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It will surprise you that women do not really need the money they are asking from you,E shock you?
These creatures know they are fully grown adults and an adult is suppose to be responsible for their upkeep not depending on another adult to survive ,a man who understands this principle and adheres to it is well respected by women.
The main reason women constantly bill you for two reasons, first one is the she needs you to spend on her for validation and ego purpose,spending on a woman wouldnt make her love you no, it will only boost her self esteem,she will be like wow, a man spends on money that means I am very beautiful and special then she can brag to her friends.

Secondly, a woman asks you for money as a test to see how desperate, needy and stupid you are they do this subconsciously, most women subconsciously view men as worthless and slaves to be used and dumped it's only a few men they find attractive, so the rest are to be used and dumped,once you pass that desperation test then you are considered a potential partner.

Goodmarlian:
It will surprise you that women do not really need the money they are asking from you,E shock you?
These creatures know they are fully grown adults and an adult is suppose to be responsible for their upkeep not depending on another adult to survive ,a man who understands this principle and adheres to it is well respected by women.
The main reason women constantly bill you for two reasons, first one is the she needs you to spend on her for validation and ego purpose,spending on a woman wouldnt make her love you no, it will only boost her self esteem,she will be like wow, a man spends on money that means I am very beautiful and special then she can brag to her friends.

Secondly, a woman asks you for money as a test to see how desperate, needy and stupid you are they do this subconsciously, most women subconsciously view men as worthless and slaves to be used and dumped it's only a few men they find attractive, so the rest are to be used and dumped,once you pass that desperation test then you are considered a potential partner.

The women told you so...? Even Hakimi's wife needed the money!

Woman only bill weak men.

They keep billing different men to accumulate money, most times to buy frivolities.

Good analysis. We have the needy, the greedy, and the competitive. Once entitlement starts, just know you've become a 'scheme.' Some ladies only bill you because they’re comparing your 'performance' to what their friends’ boyfriends are doing—it’s a social competition for them.

Also, never overlook the 'investment' strategy. Some women want you to spend so you’ll be too 'invested' to leave easily. It’s their way of making sure the relationship wasn't a 'free' experience for you if things eventually crash. It’s less about love and more about leverage.

pointblank247:
Woman only bill weak men.

You got it wrong. They will bill you to test you. If you fall then you can say the man is weak.. for those that won't fall you can't call them weak

SpencerForbes:
Good analysis. We have the needy, the greedy, and the competitive. Once entitlement starts, just know you've become a 'scheme.' Some ladies only bill you because they’re comparing your 'performance' to what their friends’ boyfriends are doing—it’s a social competition for them.

Also, never overlook the 'investment' strategy. Some women want you to spend so you’ll be too 'invested' to leave easily. It’s their way of making sure the relationship wasn't a 'free' experience for you if things eventually crash. It’s less about love and more about leverage.

You know the game. The person who invest more,will hardly wants the relationship to break. So you will keep investing,and she keeps misbehaving. That is why simps suffer a lot.. and the bad guys (players) always win in the game of manipulation (what the ladies call relationship in Nigeria)

Hmmmmmmmmm

A girl was on my neck to do Christmas for her
Despite her bombarding me
I stood my ground and refuse to give her shishi

Then after 2/3 days I meet her again
To my surprise, she treated me with so much respect and admiration.

I was expecting her to vex for me because I refuse to give her money.
Instead the opposite that happened

She was giggling and smiling at me with those love eyes. Omo I no send her shaa

I no dey give pass 1,100 Naira..

Lol stingy man.

Women dey fear to ask me for anything. We only talk about business and work.

I stingy pass you.

Precious201010:
I no dey give pass 1,100 Naira..

RollinTNDA:
Hmmmmmmmmm

A girl was on my neck to do Christmas for her
Despite her bombarding me
I stood my ground and refuse to give her shishi

Then after 2/3 days I meet her again
To my surprise, she treated me with so much respect and admiration.

I was expecting her to vex for me because I refuse to give her money.
Instead the opposite that happened

She was giggling and smiling at me with those love eyes. Omo I no send her shaa

keep lying to feed your ego...

