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Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by dododawa1: 9:22pm On Jan 09
NA MAN BORN THIS ONE





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Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Kobojunkie: 9:23pm On Jan 09
promami:
➜My point is, I have seen Nigerian men place these women in their right place. She saying she's not getting pregnant is because she hasn't seen any man she deems worthy of her keeping her pregnancy for.
Na so Nkechi Bianze blast men finish, still marry a Nigerian man. There's always a man out there they're willing to sacrifice their stupidity for.
I am not certain what your rambling is intended to mean. 🥱🥱🥱

Yes, some women would not evacuate a pregnancy even after a man has left them because they are OK with having and raising the baby all by themselves. And that is nothing new. (Children are raised more than 98% of the time by the woman alone, whether she is married or not, so it should not come as a shock to anyone that there are women out there who would choose to be single mothers even outside of marriage, as it is no different from being a single married woman.) However, for those who are not OK with it, they are very much able to get rid of it and move on with their lives after that. 🥱🥱🥱

And for the umpteenth time, feminism does not imply women do not want to marry men or have children. Instead, what you should already know by now, that we are in 2026, is that feminists are women looking for equal partnerships instead of the old ball-and-chains model of marriage. undecided

Please educate yourself so you stop coming at me with these brain-damaging levels of reasoning! It f-king hurts the brain! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Meedon: 9:31pm On Jan 09
This is the kind of woman I'm looking for. I don't need kids too.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Meedon: 9:34pm On Jan 09
Please who can give me her contact?
This is the kind of woman I will do anything for. Say no to giving birth. Antinatalism all the way.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Samsam141619: 9:49pm On Jan 09
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by blaise26abj(m):
Glimpsetv:
Summary:
A young woman went viral after declaring she is single and searching for a husband, sharing strict marriage criteria. She does not want children, will not accept bride price, insists on equality, and expects both partners to handle their own responsibilities.

She also requires her husband to relocate to Japan and support mutual goals, emphasizing companionship, independence, and shared success.

The video sparked mixed reactions across social media, with many debating her unconventional rules.
Insists on equality and expects both partners to handle their own responsibilities, doesn’t want children……then proceeds to say husband should relocate to Japan, Accept her one sided decision not to have children. Where is the equality ? Why not meet midway ? in the middle of the Kazakhstan . Why not ask the number of kids the man want and meet midway ? This girl is not even playing by her own rules . Typical delulu antics
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Skola1: 10:01pm On Jan 09
She has no business getting married.
Let her remain single and continue to advertise - husband wanted


A young woman went viral after declaring she is single and searching for a husband, sharing strict marriage criteria. She does not want children, will not accept bride price, insists on equality, and expects both partners to handle their own responsibilities.

She also requires her husband to relocate to Japan and support mutual goals, emphasizing companionship, independence, and shared success.

The video sparked mixed reactions across social media, with many debating her unconventional rules.[/quote]
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Ubanz: 10:14pm On Jan 09
That's my type of girl.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by PepeXKermit: 10:17pm On Jan 09
There is a reason why she is single.. there is also a reason why sge came out to do this. Women dont verbally advertise their availability, if they do, you should run...
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by peculiar2233: 10:21pm On Jan 09
So you no wan make dem go Japan? 😂😂
Coder2Client:
Good for her. With all these rules of her one man go still apply like that
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by nedekid: 10:29pm On Jan 09
What she needs is an alsatian.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by bigiyaro(m): 10:36pm On Jan 09
brain54:
You may be wrong though...

What does value mean? It's relative to individuals. What is of value to you may be worthless to another!
male animals including man, naturally have the instinct (except something is wrong somewhere) to want to continue his lineage. So no "natural" man will go and waste his time with that mentally deranged woman, but trust men, they will go there for the sake of it and move on when it's time to get serious with their lives.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Bellotelli: 10:54pm On Jan 09
What she actually wants is a robot, and they have plenty of them in Japan.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Mrexcell(m): 11:00pm On Jan 09
It's alright i wonder if a white man can even accept all these her conditions? Few years from now she will surely be in shiloh praying fervently for a husband without all these conditions she listed above.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by 12345baba(m): 11:07pm On Jan 09
See her Japan nyash
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by lagbajaoke: 11:21pm On Jan 09
Glimpsetv:
Summary:
A young woman went viral after declaring she is single and searching for a husband, sharing strict marriage criteria. She does not want children, will not accept bride price, insists on equality, and expects both partners to handle their own responsibilities.

She also requires her husband to relocate to Japan and support mutual goals, emphasizing companionship, independence, and shared success.

The video sparked mixed reactions across social media, with many debating her unconventional rules.
SHE MAY NOT HAVE WOMB TO PRODUCE CHILDREN. THATS SHE DONT WANT CHILDREN. SHE USED ALL THAT STORIES TO COVER UP. SHE LOOKS LIKE MAN AT HER BACK SIDE.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Tedassie(m): 11:44pm On Jan 09
This is 2026 and many ladies haven't left this silly, damaged, low self-esteemed, attention-seeking shenanigans behind in 2025...If you really check sef, some of these ladies that come online to cry about needing a husband, aren't necessarily ready for what marriage entails, they just want the title of "Mrs", they want the allure of what it means to be called a wife to so and so. They want the title but not the work involved in the marriage.

