₦airaland Forum

Vikto17:
how percentage of 18-23 girls fall into this category? give me verifiable link or data of 50 Nigerian girls below 25yrs that are CEO of their business or have built any reputable organization by themselves? you are twisting everything around with the 2 percent u knew and that is not right

my last paragraph sums up my talk. Don't give a generalized false statement.
I am neither for or against marrying younger or older gals.

I am only responding to your general conclusion by saying gals below 25 are liabilities. Which may not be true.

You shud be the one to tell us where you got ur statistic from abt younger gals?

Vikto17:
were in the post did u see me make any generalization... u are desperately trying to drag an argument were there is none ,,, did l hold u on the throat and ask u not to marry them? why all this defense mechanism?
If you are a guy man u can't use one girl you met on nairaland to make a hasty generalization on a topic like this... date more ,, relate with more of them and then make ur assessment...and if you are not convince u can exist the topic to another one

Oh you are still here
For one I never made any hasty generalization like you did I only made a reference. You know my dating history? All these small boys sef
What I know about women first hand from my escapades and personal experiences, You will never learn in your lifetime and I know this from what you drop down here, you lack experience. I was and I am still letting you know that a woman who is ready to be a wife doesn't necessarily need to be above 30 or older than 23. People learn from family around them, by their own experiences, from their environment, peers, learning etc so you saying ladies in their early 20's aren't marriage ready is my argument. See excerpts from the Op below

In conclusion if a younger woman is not bringing finances, not bringing a good career and not bringing virginity,, how are they better than a woman in her late 20s or 30s..
As man of 33yrs l have dated a lot of them and God knows l will be deceiving my self if l will be taking any of them to the altar,, beyond sex most of them have zero knowledge about life and it realities..just tik tok and social media trends..
Guys who married their age mates and mature girls seems to be enjoying life to the fullest quietly and we are here trying to follow societal norms

Like someone rightly said you attract your likes. If your mind is ugly don't expect a lady with a beautiful one to be attracted to you, in fact you will be drawn to those in your frequency until you learn to vibrate higher whether she's 19 or 29. You can't plant corn and expect cocoa na.

If you have really dated different ladies with an open mind you will now better than to arrive at such a conclusion. And it was your conclusion that made me reply with my initial comment because how can you just wake up to conclude something based off of your limited experience?

And one other guy was talking about wh0rring phase.. I attached the exchange below but because of your limited experience you fail to know that wh0rrng phase isn't limited to younger girls alone...

Now...

Many women enter a whrrnng phase as a kind of recovery period like when they thought they found the right man only to be disappointed in the relationship cos her heart was broken and the she starts pole vaulting from pipe to pipe in a bid to replace and fill up the emptiness left by the bad guy... this category ain't always younger ladies, they are the types that have been ran through and they are always bitter about men because they keep looking for love in all the wrong places


Sexual Awakening Phase... These ones are those who were either virgins or have partners who are inexperienced, bias, unadventurous or rigid men scared to try new things and explore sexually so when they meet guys like us they let lose and let go then you start complaining because you are now benched while i'm playing the field. She becomes more aware of her sexuality, more curious, tries to get you to level up but fails and then she lets lose completely to the new found orgasms she never thought existed and sexual awakenings. She realizes sex is fun and not a chore, an art and not a routine job and then she decides it's time to ho it up.


Those who are like good girls at home but gardentools in school with the new found freedom. eg those university girls who engage in gardentooling up because they have never been this exposed to lots of willing pipes and then they are far from home. This also cuts through some older girls who travel for work or vacation, even married women too do this a lot but when they come back home they are saints. We all know these types but except you and your "experienced" crew


The phase of drug addiction. I have met a lot of these types in Lagos young and old. These are the types that do all sorts of ill sh111. I met one who told me she gets freaky with molly. Funny thing is she had a serious relationship then. She was about 25 at the time. Another one crack, rich girl from a good home, works a good job that with a basic allowance of over 500k monthly as at 2 years ago minus other allowances and benefits but you will never know until you can break her which I did. There's nothing she doesn't tell me. I don't do drugs myself. The highest i do is loud and she smokes with me steadily. She's been my enemy cos she thought I would wife her lol. She recently unblocked me and I know cos she now views every thing I post.


