A friend of mine(not really friends but he treats me like a junior sis),there is this girl he has loved for 4yrs now,he confessed to 2yrs ago but the girl said no, he couldn't just leave it like dat so he stuck to her...what really annoys me is that the girl was friendly to him,she treats him nicely she should av acted cold to him for sometime to show that she didn't really love him,but she was acting nicely giving my friend false hope

The guy continued staying by her side thinking one day she would change her mind and because she was nice maybe she likes him but she's forming.. I warned him ooo but he didn't listen

Yesterday the girl gave him an invitation to her wedding...my friend was dumbfounded after waiting 4 her since all this years now she's getting married to someone else...I can't still believe it but he really cried,he cried the hell out of his eyes

Now the problem is he is very angry with the girl,and with the way things are he can do anything to hurt the girl...I don't want dat to happen because he would get triple hurt,the wedding is january 3 and I get this feeling dat he is planning something bad

I really don't know how to help him...I don't know if the girl is just dumb or heartless...advice pls


PS:this is not a nollywood script or movie it is a real life issue

I have never been rejected n I can never be rejected, do you know why Because I am wonderfuly made

You can take ya friend out of his misery


P...._{The power of a wonan}

temitemi1:
I have never been rejected n I can never be rejected, do you know why Because I am wonderfuly made

Who asked u

One feels bad if rejected, buh tell ur guy that's shit and it does happen.
He has to let go.

it feels good because it makes me stick to the people that has accepted me.

temitemi1:
I have never been rejected n I can never be rejected, do you know why Because I am wonderfuly made

Rejection is a teacher bro, it forces one to get better............

It's a thing of the mind. He should see it as they were not meant to be together and he will be very fine.

marieolae:
Wait...why is he angry?

The girl blatantly rejected him, so why was he trying to give himself false hope?

He has known this girl for four years..c'mon now, a girl can't form for that long. If she's not interested, then that's it.

Advise him not to dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. He'll get over it

Am advising but his heart is shattered..I don't think he can get over her...the girl didn't reject him blatantly,if she did she would not av acted friendly to him,she should av given him space..he was always at her beck and call..she used him to get whatever she wants..he was like her mugu,like her errand boy..the girl is just so so heartless and I know karma is a bitch

I can't still believe people can be so in love when it is not korean drama

iceberylin:
You can take ya friend out of his misery


P...._{The power of a wonan}

He's like my brother

shokky24:

He's like my brother

BROTHER-ZONE....

that nigga is sooooo unlucky

Quite a sad rejection, I must say. But the guy has at least 75% of the blame. Loving a girl for 4years, got rejected once yet you kept burning the hope candle while being a personalised mugu. Op, if its possible, show him this thread, so he knows he's at fault too. For 4years, he allowed his heart control his brain, whose fault is that? He should just let go and learn to take his brain along with his heart in matters of love.
And just so he knows, all girls aint the same. Cause that's the conclusion he will draw now.

MzPreshie:
Quite a sad rejection, I must say. But the guy has at least 75% of the blame. Loving a girl for 4years, got rejected once yet you kept burning the hope candle while being a personalised mugu. Op, if its possible, show him this thread, so he knows he's at fault too. For 4years, he allowed his heart control his brain, whose fault is that? He should just let go and learn to take his brain along with his heart in matters of love.
And just so he knows, all girls aint the same. Cause that's the conclusion he will draw now.

Ok tnks

Maybe girls should stop being nice, I blame him 100%

lilmax:
Maybe girls should stop being nice, I blame him 100%

Exactement!

U guys are just talking like this...do u know what real love is and not nowadays (the tip of tongue) love... it turns u to something else
Something similar happened 2 me though mine was two years, I didn't know I was so foolish.. my friends were thinking it was jazz..I really loved the girl,I hate seeing her get hurt... after getting tired from work seeing her makes me happy... I confessed but she turned me down saying we can be friends... do u know how annoying dat sounds
She knows I love her very much and could do anything for her but she still wants me as her friend...it was so so hard for me to let go

Me being a fool of the highest order accepted because being by her side makes me happy,I did everything she wanted just for a change of heart but what did I get..a RED CARD(she got married to someone else)I don't really know y dey rush into marriage

Of course I cried but i moved on with my life not really move because currently av decided not to give out love I only accept and when I see the one with sincerity I'd give back...once bitten twice shy

U know the funniest part her so called hubby is a boxer lol he turned her into a punching bag..he beats her like kilode ...karma is actually a b*tch if only she chose me I would av treated her like a queen

PS:ladies should avoid putting people dat love dem in friendzone and when dey don't like a guy after confessing dey should act cold to him even if they don't mean it.. give him space to sort out his feelings..avoid giving him false hope...and stop being selfish telling him or her to be ur friend dat will only hurt him more

Op just talk to him it's not his fault it is love,he'd soon meet the one meant 4 him..he should just take heart...I wanted 2 kill d girl also and kill my self..I felt if I don't av her no one will...but my friends and family stood by me...just stand by him, try to keep him occupied so he won't think about the b*tch....am wondering how her marriage would end

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Psychological, 5 seconds is okay for a girl to know whether she likes you that is just Meeting a guy for the very 1st time.
15 seconds to decide whether she can date you after meeting you for the 1st time..
How long should a man wait for a woman to accept his proposal?? Should have been a better topic..
If you ask me, 7 days is how long I can go..
No time to waste.

temitemi1:
I have never been rejected n I can never be rejected, do you know why Because I am wonderfuly made

stay there and be giving ursef hope...
its not all dat glitters is gold

@ Commentators
you do not know what it feels like to be rejected, you will be sad, angry and lonely. i had that rejection more than once and it feels very painful to know that someone you love is rejecting you. there is a saying that once beaten twice shy but in my own case i was beaten five times and i was shy ten times. since then i swore never to love again but to be a player.

uzodimma4sunnex:
@ Commentators
you do not know what it feels like to be rejected, you will be sad, angry and lonely. i had that rejection more than once and it feels very painful to know that someone you love is rejecting you. there is a saying that once beaten twice shy but in my own case i was beaten five times and i was shy ten times. since then i swore never to love again but to be a player.

Oh oh it's a pity ..so how did u get over it?

temitemi1:
I have never been rejected n I can never be rejected, do you know why Because I am wonderfuly made

U can never be rejected? ...even lee min ho has been rejected not to talk of u...keep dreaming

orobs93:
it feels good because it makes me stick to the people that has accepted me.

Me too,I just learnt dat after the incident

I think rejection is a good thing it saves time and effort that would otherwise have been wasted.

lilmax:
Maybe girls should stop being nice, I blame him 100%

Dats because u've never been rejected..

OK....Encouraging...to move forward

Great that
God have decrease a little from my worries.

But who wan reject me.


Only human get rejected, am a gene/jinn you don't believe read my posts

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That's the worst feeling on earth.
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