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Richtaiwo:
You have mum, aunties and sisters, are they foreign?

Look at how you describe a person sister and and auntie.

don't mind him, he's equally describing his mum,sisters and aunties ways of life.

fineboynl:
Normally a guy can go several length to collect number from the babe he saw and end up not calling her thereafter.

here is why.

Most guys actions are driven by impulse when they see a babe they like or an attractive woman. At that moment it triggers their urge to woo her. And sometime It will even get funny when the babe turn them down.

And they will come another day and do some things like a showoff just to impress her. Then she will let him have the number. But after that moment she will never see him again or hear from him.

It means lost of interest after getting it. It's a similar thing with guys. Like when a guy looses interest after sleeping with a babe.

Fear to express themselves.

When they meet the girl one on one, they loose confident and start fidgeting.

benalvino3:
You collect random girls numbers in the road to improve your life?

How can your life be improved with statements and reasoning like this?

You are now equating your longtime friends to random people you saw in the streets. Weldon okoro

you collect numbers on the road?

nairalee:
Many reasons top of which is financial.

Majority of ladies nowadays really have little to offer than sex. Since most of them have now turned everything to a transaction, it's even cheaper and less stressful to get an olosho than the entire routine of a normal girl

how do you handle billing

HeadNigga:
Let me quickly call Esther that gave me her number yesterday. Too busy these days... sometimes I forget the name I used in saving them...more than 1,500 contacts on my phone...

Haha bhad nigga

donmik:
Ya..., what I do mostly is to chat her up with hi first.

If her response doesn't encourage me, I cut off.

After all, my pleasure is not many female friends but a lovely wife with friendly heart

how do you handle billings

nairalee:
Many reasons top of which is financial.

Majority of ladies nowadays really have little to offer than sex. Since most of them have now turned everything to a transaction, it's even cheaper and less stressful to get an olosho than the entire routine of a normal girl

Lol

Kalulu44:
It’s their chats that’s worse.
They don’t say more than yes, ok, what. They don’t know how to start conversations. They want you to start everything. So annoying

how do u handle billings

benalvino3:
You collect random girls numbers in the road to improve your life?

How can your life be improved with statements and reasoning like this?

You are now equating your longtime friends to random people you saw in the streets. Weldon okoro

Read to understand bro

Kalulu44:
It’s their chats that are worse.
They don’t say more than yes, ok, what. They don’t know how to start conversations. They want you to start everything. So annoying

It's not always true for all guys. If a girl likes you, she will be the one buzzing your phone. If she needs convincing to like you, you are going to work for it. Which is annoying because their responses have no leads. It just ends conversations awkwardly.

PepeXKermit:
Read to understand bro

I fully understand. The original post is talking about a guy liking a girl and wanting her number, then losing interest. This guy is talking about a stranger he saw, took her number, and is expecting her to improve his life by discussing business plans, right? If she knew she was up for that task, she would not have given him her number. If you were just discussing random stuff and you both saw a common interest (business), and she decided to give her number, that would be understandable.

Carot:
how do u handle billings

No be who get who dey bill am go answer that question

I can’t relate because they always call. 💅

Just to test her patient if she's serious

The last one i collected called first

reddingtonblack:
I dont think your arguement is Fair although i can relate, 1st what kind of gurlz do you for

You can't possibly compare your G's with a gurl you just met .. the talking stage are not the same, you can discuss business ideas with your G's cos it more ideal man to man, i gist business idea with my female gist

Buh for a gurl i just met nd getting to know for r/ship ... i cant be asking her kin lo di owo i.e what turns to money
Our gist will borders around likes,gist, romance and hangout more .. as the r/ship progress we can dive into each other niche

As a man you are made thats why you want a woman, you dont need a woman when you are still finding yourself, gurlz let pocohantas will frustrate you go 3rd mainland GR jumpin

You have to wonder why a senseless post like that is getting so many likes 🤣

The girls are not the ones with unreasonable expectations here. The guys now have tables for a brain which is why they are stuck at "what do you bring to the table" these days.

The problems of Nigerians girls are not new, it is well established but the men are beginning to match them and soon we will have parity.

b0rn2fuck:
Not men want to settle for a relationship where they have nothing to offer, most Nigerian girls are brainless and they believe in their buttock and upfront while men always assume calling their numbers to test our level of confidence a times and nothing else serious after all, sex is the cheapest things

Dont just say Gurlz are brainlezz, perhaps the kind of gurlz you are attracted to or you surround yourself,
i am proud of gurlz i have dated rite from my secondary school .. my 1st gurlfriend i still remember our meeting at a cousin place it was almost like a debate, her cousin my friend was just lookin dazed like whats happening

i was speaking with an Ex yesterday .. nd she shared some things she just did .. i was so impressed i feel challenged

Thats why i say what class of gurlz do you attract, even you weytin be your class .. there are sounds gurlz out there buh sey you meetup that class

Offpoint1:
Not that I've collected any random lady number. I see know reasons I'll collect any random lady number... But for the fee I've engaged and exchanged numbers with... Most Nigerian ladies don't have that conversational vibes.
They're mostly one word converse rats "fine" "cool" "good" "yes" "nothing" "hmm" "IDK" etc... No matter how hard you pushed to spice up the conversation, it's always the same. Only few pass the vibe test.