What makes you special ?

Ode raised to power 30...

Well I’d say to always have a max budget in mind you’re willing to spend on any girl till the moment you nack. Esp if she’s giving you the green light.

If no green light no spend

unamamatoto:
keep lying to feed your ego...

What makes you special ?

Ode raised to power 30...

May Ogun strike you if I'm saying the Truth

Giving women money is bad if it’s because you want to save face and ego….

A matured man knows how to say NO, it doesn’t make you a stingy man but rather a man that understands value.

A matured woman regardless of age can say NO to a man that asks her for her pussyy … that doesn’t make her a bad woman but a high class woman.


So there’s nothing wrong in turning down a woman that ask for money…

I give money to any gender only when it’s a life and death situation and I’m present in person to confirm it, no matter the amount, if I can take care of the entire bill, I do it as long as I can confirm in person that it’s for saving of life…also I give out money as payment for a service rendered, I pay you for your work or job.

Outside that, I don’t give out money, weda to a man or a woman… rather I look for how to get a job for the person.

RollinTNDA:
Hmmmmmmmmm

A girl was on my neck to do Christmas for her
Despite her bombarding me
I stood my ground and refuse to give her shishi

Then after 2/3 days I meet her again
To my surprise, she treated me with so much respect and admiration.

I was expecting her to vex for me because I refuse to give her money.
Instead the opposite that happened

She was giggling and smiling at me with those love eyes. Omo I no send her shaa

You're obviously inexperienced!

She didn't show you that she's angry because she intends to manipulate you and you've fallen for it. I pity you! You will pay through your nose, just mark my words.

Meanwhile, that assertion that women only bill men for validation is a fallacy o. Unless we're talking about hardworking women and not the hungry mofos roaming the streets of Lagos. Those "I never chop ladies" no send your papa o. Them go bill you steady until you'll repent from adultery and fornication.

Back then before I got married, my strategy of dealing with women was simple. I spend what I can afford to gamble with on them, since I no dey kukuma play Bet9ja nau, na something go collect am from me. After spending my disposable income and getting the dividend in terms of knacking, I end the relationship in my mind by not paying a dime again. Unless of course she wants to be doing it for free. Which of course, I don't mind.

ravensckar:
You're obviously inexperienced!

She didn't show you that she's angry because she intends to manipulate you and you've fallen for it. I pity you! You will pay through your nose, just mark my words.

Meanwhile, that assertion that women only bill men for validation is a fallacy o. Unless we're talking about hardworking women and not the hungry mofos roaming the streets of Lagos. Those "I have chop ladies" no send your papa o. Them go bill you steady until you'll repent from adultery and fornication.

Back then before I got married, my strategy of dealing with women was simple. I spend what I can afford to gamble with on them, since I no dey kukuma play Bet9ja nau, na something go collect am from me. After spending my disposable income and getting the dividend in terms of knacking, I end the relationship in my mind by not paying a dime again. Unless of course she wants to be doing it for free. Which of course, I don't mind.

I’d have said something, but he’d probably think I’m just quoting a textbook. I was just reading his points and smiling to myself.

The truth is, she knows he’s got money. She’s playing the "good girl" role to see if he falls for it or if he’s just testing her. If this drags on for more than two weeks, she’ll either move on or start using him for other purposes. He thinks he’s won, but she’s only just made her first move. If he lets his guard down, she’ll strike so hard he won’t even be able to tell the story out of shame.

As they say, while you’re nursing the hope of intimacy, she’s nursing you for billings. It might not happen immediately, but after that first night, it takes a very disciplined man to avoid the trap.

RollinTNDA:
Hmmmmmmmmm

A girl was on my neck to do Christmas for her
Despite her bombarding me
I stood my ground and refuse to give her shishi

Then after 2/3 days I meet her again
To my surprise, she treated me with so much respect and admiration.

