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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by engrchykae(m): 12:47pm On Jan 13

eepeepook:
Continue marking registers. One woman will settle for you.

he is a special woman's prayer request.

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Rexnegro(m): 12:50pm On Jan 13

Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist

help for wider opinion please

Brooo you ain't in this alone to be honest... We are plenty experiencing or been lonely. I'm even older thank you man but what can one do than to keep grinding why waiting on God's time. It's well

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Sirseedorf(m): 12:52pm On Jan 13

Same thing is happening to me, in fact your age is exactly as mine, I'm very tired honestly, all the girls have boyfriend, then am like who am i going to marry, not that am lazy or wasted my time, I just have to put things in order before bringing in a wife, now the wife is like a commodity and am still searching for it.

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by AdUlAM(m): 12:52pm On Jan 13

He suppose dey talk about boys abi.. were* every corner.

TechBaron:
At 34, you're still talking about girls.

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by SAMBARRY: 12:52pm On Jan 13

davidtemi:
Na just ashawos u dey meet.

U go still meet the real girl wey don ready for relationship.

Dnt go for GenZs

he shouldn't go for gen zs, una don forget say una role model gheghe don advice una make una no date women who are 30 upwards grin

so as una no fit date genzs,single mothers, women who are 30 years upwards, you are only left with 3 options
1.marry your fellow man
2.marry your mothers
3.marry an animal grin

The seed of chaos,toxicity and dysfunction una dey sow for socio medium by the likes of una toxic masculinity preachers like kelvin samuel, gheghe,red pillers association don ripe na.the fruits of misogynistic ideology don ripe, begin dey chop am grin

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Inyaky(f): 12:52pm On Jan 13

Look inward and outward, check yourself very well and the type of women you have been asking out and find a solution to it , also pay attention to some one that likes you and start slowly, some one told you to date down and that's good too. Maybe the girls you are referring to don't see you as someone that can take care of them .

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by professore(m): 12:55pm On Jan 13

spiSeyi:
Too bad for a 34yrs guy he's never seen as man just a s*x toy or a cucumber 🥒 to satisfy fantasies. Anyways he still get some luck, there are some mumu at the lower end of the ecosystem their is to pay bills without even touching bress

ecosystem

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by ElGenio39: 12:55pm On Jan 13

Better for you.

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 12:58pm On Jan 13

SAMBARRY:
Everybody with wetin dey do them

As e dey do woman e dey for man

What a Time be alive I no know say e dey pain men when them side boyfriend them or use them as option c

Suddenly una no fit have a taste your medicine

I like this generation of women. They sabi mirror men back so when una dey side chick or baby mama zone women e dey sweet una so a time will come when women will flip the script on you

Wonderful

I thought there are plenty fishes in the river so when it's now time to look for the Mrs right there are no longer plenty fishes

No naija man ought to ve complaining of being the side dude,abi the fishes for river don finish?

Apt!

E shock me too.

He ought to be happy with himself and shaming the ladies he is sleeping with .. surprised he is lamenting being kept as second option.
I thought women had no value.
7 women rushing 1 man.
Maybe he is a goat and not a man.
Lolz

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by DrChukki: 12:59pm On Jan 13

Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist

help for wider opinion please

They're weighing your financial strength... But they admire your sxxual ability. It's either your thing is big or you dey last long

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by LIVINGICONREBOR: 1:00pm On Jan 13

Another tale by moonlight to gain traction.🥱

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 1:01pm On Jan 13

Sirseedorf:
Same thing is happening to me, in fact your age is exactly as mine, I'm very tired honestly, all the girls have boyfriend, then am like who am i going to marry, not that am lazy or wasted my time, I just have to put things in order before bringing in a wife, now the wife is like a commodity and am still searching for it.

Why are you searching for a wife?
For what exactly?

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Kalulu44: 1:01pm On Jan 13

Keepamsafe:
If the richer girls are rejecting my advances cos they feel im “less”. Why are you advising me to settle for less then?

He's saying you should date girls that are below you in terms of finance

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 1:03pm On Jan 13

Lamanii22:
I feel for you bro, this is so wrong, it feels as though you're asking girls of 18-22 years old out

People that say it's under 18 they should be dating and marrying?

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by SAMBARRY: 1:04pm On Jan 13

spiceadole:
Apt!

E shock me too.

He ought to be happy with himself and shaming the ladies he is sleeping with .. surprised he is lamenting being kept as second option.
I thought women had no value.
7 women rushing 1 man.
Maybe he is a goat and not a man.
Lolz

that isiah bible verse, their usual favourite verse wey them dey always quote wey say in the end time, 7 women will hold on to 1 MAN begging him to remove shame from them and just allow them bear his name,where the 7 women dey? grin

Shebi they say a man becomes hotter attractive and successful in his 30s and 40s like fine wine,abi virgins and successful women no dey rush men again? grin

No na

women behave yourselves grin

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by JooEeL(m): 1:07pm On Jan 13

SAMBARRY:
Everybody with wetin dey do them

As e dey do woman e dey for man

What a Time be alive I no know say e dey pain men when them side boyfriend them or use them as option c

Suddenly una no fit have a taste your medicine

I like this generation of women. They sabi mirror men back so when una dey side chick or baby mama zone women e dey sweet una so a time will come when women will flip the script on you

Wonderful

I thought there are plenty fishes in the river so when it's now time to look for the Mrs right there are no longer plenty fishes

No naija man ought to ve complaining of being the side dude,abi the fishes for river don finish?

