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Only men without adequate money thirsts for career driven ladies when a submissive woman would give you all the bliss of life and could be set up in her line of work or business…hard to see any real money bags or odogwu chief marrying a career driven woman.

Real successful men with money are never threatened by a woman's own successes. It's only men with nothing going for them other than their narrow-mindedness and myopic thinking who believe a woman can't be both.

NotOfThisWorld:
Real successful men with money are never threatened by a woman's own successes. It's only men with nothing going for them other than their narrow-mindedness and myopic thinking who believe a woman can't be both.

Some women don’t wanna be submissive while some pretend to be. It takes a lot of humility to be both financially stable and submissive.

A career driven woman can still be submissive but they're hard to find. That being said a submissive woman is what any sane man wants and then again not all women who aren't career driven women are also submissive.

toboizilla:
Some women don’t wanna be submissive while some pretend to be. It takes a lot of humility to be both financially stable and submissive.

If some don't want to be, then find the ones who do. Idk how some can pretend to be but that should definitely be obvious because if someone's pretending to be submissive, they'll tire out of that pretence sooner or later. Besides, a good woman will have no problem submitting to a good man (treats her well, performs his duties as a man, whatever that is to them). If no woman wants to be submissive to you, then look in the mirror because you're likely the problem.

Generally in life!

You find peace in people moving with the orientation of who they are not what they are.
So it depends on personality training from childhood.


Everyone is special in his or her own way of uniqueness.

They are still many self made women that are submissive as a wife.

Wealth comes with pride...how many tich men are humble?..few i guess...how many poor men.are humble..many, I guess..

Some women you see as submissive, are submissive cus they are not financially stable...while some that are financially stable won't take some things a broke woman would take...
The point is as a man how do you define submissive?..a slave?..a woman that won't speak no matter what?

No two relationships are the same,just be a good person first of all,respect,submission, love,should be earned NOT enforced or tagged on career or anything.
They have rich humble men..and also rich submissive women..its all on personality and values

NotOfThisWorld:
Real successful men with money are never threatened by a woman's own successes. It's only men with nothing going for them other than their narrow-mindedness and myopic thinking who believe a woman can't be both.

If you were successful would you be submissive?

Many successful ladies are not submissive and that’s why many men don’t go for successful women.its not about being broke or not able to handle her but she won’t be submissive and no man wants to marry a fellow man

NotOfThisWorld:
If some don't want to be, then find the ones who do. Idk how some can pretend to be but that should definitely be obvious because if someone's pretending to be submissive, they'll tire out of that pretence sooner or later. Besides, a good woman will have no problem submitting to a good man (treats her well, performs his duties as a man, whatever that is to them). If no woman wants to be submissive to you, then look in the mirror because you're likely the problem.

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Curtis03360:
Only men without adequate money thirsts for career driven ladies when a submissive woman would give you all the bliss of life and could be set up in her line of work or business…hard to see any real money bags or odogwu chief marrying a career driven woman.

Perhaps by 'submissive' you mean 'an obedient woman without her own ambitions or career'? History disagrees with you. Modern billionaires like Bill Gates (Melinda French Gates), Mark Zuckerberg (Priscilla Chan), Sergey Brin (Anne Wojcicki), Jeff Bezos (MacKenzie Scott), Elon Musk (Grimes), Mukesh Ambani (Nita Ambani) and many more are married to or dating highly accomplished, independent women.

The truth is, it is insecurity, not wealth, that makes some men feel threatened by successful women. Top men value ambition, independence, and partnership, not blind submission.

I encourage respect, not submission.

The problem with the word submission is not emotion, but definition. Submission is often used to justify control. To submit to someone is to surrender yourself entirely to them. Not all women ends up with a wise men, so submission can be a dangerous game. Imagine submitting to a foolish man. If he is cruel, jealous, or insecure, submission becomes perilous. If he says destroy your business, you must obey. If he says tear your certificates, you must comply.

If a husband chooses harm, submission offers no defense. In the hands of another human being, submission is enslavement.

Respecting a partner is not the same as submitting to them. Submission is spiritual; relationships are social. In absolute terms, submission belongs to God alone; the surrender of one's will to God, not to another human being. Human relationships are built on respect, responsibility, and accountability. What is healthy in marriage is cooperation and respect, not surrender of will.

Respect allows wisdom and dialogue; submission silences them. In submission, a man could foolishly command his wife to "hit your head on the wall," and obedience would be expected. Submission easily leads to abuse. A marriage where abuse must be endured in the name of submission is not holy, healthy, or humane.

Submissive ladies are mostly liabilities .

That you are in a relationship, marriage don't mean you have stopped having thoughts of your own.

Big man wants submissive lady, struggling men or middle class want career lady