I was expecting her to vex for me because I refuse to give her money.
Instead the opposite that happened

She was giggling and smiling at me with those love eyes. Omo I no send her shaa

You're still a big SIMP. For you to have even bothered about whether she was angry with you shows you're weak. Strong men no send how they feel. All she needed to do was put in a little pressure and tact and you'd have emptied your bank account for her

There is a natural law known as the “accumulative effect”, or in biblical terms, known as the “Mathew principle” (Mathew chapter 25:29).

It simply means that when you have, more will be given to you. But if you don’t, the little you have will be taken away from you. In other words, the rich will get richer and the poor gets poorer.

Women can smell insecurity, and since the source of most men’s insecurity is finance, they punish such men by milking them of their little cash, and in an attempt for such men to prove they are man enough, they give the little they have to her.

The real men who are secured in their finance get gifts and financial support they don’t really need and do not suffer this humiliation like the former, since they are the prize, and if such a girl brings her dirty character, they dump her instantly.

Such girl knows it is in her interest to be with a masculine man hence, they will be in their best behaviour to bag a secure man, but a demon to an insecure man.

Same girl, different mask.

pansophist:
There is a natural law known as the “accumulative effect”, or in biblical terms, known as the “Mathew principle” (Mathew chapter 25:29).

It simply means that when you have, more will be given to you. But if you don’t, the little you have will be taken away from you. In other words, the rich will get richer and the poor gets poorer.

Women can smell insecurity, and since the source of most men’s insecurity is finance, they punish such men by milking them of their little cash, and in an attempt for such men to prove they are man enough, they give the little they have to her.

The real men who are secured in their finance and masculinity do not suffer this humiliation, since they are the prize, and if such a girl brings her dirty character, they dump her instantly.

Such girl knows it is in her interest to be with a masculine man hence, they will be in their best behaviour to bag a secure man, but a demon to an insecure man.

Same girl, different mask.

That was really insightful. 💯

I actually ran a little social experiment of my own and noticed that women often avoid taking too much from wealthy men early on, just to prove they aren't after the money. But that changes quickly if the man starts acting like a simp. I really like that you emphasized masculinity alongside finances.

If a rich man lacks that masculine edge, they’ll just drain his pockets and spend it on the broke guy in the trenches who actually understands female psychology. Any man looking for a long-term relationship needs to understand women's nature.

My big question is: why are we seeing fewer women supporting men like they used to? Back in the day, women were the backbone, making sure their men succeeded. Is the shift due to internet exposure, feminism, or just a reaction to how men have behaved in the past?

SpencerForbes:
My big question is: why are we seeing fewer women supporting men like they used to? Back in the day, women were the backbone, making sure their men succeeded. Is the shift due to internet exposure, feminism, or just a reaction to how men have behaved in the past?

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There is a cultural warfare that has been active since the invention of social media. The endgame is to sow hatred between men and women, destroy traditional cultural values, and make us less happier and easily controlled.

Anyone who is not well-grounded in a sophisticated belief system (eg religion) will be led astray by modern culture which prey on weaker minds, and women are their prime target.

You asked about the reduction of women supporting men, but this is just a symptom of it, and one of many ways this modern, toxic culture expresses itself.

Example of such cultural warfare is the oversexualisation of music, revealing dressing, breakdown of the family system, hatred for structure and order, glorification of short term impulsive pleasure, disdain for traditional cultural values, materialism and consumerism, to name a few.

So back to your question.

The reason why it seems like fewer women are supporting men is because true masculine men are reducing by the day, and women are programmed to see men not as their ally.

Men are also victim of this modern culture, and if men veer off from who they are, then they will suffer, and women will be their karma.

Things like this are what different groups try to address and iron out, like redpillers who always teaches men to level up and not be a victim of modern women who have become agent of modern culture that will destroy them at the end.

Precious201010:
I no dey give pass 1,100 Naira..

you must be a generous man to even add pos charge

I don't think I will marry a Nigerian lady.
Most of them are damaged and they don't know what they want.
They just keep stressing young guys.

OP na woman ooo,we know them by their post..If she no need the money then why not return it?..

Precious201010:
I no dey give pass 1,100 Naira..

You Dey vex oo

RollinTNDA:
May Ogun strike you if I'm saying the Truth

Lol...