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A young single lady has taken to social media to express her desire for a husband. In the video, she declared that she is single and searching, asking those who are interested to contact her.

However, she went on to release an unusual list of criteria detailing what she is looking for.
She said, "I am going to be telling you about myself, so if you feel I am somebody you might want to roll with, hit me up!"

Her number one criterion is that she does not want kids, as she does not want to get pregnant and will not be having children for any man.

Secondly, she stated that she will not be accepting bride price. According to her, the man will not be paying any bride price because she is not going to have a traditional wedding. She explained that they would only be entering into a legal marriage contract by going to court to sign, with witnesses present on that day. No extra rites will be involved, and the man will not be required to pay anything.
She also said they would celebrate together with friends and family as a team. She went further to say that the man will not be required to pay anything or buy anything for her.

Thirdly, she said, "I don't cook, I don't clean. I am not going to be your cook, I am not going to be your cleaner. You are going to cook your food, and I will cook my food."

She explained further that if she is generous enough while cooking her own food, she may include the man. Likewise, if the man is cooking and kindly asks if she wants some, she would appreciate it. However, if she does not want any, the man can simply go on and do his thing.

Fourthly, she said, "I am not submissive. I am not going to submit to you. You are not my head, you are not my leader, we are equal. We are going to be partners in this marriage. I don't need you to be my provider or my protector. I can provide for myself, and I can protect myself. But if out of the magnanimity of your heart you decide to gift me, maybe in cash or gift me flowers and all of that, it is most appreciated and welcomed. It's not your responsibility to provide for me, and I am not going to submit to you."

She further added that they would only be economic partners and companions, stating that the aim of the marriage is companionship. According to her, they would travel together, do beautiful things together, make money together, buy properties together, buy land together, build houses together, and go on vacations together, simply being happy together.

She also emphasized that both partners must support each other’s dreams and goals. She said she would support the man’s vision as much as possible, just as she expects the same support in return. No one, she explained, would be expected to give up their dreams, passions, or aspirations for the other.
She also stated that the man must be willing to relocate to Japan to join her, as she currently lives there. According to her, any man interested in marrying her must be willing to move to Japan.

She said, "Also, I am not going to change my name to your name. I am going to keep my surname; you keep yours. I am not going to change my surname to bear your name."
Lastly, she said the man must be cool, kind, intelligent, mentally intelligent, emotionally intelligent, and mature. He must also have self-worth and security, as those are the qualities she could think of for now.

She then said, "I am just going to show you myself in full so that you see what I look like."
She proceeded to stand in front of the camera, showed herself fully, and did a 360-degree turn.
"This is what I look like, yeah. If you're interested, hit me up," she said, before turning off the camera.

The video has attracted a lot of mixed reactions across social media platforms such as TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, and X (formerly known as Twitter) since it surfaced online. Many users have said she is not ready to settle down, citing her unusual criteria for marriage.

Watch the video and share your thoughts in the comments.

https://gtvdaily.com/single-woman-marriage-criteria/#respond

Summary:
A young woman went viral after declaring she is single and searching for a husband, sharing strict marriage criteria. She does not want children, will not accept bride price, insists on equality, and expects both partners to handle their own responsibilities.

She also requires her husband to relocate to Japan and support mutual goals, emphasizing companionship, independence, and shared success.

The video sparked mixed reactions across social media, with many debating her unconventional rules.

Did she state her pucci mileage so that interested and intentional applicants can know

I wil come back to read comments here

Very funny...


She came back to say she has gotten a partner and she didn't need more applications as she had selected from the ones she got so applications should stop.

She actually got so many applications.


We are living in strange times was my conclusion. But it worked for her and if she got what she wanted then what else?🤷

I Just dey laugh her

Falseprophet1

Why did you leave this thread without prophesying to the lady?

Good for her. With all these rules of her one man go still apply like that

See the worwor thing sef

Giving terms

She never ready

duduade:
See the worwor thing def

Giving terms

She never ready

Please the girl no worwor...

And she got what she wanted!

It's to drive up interest. Open applications and claim you got so many and you've selected.

NO man of value would accept those terms.

brain54:
Very funny...


She came back to say she has gotten a partner and she didn't need more applications as she had selected from the ones she got so applications should stop.

She actually got so many applications.


