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larion:
➜You did not have to insult, please let's be civil, PLEASE. You can't call someone you dont know unreasonable.

I didn't insult you. You did when you disregarded the subject to post that which in no way relates to the conversation, all because your ego feels bruised by the statements that reflect reality. 🥱🥱🥱

see the rubbish OP post and she is even arguing to be mentally stable No wonder they don't rate women cos this is what you have turn yourself too. are you an object? are you for sale?. Very wayword, Vile and Vanity Generation

TheFreshVanilla:
It doesn’t make any sense applying market logic to human bonds. If money justifies choice, then men who abandon their wife for richer ladies are morally correct, right?

Damn right ..


No truer words has been said..

patrickcollins:
➜She shouldn't be broke while looking for the highest bidder

Wrong! That she is broke is a you problem, not a she problem. You are the bidder, so the power is on you to ensure you only bid on non-broke women if you don't want to bid on broke women.

Basically, if you go out there to bid on a broke woman and then turn around to complain that she is broke, that means you have some serious mental problem going on up there in your head. 🥱🥱🥱

Every woman, regardless of circumstances —whether broke or not broke— has the right to look for the highest bidder.🥱🥱🥱

KobolanderSegun:
Bros you are very close to the kingdom. It's the greed of men that turns the whole thing to a bidding war. The babe is not interested so men bid and bid and bid. Throwing Money away on their lust.

The Post wasn't even about relationships it is about how men chose money over everything then begin to complain when women use the same mindset for them.

200 percent of men will look for a job that pays higher than their present job without batting an eyelid. But when women want to quit a relationship like how men quit jobs, men will be screaming she is a gold digger but when man are looking for more money in their jobs it is called " career advancement ".

Do you know what it feels like for the owner of the company to lose his star ? Take how angry PSG is because Mbappe walked away. Or Napoli and Victor Osimhen, one joker was even saying some nonsense about " work" is less important than marriage. When in real life marriage has become a joke of many sorts.

Brotherly, i saw marry in your post, and that was what informed my decision to write what i wrote, however, i agree with you there that men spend and spend to get a S*X mate. But this is mostly not true for Marriage. Women above 28 are the ones catching them and pinning them for marriage using all manner of tricks.

Ask any averagely stable man above 35, he has a couple of ladies that wants to marry him next week. If it is the same for women, Shiloh wont be Shiloh.

KobolanderSegun:
➜Sadly this is rather true

Nigerian men are not the sharpest tools in the shed.🥱🥱🥱

They go around beating their chests that a woman tried to come back to them, convincing themsleves that when a woman wants them back after dumping them, it means they were the best she had, all this while completely forgetting that when they themselves circle back to the woman they abandoned in the past, they do so, not from a place of love or honesty but a place of manipulation/taking advantage of their gulliblity and naivety. 🥱🥱🥱

But somehow they are unable to put two and two together to realize that the same applies when a woman does it. (She sees they are the gullible low-hanging fruit that would take her back with minimal effort from her end.) 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! That she is broke is a you problem, not a she problem. You are the bidder, so the power is on you to ensure you only bid on non-broke women if you don't want to bid on broke women.

Basically, if you go out there to bid on a broke woman and then turn around to complain that she is broke, that means you have some serious mental problem going on up there in your head. 🥱🥱🥱

Every woman, regardless of circumstances —whether broke or not broke— has the right to look for the highest bidder.🥱🥱🥱

That's why many end up in prayer houses in their mid and late thirties seeking for life partners.

patrickcollins:
➜That's why many end up in prayer houses in their mid and late thirties seeking for life partners.

Wrong! Even the married ones who settled for the lowest bidder among them boku for prayer houses, since they also have to spend their married life praying against their husband's cheating and/or abuse while battling poverty. 🥱🥱🥱

So, it is more rational to settle with the highest bidder, at least avoid the daily battles with poverty, and proceed to enjoy the loot while the man cheats or until she becomes tired of the abuse and is ready to move on from the fixation altogether. 🥱🥱

OredoPikin2:
➜Nawa oo So dating is now full time job🤣 God abeg help our generation

You mean you prefer partial commitments? Yes, you can hold two or more jobs at once, so why not?

CodeTemplarr:
is the employment for life?

See silly question! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian men are not the sharpest tools in the shed.🥱🥱🥱

They go around beating their chests that a woman tried to come back to them, convincing themsleves that when a woman wants them back after dumping them, it means they were the best she had, all this while completely forgetting that when they themselves circle back to the woman they abandoned in the past, they do so, not from a place of love or honesty but a place of manipulation/taking advantage of their gulliblity and naivety. 🥱🥱🥱

But somehow they are unable to put two and two together to realize that the same applies when a woman does it. (She sees they are the gullible low-hanging fruit that would take her back with minimal effort from her end.) 🥱🥱🥱

It sadly works both ways. It's not necessary because of manipulation. If a man suddenly becomes Aliko wealthy all his ex's would become interested in him not because they could manipulate him because they know they can't but to enjoy the fruits of his labor. Also if by chance a woman starts to look better in old age because her yansh becomes bigger as she ages some men will become drawn to her not to manipulate her but to enjoy her new figure. Sometimes people come back because they can no longer be away when the person has more money or the woman has more body

Bidding happens from "MANY" to "ONE" where the one is scarce, not from one to many.