See how happy u are. Jeez. 10 smileys in just one submission. Says it all

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by JooEeL(m): 1:07pm On Jan 13

davidtemi:
Na just ashawos u dey meet.

U go still meet the real girl wey don ready for relationship.

Dnt go for GenZs

Nothing like gen z. Same applies across board!

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by JooEeL(m): 1:08pm On Jan 13

SAMBARRY:
he shouldn't go for gen zs, una don forget say una role model gheghe don advice una make una no date women who are 30 upwards so as una no fit date genzs,single mothers, women who are 30 years upwards, you are only left with 3 options
1.marry your fellow man
2.marry your mothers
3.marry an animal

The seed of chaos,toxicity and dysfunction una dey sow for socio medium by the likes of una toxic masculinity preachers like kelvin samuel, gheghe,red pillers association don ripe na.the fruits of misogynistic ideology don ripe, begin dey chop am

38 year old woman, go get a proper job.

We no want u

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by LUAN1: 1:09pm On Jan 13

greatiyk4u:
Are you very smallish in nature?

i am, any solution for it please

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jan 13

I’ll let you in on a secret I’ve been using since high school. It has a solid 70% success rate—and honestly, if it doesn’t work, there’s usually something else going on.

The big secret? Have a purpose, or at least act like you do.

It sounds simple, but it’s the one thing people rarely talk about. Forget about money for a second; women are naturally drawn to guys who have a clear direction in life. I’ve seen shorter guys land dates that taller guys were too intimidated to even approach just because of their vibe.

You also need to be sharp—or at least look the par[b]t. Being versatile and well-rounded is a huge plus. When she sees you with your friends and notices you’re more mature or focused on the future, she’s going to be curious[/b]. The only catch is that if she gets close and realizes it’s all an act or that you’re just seeking validation, she’ll head for the exit. But if she sees that drive is genuine? She’ll be the one putting in the effort to stay.

Another key trait is leadership. Get involved in group activities and actually step up. When people see you taking things seriously, it makes you stand out regardless of your bank account or height. It’s the same reason the smart guys with a bit of confidence in college end up with the girls everyone else is afraid to talk to. It’s magnetic, and honestly, there’s no point in gatekeeping it anymore.

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by SAMBARRY: 1:12pm On Jan 13

JooEeL:
38 year old woman, go get a proper job.

We no want u

who dey want wasted project grin

Abeg go front go trauma dump,no trauma dump on me,no be me do you grin

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by SAMBARRY: 1:15pm On Jan 13

JooEeL:
See how happy u are. Jeez. 10 smileys in just one submission. Says it all

I wan even add 50 smileys grin

The 10 smileys too small o grin

Holyghost fire!!!! Any power,person,personality wey say I no go happy, let them die in Jesus name grin

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Godmind2022(m): 1:16pm On Jan 13

Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist

help for wider opinion please

Like attracts like.

Birds of a feather flock together.

Embrace Christ. Be genuinely Born Again and you should get your type without having to be "a rich guy".

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Lovit(m): 1:18pm On Jan 13

Keep plowing their fields and enjoy yourself

when you clock 35, ask your mother to help you find a good woman in your church or hood

women dey sabi girls wey her life straight and the one wey bend but you too will have to vet her your own way

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by greatiyk4u(m): 1:19pm On Jan 13

LUAN1:
i am, any solution for it please

They admire you but think you are not presentable when going out.....

Look for a younger girl you can groom

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by doncartel: 1:22pm On Jan 13

You may have a spiritual wife who goes to warn ladies not to have anything serious with you or else they will face terrible consequences.

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by zelnababa(m): 1:22pm On Jan 13

lolz at 34, oga, six years more.

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Yomit71(m): 1:23pm On Jan 13

Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist

help for wider opinion please

I am your elder brother, I am going through same.

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by LINTUNE(m): 1:25pm On Jan 13

Maj196:
You're too nice that's why. Girls don't like guys that take them serious, ignore them or make them jealous and see them flock around you. Very confused people

lol this is true...there is one girl i have shown so much emotional detachment from , i no send the girl at all and e dey show yet this girl still love me pass anything, dey worry my life..same with my gf, i no too send that one if she do shakara small she go still humble.

Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by Harmless1b(m): 1:26pm On Jan 13

Give the one up like most belle.. And watch ha surrender

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Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by nonny1212: 1:26pm On Jan 13

Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist

help for wider opinion please

You don't know what God is doing for you brotherly. "Let me be your side boyfriend but you go dey give me kkpekus". Super okay.

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