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Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie: 6:54pm On Dec 31, 2025
victorazyvictor:
Sooooooooooo trueeeee
As a married man, if you see babes that is lining up for me eeh, If I want to dey lash every day I will BUT omo, I give the 20k, hotel 10k, food 10k , trans 10k..... na 50k ooo do that for 20 babes a month na N1m grin mehn I dey control am abeg... 2 don call me today.
Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie:
pigmania:
When the money goes, will the honey stay?
Why dem go stay? Would you advise your sister to remain with a man who can't afford to feed her and her children, for that matter? 🥱🥱
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie:
Gbadugbakun:
✓ But a lot of girls who cannot afford 3 square meal go into relationships.
✓ Why should it be good for them and bad for us?
1. If you don't want them to be able to do that, then get a registry marriage where you don't need to be the sole provider unless your arrangement with the woman suggests it best. 🥱🥱🥱

2. From where do you get this nonsense idea that lacking financial independence is good for women..any woman? Who fed you that nonsense idea? A woman without financial independence is literally a slave and a joke waiting to be exploited and that happens like literally 95% of the time. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie: 7:01pm On Dec 31, 2025
Criksus:
Not an issue for debate na, simply choose to stay single till you are financially stable or be in a relationship without financial stability, but remember whatever decision you make, na you go still enjoy/suffer am. Choose wisely grin
Tell that lie to all of the children born into poverty each day. They are the true victims here. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Munashak: 7:02pm On Dec 31, 2025
I hope this applies to both genders?.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by bobogogo: 7:21pm On Dec 31, 2025
pigmania:
When the money goes, will the honey stay?
Op needs to go and watch that music video.
That is one of the good rap songs on relationships.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by missionmex(m): 7:22pm On Dec 31, 2025
CandyOps:
That’s why is vital both parties have a means of income. I carry babe comot. Small thing 15k done go. Very risky venture for a jobless man to engage in
Invite them come house, cook simple meal for them and you won't spend that much. Some of them like it like that.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by bobogogo: 7:27pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Why dem go stay? Would you advice your sister to remain with a man who can't afford to feed her and her children for that matter? 🥱🥱
If she cant feed herself, then she belongs to the streets.
THat kind of woman cannot make a decent home.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Tosinville(m): 7:35pm On Dec 31, 2025
bobogogo:
Op needs to go and watch that music video.
That is one of the good rap songs on relationships.
Fabolous / Jay z, nice rap song
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by bobogogo:
Tosinville:
Fabolous / Jay z, nice rap song
You are right.
If a billionaire like jay z can ask that question then i dont know what to reply op.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Mistersolar: 7:51pm On Dec 31, 2025
uve been restless
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
By this time last 3 years,I was having peace of mind undecided. Not until this banny deceived me into a relationship which has been affecting my kidneys and lungs angry
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Anasys: 8:12pm On Dec 31, 2025
And yet your punishment for corrupting the land with fornication and adultery awaits you. Today I pass by my customer shop and guest what? Obituary was pasted on the door of the shop. I walked closer to check and was told she died and is buried.
I just remember the scripture that says it's appointed ..........to die.... Judgement. You better use your time well. Stop fornication and adultery in the name of dating and relationship.
Accept Jesus and his command. Or...
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by pigmania: 8:37pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Why dem go stay? Would you advice your sister to remain with a man who can't afford to feed her and her children for that matter? 🥱🥱
So called woke generation who think they are smarter and better than their parents because they had early access to the internet and AI. How much your papa get when he marry your mama, are you saying that he never went broke along the line? Are you a product of a broken home? Well, my sister is a business woman abroad and her 3 kids are not citizens of Nigeria, her 15 yr old son is already earning in America, so I think she'll still be doing fine without a man. You should be advising ladies to live productive lives and stop encouraging leeches.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by pigmania: 8:43pm On Dec 31, 2025
bobogogo:
Op needs to go and watch that music video.
That is one of the good rap songs on relationships.
I no know the kind of ladies wey evolution curse my generation with o, always jumping ship or swinging when they meet a bigger fish.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Entanglement: 8:47pm On Dec 31, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
By this time last 3 years ago,I was having peace of mind undecided. Not until this banny deceived me into a relationship which has been affecting my kidneys and lungs angry
lol 😂 😂
Bro I can definitely relate 😂😂

