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Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

You are a rare nigerian woman to speak such way

Maybe you aren't a nigerian Sha

Stay Blessed

helinues:
And they will visit Shiloh till dey reach menopause

What works for Miss A might not work for Miss B.

If you know what you want in a relationship, them you don't need anyone's coaching

as expected. This is a thread where men will come here to wail and cry.you all are so predictable

Lol... This is well covered.

So basically, stay single forever!

Well noted.

won’t it be better they just avoid Men they should continue setting useless rules till age catches up with them

Women are the best manipulator in the world, this lady is still trying to manipulate her gender against men. In anything you do in this life, NEVER MARRY ANYONE WITH ANGER ISSUE

Gotocourt:
Baba, you go chop two weeks suspension 😂🤣😅

Chai, Issorite

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Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

If not that you are married I would have come for you

The most important question both gender should be asking their man/woman is : What make you special from the other person? What value are you bringing/adding to my life?


I found out that most women, I have asked these...do not have answers to this expect for the obvious caring, honest...bla bla, as if I am looking for someone that doesn't care or one that is dishonest...

If, you know what you want in a relationship...these questions should be your priority so that you both are aligned with same vision and goals in your relationship. Relationship is not just sex but about real partnerships. The world has revolving and we should revolve with it.

Chimex002:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4eIeLWVw6q0

Diamond098454:
Getting married this days is very scary

So many things to consider and reconsider

But u are not ready for it ?
How I wish u are ready.

Offpoint1:
I'm proudly number one. If you don't apologize to me as a woman when YOU'RE AY FAULT forget about anything that has to do with communication with me.

Just dey your dey make I dey my dey until you're back to your senses.

I'm real, if I'm mad I'm mad, if I forgive I forget. No pretense

For your info. A woman who is a home keeper and build is not supposed to be mad.

It's a red flag! Ego destroys faster.

SpencerForbes:
All these ladies think their choices actually affect us 😳🤧
Las las, a man will still get you pregnant and turn you into a baby mama 😂

But her list here are all red flags for any woman.
And it runs the opposite way, any Woman with such traits is a bad choice

Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

One of the few good women spotted
U will make a good wife /mother if truly u belief in yur say

Forget theory

Make practical and experience make u tough

We are humans and changes like chameleons

Marry with eyes open sha

GloriousGbola:
bill sharer

100% naija woman

i am empowered to keep my money for myself while your money is for the family

All other points are even reasonable except that one.

Isn't marriage supposed to be two friends, partners and lovers living and running life together. Why won't my friend and partner share bills with me- isn't that wickedness and selfishness.

So your money is yours but my money is ours? How is that friendship?

Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

Guys, are you sure it's a woman that just typed this? Are you sure it's a Nigerian woman for that matter?

Must the ladies marry?
Why should a lady hinge her happiness on another person 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

FaAbData:
Guys, are you sure it's a woman that just typed this? Are you sure it's a Nigerian woman for that matter?

😂😂😂 NIGERIAN WOMAN, una don really soil what it means to be a woman. Imagine how people are surprised that a Nigerian woman will be so sensible and unbiased in her submission.

E go shocked una soon when real men start boycotting una for the common bad character una dey let unmarried/divorced Content Creators let una build.

What is wrong for partners to Share their bills in their household?Why do some women feel it must be the man that should pay the bills?Such mindset often leads to resentment, indignation, disrespect and bitterness in the family.

helinues:
And they will visit Shiloh till dey reach menopause

What works for Miss A might not work for Miss B.

If you know what you want in a relationship, then you don't need anyone's coaching

......let her continue, na when menopause don they come the woman nor go only share bill, she go they pay the man salary inside the marriage. Biological clock is system put in place to clip the female wings.

Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

God bless you ma'am.

You're one of the few sensible woman on here and I'm happy to know this.

doncartel:
Malice keepers- Iamfraud
Emotional manipulators- Domperignon
Argument winners- Helinues Sangodele
Woman wrappers- Yarimo
Husband materials- Doncartel

"Ezuo ka a-na aha eri anu udele, atotue ngiga.

Igbo proverb.

AMI3:
But u are not ready for it ?
How I wish u are ready.

Smile smile smile

Marriage not on my mind

At all.

Offpoint1:
I'm proudly number one. If you don't apologize to me as a woman when YOU'RE AY FAULT forget about anything that has to do with communication with me.

Just dey your dey make I dey my dey until you're back to your senses.

I'm real, if I'm mad I'm mad, if I forgive I forget. No pretense

What if she use their usual tactic:
instead of Apologizing, Shift 'Yansh' put for him body or face for night!
you wont still bulge?

Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

Lol ....haahahahahahahahahahaha!

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
"Ezuo ka a-na aha eri anu udele, atotue ngiga.

Igbo proverb.

Manoeziokwu, on point

Check well she no dey man house

All these women giving all these tips are just using them to get mentorship money

If u like follow dem teachings

Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

Unfortunately, though all you said is right. But it would still fall on deaf ears. Many women hate accountability.

What about the 7 types of ladies, or maybe even more, that men should avoid if they want to settle down?

Abi ona no get flaws?

Tracypius95:
While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

This advice is also good for those who are looking for angelic government who will turned Nigeria to El dorado overnight without looking inward into their own life and see how their unpatriotic behaviors are contributing to Nigeria problem and backwardness.

In the time past, mothers we're praying for their daughters to get and marry good husbands.

These days, mothers are fervently praying for the sons to get and marry good wives.

The trumpeter is warming up.

UbaPhilipo:
Check well she no dey man house

Even if she dey, na her type they comply with their husband like pikin wey enter Covenant University.