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sacajawea:
There is something always common in Nigeria from time to time.
Extreme Idiots with small Money. And come comfort. Irritating stuff

With the commonest being oshies taking every man's small and big money to be comfortable and rich. Over irritating

Tenrack:
lmao. My own be say we dey "date" she is a single mom. She collected transport thrice. And each time na different lambs. Even lied that she did heart surgery 😭😂 another time it was her grandma eye surgery. Lol be like Yoruba babes nai dey do this nonsense. Well, I don learn Sha. Na me go dey find love. Girls wey don die on the inside.

My own na double dating. Cos during holiday period both guys will need her thats how the whole thing will cast

TheFreshVanilla:
What a foolish bus driver. Imagine pulling up your bank balance for a runs girl just to prove a point. Hopefully she finds a way to drain the last pennies.

The thing just weak me, I swear!!!
2026 God abeg oooo....70 year old man fa!!

What did I just read.

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Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
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So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
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So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
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Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
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So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
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She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
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So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
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P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Ur parents already warned you about this kind of girl.butnu won't listen till you enter trouble

Kobojunkie:
He promised he would. 🥱🥱🥱

Won't the whole stuff become transactional thereby making her look like those who trade their private parts?

omoredia:
My own na double dating. Cos during holiday period both guys will need her thats how the whole thing will cast

men. These ladies no dey let marriage look appealing at all again beta to just get one or two pregnant pay them off if the money dey. Marriage no favour man again. These hoes ain't loyal

Emeskhalifa:
Won't the whole stuff become transactional thereby making her look like those who trade their private parts?

the girl na Olosho. Na the guy no quick code. All of us have been there. Most of the females out there are either corporate prostitutes or hook up girls. Even your so called "classy" working class girls. To find a responsible girl in this generation is like looking for a needle in a hay stack. It's not impossible but what are the odds?

Tenrack:
men. These ladies no dey let marriage look appealing at all again beta to just get one or two pregnant pay them off if the money dey. Marriage no favour man again. These hoes ain't loyal

I am married now enjoying my marriage. Women are different u cant make a queen our of a street girl.

IF YOU LIKE DON'T GIVE HER THE MONEY TILL SHE BRINGS POLICE TO YOUR HOUSE TO SAY THAT YOU RAPED HER AND TRUST ME ....WITH THE STORY YOU JUST GAVE THAT SHE DISAPPOINTED YOU PREVIOUSLY BY NOT SHOWING UP FOR FOK....EVERYBODY WILL BELIEVE HER

AND YOU DECIEVING HER TO FOK YOU THAT YOU WILL GIVE HER 10K AND YOU REFUSED TO GIVE HER AFTER FOKING HER...YOU WILL STILL BE CHARGED FOR RAPE

IF YOU THINK AM TALKING NONESENSE GO ASK ANY POLICEMAN OR WOMAN

Kalulu44:
It seems you guys are reading only one part of the story and ignoring the rest. This is not a one off meeting. Didn’t you read the part I said she was receiving 2k daily from me for 3months. Not to forget other times I give her extra cash to get her personal things.
Thru out that period she didn’t allow me get down with her. And she promised by herself to do it on the 31st only to give me the biggest disappointment of that year.
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So why is my own now being singled out without touching on what she did previously.

no give her shishi. If you go give. Tell her to come your side, say you go give am. Tell am say but you go straff am o. Say you prepare something nice for am. Just buy her food wey she like. Knack am then give am the 10k then dismiss her out of your life.

omoredia:
I am married now enjoying my marriage. Women are different u cant make a queen our of a street girl.

for real. But even the good ones no dey send responsible guys. Them dey pursue players. E just the tire me.

