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Embracing Authentic Grit: Lessons from Caroline Adams Miller for Nigerian Investors

Caroline Adams Miller is a pioneering positive psychology expert, executive coach, and bestselling author known for her groundbreaking work on goal-setting, success, and authentic grit. With a Master's in Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania—one of the first cohorts—she has authored books like Getting Grit (2017) and Big Goals (2024). Miller distinguishes "authentic grit" as the passionate pursuit of hard, long-term goals with humility, positive impact, and inspiration for others, contrasting it with "false" forms like "stubborn grit" (persisting wrongly), "faux grit" (pretending), or "selfie grit" (for personal acclaim).

From SMART to BRIDGE: A Superior Framework for Goal Accomplishment

Traditional goal-setting often relies on the SMART acronym (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound), but Miller argues it's outdated and insufficient for big, transformative goals. In her work, particularly Big Goals, she introduces the BRIDGEmethodology as a revolutionary, evidence-based alternative that incorporates cutting-edge research from positive psychology, resilience, mindset, and grit.

BRIDGE stands for:
- Brainstorming: Generate bold, inspiring ideas without limits.
- Relationships: Build supportive networks and accountability partners.
- Investments: Commit time, energy, and resources fully.
- Decisions: Make deliberate choices aligned with values.
- Grit: Cultivate authentic perseverance through challenges.
- Excellence: Pursue mastery and continuous improvement.

This framework addresses the "how" of goal pursuit, emphasizing humility, positive risks, and flourishing—making it ideal for investing, where emotional resilience and long-term discipline trump short-term tactics.

Why Authentic Grit Outperforms Intelligence in Investing

Research supports Miller's emphasis on grit over raw intellect. Angela Duckworth's seminal work shows grit—passion and perseverance for long-term goals—predicts success better than IQ in domains like education, military training, and professional achievement. In investing:
- Philip Tetlock's Superforecasting highlights grit as far more predictive of accurate predictions than intelligence.
- Studies on household investors (e.g., Finnish data linking IQ to performance) show smarter individuals trade better, but behavioral biases often undermine them—grit helps overcome disposition effect (holding losers too long) and impulsivity.
- A recent CEPR paper found gritty investors exhibit lower loss aversion, better exit losing positions, and accumulate ~7% more wealth.

Sophisticated, high-IQ investors may overtrade or chase trends, while gritty ones stay disciplined, compounding returns over decades.

Successful Investors Exemplifying Authentic Grit.
The investment world rewards those with authentic grit—patient, humble perseverance toward long-term value.

- Warren Buffett: The Oracle of Omaha embodies grit. Starting young, he endured market crashes (e.g., 2008, losing billions temporarily) but stuck to value investing principles from mentor Benjamin Graham. Buffett's "lifetime decision card with twenty punches" mindset avoids impulsive trades, focusing on businesses with moats. His humility (admitting mistakes) and inspiration (annual letters teaching millions) align perfectly with Miller's authentic grit. Result: Berkshire Hathaway's compounded returns turned modest beginnings into hundreds of billions.

Other examples include:
- Charlie Munger (Buffett's partner): Lifelong learning and resilience through setbacks.
- Value investors like Seth Klarman: Patient during bubbles, avoiding hype.

These outperform "sophisticated" traders who rely on complex models but lack perseverance.

The Urgent Need for Nigerian Investors to Embrace Authentic Grit

Nigeria's investment landscape—volatile naira, inflation, regulatory shifts, and market inefficiencies—demands more than intelligence or sophistication. Short-term speculation (e.g., crypto hype or quick flips) often leads to losses, while authentic grit fosters disciplined, long-term wealth-building.

In Nigeria's emerging markets, embracing Miller's BRIDGE—brainstorming opportunities in stocks/real estate, building networks, investing patiently, deciding wisely, gritting through volatility, and pursuing excellence—can turn savvy traders into enduring wealth creators.

Authentic grit isn't innate; it's cultivable through self-compassion, role models, and deliberate practice. For Nigerian investors, it's the bridge from survival trading to generational prosperity. As Miller teaches: Pursue hard goals that awe and inspire—your portfolio, and Nigeria's economy, will flourish.


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Mpeace:
Just be getting ready to retire to the village oh. FBNH is now at 53 and not looking back. I saved the post.