We are living in strange times was my conclusion. But it worked for her and if she got what she wanted then what else?🤷

MartinCorridon:
It's to drive up interest. Open applications and claim you got so many and you've selected.

NO man of value would accept those terms.

You may be wrong though...

What does value mean? It's relative to individuals. What is of value to you may be worthless to another!

brain54:
Please the girl no worwor...

And she got what she wanted!

Might not actually get what she wanted. Could be a first test running manipulative scheme.

Anything is possible though, but those terms aren't all the terms. Some are hidden and would play out as time goes on.

Sincerely doubting a sane man could adhere to those terms. End time things!

What she needs is a Robot not a husband.
When she understands what husband means then she should tender her CV again!!

Next please

AriseAndShine01:
Might not actually get what she wanted. Could be a first test running manipulative scheme.

Anything is possible though, but those terms aren't all the terms. Some are hidden and would play out as time goes on.

Sincerely doubting a sane man could adhere to those terms. End time things!

If she does not get what she wanted then she can try again...


How many people in traditional relationships get what they wanted at first try?


A person that lays all the card bare and tells you these are the qualities they want is very likely not to be manipulative. She has virtually told you what she expects and what to expect in return so how can that be manipulative?


Isn't it better than people that hide these same demands and then show their true colors when they eventually get married?

I see absolutely nothing wrong in what she is requesting. It's a bit strange because it's something new to me and unusual from my traditional mindset of relationships but I actually like the openness in it.


The cards have been laid down and anyone who feels the terms and conditions are okay for them should go for it.

If they are people that want baby mamas or want to be baby mamas without marriage then why not. I actually think this is an upgrade of a baby mama.

It's unusual but times are changing and people are looking for ways to evolve with the times and make things more practicable!

brain54:
If she does not get what she wanted then she can try again...


How many people in traditional relationships get what they wanted at first try?


A person that lays all the card bare and tells you these are the qualities they want is very likely not to be manipulative. She has virtually told you what she expects and what to expect in return so how can that be manipulative?


Isn't it better than people that hide these same demands and then show their true colors when they eventually get married?

I see absolutely nothing wrong in what she is requesting. It's a bit strange because it's something new to me and unusual from my traditional mindset of relationships but I actually like the openness in it.


The cards have been laid down and anyone who feels the terms and conditions are okay for them should go for it.

If they are people that want baby mamas or want to be baby mamas without marriage then why not. I actually think this is an upgrade of a baby mama.

It's unusual but times are changing and people are looking for ways to evolve with the times and make things more practicable!

You are quite right.
Baby Mama Promax.
Housemateship Promax.

But once again, there's no any iota of openness in her request based on my belief and experience. For example, she didn't discuss anything on bill sharing etc hence Anything still fit sup based on this our gender manipulative traits.

Been there and seen it all.

Best of lucks to the lucky guy.

Indomie generation on the beat 🪘

The usual Nigerian content.

AriseAndShine01:
You are quite right.
Baby Mama Promax.
Housemateship Promax.

But once again, there's no any iota of openness in her request based on my belief and experience. For example, she didn't discuss anything on bill sharing etc hence Anything still fit sup based on this our gender manipulative traits.

Been there and seen it all.

Best of lucks to the lucky guy.

She talked about it...

She said she doesn't want him to be a provider or protector. She can do those things herself. It's all there and it's open and fair enough.

Watch the video!

floss:
Did she state her pucci mileage so that interested and intentional applicants can know

Hmmm
This may not be an important question until you get in there
No going back if it’s damaged o

Single life never tire this man. But I'm afraid Simps will never cease to exist shaa

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XU68O4zz0-8?si=Kjt6rwwll0rc7buw



https://gtvdaily.com/single-woman-marriage-criteria/#respond

I know her. She is a content creator based in Japan

Whenever small money enter woman hand like this, the next thing na to dey misbehave

Lunatic content creators are a menace to society

Cloud chaser. I don't have time for any cloud chaser this year. My time is too cloudy for that.

Lolz, urgent 2k go finish the man

Lol this one just exposed herself to envious, malicious, bitter angry and frustrated low value men wey go soon come here to troll her

Wonders shall never end.

Nairaland no get news abi. Una dn fall hands na tiktok una dy go fins anything now.

You never dey find husband yet jare, no let anybody whine you.
Keep playing, & enjoying your youth nothing do you.

I’d like to know her supplier. For medical reasons only.