UPDATE:
Good morning and happy weekend to each and everyone of you on this space.
Thank you all for commenting both good and bad. And also thanks to the bot and mods who pushed it to the front page, even though I am a little bit angry at the bot who suspended me for replying someone who talks about loving her and I replied with “love gbakwa oku”
How was I suspended bcus of that comment still baffles me.
.
Now to the matter at hand. I want to use this one stone to kill about many quotes and mentions to me.
Let me start by doing small introduction about myself.
I’m a 45yr old guy, from the south east part of the country but born, brought up and I have lived 95% of my life in Lagos. So it won’t be bad if I say I be “Omo Eko”.
I finished my tertiary education way back in 2004, Auchi Poly, Edo state. A Benin girl gave birth to my 3 kids of 2 boys and a girl who’s the last born and 16yrs old now.
The mother of these 3 kids is nowhere to be found since 2010 she left us in Lagos to travel to Benin.
Rumour has it that she has travelled abroad, and we have since lost contact.
Five years ago, I lost my car trying to go look for her when someone hints me she’s in town. I didn’t see her, and her family house has been sold after the death of her father. And so I couldn’t get anyone to give me information about her whereabouts or information or even family members. It was on my way coming I was robbed of my car at some kilometers to Okada town.
Let’s put all that aside.
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At least to the person that gave me compliments about my writing, thank you. You can now see I went to school before delving into public transport.
Now, I want to start answering each and everyone of you. Many people called me a “simp”. And to be very honest, that’s what I’m. But I want to say this, majority of us guys here claiming hard man hard man. Have one way or the other simp for a woman even though they won’t admit it.
And talking about simping, “honestly it was on this Nairaland I first heard and know the meaning of simp”. This life is turn by turn, I was once a ladies man. Back in College of Commerce in Warri till my Auchi poly days. I know how women rush me like Indomie. And I know how I played them, and even be collecting money from them. The lady that later have my kids, her name is Joy. At that same time I was dating two other babes that their names are Joy too hahaha, what a coincidence. Anytime I rmbr it, I always laugh at myself and said to my friends then “dem wan use Joy kill me o”.
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How I became a simp according to most of you, (even though I don’t see anything wrong in taking care of a girl and trying to show her you love her in your own way) I still don’t know. Sometimes I take it as a payback and karma for what I have done to them ladies back in the days, cus I won’t lie, I disappointed so many.
After my kids mama went away. I focused on taking care of my kids. And thank God, my first child is in year 2 in the university. My 2nd child is learning a trade and the last girl just finished her waec.
They’re all living in their father’s house (though modest) built by his sweat of driving for 20yrs.
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For close to 5yrs my kids mama left (wondering why I keep calling her kids mama, we never officially got married apart from family introduction) I focused on my children and didn’t chased after women like that. Though I still do one or two flings here and there, and sometimes do olosho to keep body and soul together.
But from 2020, I started looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. But the truth is, I wasn’t interested in over 30yrs ladies. So I was looking for between 23-28. I am in my early 40s but without boasting, I still look like mid thirties and I can’t carry a lady that they will say looks older than me.
But the problem of getting that age grade I am looking for, you have to simp or should I say simp for them. Bcus they genz eyes don tear finish and you have to come down to their level to understand them.
So from that 2020 till now, I have met and dated like three but they didn’t come to any fruition until I met this one that warranted this post two years ago.
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I thought this one will be serious cus we started on a positive note, cus she was all over me and caring at the beginning which warranted my keeping her on a daily 2k which lasted for 3months, even though someone on this post has already calculated 2k times a year plus hahahaha. And my reason of that daily 2k was for her to be thinking if he can be doing this when we are just friends and dating, then he can do more if we marry.
But I was wrong, at 24 she already has 2 kids which I have already investigated and found out but she keeps denying it is her aunty kids and she’s the one taking care of them. Until the evidence was overwhelming, was when she caved in and confessed, that was almost Xmas of 2024. From that day, my respect for her vanished and the thing I have for her flew away from my heart. But I still needed to chop that cookies, that was why I was still playing calm and nice to her.
And I thought the day to eat the cookies has come when she promised on the 31st night of 2024, only for her to crash my expectation at the die minutes. I have my own house, maybe bcus of my kids she suggested we book a hotel room which I did and spent 20k plus for room and other side entertainment, but at the end she failed to show up. And the most painful part is, till date she didn’t apologize or give reasons for what happened that day.
Thru out last year we didn’t see eye to eye apart from once in a blue moon chatting.
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It was that same last year, early in March that I retired from driving and gave my brand new bus to someone to be using and deliver for me daily.
I’m now managing a farm owned by a relative living in the US. The salary is not upto quarter of my earnings while driving. But the place is conducive, with peace of my mind and good for my resting from agbero and passengers wahala. There’s 24hrs solar light and a nice and befitting apartment. My children are now grown up and can take care of themselves. I see them twice in a month and send money to them as often as I can.
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LATEST UPDATE:
The girl is a lucky girl, I am going to send the money to her by exactly twelve even though she has been bulging me since yesterday. I’m not sending it bcus she deserves it or bcus some of you said one negative thing that will happen or the other, but bcus just this morning, a driver colleague of mine just sent me 50k from the 100k he has been owing me since April last year. I think he won from “Baba Ijebu” and honestly I have already zeroed my mind from that money. So she’s a lucky girl and I will give her. But that will be the end of anything between me and her.
Thanks everyone for your contributions both positive and negative I really appreciate it.