Never text.

Rather make a VN or call ..

.most of them are usually too lazy to write even just a ten word essay ..

Richtaiwo:
You have mum, aunties and sisters, are they foreign?

Look at how you describe a person's sister and auntie.

From your own account, it seems your advances are consistently, declined. My condolences. Relationships, after all, are a fully democratized enterprise: everyone has the inalienable right to say no, and in your case, they appear to be exercising that right with remarkable consistency.

Where did he say they are rejecting his offer ? The problem is the economy men are no longer thinking about bedroom first. In an economy like this men need women who are more encouraging and who can actually offer ideas.

na association of men way the use their head be that

Carot:
how do you handle billing

I just post them. Ask me for money and I'll say let me see what i can do by next week. Next week, Rinse and Repeat till they give up.

Yet despite this effective strategy I spend nothing less than 10k weekly on different billings from people (mostly females)

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benalvino3:
You have to wonder why a senseless post like that is getting so many likes 🤣

The girls are not the ones with unreasonable expectations here. The guys now have tables for a brain which is why they are stuck at "what do you bring to the table" these days.

The problems of Nigerians girls are not new, it is well established but the men are beginning to match them and soon we will have parity.

Most of this guyz claiming gurlz are brainlezz, if we are opportune to read there chat to gurlz we go cover eye for them

You collect a gurl working at the bar number.. you dey expect career inspired convo no be juju be that
what Boiz need to know is Ladies that have brain as you say Have standard, they are picky and not easily available

if you find her, can you keep up thats my question to we boiz

Ki

Sonnobax15:

She pass medicals no mean say she go be part of the team

BTW,men are getting wiser nowadays. Even if you should decide to call her,she won't say anything meaningful . So what's the essence of collecting numbers let alone wasting away my precious time on calling one native hen who would only end up being a part of my wasted time? >:

I like you because of this answer

That reminds me ,let me call this girl I met at crossover service 2024 . Very jovial girl

reddingtonblack:
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Most of this guyz claiming gurlz are brainlezz, if we are opportune to read there chat to gurlz we go cover eye for them

You collect a gurl working at the bar number.. you dey expect career inspired convo no be juju be that
what Boiz need to know is Ladies that have brain as you say Have standard, they are picky and not easily available

if you find her, can you keep up thats my question to we boiz

You have seen it. You know there is a major problem when many sees that post as a sensible post 🤣

If a girl knows her giving your your number is to improve your life, I am sure she won't be doing that.

I've stopped collecting and giving my numbers to girls.
I've stopped that shit and ever since then I've been a happy man.

benalvino3:
You collect random girls number in the road to improve your life?

How can your life be improved with statements and reasoning like this?

You are now equating your longtime friends to random people you saw in the streets. Weldon okoro

Improvement and development could happen at any time with any one.
Goal oriented and visionary people are not difficult to have discussion with.
Irrespective of the situation they met

Lol...All these mgbeke boys forming Chris Brown. Girls have nothing to offer bla...bla..bla.. As if they can offer anything better.😏😏😏

JibolaUsman:
Where did he say they are rejecting his offer ? The problem is the economy men are no longer thinking about bedroom first. In an economy like this men need women who are more encouraging and who can actually offer ideas.

You mean they need a woman.

Why can't your sisters and friends fill this role? If you want to be with a woman who can do this (which is not bad), will she still be the one after you make it?

If she has those ideas, why would she give them to you when you are not convincing?

You just don't mean a girl, and she starts giving you ideas; you have to know each other, go on a date, and she commits to you first.

ledaman:
Improvement and development could happen at any time with any one.
Goal oriented and visionary people are not difficult to have discussion with.
Irrespective of the situation they met

You go to a bar or club, or to the bus stop, or to Chicken Republic, and you see a girl you like. You expect her to start having business discussions with you on how to improve your life? Or both of your lives when you don't know each other?

You guys are saying something just to appear smart.
It's nothing short of a blame game.

You have friends and family but you want to rely on a stranger you saw at the bar. There is nothing wrong with saying you want to marry a smart woman but the way to go about it is nothing like this.

Improving your life should not be at the forefront.