Lastly, many desire a husband as an escape from the financial burden of singlehood and adult life in general, they just want to be babied!
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by bluefilm: 11:54pm On Jan 09
Feminism has destroyed this one

Next, please...
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by lanreni: 11:59pm On Jan 09
brain54:
Very funny...


She came back to say she has gotten a partner and she didn't need more applications as she had selected from the ones she got so applications should stop.

She actually got so many applications.

Two things made the applications much.
1. The guy won't pay anything. This connotes financial independence.
2. While being paraded as a 'trophy' wife, the guy can decide to have kids outside wedlock.

It is a glorified girlfriend and boyfriend relationship. So it will be easier to comply especially for many typical African men.
We are living in strange times was my conclusion. But it worked for her and if she got what she wanted then what else?🤷
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Prince16: 12:13am On Jan 10
The gentleman u quoted has told you the absolute faxx: "No man of value will accept those terms". He didn't say "man", he said "man of value"!

Her case is just like our young boys marrying 70 year old oyibos: it's for survival!

The girl in this scenario is based in Japan, so you can see the reason why her inbox will be bombarded by 'suitors'.
brain54:
You may be wrong though...

What does value mean? It's relative to individuals. What is of value to you may be worthless to another!
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by lebete3000: 12:28am On Jan 10
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by TossTos(m): 12:39am On Jan 10
Mummy see o , see Aunty Chinwerey don dey confuse o , ehn you no go fit marry again this year
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Zony94: 1:42am On Jan 10
What l know is that the figure that is after 6 is more than 7, millions. trap
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Dtruthspeaker: 4:50am On Jan 10
See claze!

Na you dey find husband and na you won still dictate T & C.

Clearly, she's fishing
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Dtruthspeaker: 4:51am On Jan 10
brain54:
Very funny...


She came back to say she has gotten a partner and she didn't need more applications as she had selected from the ones she got so applications should stop.

She actually got so many applications.


We are living in strange times was my conclusion. But it worked for her and if she got what she wanted then what else?🤷
Very Funny how you women are always Lying.

And then you wonder why men don't want to marry
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by adecz: 6:18am On Jan 10
Just marry a secs toy ..... 😕😕😕



We the brotherhood won't accept
such conditions..



No wonder she no get husband⚫⚪⚪◾◽▪🔼🌠🌟


Nonsense & ingredients👎👎👎👎👎
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by ultraviolet27(f): 7:06am On Jan 10
Lexusgs430:
We don't do pretty anymore....... What are you bringing to the table, your brain dey touch, are you prepared to contribute financially, to grow our home/family.......... 😂😢🏡👨‍👩‍👦
can't you read and watch the video too?it is even stated in the headline in the first page that she doesn't need a man who will provide for her that both couples will share the responsibilities 50/50 only where I don't agree with her is where she said she doesn't want any kid!

only if the man is a divorcee or widowed with kids before will he not want any.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by promami: 7:10am On Jan 10
Kobojunkie:
I am not certain what your rambling is intended to mean. 🥱🥱🥱

Yes, some women would not evacuate a pregnancy even after a man has left them because they are OK with having and raising the baby all by themselves. And that is nothing new. (Children are raised more than 98% of the time by the woman alone, whether she is married or not, so it should not come as a shock to anyone that there are women out there who would choose to be single mothers even outside of marriage, as it is no different from being a single married woman.) However, for those who are not OK with it, they are very much able to get rid of it and move on with their lives after that. 🥱🥱🥱

And for the umpteenth time, feminism does not imply women do not want to marry men or have children. Instead, what you should already know by now, that we are in 2026, is that feminists are women looking for equal partnerships instead of the old ball-and-chains model of marriage. undecided

Please educate yourself so you stop coming at me with these brain-damaging levels of reasoning! It f-king hurts the brain! 🥱🥱🥱
You're mixing things up. I didn't mention feminism, you did. What I said is clear. Most women who gives several conditions for being with a man usually compromise when they meet some kind of men. It has nothing to do with feminism and I wonder why you keep regurgitating it.
I aired my opinion based on personal experience and things I've witnessed and you don't have to compel yourself to see things the way I see them. I wonder why you'd be so full of yourself to ask another person to educate theirself when you're obviously the one who needs it.
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by JooEeL(m): 7:32am On Jan 10
Paulscholari:
What she needs is a Robot not a husband.
When she understands what husband means then she should tender her CV again!!

Next please cool
Shes in Japan. Japan men no send am. Konji and loneliness wan kill d woman
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by VVVOLTS: 7:43am On Jan 10
This one is not serious oh
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Lexusgs430: 8:25am On Jan 10
ultraviolet27:
can't you read and watch the video too?it is even stated in the headline in the first page that she doesn't need a man who will provide for her that both couples will share the responsibilities 50/50 only where I don't agree with her is where she said she doesn't want any kid!

only if the man is a divorcee or widowed with kids before will he not want any.
It's not compulsory to have children (married or not).... If it works for them and they are happy, good.....
Re: "I Am Single And Searching, I Need A Husband – Lady Calls For Applications (Pix) by Hahjascho(m): 8:31am On Jan 10
That’s just another difference between a man and a woman.

Let’s some of the woman have resources, they even start saying they don’t need a man, they start misbehaving.

If truly she got what she wanted, the man may be a player or someone who may suffer in his old age…by the time he’s weak and old.
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