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plsdisvirginme:
There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her POS business.

Her POS folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program, I decided to setup a charging and POS. I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.

It was one excuse to another. This busines collapsed under 7 months.
Business I used close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and moved on.

I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop. I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money. She can't save.

Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .

Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.

I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..

And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.

Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.

I just learnt my lesson.

U no dey tire with all these tale by moonlight

GloriousGbola:
and the fables continue

you a grown man decided to look for a poor student to go and invest 1.5m in

rather than find an actual adult working woman - you went to look for a child in a family of paupers.

it is the boys who swallow your fabu i feel sorry for. a circle jerk of jobless banger boys wasting their lives away

Adult working woman will most likely be more than 25 and not submissive.

Sonnobax15:

Na only you dey see marriage with her....But to her, you're just a mere poverty alleviation scheme..

Seconded, thirded...infact, gbamsolutely! In the end, she will ask the infamous question: "what have you done for me..?"

She dey use u do Niger Delta.

jattopeter:
How much have you invested in your sisters , This is ridiculous , wasting money on a lady that you are not married to.

Is he sleeping with his sisters? Or are his sisters giving him BJ?

Right now im speechless.

Namaster:
"...student girl I met through Michat...this girl is from a poor and idle background...her pos business...rented a good apartment for her....this girl is really extravagant...the girl I intend to marry"




Couldn't stop LAUGHING over here.

Baba "invested" over #2 MILLION on a hookup girl that other guys FORK for #10K.

The orientation that guided me in love life- never marry belwo your class, never promise anyone marriage.

This is Preposterous, this is the kind of message that make people said ladies are cheap. See the defenseless line you were coming up with . I have never see rich people with this your quote , it has always come from broke people.

spiceadole:
Is he sleeping with his sisters? Or are his sisters giving him BJ?

Congratulations 🎊 👏
You just made it to the top 3 simps of all time!!
Couldn't be more proud of you.

jaxxy:
u cant easily know the real character of a poor or broke girl.

That adage is only apply to the men, trust me, a good girl will always be a good girl irrespective of her financial status.

Better relationship ahead bro

plsdisvirginme:
There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her POS business.

Her POS folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program, I decided to setup a charging and POS. I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.

It was one excuse to another. This busines collapsed under 7 months.
Business I used close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and moved on.

I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop. I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money. She can't save.

Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .

Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.

I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..

And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.

Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.

I just learnt my lesson.

she get big nyash and breast abi? That's why you no wise on time

Keep it up bro, you're doing very well.
Lend her more money, please don't stop lending her.

captainking:
Sense is really not your friend ..despite all preachings of last year..you still made this mistake..
In life..if you cannot hold someone accountable financially the first time...there should be no 2nd time...
Don't date students..don't invest in any woman till she becomes your wife or fiancée at least..

Sandralight:
Dude the Op other monikers are Sirchiboy, ibtxxo and etc, if you spend time in nairaland you will see his different stories and how he is 46 years old and have nothing to show for it, to me it's obvious he is looking for a woman that will hustle for him while he wait around.
I grow up in Delta state and I have seen so many men like that depending on their wives while they lazy around.

I have no problem for women supporting their husband as long as the husband is also hustling too, I will support my partner because I believe when 2 partners works together the home is run smoothly.
My advice was for specifically the OP because all he does is complain and complain

The way some of you are great investigators is amazing. Those names ring a bell for some of the worst threads on this forum.

Curious: how did you get to know it's the same person?

plsdisvirginme:
There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her POS business.

Her POS folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program, I decided to setup a charging and POS. I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.

It was one excuse to another. This busines collapsed under 7 months.
Business I used close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and moved on.

I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop. I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money. She can't save.

Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .

Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.

I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..

And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.

Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.

I just learnt my lesson.

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Just get a career lady..a lady that is already working.. to date and marry in future ..she will not stress you much and not depend on you much for financial help and be a much burden to you...since she has her own job or businesses...but all this girl's that are idle and unemployed will stress you and over burden you and put you in financial pressure in which you will regret later

Sonnobax15:

Na only you dey see marriage with her....But to her, you're just a mere poverty alleviation scheme..

.abi.. you are saying trust 🤣🤣🤣🤣

BRATISLAVA:


The way some of you are great investigators is amazing. Those names ring a bell for some of the worst threads on this forum.

Curious: how did you get to know it's the same person?

I have know him for years when I was more active some years ago, we don old for this site 😑
Most times I think he is just using these stories to while away time

This didn't even occur or happened at all it's a make up story .

Fictional from the beginning to the end

Sandralight:
I have know him for years when I was more active some years ago, we don old for this site 😑
Most times I think he is just using these stories to while away time

Yeah, figures they create them for fun. Because it's ridiculous half of what they say.

ufotunang:
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Just get a career lady..a lady that is already working.. to date and marry in future ..she will not stress you much and not depend on you much for financial help and be a much burden to you...since she has her own job or businesses...but all this girl's that are idle and unemployed will stress you and over burden you and put you in financial pressure in which you will regret later

Waiting for that time of the year that you guys recycle stories about career women. From fertility, to no time for you, not prioritizing you, being stubborn, refusing to cook and clean up after you—it will be another means to bash women.

But what can we do for boys who can't afford women and need one who works so that they can remain irresponsible?

Sonnobax15:

Na only you dey see marriage with her....But to her, you're just a mere poverty alleviation scheme..

hmm.

Below is the most sensible advise here.

ridwintin89:
I will advise you on something.

If your own life is meaningful after you met her.

If you are progressing after you met her.

I will advise you to ignore her financial recklessness.

Continue giving her and keep progressing.

It is because you have that is why you are giving.

If you are poor,even she is a good lady,you will not be able to do anything.

Don't care about how she lavish her mone

Give her what you can lost, forget about investing into her business. Just do your part as a man and make yourself happy.

With what I faced in my relationship about spiritual imbalance that caused me serious financial downfall. I can marry a useless woman in as much my own life is meaningful after I met her. Case closed

They will.be so glad they finally got rid of you .they already have a beta mugu

Change the title of your post

And the worst part of it is, they have a very high taste
I met one and never intended to marry her for any reason.

May be it's her beauty that's confusing u . Wake up man and be Wise

chatinent:
Una dey take risk sha

i no fit take such risk, instead i will chop the whole money myself.

If you marry her, e no go better for you

If you marry her you are gone....land of no return nai go be your final destination

plsdisvirginme:
There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her POS business.

Her POS folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program, I decided to setup a charging and POS. I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.

It was one excuse to another. This busines collapsed under 7 months.
Business I used close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and moved on.

I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop. I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money. She can't save.

Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .

Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.

I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..

And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.

Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.

I just learnt my lesson.

Oga, don't insult her family. Nobody send you to sponsor her before