Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? - Romance (4)

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Gerrard59(m): 3:01am On Jan 17

Melancho:
The question you should ask yourself is why do people get married?

You can have kids without getting married.
Sex, food and companionship without marriage.
So why do people get married? Please don't say love.

Kids are best raised in a two-parent household. Data from all over the world support it.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by jrobbins: 3:12am On Jan 17

Kaido:
Marry women wey dey open nyash for BigoLive, TikTok and runs.

I pity men wey dey marry cuz ma retired olosho you go put for house

Olosho no dey retire o. Later then go still show the man thier bad character after the wedding.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by JoeEeL(m): 4:21am On Jan 17

GHustler:
Because the holy book supported so.

Do you believe in the Bible?

No we dont. Now what wil u do?

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by sparko1(m): 4:37am On Jan 17

GHustler:
Because the holy book supported so.

Do you believe in the Bible?

Do you know how long Adam was alone in the garden, maybe thousands of years, because there was no issues so it wasn't recorded until Madame came and within a couple of years they were thrown out.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Dcaliphate(m): 5:35am On Jan 17

Melancho:
The question you should ask yourself is why do people get married?

You can have kids without getting married.
Sex, food and companionship without marriage.

So why do people get married? Please don't say love.

You're asking us a question and still telling us what not to say grin

Baba you know your answer and your answer knows you

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by emmaodet: 5:43am On Jan 17

Gerrard59:
Kids are best raised in a two-parent household. Data from all over the world support it.

You always say this when men are encouraged not to marry since they can have sex and give birth without it yet you are always happy to see women shy away from marriage because thy are now working and making their own money and don't need men.
Bro, i don't get it.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Onlinetutor2026(f): 5:44am On Jan 17

Sex is cheap, cheating is getting higher, cost of wedding not encouraging, divorce is at its peak. The rate of young guys marrying will keep reducing.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Sonofgod1990(m): 5:58am On Jan 17

GHustler:
Because the holy book supported so.

Do you believe in the Bible?

Bible were written by people like me and you. Bible is just a falacy

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Sonofgod1990(m): 5:58am On Jan 17

GHustler:
Because the holy book supported so.

Do you believe in the Bible?

Bible were written by people like me and you. Bible is just a fallacy

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by JoeEeL(m): 6:04am On Jan 17

Seeplusplus:
Where are the virtuous women? Girls weh de wayward now pass guys aje.

Go to the club, 85% of the people there are girls. What are they doing? Smoking their lives away.

Parents are falling everyday in their responsibilities.

So many prostitutes out there parading themselves as future wives and mothers.

An average 23years on the street has about 5 body counts, same cannot be said of an average 25years old boy

Yet when they marry, the girl wey don open punna for older guys and even married men go want their unfortunate husband to remain loyal.

Say who die!

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by JoeEeL(m): 6:22am On Jan 17

MeaslesMumpsRub:
No be small thing. My own be say I no like mk woman dey gaslight me. My papa tell me say if you wan stay peacefully with woman, you gat Sabi do like mumu and look away many times.

Me, nitemi, I don't like to be taken for a fool and if you try to manipulate me, I go switch off very fast.

However, I support marriage as family is the basis of every society.

It takes at least one fool to make marriage work. Most men always choose to be the fool

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Sensitivity: 6:25am On Jan 17

chatinent:
Make I dey read comments sha.

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by occfx: 6:28am On Jan 17

Emeskhalifa:
Discovered it is no longer worth it.

It worked for our fathers and the generations before theirs but this very generation? No, it's BS

The laws guiding the marriage of our forefathers has been broken into pieces by western education therefore, a new law has to be made if not in the next 10yrs nobody go dey reason marriage again. Na woman go use there hand come house come stay with you and tell you not to bother with financing if that's your fear.

They actually need man but feminism dey deceive them for now. By the time men lock up, they go understand.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by JoeEeL(m): 6:33am On Jan 17

thomas2024:
This thing you talk reminds me of one my female friends wey I see when I go house during festive period. That babe don marry now and e don born three pikin. Back then for our area, she dey fvck around. The funniest part be say I know most of the guys wey dey pass her around and none of them fit marry her. Na another innocent guy come finally put am for house.

I still remember one particular time when I pass behind a guy window wey dey knack this babe, I peep and see them and come dey hear her voice of “Lagbaja stop”😂😂😂 That memory still dey crack me up till today 😂😂 I pity men wifing these people these days

Na because of these kind things i no go marry again. Iv always known that if my first rlnshp broke up, i wouldn't marry again.

A pussie, whose history I dont know, cannot just end up in my house. How can I make a woman so lucky like that? Meanwhile I've been chaste enough

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by JoeEeL(m): 6:48am On Jan 17

Jayboiii:
Hmm time will tell..u won't always be this strong..you think ur money will give you caregivers who are compassionate in ur lonely old age...u will understand its allabout the money and you will be treated as shit..ur valuables stolen and God help you you don't meet a murderer in form of a helper when u are frail.

And with all d stress and sufferings of married men, how many last till they age? Pray u last first

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by JoeEeL(m): 6:56am On Jan 17

Kaczynski:
Marriage is nothing but a legally binding contract that turns emotional dependency into a financial liability. let me break it down for you in terms even your BIOS could understand; why would i voluntarily install bloatware on my life? relationships are just inefficient resource allocation; time, money, sanity, all wasted on debugging someone else’s emotional stack traces. my kernel runs fine solo mfw you’re out here compiling dependencies for a shared life that’ll inevitably segfault.

