in anyway.

Everything is not sex. Sex is just an addition and like an icing on the cake, just to bond and add salt and pepper to the relationship.

Its funny how they are not even few, there are many virgins at 25 to 27 ... I know more than 3 but they are usually weird ladies , some are very cool but about 40 percent of virgin in this age brackets are usually weired.

Hypnotise:
There are still some virgins 25 - 27yrs, only that they are few

shortgun:
You've not been meeting the good ones. You are carrying negative energy. The younger girls are always more reasonable, loyal and submissive than the older ladies who carry bitterness and vindictiveness from all their failed relationships

bro forget that thing may be we grow late in this country ,, even the church one that seems reserve and calmness have their own constant need for validation and fantasy world in their head...most of them are no in tone with reality.. a girl of 29-30yrs seems more emotionally ready built for marriage.. if you are extremely wealthy as a guy,, going for girls of that age grade won't help u at all...

yemre:
I agree 💯.

However, could you believe I've also seen some ladies in their late 20s with zero sense and zero knowledge about life?

I know of one always chasing clout online with no iota of seriousness for her life. Yet, she's already a graduate!

God will help our ladies but for 18 -23, for me it's a no-no. Primarily because I can't relate with someone that can't reason on the same frequency with me. She can hardly take care of herself without your input and she will want you to fund every of her lifestyle. She can't even contribute to your career and life in anyway.

Everything is not sex. Sex is just an addition and like an icing on the cake, just to bond and add salt and pepper to the relationship.

Thank u for understanding bro,, they are the one with most lose vjay self,, most of them are too exposed for their age... the tightest woman l have slept with this year is 31yrs ...

Vikto17:
oga when it get to your turn go and marry 10yrs old ,, l am speaking from core experience ... if it get to ur turn marry a girl that is always dancing on tik tok

Bro, don't stress yourself trying to save them, allow them marry the whoring stage ladies nah them go regret am, I have dated 18-25 before and in all all still want to LovePeddler no matter what u give to them, and I have dated girls above that age bracket and 90 percent of them won't bug u with airtime, data abi my gas ton fininsh send money, because most of them are financially ok to a point and they are matured mentally and ready for marriage, if you marry a whoring phase girl, she won't even starting small or anything all she wants is what she want and if she doesn't get it, as at when due, she seeks it outside, in fact I no talk again because experience is a better teacher, anyone that want to settle for them, allow them, they go soon come nairaland open long thread they lament how their newly married wife is behaving

Vikto17:
A girl of 18 - 23yrs have zero financial strength, have no career of her own. she is coming in as a full time burden to you.

Majority of them are not mentally ready for marriage , they have no ideal knowledge of what they want.. she will love you today, wake up tomorrow and develop feelings for another,, many of them will hate you in future for taking away their youth with marriage..

Majority of them are not virgins.. they are sexualy exposed at a very early age..

In conclusion if a younger woman is not bringing finances, not bringing a good career and not bringing virginity,, how are they better than a woman in her late 20s or 30s..
As man of 33yrs l have dated a lot of them and God knows l will be deceiving my self if l will be taking any of them to the altar,, beyond sex most of them have zero knowledge about life and it realities..just tik tok and social media trends..
Guys who married their age mates and mature girls seems to be enjoying life to the fullest quietly and we are here trying to follow societal norms..
As a man think deeply about this in your free time.. l am done with all this small girls honestly..

Finally someone shares my pain....



I met a girl this year that I'm 13 years older than, and the relationship has been mentally draining, the age range dey shine like sun, so frustrating, sometimes I feel like to cut cane and dash her some strokes...


I've all but broken up with her, but I want make we meet make I tell her face to face cause me no dey break up on phone....


No wonder I've always liked older women since I small, na marriage pressure wan make me date downwards and I never see any better reason to continue...

Older girl with not too much mileage on the kpekus is Gold this days


No be the one wey get Fibroid or some disguised mental issues

For your growth and peace of mind don't friend or marry a liability , either a gen z lady or evening newspaper ,try and avoid a liability

I dated one of 19 years as a 29 year old, mehn the billing was to the roof, one day hair money, the next day pocket money, another day do data for me, another day birthday surprise. I was drained but the sex was awesome. You're right with your post bro, I broke up with her on a flimsy excuse so I could take care of my finances better..

They really don't know anything about life except for tik tok an going live..

Vikto17:
A girl of 18 - 23yrs have zero financial strength, have no career of her own. she is coming in as a full time burden to you.

Majority of them are not mentally ready for marriage , they have no ideal knowledge of what they want.. she will love you today, wake up tomorrow and develop feelings for another,, many of them will hate you in future for taking away their youth with marriage..

Majority of them are not virgins.. they are sexualy exposed at a very early age..

In conclusion if a younger woman is not bringing finances, not bringing a good career and not bringing virginity,, how are they better than a woman in her late 20s or 30s..
As man of 33yrs l have dated a lot of them and God knows l will be deceiving my self if l will be taking any of them to the altar,, beyond sex most of them have zero knowledge about life and it realities..just tik tok and social media trends..
Guys who married their age mates and mature girls seems to be enjoying life to the fullest quietly and we are here trying to follow societal norms..
As a man think deeply about this in your free time.. l am done with all this small girls honestly..

this is deep.

Twitter alpha males keeps bashing ladies in Thier late 20's.

Na sugar mummy things oh
Small small girls na headache, and I'm just 28.