Yes i can see the price movement. I believe my initial post was that Firstholdco will not surpass Zenith Bank. N53 and N63 are not the same. I tried searching for the post so that i can quote it. But, don't know how to get that done. Thanks all the same for reminding me

emmanuelewumi:
The 72 rule also applies to what you have invested in. Influence by the dividend yield and sustainable earning growth when the stock was bought.That is why Nahco that I bought at N7 in January 2023 grew to N48 in January 2025 when I liquidated the loan. This happened within 2 years.

Return on Invested Capital of Nahco is close to 50%, 5 years compounded annualized earning growth rate is over 30%

Interesting.
Bought @ ₦7
Dividend is now almost at circa ₦5-₦7. The initial investment may return ₦7 in dividend alone by this time in 2027. 100% return in 5yrs on dividend alone!!

Thats one huge vivid mental Investment decision visual.
(Though you've averaged up since then)


72-rule.
Interesting mental short-cut.
just learnt this from @Harddiskng

Watch Top Nigeria (NGX) Stocks that gained this week (December 26)


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Mpeace:
back door already closed by FIFA yesterday. Congo cleared

NFF put stone for the door.
ee never close well

https://guardian.ng/sport/football/fifa-has-not-thrown-out-our-case-against-dr-congo-nff/

Domo Sir.

nosa2:
I don't know about the 2026 prediction but I totally agree with you.

chimex38:
Interesting.
Bought @ ₦7
Dividend is now almost at circa ₦5-₦7. The initial investment may return ₦7 in dividend alone by this time in 2027. 100% return in 5yrs on dividend alone!!

Thats one huge vivid mental Investment decision visual.
(Though you've averaged up since then)


72-rule.
Interesting mental short-cut.
just learnt this from @Harddiskng

Paid N5.96k in 2025 will pay more than N7 in 2026

Is it not funny that someone says leverage works for him and you says is not possible when he has shown evidence how he does it.
You are new to a thread and he has shown how he has used it based on his cash flow.He has said how he gets his loans and not necessarily from banks and I have come to see it is very possible

If I am expecting dividend of 30 million in this first quarter. I sight a good investment which may not be available at that good entry price by first quarter. I decide to collect 10 million from my broker and invest in January. Then by April I liquidity the loan of 30% per annum in 4 months. Then this investment delivers like 30% by April with possible dividend of 7% on top.I did not pay 30% on the loan again because I cleared it in 4 months from another cash flow.Is that not leverage at work.If you have not be following someone ways of dealings don't come and say what he is doing can't work abeg.He keep saying his target to pay back the loan is guaranteed cash flow from somewhere else which is very important.

Yesterday I spoke to an inlaw and he said he has paid over 60 million on interest from different bank over draft this yr.I told him that is much.He said it does not matter because he equally has made alot of gains in the business he used the over draft for at different times this yr.If you can use bank loan for business. Why can't u use it for stock business if you understand it.Thr are people who will say,I can never use bank loans for business like me..lol
Then here my inlaw says it works for him as he is into production. He uses the overdraft sometimes for importation of raw materials or clearing of raw materials.
He even just leverage or loan to buy presco rights which he showed here..so rest

emmanuelewumi:
Paid N5.96k in 2025 will pay more than N7 in 2026

I reckon that as well.
Was trying to be conservative as you do..
Just as you do with leverage as well.

Harddiskng:
Lmao. This man!

If you are not a science student, atleast did you do further maths?

Is acceleration due to gravity a joke to you lol.

At that altitude and acceleration, falling in ocean would make no difference as to hitting a concrete slab lol

Zero or negligible chances of survival in every scenario. If you do, it can only be God. Na to start preaching the gospel all over the world.

As a science student, you should also understand how this works. What Mr. Emma is saying about using loans to acquire stocks is plausible, even in Nigeria. Let me explain why, based on my limited understanding.

You carry out a thorough valuation and identify a stock that is deeply undervalued,essentially at a giveaway price. But, you may not have the bulk of the required funds available as cash at that time, even though you have stable and reliable income sources that generate cash annually.

The plan is to service and clear the loan using these independent income streams, not relying on the stock itself, within a maximum of two to three years. It is important to note that you do not hold the full loan for the entire two or three years; both the principal and the interest are gradually repaid over time.
In this scenario, even if the stock price declines, perhaps because the broader market enters a bear phase, you can still service the loan comfortably. Price appreciation was never the primary source of repayment. At most, dividends from the stock may serve as a secondary support, not the core repayment plan.

ositadima1:
As a science student, you should also understand how this works. What Mr. Emma is saying about using loans to acquire stocks is plausible, even in Nigeria. Let me explain why, based on my limited understanding.

