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Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? - Romance - Nairaland

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Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by MONEY247(op): 1:54pm On Jan 16
Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more.
Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy"
Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...

Whats the reason many older men
Avoid marriage this days..?

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Stephen0mozzy: 2:04pm On Jan 16
The people who say "they just want to enjoy" are being dishonest with themselves.

It's mostly because of FINANCE - YOU DON TRY FEED ANOTHER PERSON FOR ONE MONTH BEFORE? Then there's the wedding list and party expenses however small the party.

Majority of others are surrounded with hoeloshoing women and they have developed insecurities about wife-ing a public project.

They abi we 😝
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by chatinent: 2:20pm On Jan 16
Make I dey read comments sha.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by SpaceX: 4:16pm On Jan 16
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Melancho: 6:46pm On Jan 16
The question you should ask yourself is why do people get married?

You can have kids without getting married.
Sex, food and companionship without marriage.

So why do people get married? Please don't say love.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by ABBkelvin(m): 7:21pm On Jan 16
I love myself more than starting a new family.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by GHustler: 9:02pm On Jan 16
Melancho:
The question you should ask yourself is why do people get married?

You can have kids without getting married.
Sex, food and companionship without marriage.

So why do people get married? Please don't say love.
Because the holy book supported so.


Do you believe in the Bible?
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by GHustler: 9:04pm On Jan 16
ABBkelvin:
I love myself more than starting a new family.
Young man you need to reproduce
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by ABBkelvin(m): 9:08pm On Jan 16
GHustler:
Young man you need to reproduce
For what old man?
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by PheelzAlmighty: 9:14pm On Jan 16
When did marriage become an achievementhuh
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by zinaunreal(m): 9:14pm On Jan 16
You wan marry problem put for house 🏠
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Kharol1234: 9:15pm On Jan 16
Everywere never balance and again I like my peace
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by mmadu4: 9:16pm On Jan 16
Marriage is overrated.in the next decade to come you will find out why
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by MEGAWATCH: 9:16pm On Jan 16
Because many of these girls are runs girls and run girls are not good for marriage.


🤔🤔🤔
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by wunmi590(m): 9:16pm On Jan 16
huh

Marriage is not child's plays, the Tinubu economy has even made matter worst, slot of single who are even earning well are not considering marriage for now, they are even saving up to jakpa....

My friend we graduated together is earning almost 800k monthly, he will be 40 this year, he's not even thinking of marriage for now, rather than to jakpa, as he's still saving up, as he wants to go for school route..
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by yemkoguru(m): 9:16pm On Jan 16
in my own case I never see woman wae ready or serious
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Angolar(m): 9:16pm On Jan 16
For God to judge who right and wrong in this Nigeria?
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by dalongjnr:
Trust,peace, progress, economy, ambitions, mission, vision, wisdom, economy, stability, reality, etc.
Once you asked them, they built their reasons/defence from the points above.
Good Night,nigeria 🇳🇬 and Nigerians.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Emeskhalifa(m): 9:18pm On Jan 16
Discovered it is no longer worth it.

It worked for our fathers and the generations before theirs but this very generation? No, it's BS
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by QuinQ: 9:19pm On Jan 16
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Question!
Did you provide wife and money to maintain a family and they refused to marry??
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Wickedtruths: 9:20pm On Jan 16
SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.
Kindly limit your generalisation to the less fortunate men in ya family.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by OGwales(m): 9:20pm On Jan 16
I am not ready to be feeding and dying for another adult
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by kenchop: 9:21pm On Jan 16
MARRIAGE IS A SET UP AGAINST MEN
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Ibehchizzy: 9:21pm On Jan 16
Omo money never Dey
We still dey push am
I don’t want to bring innocent kids into poverty
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by BlocksNG(m): 9:22pm On Jan 16
me I'm not ready to house a used and condemn banny. I dey madt?
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by essentialone(m): 9:22pm On Jan 16
Marriage is Bondage.

We are trying to avoid marrying trouble.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by enemyofprogress: 9:22pm On Jan 16
Im not avoiding marriage, it is wedding that is avoiding me, it is too expenses.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Seeplusplus: 9:22pm On Jan 16
Where are the virtuous women? Girls weh de wayward now pass guys aje.

Go to the club, 85% of the people there are girls. What are they doing? Smoking their lives away.

Parents are falling everyday in their responsibilities.

So many prostitutes out there parading themselves as future wives and mothers.

An average 23years on the street has about 5 body counts, same cannot be said of an average 25years old boy
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Kimo21(m): 9:22pm On Jan 16
SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.
E good like that…make them carry their standard enter menopause while we enjoy our hard earned resources without stress in the meantime.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Kimo21(m): 9:24pm On Jan 16
enemyofprogress:
Im not avoiding marriage, it is wedding that is avoiding me, it is too expenses.
Wedding does not have to be extravagant…na you Dey pressure yourself….ill let my in-laws and family that I want I private wedding in one garden without too many guests in one garden and life goes on. If they insist on a big wedding it will not be on my own expense.
Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Goo0dHardDick: 9:25pm On Jan 16
A man with 3m isn't financially ok for marriage but a girl with just 5k in her Opay account is ready for marriage?

A girl who has absolutely nothing doing or receiving salary of 30k with 2k in her Opay account will believe she's ready for marriage while expecting a rich guy to come and marry her? Una no really well
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