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Irresponsibility

SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.

Look at this man o...

With all the higher standards. Most of them end up with having just "anyone and anyhow guys scratching their itch... "

Even if women geh standard, e never still reach to qualify am as "higher" standards. Or how many of dem you know wey better pass the nonsense standard Dem dey set for men like yasef?


No be pesin like me woman go dey show that card sha. No matter who she be, getting close and playing ya cards right go make her forget her standards. Unless the man no get game.

As long as you could create situations and draw her close, she go give unconditionally....

My younger days were busy with matters like that.

zinaunreal:
You wan marry problem put for house 🏠

If you ask me, na who I go ask now ?

Marriage abi wedding keh!?

Oga save the money you're trying to use for wedding/marriage for yourself. Women are becoming too wise to tame. Make money and look good, you go day sample different pussies and they will be proud to associate with you..

In addition, many married men are suffering (with their wives weaponizing sex) in their so called marriages and many men will not like to renew their vows if given the privilege of a 2nd chance. And if you must marry, marry more than one to avoid shakara,see finish or heartbreak...

Everybody dey on guard. Women want rich men, Men want virgin women. Everybody just dey guide.

Do not get married guys! Do not get married!!

#MGTOW

Stephen0mozzy:
The people who say "they just want to enjoy" are being dishonest with themselves.

It's mostly because of FINANCE - YOU DON TRY FEED ANOTHER PERSON FOR ONE MONTH BEFORE? Then there's the wedding list and party expenses however small the party.

Majority of others are surrounded with hoeloshoing women and they have developed insecurities about wife-ing a public project.

They abi we 😝

Yeah... Mostly finance.

However, for some, it's beyond money

They simply can't afford the emotional commitment and mental strain.

GHustler:
Young man you need to reproduce

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Why exactly?

No benefit except 2 weeks of s3x and a lifetime of misery. Besides, it doesn't make sense having another set of parents and siblings. Live free and be happy. Avoid drama at all cost

Melancho:
The question you should ask yourself is why do people get married?

You can have kids without getting married.
Sex, food and companionship without marriage.

So why do people get married? Please don't say love.

Exactly....


Love is somewhat empty. Those werey claiming to be in love do not even understand what they're saying.

There seems to be no real meaning for the word in reality as many emotions all those who claim to be experiencing love seems to have other explanations. Yet those emotions can never equate love.

It's somewhat without meaning.

Currently, I no dey even wan hear am. Making a promise and keeping it, shows a sense of responsibility, not love. Love on its own is fickle.....

Abeg make I stop. The message is refusing to come out from my mind....

[quote author=SpaceX post=138159284]Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for. [/quote
Pls explain or are you saying most ladies now aren't marriageable...?

Stephen0mozzy:
The people who say "they just want to enjoy" are being dishonest with themselves.

It's mostly because of FINANCE - YOU DON TRY FEED ANOTHER PERSON FOR ONE MONTH BEFORE? Then there's the wedding list and party expenses however small the party.

Majority of others are surrounded with hoeloshoing women and they have developed insecurities about wife-ing a public project.

They abi we 😝

You lied.. a lot of guys are now discouraged even the married ones bcs s*x is what 9 out of 10 babes can bring to the table and s*x is no longer a big deal it's everywhere even getting a child doesn't require any form of martial commitment again all thanks to babay mama ideology.

Angelfrost:
Yeah... Mostly finance.

However, for some, it's beyond money

They simply can't afford the emotional commitment and mental strain.

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Each person is like an entire universe. Forcing oneself to live with the ideas and idiosyncrasies of an entirely different universe is something to pause and think well on.

Personally I don't believe in marriage for any reason. It is prison, it is bondage and mostly a scam. Only few people get lucky in it with just the right person for them.

30s is the best age and time for a man to get married. I got married a month to clocking 30 years. So, it's never late. Any marriage done earlier than that is baby marriage

Abi u nd ur wife and pikin go de chop grass , use grass pay house rent, this guys are not earning good salary how do you expect them to take care of such responsibilities

Quality women are now rarer than precious stones.
A lot of modern women are not worth the time, effort, and money it would take to date/wife them up.

Hamachi:
Irresponsibility

I agree. Most modern women are irresponsible and it would be foolishness to marry them.

I have zero interest in having children & getting married.
My peace,quiet & freedom comes before everything & everyone else.
So far,so good,my life is awesome.Wouldn't change it for nothing.

Because our ladies don't need men. To them, marriage is not an achievement. So let everybody rest and face front.

Single men will never understand what god has done for them until they fall into the pit of marriage. It’s a scam

Na love we go chop

I doubt he does....he/she

GHustler:
Because the holy book supported so.


Do you believe in the Bible?

GHustler:
Young man you need to reproduce

Na must?! 🤣

Marry women wey dey open nyash for BigoLive, TikTok and do runs.


I pity men wey dey marry cuz na retired olosho you go put for house

na poverty, I am 31. the only thing that is stopping is poverty. lack of marriage make me frustrated and angry everyday.

That damn thing is a scam. It was simply designed to keep the man captive.




It is not worth it.

In Nigeria, the number one reason most mature guys are not married is FINANCE (MONEY), every other reason is secondary.

You may feel but Tunde is working with PwC, so why is he not married because I am sure he has money.

Now the issue is, the amount of money Tunde see as good enough to give him the full confidence to get married might be different from the amount of money Emeka or Musa wishes to have before they can become confident enough to get married and start a family.


Tunde might want to start his family in Ikoyi while Emeka might desire to start his own family in Paris, and Musa wishes to start his own in Kano.


Tunde might have a plan to settle down after he completes his masters and get a promotion as an Account Executive in his company while Emeka might have a plan of completing his one storey building in Onitsha or Aba before he can feel confident enough to marry.


Musa on the other hand might have a plan to expand his cattle farm to like 50 cows before he can approache Aisha's parents to give Aisha hand in marriage to him.



So in all of these, it's always about money. Any mature and ripe single man in Nigeria telling you that money is not the main reason he doesn't want to settle down in Nigeria is lying to you.



The mature single guys that don't want to marry because of wokeism, gayism, etc are not many.

No be small thing. My own be say I no like mk woman dey gaslight me. My papa tell me say if you wan stay peacefully with woman, you gat Sabi do like mumu and look away many times.

Me, nitemi, I don't like to be taken for a fool and if you try to manipulate me, I go switch off very fast.

However, I support marriage as family is the basis of every society.

Marriage is sweet but marrying a retired boko haram is the problem!
And many naija women are retired bandit reintegrated to the society on peace deal to later damage your life in the future with another's Man child

As a man choose wisely! Don't pay bride price on expired product! Always go for the fresh fruit right from the tree before it fall down.

This call for those who has wisdom to understand

- Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free?