₦airaland Forum

Elzazzi:
You’re right. Many of them are just infatuating and are in lust. It’s even transactional these days. Once guy no press money babe attitude go change. Lol

always247:
na poverty, I am 31. the only thing that is stopping is poverty. lack of marriage make me frustrated and angry everyday.

occfx:
The laws guiding the marriage of our forefathers has been broken into pieces by western education therefore, a new law has to be made if not in the next 10yrs nobody go dey reason marriage again. Na woman go use there hand come house come stay with you and tell you not to bother with financing if that's your fear.

They actually need man but feminism dey deceive them for now. By the time men lock up, they go understand.

franchasng:
In Nigeria, the number one reason most mature guys are not married is FINANCE (MONEY), every other reason is secondary.

You may feel but Tunde is working with PwC, so why is he not married because I am sure he has money.

Now the issue is, the amount of money Tunde see as good enough to give him the full confidence to get married might be different from the amount of money Emeka or Musa wishes to have before they can become confident enough to get married and start a family.


Tunde might want to start his family in Ikoyi while Emeka might desire to start his own family in Paris, and Musa wishes to start his own in Kano.


Tunde might have a plan to settle down after he completes his masters and get a promotion as an Account Executive in his company while Emeka might have a plan of completing his one storey building in Onitsha or Aba before he can feel confident enough to marry.


Musa on the other hand might have a plan to expand his cattle farm to like 50 cows before he can approache Aisha's parents to give Aisha hand in marriage to him.



So in all of these, it's always about money. Any mature and ripe single man in Nigeria telling you that money is not the main reason he doesn't want to settle down in Nigeria is lying to you.



The mature single guys that don't want to marry because of wokeism, gayism, etc are not many.

Hhh4444:
That's why it's best to deal with oloshos. They don't pretend to be who they are not and are honest in their dealings compared to regular gal friends. Just pay for service and render service,no room for drama and games.

MONEY247:
Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more.
Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy"
Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...

Whats the reason many older men
Avoid marriage this days..?

Kaczynski:
Marriage is nothing but a legally binding contract that turns emotional dependency into a financial liability. let me break it down for you in terms even your BIOS could understand; why would i voluntarily install bloatware on my life? relationships are just inefficient resource allocation; time, money, sanity, all wasted on debugging someone else’s emotional stack traces. my kernel runs fine solo mfw you’re out here compiling dependencies for a shared life that’ll inevitably segfault.

Archangels2:
Get married at your own peril. From experience, it's good when it's good but very bad when it's bad.

I won't say don't get married but know that many men don't find peace in marriages and peace is what you want in the long run

MONEY247:
Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more.
Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy"
Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...

Whats the reason many older men
Avoid marriage this days..?

sparko1:
Do you know how long Adam was alone in the garden, maybe thousands of years, because there was no issues so it wasn't recorded until Madame came and within a couple of years they were thrown out.

SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.

Hhh4444:
Very correct 💯. Each time I see a man getting married,I just know one mvmv has decided to part ways with his peace of mind, freedom and resources.

Goo0dHardDick:
A man with 3m isn't financially ok for marriage but a girl with just 5k in her Opay account is ready for marriage?

A girl who has absolutely nothing doing or receiving salary of 30k with 2k in her Opay account will believe she's ready for marriage while expecting a rich guy to come and marry her? Una no really well

JoeEeL:
It takes at least one fool to make marriage work. Most men always choose to be the fool

Elzazzi:
I once visited my married cousin. He’s way older than me though. But still a young man in his late 30s then. He got married in his 20s I think. I lived with them for up to a month!
But Omo, almost everyday na fight. His wife talks to him anyhow like she’s talking to another woman. You know most of these women think their husbands is another woman. If he talk one, she go reply with 200 insulting words.

Entanglement:
Marriage is sweet but marrying a retired boko haram is the problem!
And many naija women are retired bandit reintegrated to the society on peace deal to later damage your life in the future with another's Man child

As a man choose wisely! Don't pay bride price on expired product! Always go for the fresh fruit right from the tree before it fall down.

This call for those who has wisdom to understand

Afikoo:
I am ready for marriage and I am searching.
Let a lady from 24 to 27 who is ready for marriage kindly send mail let's connect .

I am 35, Igbo and a Christian, reside in Port Harcourt.

Please send a mail to avalanchemedia2022@gmail.com

korrectcanada:
...please explain more on the term 'adult bachelor'...do we have teen or child bachelors...back to the answer...the best thing is to ask bachelors if they know the benefits of marriage...and if any of them say yes...you leave them...its their personal decision to marry when they wish on reasons best known to them....then for those that will say no they don't know the benefits of marriage then you enlighten them...but the notion that a man should get married based on age factor is far out of the way...marriage clock only works for ladies based on the menopause factor...as a man I dey 40yrs but I know say things never set well for family life then because of age I run go marry...come dey pass through unnecessary stress and pressure....hmmm.boss abeg the world is already overpopulated....just chill for niw

JoeEeL:
Hahaa. Many men are completely crushed and frustrated. 🤣

They don't know where to start from if they leave. Also they are enslaved by that pussie. They just want a personalized pussie. That's why they tolerate all d shiht from their women and these women know. Hahaha 😂

SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.

harjay1986:
Getting into marriage is choice am also in my late 30s with kids and wife.. Many people are tire of the uncertainty that comes with the marriage.. That's why I say marriage is a choice.. I earn a bit low compare to your friend around 600k and am proud of the man have become I wish I have my kids when I was younger because I always want to be a responsible father, I love kids and the sound they make around is a therapeutic to me... If you don't like no mean say the thing no good.. Just pray for your own woman because Marriage is beyond Love..

BarrElChapo:
lmaooo. every mallam with him kettle.

ravensckar:
The beauty of all of it is that LAS LAS, he will marry.

Why can he not face his warrant early on in life and enjoy his freedom later? There's a Yoruba proverb that says; "won ni kini yi, kini e ni, o ni o n looko, bi o ba lo, bi o ba de, oo ba nibe". This roughly translates to: you were informed of your responsibility, you said you're going to the farm. Whenever you return from the farm, you'll still meet your responsibility waiting for you.

Tell your friend I said he's whyning himself!

SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.

Elzazzi:
The truth is it’s easier for a divorced man to remarry. I can’t marry a woman who can’t respect my authority as a man. Lots of men are so weak these days. Pussy is the easiest thing to get. Pussy is pussy. Infact sex is overrated sef. Lol

In all I will advise any man to divorce if the wife disrespects him. Even men of God Dey divorce.

MONEY247:
Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more.
Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy"
Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...

Whats the reason many older men
Avoid marriage this days..?

Hhh4444:
That's why it's best to deal with oloshos. They don't pretend to be who they are not and are honest in their dealings compared to regular gal friends. Just pay for service and render service,no room for drama and games.