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Kobojunkie:
So, you physically assault the woman you are dating, and then try to make us believe it is all for a good cause? ...

This your gender bias is equal to feminism and yet you are a male; what a cors

Where did you see him say it is good? And do you not see that he too is wondering why this happens?

Lalami3232:
And you beat her? Anyways, I no really get much to say than to encourage una to marry all these girls wey una don damage emotionally, financially, physically and sexually. I refuse to inherit another man's leftover. Some of una wey go like this comment married non-virgins, others dey date non-virgins and una dey like the comment. Isn't that hypocrisy? If majority of una know the number of preeq wey don enter una partners because una inherit am, una for decide to buy LUX soap and do the needful. Anyways, I no get much to say than to advise men wey marry non-virgins aka leftovers to go for DNA test.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

She was already damaged before she went to him

Double0h7:
Relationship goals! I hope you enjoy prison, jungle justice, and curses from the heavens because that awaits you in your future with bae ❣️

See how you prove that women hate men?

See, how you curse him meanwhile, it is your gender who carried her curs to him.

And now, even you no come to curse him because he made the mistake of fornicating with the girl.

Anyway, shebi, he believes in fornications, so ...

Samantha125:
As for me, I have no pity for GBV enablers, which is what your woman is, she's certainly not a victim in this because if she was, she'd have left.

So I wish her all the best with the slaps, punches, and kicks.

I can't be respecting and defending someone who lacks self respect and love, our society is just messed up... And why are you still with someone who's always adamant to bring the worst in you? Are you waiting for the day that you'll finally unalive her and recieve either a life or death sentence yourself? It's like the both of you are from toxic and dysfunctional backgrounds.

You spoke well today.

And if you look, you would see that he is trying to understand the shee he has entered, he would soon dump her, when he understands that it is a pattern and that if he does not beat her, she would cheat on him and dump him

mmadu4:
It's never easy to let go. We have tried ,at this point just need some mature advice on how to avoid being violent

Ah! You don hook.
When they tell you "soul tie", you said it is not real but now see am, na.

descarado:
Wonder what the govt do with its budget.

The police is supposed to do the needful here.
Social media is not anonymous at all.

How do one tag Nigerian police?

What wrong has been done here? Are they not consenting adults?

Stop taking Andrews liver salt for another person's stomach pain

essentialone:
Nobody enjoys to be Beaten. That story may not be true, dear.

It is True.

There are women who set up any man who made the mistake of becoming their boyfriend to beat them.

https://www.nairaland.com/2457305/she-wants-me-beat#35951275


Quora
10+ answers · 3 years ago
Is it abuse if my girlfriend wants me to hit her?
OK. If your girl wants you to hit her …?!!! Dear boy, Can you not see the dysfunction in that?

https://www.nairaland.com/7948837/girlfriend-made-me-beat-hell#127613540

SpencerForbes:
I honestly don’t get some of the relationship choices people are making these days—it’s pretty frustrating to watch. Is it really that hard to just walk away....

Soul Tie, is real.

essentialone:
Nobody enjoys to be Beaten. That story may not be true, dear.

Essential

Let it not be true because my body is shaking already
Women's body is too soft

Julibet:
✓ Who says? I've heard some ladies say that if their guy don't beat them, they can never regard him as a real man. I'm not reporting this, I'm saying this like I've heard 3 ladies say this. Just exactly like the Op, they said the makeup sex after the beating is always explosive.
✓ Why do you think they remain with an abusive partner instead of finding their way after the first slap? Bros you can never fully understand that gender.

Where can we go find these women? 🥱🥱🥱

2. The reason why women remain with their abusers have been studied and realized. That ain't the issue
Most of them are too afraid that they won't fond better out there so they remain with what they know and that is abuse.🥱🥱

The question is why else would a man remain abusive to a woman other than he maybe also feels he can't make a woman status with him unless he inflicts abuse on her to cause her to. 🥱🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
Essential

Let it not be true because my body is shaking already
Women's body is too soft

It's wrong. Just like ladies who prefer to be spanked very very hard during the doing.

essentialone:
It's wrong. Just like ladies who prefer to be spanked very very hard during the doing.

It's not good
Men should stop all this beating of a thing

Lalami3232:
And you beat her? Anyways, I no really get much to say than to encourage una to marry all these girls wey una don damage emotionally, financially, physically and sexually. I refuse to inherit another man's leftover. Some of una wey go like this comment married non-virgins, others dey date non-virgins and una dey like the comment. Isn't that hypocrisy? If majority of una know the number of preeq wey don enter una partners because una inherit am, una for decide to buy LUX soap and do the needful. Anyways, I no get much to say than to advise men wey marry non-virgins aka leftovers to go for DNA test.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

lol you no dey miss. Abeg I fit get audience with u

rickpat:
How old are the both of you?

The both of you seem very young and naive

You no go mind your business

Na mind your business, mind your business, ..na make tinubu be una president so

toboizilla:
You no go mind your business

Diamond098454:
It's not good
Men should stop all this beating of a thing

I totally agree. It is very wrong.

Every time you bear her, she snaps bruises as evidence (woman body is very easy to bruise, don't come and say you didn't do "too much) the day she go use "evidence" enter you for one way ticket to watery beans for the rest of your life, don't pretend to be shocked o, cause you read it here first. Good luck

untoldtruth:
Every time you bear her, she snaps bruises as evidence (woman body is very easy to bruise, don't come and say you didn't do "too much) the day she go use "evidence" enter you for one way ticket to watery beans for the rest of your life, don't pretend to be shocked o, cause you read it here first. Good luck

After reading all the advice I got bere I think it's best to break up with her

Two of una go still kee each other,na just say time never reach..

Some women are like that.

I have a friend during uni days who likes been beaten, unfortunately her guy doesn't beat women.

She said she loves the petting that comes after.

You will do time

investorcj:
You will do time

We just broke up .can't do it anymore

Kobojunkie:
So, you physically assault the woman you are dating, and then try to make us believe it is all for a good cause? Nigeria is f-cked up. That there is no way to report your arse to the police who would, in turn, relatively assault you is what infuriates me the most in all of this. 🙄🙄🙄

2. Common sense would have been to abandon the relationship entirely. The girl trauma trauma-bonded with her abuser, and you think coming here to boast of such brain damage makes you a better person? 🥱🥱🥱

Can you try and advice people without resorting to insults! If the OP is enjoying it, he wouldn't be here seeking help.

mmadu4:
So I have been worried lately with the ongoing craziness in my relationship with my babe . I noticed that anytime we are having a good moment or peaceful time she doesn't seem to be happy . She might just provoke me or try to insult me or say and do things that might make me beat her not serious beating but very low edge she will fall into depression afterwards and ignore me for as long as it takes she will won't even near me then I will have to beg her forgiveness before everything returns to normal of course with some love making . But this has happening for over a year now I'm becoming worried. What can I do in this situation pls need some advice

I see prison time in your future if you continue like this.

You can beat her to be happy but one day when she will pin it on you eh, your eyes go clear.

She's not the only one in the world