And then you have the nymphomaniacs. Biologically wired with very high sex drive. This one isn't even a phase per say cos it's a life long one. Maybe old age might slow her down but she will never lose the lust for knacking random pipes


So you see your argument is nonsense cos you categorize younger girls to wh0rrng phase and you claim to be experienced. Abeg no let me talk to much. It's obvious you still haven't learned a thing about women.

SixSeven:
18-20 fallacy:
There are undergraduates at this age who are in trade while in school. Some of them pay for their school fees through income from their trade.

They are in the minority. I don't like to bother my brain with the minority, as they don't move a needle in the grand scheme of things. The majority of girls in that age range are sponsored by their parents, rightfully so. In fact, it becomes an anomaly if a 20-year-old girl is her sole sponsor. Where are her parents? Her relatives? Her possibly elder siblings? Why is she her sole sponsor?

There are women who are selling in shops at this age. There was someone who brought his problem here asking us if he should marry this woman who was assisting him in his shop, she did not go to school but she was very good and well mannered.

Again, minority. Selling in shops does not mean they own it. The example you mentioned is what I mentioned earlier - he can afford to marry her because he is well-established. He won't be complaining that the girl cannot contribute financially to the household. Did Pa Ned complain that Regina does not contribute to the household bills?

There are 27-35 yo that are so entitled despite working for years.

Yes, but they don't constitute the majority because these are full-fledged adults who have to pay their own bills.

The message that people must earn income to know how to make a home is a fallacy. It's even worse if you have a woman who, because she is earning money will buy you meals from outside because she has money.

It is not fallacious for an adult to earn an income. It is an integral part of adulthood. A full-fledged adult should earn an income to become a thriving part of society. Marriage is full of responsibilities from both sides, and most of these responsibilities require money to cater to them. Knowing how to earn an income is essential. However, if a man decides to marry a lady who does not know how to earn an income or has never fended for herself, he should not expect her to contribute to the household.

I agree with you to get off the internet and meet real people because that is where you will see the properly brought up child. The internet is just a forest where unknown gunmen and women post. Some people think they will never find Virgins at a certain age. The Internet keeps misleading them

It is good that we agree on this.

Vikto17:
how percentage of 18-23 girls fall into this category? give me verifiable link or data of 50 Nigerian girls below 25yrs that are CEO of their business or have built any reputable organization by themselves? you are twisting everything around with the 2 percent u knew and that is not right

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Sucre6:
If you marry a girl between 18-25 you will regret it, they are still in their whoring age, I know this because i have dated many. Age is just a number and some would be more matured regardless the age but believe me, any girl between that age bracket whether mentally matured or not won't make a good house wife, I am 32 and any girl I want to marry should be at least 27-30 e get why, j have seem my married friends that got married to 18-25 and 27-30. And believe me, those 18-25 marriage never lasted, while 27-30 that are mentally ready and financially stable are still very much in their various marriages,

Not that they don't misbehave but the divorce rate in lower comparing to the later

Arab girls got married at 15 majority of them and they hardly cheat on their husband.

Nigerian girls are worse sets of people.

SixSeven:
When I read your first few words and saw that you've made up your mind, there's no need convincing you with whatever conclusions you already have made up.

Your research of a very limited sample size can never be a representation of the world. But one thing I have learned in life is LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE. When you get to that point on life, you will be able to seive the wheat from the chaff or the other way round. Do what works for you. I wish you well.

We should ask him

Is it not the same girls you avoid at 18 - 25yrs because of promiscuity or wateva inadequacy that will eventually grow up to be 30yrs above he is giving clearance for dating/marriage? Or is there something that wipes off their character defect when they get to 30?

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gerizzim:
We should ask him

Is it not the same girls you avoid at 18 - 25yrs because of promiscuity or wateva inadequacy that will eventually grow up to be 30yrs above he is giving clearance for dating/marriage? Or is there something that wipes off their character defect when they get to 30?

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can you compare the promiscuous habit of a girl of 20yrs ten years ago to the present girls?
bro do what work for you,,,

Once your a girl with TikTok,Snapchat,I can never take you serious..

Auxtan:
Allow us to catch them young. Everything very erect and intact.

Just dey yarn dust

Jokes on you for expecting something from women.
Women are flowers. Admire them, Bleep them, if you have money give them and set them free.
Reduce your expectations.