Reduce the urge to shalaye,,,relax uncle

Kalulu44:
UPDATE:
Good morning and happy weekend to each and everyone of you on this space.
Thank you all for commenting both good and bad. And also thanks to the bot and mods who pushed it to the front page, even though I am a little bit angry at the bot who suspended me for replying someone who talks about loving her and I replied with “love gbakwa oku”
How was I suspended bcus of that comment still baffles me.
.
Now to the matter at hand. I want to use this one stone to kill about many quotes and mentions to me.
Let me start by doing small introduction about myself.
I’m a 45yr old guy, from the south east part of the country but born, brought up and I have lived 95% of my life in Lagos. So it won’t be bad if I say I be “Omo Eko”.
I finished my tertiary education way back in 2004, Auchi Poly, Edo state. A Benin girl gave birth to my 3 kids of 2 boys and a girl who’s the last born and 16yrs old now.
The mother of these 3 kids is nowhere to be found since 2010 she left us in Lagos to travel to Benin.
Rumour has it that she has travelled abroad, and we have since lost contact.
Five years ago, I lost my car trying to go look for her when someone hints me she’s in town. I didn’t see her, and her family house has been sold after the death of her father. And so I couldn’t get anyone to give me information about her whereabouts or information or even family members. It was on my way coming I was robbed of my car at some kilometers to Okada town.
Let’s put all that aside.
.
At least to the person that gave me compliments about my writing, thank you. You can now see I went to school before delving into public transport.
Now, I want to start answering each and everyone of you. Many people called me a “simp”. And to be very honest, that’s what I’m. But I want to say this, majority of us guys here claiming hard man hard man. Have one way or the other simp for a woman even though they won’t admit it.
And talking about simping, “honestly it was on this Nairaland I first heard and know the meaning of simp”. This life is turn by turn, I was once a ladies man. Back in College of Commerce in Warri till my Auchi poly days. I know how women rush me like Indomie. And I know how I played them, and even be collecting money from them. The lady that later have my kids, her name is Joy. At that same time I was dating two other babes that their names are Joy too hahaha, what a coincidence. Anytime I rmbr it, I always laugh at myself and said to my friends then “dem wan use Joy kill me o”.
.
How I became a simp according to most of you, (even though I don’t see anything wrong in taking care of a girl and trying to show her you love her in your own way) I still don’t know. Sometimes I take it as a payback and karma for what I have done to them ladies back in the days, cus I won’t lie, I disappointed so many.
After my kids mama went away. I focused on taking care of my kids. And thank God, my first child is in year 2 in the university. My 2nd child is learning a trade and the last girl just finished her waec.
They’re all living in their father’s house (though modest) built by his sweat of driving for 20yrs.
.
For close to 5yrs my kids mama left (wondering why I keep calling her kids mama, we never officially got married apart from family introduction) I focused on my children and didn’t chased after women like that. Though I still do one or two flings here and there, and sometimes do olosho to keep body and soul together.
But from 2020, I started looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. But the truth is, I wasn’t interested in over 30yrs ladies. So I was looking for between 23-28. I am in my early 40s but without boasting, I still look like mid thirties and I can’t carry a lady that they will say looks older than me.
But the problem of getting that age grade I am looking for, you have to simp or should I say simp for them. Bcus they genz eyes don tear finish and you have to come down to their level to understand them.
So from that 2020 till now, I have met and dated like three but they didn’t come to any fruition until I met this one that warranted this post two years ago.
.
I thought this one will be serious cus we started on a positive note, cus she was all over me and caring at the beginning which warranted my keeping her on a daily 2k which lasted for 3months, even though someone on this post has already calculated 2k times a year plus hahahaha. And my reason of that daily 2k was for her to be thinking if he can be doing this when we are just friends and dating, then he can do more if we marry.
But I was wrong, at 24 she already has 2 kids which I have already investigated and found out but she keeps denying it is her aunty kids and she’s the one taking care of them. Until the evidence was overwhelming, was when she caved in and confessed, that was almost Xmas of 2024. From that day, my respect for her vanished and the thing I have for her flew away from my heart. But I still needed to chop that cookies, that was why I was still playing calm and nice to her.
And I thought the day to eat the cookies has come when she promised on the 31st night of 2024, only for her to crash my expectation at the die minutes. I have my own house, maybe bcus of my kids she suggested we book a hotel room which I did and spent 20k plus for room and other side entertainment, but at the end she failed to show up. And the most painful part is, till date she didn’t apologize or give reasons for what happened that day.
Thru out last year we didn’t see eye to eye apart from once in a blue moon chatting.
.
It was that same last year, early in March that I retired from driving and gave my brand new bus to someone to be using and deliver for me daily.
I’m now managing a farm owned by a relative living in the US. The salary is not upto quarter of my earnings while driving. But the place is conducive, with peace of my mind and good for my resting from agbero and passengers wahala. There’s 24hrs solar light and a nice and befitting apartment. My children are now grown up and can take care of themselves. I see them twice in a month and send money to them as often as I can.
.
LATEST UPDATE:
The girl is a lucky girl, I am going to send the money to her by exactly twelve even though she has been bulging me since yesterday. I’m not sending it bcus she deserves it or bcus some of you said one negative thing that will happen or the other, but bcus just this morning, a driver colleague of mine just sent me 50k from the 100k he has been owing me since April last year. I think he won from “Baba Ijebu” and honestly I have already zeroed my mind from that money. So she’s a lucky girl and I will give her. But that will be the end of anything between me and her.
Thanks everyone for your contributions both positive and negative I really appreciate it.