You carry out a thorough valuation and identify a stock that is deeply undervalued,essentially at a giveaway price. But, you may not have the bulk of the required funds available as cash at that time, even though you have stable and reliable income sources that generate cash annually.

The plan is to service and clear the loan using these independent income streams, not relying on the stock itself, within a maximum of two to three years. It is important to note that you do not hold the full loan for the entire two or three years; both the principal and the interest are gradually repaid over time.
In this scenario, even if the stock price declines, perhaps because the broader market enters a bear phase, you can still service the loan comfortably. Price appreciation was never the primary source of repayment. At most, dividends from the stock may serve as a secondary support, not the core repayment plan.

At the bolded is an entirely new discussion.

You just said you have the ability to service the loan irrespective of whether the venture you took the loan for succeeds or not.

Let’s always clarify, there are different kinds of people reading this, including those without the ability to service the loan if the venture fails. For them using loan to buy stocks should be a capital NO.

Harddiskng:
At the bolded is an entirely new discussion.

You just said you have the ability to service the loan irrespective of whether the venture you took the loan for succeeds or not.

Let’s always clarify, there are different kinds of people reading this, including those without the ability to service the loan if the venture fails. For them using loan to buy stocks should be a capital NO.

Nobody has advocated for such in this thread.or you prove me wrong with such post

Harddiskng:
At the bolded is an entirely new discussion.

You just said you have the ability to service the loan irrespective of whether the venture you took the loan for succeeds or not.

Let’s always clarify, there are different kinds of people reading this, including those without the ability to service the loan if the venture fails. For them using loan to buy stocks should be a capital NO.

Read what I have been writing since morning. Investment cash flow and others should be the source of loan servicing and should NEVER be capital appreciation

Leverage is a NO for 90% of us, but it is very good for about 10% or less of us.

Such people must have an above average knowledge of the stock market, should know how to value a business, have multiple streams of income, the total loan should not be more than 3 times of the most recent annual dividend earned by their portfolio, have a good risk management in place.

It takes someone with cash flow to buy stocks every month, instead of buying an undervalued stock every month for the next 2 years, why can't one get a loan equivalent to to the amount that would be invested for next 24 months.

Streetinvestor2:
Nobody has advocated for such in this thread.or you prove me wrong

Abi ooooo, he did not read to digest what I wrote.

Harddiskng:
At the bolded is an entirely new discussion.

You just said you have the ability to service the loan irrespective of whether the venture you took the loan for succeeds or not.

Let’s always clarify, there are different kinds of people reading this, including those without the ability to service the loan if the venture fails. For them using loan to buy stocks should be a capital NO.

Is anybody here a baby that needs to be spoon-fed? The role of discussions is to compare strategies and analysis. If anybody copies without domesticating strategies, then he/she shouldn't be in the market in the first place.

3 more trading days for peteru santa bullshit to happen. Peteru will Japaul still close at #15.
I said it won't see #3.You partner in crime came and dumped on people. He will be back in January to set new trap.I wounder how you guys feel when chopping this kind money with your family. Do u guys do prayers before eating..lol.Do you guys see it as God blessings just thinking aloud
My pastor said something strong today he said, some gifts comes to steal or rubbish ones destiny

Agbalowomeri:
Is anybody here a baby that needs to be spoon-fed? The role of discussions is to compare strategies and analysis. If anybody copies without domesticating strategies, then he/she shouldn't be in the market in the first place.

You would be surprised what some people would take away from a conversation when it is not properly clarified

It is not about being a baby or not. You can see the influx of people new to this.

Some would likely take it as an advice from a veteran, undermining the risk.

I can’t count how many stock suggestions that should be ignored some people have taken here and had their fingers burnt.

Point 2, how do i know the real financial fundamentals of any company we choose to invest with please,kindly guide me am new to stock trading.

Harddiskng:
I see some post and i am like wow, rookie mistake. Been there, done that.

I remember trying stocks like 10 years ago, I put in 1m and lost 40% of my portfolio value lol, then just sold them off. Guess what each of thhose stocks are doing over 500% from that time. I still have one (like 100 units) i forget to sell and i kick myself every time i see it.

I came back to stock investing this year (2/3 months ago) and i left those 100 units as a reminder.