This is me right now grin grin
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie: 8:56pm On Dec 31, 2025
pigmania:
➜So called woke generation who think they are smarter than their parents because they had early access to the internet and AI. How much your papa get when he marry your mama, are you saying that he never went broke along the line?
➜ Are you a product of a broken home? Well, my sister is a business woman abroad and her 3 kids are not citizens of Nigeria, her 15 yr old son is already earning in America, so I think she'll still be doing fine without a man. You should be advising ladies to live productive lives and stop encouraging leeches.
I am glad the woke generation has refused to live like pushovers just like their grandmothers and mothers before them did. 🥱🥱

2. Call your sister to Nairaland, make we hear her side of this story! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by victorazyvictor(m): 9:07pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱
Ok
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by pigmania: 9:11pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I am glad the woke generation has refused to live like pushovers just like their grandmothers and mothers before them did. 🥱🥱

2. Call your sister to Nairaland, make we hear her side of this story! 🥱🥱🥱
You are glad that feminism is thriving, and you're not smarter than your mother and grandmother because they were contented with what they had and respected their wedding vows. Wetin my sister dey find for nairaland? Are you not aware that most smart people come here when they are bored or just want to pass time? My mom had to go take care of her twice when she had her last two kids, and no, it wasn't even her husband that bought the flight tickets, my family didn't wait for him. Should I also invite my mom to nairaland so you can hear her side of the story too?
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Nobody: 9:15pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kingogbotor:
Relationships nowadays and personal finance go in consonance..sometimes I wonder how someone that cannot give himself 3 square meal is going into a relationship....
Lol! I dated my girlfriend, I didnt spend asides the times we went out.

We are happily married! Its not money money money all the time
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie: 9:20pm On Dec 31, 2025
pigmania:
➜You are glad that feminism is thriving, and you're not smarter than your mother and grandmother because they were contented with what they had and respected their wedding vows.
➜Wetin my sister dey find for nairaland? Are you not aware that most smart people come here when they are bored or just want to pass time? My mom had to go take care of her twice when she had her last two kids, and no, it wasn't even her husband that bought the flight tickets, my family didn't wait for him. Should I also invite my mom to nairaland so you can hear her side of the story too?
1. They are not smarter, yet they have more rights today than their grandmother and mothers?🥱🥱🥱

2. Invite your sister and your mother so they can come tell us the true story! 🥱🥱
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by pigmania: 9:27pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. They are not smarter, yet they have more rights today than their grandmother and mothers?🥱🥱🥱

2. Invite your sister and your mother so they can come tell us the true story! 🥱🥱
Lol, you just validated what I've been saying. Did they give themselves the 'more rights' or cried for it? Even gaays have rights in developed countries today, does that make them smarter or high in IQ? You always argue offpoint, sounding like a crack addict. I should invite my mom to nairaland just to explain and impress an irrelevant person like you? Na now I confirm say you no get common sense. I know you'll secretly hate on women who are living productive lives and holding their homes down, with respect for their husbands.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by bobogogo: 9:30pm On Dec 31, 2025
pigmania:
I no know the kind of ladies wey evolution curse my generation with o, always jumping ship or swinging when they meet a bigger fish.
They are confused and coupled with the poverty level in nigeria, they tend to always be in the SURVIVAL MODE.
the survival mode pushes them to do the unthinkable and later so many of them regret it.
in a prosporous nation or country, women are in the LIVING MODE.
It is in the living mode a woman can truly love.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by jaxxy(m): 9:32pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kingogbotor:
Relationships nowadays and personal finance go in consonance..sometimes I wonder how someone that cannot give himself 3 square meal is going into a relationship....
I hope u are talking to the broke girls too?