Dtruthspeaker:
You don't need to promise to have a contract. Did you not see that she gave him now that he had dried her? She was only trying to gain triple double times. So he has already paid for what he got for if he didn't she would never had opened up

"You don't need to promise to have a contract". But yeah, he did promise, so let him fulfill it.

Tenrack:
no give her shishi. If you go give. Tell her to come your side, say you go give am. Tell am say but you go straff am o. Say you prepare something nice for am. Just buy her food wey she like. Knack am then give am the 10k then dismiss her out of your life.

I just drop the latest update

josite:
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Ur parents already warned you about this kind of girl.butnu won't listen till you enter trouble

Go read my latest update

Dtruthspeaker:
All of be you oo. Guys telling you to give her have brain clot

I just drop the latest update

KobolanderSegun:
Bros please forgive me o.... Bros I am very sorry the post was rather long so I forgot your kindness to her.

You are a very good man and a kind hearted man to give a babe 2k a day without knacking her is True Love. I don do am before back in the day.... E no pay me ooooo......

She did not apologize for Not showing up.
I think you are WAY TOO GOOD for the Babe.
I have been in your shoes before, in love and treating the Babe well.
What I would advice is reduce your feelings for the Babe.

From what you have said I think she is using you. If a woman can receive N2,000 a day for sometime and not apologize for a no show then she is not appreciative.

If I was in your shoes I'd reduce the money I give her by 75 percent from N2,000. I'd give her just N500 and watch her response.