So far so good these are some things i have learnt (still learning). They have worked for me really well, you can give it a try or not

1) Never make a particular stock more than 25% of your portfolio value. It’s a good stop loss.
2) It is better to be in for the long haul, so buy companies with good financial fundamentals. Then give them time. I don’t plan on selling any of my buys in the next 5 years.
3) Make investing a habit. Come rain, come sun shine.
4) Don’t follow the crowd blindly, do your research!


Please add yours

sundayakasdy:
Point 2, how do i know the real financial fundamentals of any company we choose to invest with please,kindly guide me am new to stock trading.

ChatGPT can help you with the basics (see screenshot). With time you can up with your own system.

System - currently I have an excel template I developed myself, i just need to copy recent data from some websites and it populates. The ascepts I check might not resonate with you. That’s why you need to come up with your own system.

Guys pls, what's ur view of Access bank

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_BuqmrMx4zc

A few stocks I'd be watching closely in this week's trading session on the NGX.

Did you just say "new to stock trading" it should be "new to stock investing".
Just be careful, ngx can humble one if you don't know what you are doing.
Many people have the wrong impression of the market hence the reason why many labeled it as scam.
The same way someone makes hundreds of million on a stock, another buyer losses hundreds of million also.

sundayakasdy:
Point 2, how do i know the real financial fundamentals of any company we choose to invest with please,kindly guide me am new to stock trading.

https://x.com/i/spaces/1yNxabpZmEWKj

Discussing the Vitafoam FY 25 numbers, PZ Cussons Nigeria and our expectations this week for the NGX.

Evidence dey

Mpeace:
Just be getting ready to retire to the village oh. FBNH is now at 53 and not looking back. I saved the post.

I currently have 12 stocks in my portfolio, looking to bring it down to 6: BETAGLASS, GTCO, MTNN, NAHCO, PRESCO, SEPLAT, TRANSCORP, UACN, VITAFOAM, WAPCO, WEMA
ZENITH.
I love Zenith, MTNN, WAPCO, SEPLAT. I’m looking for more undervalued gems like Vitafoam for the new year. It’s been a while since I’ve analyzed the market.

hopeful95:
Greetings. What are the stocks to watch out for next year?

Sunrisepebble:
I currently have 12 stocks in my portfolio, looking to bring it down to 6: BETAGLASS, GTCO, MTNN, NAHCO, PRESCO, SEPLAT, TRANSCORP, UACN, VITAFOAM, WAPCO, WEMA
ZENITH.
I love Zenith, MTNN, WAPCO, SEPLAT. I’m looking for more undervalued gems like Vitafoam for the new year. It’s been a while since I’ve analyzed the market.

Keep the following

1. Presco
2. Nahco
3. Zenith
4. Vitafoam
5. GTCO
6. WAPCO

emmanuelewumi:
Keep the following

1. Presco
2. Nahco
3. Zenith
4. Vitafoam
5. GTCO
6. WAPCO

Vitafoam might go into full bid from tomorrow. At what price do you think one should stop chasing it. I will love to buy it and hold for medium term

I like Vitafoam. I initially bought at N23 this time last year, and I’ve bought more since then, avg price is now around 50, if it does another 50% from current price. I will be thinking of exiting the position.

emmanuelewumi:
Keep the following

1. Presco
2. Nahco
3. Zenith
4. Vitafoam
5. GTCO
6. WAPCO

vacanci:
Vitafoam might go into full bid from tomorrow. At what price do you think one should stop chasing it. I will love to buy it and hold for medium term

I love @bolded.

Harddiskng:
1) Never make a particular stock more than 25% of your portfolio value. It’s a good stop loss.
2) It is better to be in for the long haul, so buy companies with good financial fundamentals. Then give them time. I don’t plan on selling any of my buys in the next 5 years.
3) Make investing a habit. Come rain, come sun shine.
4) Don’t follow the crowd blindly, do your research!
5) Always at what price, you should stop chasing a particular stock

vacanci:
Vitafoam might go into full bid from tomorrow. At what price do you think one should stop chasing it. I will love to buy it and hold for medium term

I stubbornly placed a bid at 87, then 88 and didn't get.

I won't be bidding for it if it starts from full bid. I will wait for it to come down. If not, I won't be buying it anymore.

NSEstudent:
I stubbornly placed a bid at 87, then 88 and didn't get.

I won't be bidding for it if it starts from full bid. I will wait for it to come down. If not, I won't be buying it anymore.

Be patient. Gravity is coming for this stock

nosa2:
Be patient. Gravity is coming for this stock

On the charts, yea, but sentiment will probably push it higher before it comes down.

I have all the time to wait