Emotional stack trace. Hmmn. Reminds me of php debugging

I can tell a computer scientist or programmer

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by kennyz247(m): 7:03am On Jan 17

Kimo21:
Wedding does not have to be extravagant…na you Dey pressure yourself….ill let my in-laws and family that I want I private wedding in one garden without too many guests in one garden and life goes on. If they insist on a big wedding it will not be on my own expense.

No matter what, money is still involved

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by kennyz247(m): 7:07am On Jan 17

YoungLionken:
Marriage abi wedding keh!?

Oga save the money you're trying to use for wedding/marriage for yourself. Women are becoming too wise to tame. Make money and look good, you go day sample different pussies and they will be proud to associate with you..

In addition, many married men are suffering (with their wives weaponizing sex) in their so called marriages and many men will not like to renew their vows if given the privilege of a 2nd chance. And if you must marry, marry more than one to avoid shakara,see finish or heartbreak...

You don spoil everything by saying marry more than one wife..if Ur source of income no strong well,no try second wife ooo, otherwise na headache go send you go heaven

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by spice123(m): 7:08am On Jan 17

MONEY247:
Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more.
Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy"
Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...

Whats the reason many older men
Avoid marriage this days..?

Op I think this issue is state based. Lagos in particular is difficult to find a wife who will remain faithful because of the environment. Have you seen other states?

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by BarrElChapo(m): 7:21am On Jan 17

wunmi590:

Marriage is not child's plays, the Tinubu economy has even made matter worst, slot of single who are even earning well are not considering marriage for now, they are even saving up to jakpa....

My friend we graduated together is earning almost 800k monthly, he will be 40 this year, he's not even thinking of marriage for now, rather than to jakpa, as he's still saving up, as he wants to go for school route..

lmaooo. every mallam with him kettle.

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by harjay1986: 7:28am On Jan 17

wunmi590:

Marriage is not child's plays, the Tinubu economy has even made matter worst, slot of single who are even earning well are not considering marriage for now, they are even saving up to jakpa....

My friend we graduated together is earning almost 800k monthly, he will be 40 this year, he's not even thinking of marriage for now, rather than to jakpa, as he's still saving up, as he wants to go for school route..

Getting into marriage is choice am also in my late 30s with kids and wife.. Many people are tire of the uncertainty that comes with the marriage.. That's why I say marriage is a choice.. I earn a bit low compare to your friend around 600k and am proud of the man have become I wish I have my kids when I was younger because I always want to be a responsible father, I love kids and the sound they make around is a therapeutic to me... If you don't like no mean say the thing no good.. Just pray for your own woman because Marriage is beyond Love..

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by BarrElChapo(m): 7:31am On Jan 17

Papilo is that you grin

EmekaBlue:
I know say one day one day I go marry

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Hhh4444: 7:31am On Jan 17

JoeEeL:
It takes at least one fool to make marriage work. Most men always choose to be the fool

Very correct 💯. Each time I see a man getting married,I just know one mvmv has decided to part ways with his peace of mind, freedom and resources.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Elzazzi: 7:37am On Jan 17

SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.

Lol which standard ? Once women pass their prime they lower their standards.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by ayclem01(m): 7:37am On Jan 17

YoungLionken:
Marriage abi wedding keh!?

Oga save the money you're trying to use for wedding/marriage for yourself. Women are becoming too wise to tame. Make money and look good, you go day sample different pussies and they will be proud to associate with you..

In addition, many married men are suffering (with their wives weaponizing sex) in their so called marriages and many men will not like to renew their vows if given the privilege of a 2nd chance. And if you must marry, marry more than one to avoid shakara,see finish or heartbreak...

That's exactly my problem. Hmmm weaponizing sex. Very frustrating. I would have run away but for beautiful kids. I think twice...

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Hhh4444: 7:38am On Jan 17

kennyz247:
O

No matter what, money is still involved

leave that one make e dey misyarn. Money spent on sustaining marriage is much more than money spent on wedding party. If He knew how much it costs to feed an adult in this tinubu regime,he would not say that.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Elzazzi: 7:45am On Jan 17

Goo0dHardDick:
A man with 3m isn't financially ok for marriage but a girl with just 5k in her Opay account is ready for marriage?

A girl who has absolutely nothing doing or receiving salary of 30k with 2k in her Opay account will believe she's ready for marriage while expecting a rich guy to come and marry her? Una no really well

The rich will always marry the rich. See the weddings of the wealthy. They always marry between themselves. Lol

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Elzazzi: 7:53am On Jan 17

correctguy101:
Exactly....

Love is somewhat empty. Those werey claiming to be in love do not even understand what they're saying.

There seems to be no real meaning for the word in reality as many emotions all those who claim to be experiencing love seems to have other explanations. Yet those emotions can never equate love.

It's somewhat without meaning.

Currently, I no dey even wan hear am. Making a promise and keeping it, shows a sense of responsibility, not love. Love on its own is fickle.....

Abeg make I stop. The message is refusing to come out from my mind....

You’re right. Many of them are just infatuating and are in lust. It’s even transactional these days. Once guy no press money babe attitude go change. Lol

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Elzazzi: 7:56am On Jan 17

Eriokanmi:
30s is the best time for a man to get married. I got married a month to clocking 30 years. So, it's never late. Any marriage done earlier than that is baby marriage

Yes it’s never late. And everyone won’t get married anyway!

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by femi4: 7:58am On Jan 17

MONEY247:
Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more.
Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy"
Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...

Whats the reason many older men
Avoid marriage this days..?

The economy n culture of men must do all isnt encouraging

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