I think you should give her the money you promised her for the sex and then drastically reduce it from thereafter.

In my bachelor days when I want to dump a girl who is not appreciative I will simply tell her " I am Broke " knowing she will dump me, when I am the one who wants to dump her.

Then I go shopping buying Chivita , Soft Drinks, Friedrice,Shawarma, Chocolate and newspapers and throw a one man party, celebrate my freedom. Then I watch television for the first time in a long time, I enjoy myself celebrate the money I'm no longer giving her.

Once again Thumbs up to you for wondering why she did not apologize when she did not show.

Maybe she was planning to kidnap herself and you will pay ransom to herself before she frees herself. Omo Nigeria Don Spoil...... Shine Your Eyes.

Thanks man for the understanding, I just drop an update about the situation

captainking:
Sorry to say.

But you are not that smart man...
You have all the answers you are looking for in front of you...
Meanwhile...you put a girl on 2k daily from your 10k daily...damn...thats even more than 10% tithe churches collect...
Who made the rule that you must fund a girls lifestyle?? Esp one that clearly sees you as a mugu...
Give her the 10k and stop that 2k daily and data nonsense before you do frog jumps wella.

I understand all what you said. If you read from start to finish, you will see the 2k ended since December 2024. We didn't see thru out last year and I didn't drop a dime for her.
As for giving her the 10k, go read my latest update

Trojan8:
As most people have said, you be mumu man. When you were giving her 2k per day, was there any agreement between the both of you? You acted like a simp and that's it. This other one is a business transaction and you have to pay up. It's crazy that you work in a public space as a bus driver and you are willing to play with your life because of common 10k. Some of una no actually dey reason. There's no point looking for issues because of that petty amount, it's not worth it. Get some kind wahala wey worth the stress, this one no follow at all.

If you like no follow advice, na you sabi.

Lets say I agree I was mumu man, but now I decided to wise up. What say you about that

Killermamba:
give her the money and block her asap

I don't even need to block her, but that ystday was the last time I will have anything to do with her.

Sainturch1:
2000 daily x 365 days = 730,000.
500(every 2 days) x 365 ÷ 2 = 91,250
730,000 + 91,250 = 821,250

Hahahaha, you try well well mathematician. Na 3mnth you don calculate to a year plus

Trojan8:
If you already know that you don't have plans of sending her the money, why did you create this thread exactly?

Honestly I haven't decided on that yet, opinions here have swayed my mind. And besides she's a lucky girl. Read my latest update

jubrilELsudan:
IF YOU LIKE DON'T GIVE HER THE MONEY TILL SHE BRINGS POLICE TO YOUR HOUSE TO SAY THAT YOU RAPED HER AND TRUST ME ....WITH THE STORY YOU JUST GAVE THAT SHE DISAPPOINTED YOU PREVIOUSLY BY NOT SHOWING UP FOR FOK....EVERYBODY WILL BELIEVE HER

AND YOU DECIEVING HER TO FOK YOU THAT YOU WILL GIVE HER 10K AND YOU REFUSED TO GIVE HER AFTER FOKING HER...YOU WILL STILL BE CHARGED FOR RAPE

IF YOU THINK AM TALKING NONESENSE GO ASK ANY POLICEMAN OR WOMAN

Na play you dey

harrisonlucky:
Reduce the urge to shalaye,,,relax uncle

But you read the shalaye Sha?

ResearchHedge22:
"You don't need to promise to have a contract". But yeah, he did promise, so let him fulfill it.

It wasn't a written contract bro

ubev01:
How old are you? 10? And how come a 10yr old is a bus driver?

8 wonders of the world isn't it

Kalulu44:
It wasn't a written contract bro

True, it wasn't written, but I believe as humans whenever we make promises, it is humanly that we should always honour. After all, he had gotten what he wanted.

ResearchHedge22:
True, it wasn't written, but I believe as humans whenever we make promises, it is humanly that we should always honour. After all, he had gotten what he wanted.

Lolz! I'm the person here. But anyways I have sent it to her, but I just made this post to see if people will see her fault too