How can a girl who can't pay her tfair be dating a guy and turning him to her personal ATM machine? undecided
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by pigmania: 9:41pm On Dec 31, 2025
bobogogo:
They are confused and coupled with the poverty level in nigeria, they tend to always be in the SURVIVAL MODE.
the survival mode pushes them to do the unthinkable and later so many of them regret it.
in a prosporous nation or country women are in the LIVING MODE.
It is in the living mode a woman can truly love.
I got drunk after Christmas and wrote to my ex-girlfriend that I was not in Nigeria and would like her to give me a baby and I'll support her with $500 per month. Omo she don agree o! Sending me nudez and sh*t. Now she writes me everyday on whatsapp asking me when I'm coming home so we can carry out our plan of her giving me a baby. Poverty na bastardd oh! Na her current boyfriend/lover I pity pass. She is willing to give it to me again back to back just because I mentioned dollars. Now I don't know how to tell her I was just drunk and catching cruise, she come serious pass me about the matter o! I dey reason block her seff.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie: 9:48pm On Dec 31, 2025
pigmania:
Lol, you just validated what I've been saying. Did they give themselves the 'more rights' or cried for it? Even gaays have rights in developed countries today, does that make them smarter or high in IQ? You always argue offpoint, sounding like a crack addict.
✓ I should invite my mom to nairaland just to explain and impress an irrelevant person like you? Na now I confirm say you no get common sense. I know you'll secretly hate on women who are living productive lives and holding their homes down, with respect for their husbands.
1. Illiteracy/lack of basic language comprehension skills is an illness in this day and age. 🥱🥱🥱

2. I have repeatedly asked that you call your sister and mother forward to tell us their side of this story. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Eminado1: 9:54pm On Dec 31, 2025
Two of them cannot provide three square meals as individuals but if they both bring their once a day meal to the relationship, maybe they both eat twice.

Kingogbotor:
Relationships nowadays and personal finance go in consonance..sometimes I wonder how someone that cannot give himself 3 square meal is going into a relationship....
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Hhh4444: 9:59pm On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. Illiteracy/lack of basic language comprehension skills is an illness in this day and age. 🥱🥱🥱

2. I have repeatedly asked that you call your sister and mother forward to tell us their side of this story. 🥱🥱🥱
This is derogatory...what has his mother got to do with this whole thing?
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by bobogogo: 10:58pm On Dec 31, 2025
pigmania:
I got drunk after Christmas and wrote to my ex-girlfriend that I was not in Nigeria and would like her to give me a baby and I'll support her with $500 per month. Omo she don agree o! Sending me nudez and sh*t. Now she writes me everyday on whatsapp asking me when I'm coming home so we can carry out our plan of her giving me a baby. Poverty na bastardd oh! Na her current boyfriend/lover I pity pass. She is willing to give it to me again back to back just because I mentioned dollars. Now I don't know how to tell her I was just drunk and catching cruise, she come serious pass me about the matter o! I dey reason block her seff.
Hahahaha...
That is it o!
When a woman is not financially capable and finds herself in an environ of poverty, she activates her SURVIVAL MODE.
At this point she is desperate for anything. It happens even in marriages.
When you have a girl child, educate her and train her to be contented and to watch the kind of friends she keeps.
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kingzjayzee: 12:32am On Jan 01
CandyOps:
That’s why is vital both parties have a means of income. I carry babe comot. Small thing 15k done go. Very risky venture for a jobless man to engage in
my brother, no be small risky venture o
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kingzjayzee: 12:35am On Jan 01
Kingogbotor:
Very rare situation...


U work in the same office ..collect almost the same salary .or slightly different..she go still expect u to dey foot some of her bills...and still tell u she doesn't have money ..
that one na wickedness pro max na. Better run for your dear life
Re: Dating Is For Those That Have The Financially Ability by Kobojunkie: 12:56am On Jan 01
Kingogbotor:
➜Very rare situation...
U work in the same office ..collect almost the same salary .or slightly different..she go still expect u to dey foot some of her bills...and still tell u she doesn't have money ..
Women no dey fun una with gun to your pricks, to marry dem naw. So why all of these wailings that you are to foot 100% of the bills if you intend to marry her traditionally — you want to live as oga at home over her, despite working in the same office with her, and you both submit to the same boss at that? 🥱🥱🥱
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