In terms of marriage, there is NO CASE of many men and few women. It's the reverse, women refusing to understand this in their prime is the reason why they go regretting in their late 30s and above. I genuinely wish all women well, but most of them need to be closer to reality.

See what Nairaland is showing me as advert below, are these the women that are being bid for in terms of marriage.... you gotta be kidding me!

For S*X and toy.... yes, which is sad, but for marriage.... NO

MarketDispatch:
➜Why should it only be women? Men too should go for highest bidder .
➜ Would you rather live in squalor or live in affluence? Likewise will you date a poor girl or rich girl?

The traditional since the time of your ancestors has been of men doing the bidding. When your ancestors approached the fathers of the women to place their bid, the girl usually had no say in the decisions that followed. So, the answer to your question is that tradition has had it that way for the longest. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Most men out there intentionally date and marry poor girls. They do the bidding, and they, most of the time, bid on the poor girl, not the rich girl. So, yes, it is not women to blame for men choosing poor girls most of the time, but men to take accountability for that behavior of theirs. 🥱🥱🥱

EBEk101:
➜Since when did freedom mean the absence of responsibility? Yes, everyone can make choices, but morality is about recognizing that some choices are destructive, not just to yourself but to others.
➜ Comparing marriage to smashing a phone is shallow. a phone doesn’t have trust, loyalty, or commitment tied to it.
➜ If you believe morality is simply do whatever you want and face the consequences,
➜ then you’re reducing relationships to transactions instead of bonds built on respect.
➜ True freedom isn’t about indulging every impulse, it’s about choosing what sustains trust and dignity and which I doubt you have any left given what you just typed.

1. Again, morality is an illusion that is typically wielded as a weapon by men against women and children.

2. Marriage has always been transactional from the time of your ancestors; a woman married specifically for the purpose of birthing and raising children was immediately thrown out if she failed to live up to the expectations of her in the marriage. And men have always known this fact. So, why are you incensed that women should now be able to reason along those lines?

3. Again, morality means nothing, so stop throwing the term around as if it should mean something here. 🥱🥱🥱

4. Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

5. Men had freedom to transact as they saw fit when it came to how they used and abused women in relationships for the longest; no one demanded morality be respected by men all that while. But the moment women are granted the same freedom, you suddenly feel morality needs to be included in the mix? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

KobolanderSegun:
➜It sadly works both ways. It's not necessary because of manipulation. If a man suddenly becomes Aliko wealthy all his ex's would become interested in him not because they could manipulate him because they know they can't but to enjoy the fruits of his labor.
➜ Also if by chance a woman starts to look better in old age because her yansh becomes bigger as she ages some men will become drawn to her not to manipulate her but to enjoy her new figure. Sometimes people come back because they can no longer be away when the person has more money or the woman has more body

. I say it is manipulation because coming back usually involves weaseling one's way back into the life one once considered of no value or worth.

2. So long as their intent is not from a place of real desire and care for the woman, but to fulfill their private desires and longings, then some form of manipulation is necessary. 🥱🥱🥱

I am not saying all cases are, but the vast majority of cases out there are from that point... weaseling one's way back into the heart and life of someone you once abandoned is usually, you not considering that person but yourself and your need more. 🥱🥱

And the highest bidder will be Onye nwere ọgwụego (money ritualist) as God live and he will use you for being so useless turning yourself to a market commodity.

Jayhome24:
And the highest bidder will be Onye nwere ọgwụego (money ritualist) as God live and he will use you for being so useless turning yourself to a market commodity.

Tell your ancestors that when they sold off their daughters to the highest bidder. 🥱🥱🥱

Omalicious1:
➜After they will deny that they are into hook up...

They deny it because society does not allow them the same freedom to express they they too are into hookups. The average man out there boasts of being into hookups; women should have the same freedom. 🥱🥱🥱

oluwaseyi0:
➜I'm not against that, what I'm against is stopping the man from having multiple woman if he can afford it just like you can't stop your company from expanding and hiring more people so also should a woman never make attempt to stop a rich man from getting all the woman he want

1. If a man wants multiple women, then there are women out there who do not mind being with such a man that the man can bid on, too. The key is that both parties— the man and every one of the women he intends to form the polygamous union with— consent to such relationships for it to make sense. 🥱🥱🥱

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A) The one that offers him a higher salary or (B) The one that offers him a lower salary ?

A man vows to stay on a Mobile network then the mobile network has financial issues and the man can no longer browse

Should he
(a) stay without internet
(b) Jilt the mobile network for a more stable ( richer network )

Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

Is it buy and sell or demand and supply? Poverty mentality. You should be ashamed.

Kobojunkie:
. I say it is manipulation because coming back usually involves weaseling one's way back into the life one once considered of no value or worth.

