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Dtruthspeaker:
That is why if you don't do her back ehn, .... Make I keep am for mind

Hahahaha, calm down. I will relay the full gist on how she felt whether I give her or not

Kalulu44:
Lolz, no mind her

Correct guy. Abeg make she 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.

If you count you go see say Na 24 tears. 2 for each month of the year.

Kalulu44:
➜There's definitely nothing wrong with that, but she has refused telling me. Is it you or any other stranger she will tell.

Yes! People are more open to telling absolute strangers their deepest, darkest secrets if they have the chance to. Nairaland, Reddit, Threads, and other nameless, faceless forums provide people with this opportunity to do so.

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, calm down. I will relay the full gist on how she felt whether I give her or not

I dey wait!

I have a feeling you’re a grown man, maybe in his 30s, and THIS is what occupies your mind. That’s fvckin depressing. 😮‍💨

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Guy na runs girl be that na. She na Olosho. She dey do runs. No reason am. Just dey pay am 10k to come make you knack. Finish. No go think say you fit date her else you be the biggest muntula for this world.

Kobojunkie:
So, a part of you does not believe what her friend told you, yet only moments ago, you were content shoving her supposed friend's version of things at me as conclusive detail? 🥱🥱🥱

I believe her friend, and even if her friend didn't tell me. My mind has been thinking of that from the very first day she called me after we thought she was missing and she refused to say what happened.
So I still needed her to say her own version.
But since she can't say it, it's definitely guilty conscience that's worrying her

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Control her come your house for another round. Try to convince her that you'll give it to her when she comes. When she comes, ask for sex, tell am say you go give her after the sex. Then give it to her. And chase that stupid Olosho out of your life. Me know say na another man she go meet when she ghosted on you. Lol. Na their way. Useless things.

Tenrack:
Guy na runs girl be that na. She na Olosho. She dey do runs. No reason am. Just dey pay am 10k to come make you knack. Finish. No go think say you fit date her else you be the biggest muntula for this world.

Date wetin, date fire. As I dey talk to you so. Today na the last time wey I go get anything to do with her. I just say make I ask you, shey make I give her the money or not

Kalulu44:
➜I believe her friend, and even if her friend didn't tell me. My mind has been thinking of that from the very first day she called me after we thought she was missing and she refused to say what happened. So I still needed her to say her own version. But since she can't say it, it's definitely guilty conscience that's worrying her

. It's OK. Since you both have nothing together, you don't need to worry yourself about her and her conscience. Just please invite her to join Nairaland to pour out her woes and sadness on the pages here.

Double0h7:
I have a feeling you’re a grown man, maybe in his 30s, and THIS is what occupies your mind. That’s fvckin depressing. 😮‍💨

Is it not the same thing that has been your occupation since primary school when you use style to accumulate and take our only biro even though you had one?

Ashy business will burn down from this year.

Kalulu44:
Who's the boy if I may ask?

Dem ban me before...
How old are you?

Wahala dey sleep yanga go wake am....

She would hit you back

Man don chop finish. Buyers remorse don enter. Normal level. It’s why I don’t see the point of hard to get. Sometimes — most times, it turns the guy off after he gets the cookie. Many Naija girls have zero substance to back it up.

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

No give shishi 😕

You supposed enter this year sef?

Dtruthspeaker:
Correct guy. Abeg make she 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.

If you count you go see say Na 24 tears. 2 for each month of the year.

Hahahaha

Kalulu44:
So I now have a promise to fulfill, so you skip the part on how she fail to fulfill her own promise a year ago and how she has refused saying what happened on that day after a year

No be so oh bro. Agreement na agreement.
If she's someone you didn't know before, it's a different case. But this is someone you know and trying to have an amorous relationship with.

If you ask her to come and she didn’t make it, you lockup and forget that phase. At least she came this time and even during sex she told you she came because of the money.
Ehn, Since you know she came because of the money, then you can clearly propose a "friend with benefits". Nothing spoil for tht kind arrangement na.

Majorly, naa all of them dey run that kind parole. No saints.

Kobojunkie:
Yes! People are more open to telling absolute strangers their deepest, darkest secrets if they have the chance to. Nairaland, Reddit, Threads, and other nameless, faceless forums provide people with this opportunity to do so.

That's true sha

RealityKings1:
No be so oh bro. Agreement na agreement.
If she's someone you didn't know before, it's a different case. But this is someone you know and trying to have an amorous relationship with.

If you ask her to come and she didn’t make it, you lockup and forget that phase. At least she came this time and even during sex she told you she came because of the money.
Ehn, Since you know she came because of the money, then you can clearly propose a "friend with benefits". Nothing spoil for tht kind arrangement na.

Majorly, naa all of them dey run that kind parole. No saints.

I understand, but why she dey refuse to talk wetin happen that last time. She no even know scared I was then

Gotocourt:
No give shishi 😕

Lolz! Correct guy

RealityKings1:
Dem ban me before...
How old are you?

15yrs

Kalulu44:
➜I understand, but why she dey refuse to talk wetin happen that last time. She no even know scared I was then

You were probably not close enough to her for her to risk being that vulnerable with you. Anyways, you don't need to concern yourself with it anymore since you are done with her. Introduce her to Nairaland, Reddit, and Thread where she can discuss openly without fear of anyone knowing who she is or linking it back to her. 🥱🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
I understand, but why she dey refuse to talk wetin happen that last time. She no even know scared I was then

Got absolutely nothing to do with you any more.
That part is solved

Kobojunkie:
. It's OK. Since you both have nothing together, you don't need to worry yourself about her and her conscience. Just please invite her to join Nairaland to pour out her woes and sadness on the pages here.

Ok I will do that, and I will screenshot her reply

Tenrack:
Control her come your house for another round. Try to convince her that you'll give it to her when she comes. When she comes, ask for sex, tell am say you go give her after the sex. Then give it to her. And chase that stupid Olosho out of your life. Me know say na another man she go meet when she ghosted on you. Lol. Na their way. Useless things.

Omoh! I no get anything to do with her again. If I tell you wetin happen during the s*x, you sef no go advice me to continue

Kobojunkie:
You were probably not close enough to her for her to risk being that vulnerable with you. Anyways, you don't need to concern yourself with it anymore since you are done with her. Introduce her to Nairaland, Reddit, and Thread where she can discuss openly without fear of anyone knowing who she is or linking it back to her. 🥱🥱🥱

Ok o

Dtruthspeaker:
For what?
Woman, she played him now it's her turn to be played.

Kalulu, oya tell us say you use the money take do give away to the poor. Let her learn ashy no dey pay

Lolz! Calm down, I go gist una

Double0h7:
I have a feeling you’re a grown man, maybe in his 30s, and THIS is what occupies your mind. That’s fvckin depressing. 😮‍💨

What's this one saying, as that's what occupies my mind. What will happen to me?