2. So long as their intent is not from a place of real desire and care for the woman, but to fulfill their private desires and longings, then some form of manipulation is necessary. 🥱🥱🥱

I am not saying all cases are, but the vast majority of cases out there are from that point... weaseling one's way back into the heart and life of someone you once abandoned is usually, you not considering that person but yourself and your need more. 🥱🥱

Bros if that girl you dump or who dump you all of a sudden somehow changed into the woman you now crave you will feel the force of gravity pull you in her direction.... I had this money minded girl I was dating in the early 2000s . Was extremely beautiful and had all options in abundance plus a very clean pussy cat. What stood her out was her go getter attitude which I really missed she is not on social media like that so I could not be satisfying my eyes looking at her videos. I saw a video of her recently and marveled that she had not grown up, she still loved Owambes, I'm like..... you are 40 years old and still doing Owambes are you not tired?

Then I looked at her body and my wife has a better body from there all my longing ended.

Let's assume she had stopped Owambeying and was more business inclined then I would still think she had a beautiful body. Sometimes What attracts us to our former lovers is the qualities we need now.

JimD:
➜Is it buy and sell or demand and supply? Poverty mentality. You should be ashamed.

It has always been buy and sell since even the time of your ancestors. Back then, they would bring their bid to the father of the woman, and the father usually sold his daughter to the highest bidder, without caring much about the girl's opinion. And yes, those who came with the bids usually offered it as a poverty alleviation scheme. 🥱🥱

The one who should be ashamed is you, knowing of what your ancestors did even before you were imagined, but pretending women are now to blame for continuing what is essentially a tradition.🥱🥱🥱

JimD:
Is it buy and sell or demand and supply? Poverty mentality. You should be ashamed.

The same poverty mentality that makesu rise up and go to work

Kobojunkie:
I didn't insult you. You did when you disregarded the subject to post that which in no way relates to the conversation, all because your ego feels bruised by the statements that reflect reality. 🥱🥱🥱

Don't waist your strength explaining. Average Nigerian man is Nee and her thal

KobolanderSegun:
The same poverty mentality that makesu rise up and go to work

I can see you're the same person as Kobojunkie. The lack of creativity is even baffling. You just need exposure. Go try this highest bidder nonsense in the U.S.

Better pray that God blesses you so that your folks don't have to auction to the highest bidder. Or just pray for basic dignity.

JimD:
➜I can see you're the same person as .... The lack of creativity is even baffling. You just need exposure. Go try this highest bidder nonsense in the U.S.
➜ Better pray that God blesses you so that your folks don't have to auction to the highest bidder. Or just pray for basic dignity.

1. I am in the U.S. and can confirm that the highest bidder is even here in the U.S with a lot of women. People are not as devious as you are there trying to deny women the right to belong to them since even before your ancestors. 🥱🥱🥱

2. See the poor man looking for a cheap/free woman, invoking god as always to cover his brand of wickedness! 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
1. If a man wants multiple women, then there are women out there who do not mind being with such a man that the man can bid on, too. The key is that both parties— the man and every one of the women he intends to form the polygamous union with— consent to such relationships for it to make sense. 🥱🥱🥱

According to the post the man doesn't need anybody permission to get as much women as his money can afford

Who did the woman take permission from before dumping the less rich, why should the man all of a sudden need permission to acquire what he can

oluwaseyi0:
➜According to the post the man doesn't need anybody permission to get as much women as his money can afford
➜ Who did the woman take permission from before dumping the less rich, why should the man all of a sudden need permission to acquire what he can

1. The post makes clear that the woman decides the man she wants, not the other way around. She gives consent after the man has presented his bid.

2. Consent can be given and can be taken back thereafter. If you don't understand your rights as a human being, where your right comes from, then I suggest you go review that before you continue. 🥱🥱🥱

https://www.un.org/en/about-us/universal-declaration-of-human-rights

Kobojunkie:
1. I am in the U.S. and can confirm that the highest bidder is even here in the U.S with a lot of women. People are not as devious as you are there trying to deny women the right to belong to them since even before your ancestors. 🥱🥱🥱

2. See the poor man looking for a cheap/free woman, invoking god as always to cover his brand of wickedness! 🥱🥱

😂. I don't argue with kids, feminists, or atheists. To each his or her own.

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A) The one that offers him a higher salary or (B) The one that offers him a lower salary ?

A man vows to stay on a Mobile network then the mobile network has financial issues and the man can no longer browse

Should he
(a) stay without internet
(b) Jilt the mobile network for a more stable ( richer network )

Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

That's immoral ...and the comparison didn't make sense

She can go for highest bidder with a touch of abuse and disrespect

KobolanderSegun:
So women should stay with a broke ass man ? When are men going to stay with broke ass companies ?

So you will keep on shopping at a supermarket that has empty shelves like the one in Lekki and ikeja when there are supermarkets with full shelves.
Stop spreading lies and delusion

I know you're trolling sha, but as others have pointed out, people are humans. Not objects. Or economic concepts. Or buildings. Or any non-human stuff.

That's the difference here.