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Stephen0mozzy:
When you're 70yrs old and can't hold an erection beyond first round, you'll understand that marriage was never really about sex.

Sexual strength is not about age but diet, peace of mind and regular exercise. my former landlord @ 90+ still dey make OS mourn and cry

wunmi590:


Marriage is not child's plays, the Tinubu economy has even made matter worst, slot of single who are even earning well are not considering marriage for now, they are even saving up to jakpa....

My friend we graduated together is earning almost 800k monthly, he will be 40 this year, he's not even thinking of marriage for now, rather than to jakpa, as he's still saving up, as he wants to go for school route..

Lol your 40 yr old friend is planning to go and enslave himself abroad. School route at 40!
Otida

YeyeGbami:
Lol your 40 yr old friend is planning to go and enslave himself abroad. School route at 40!
Otida

He's not an undergraduate, he's going there for second masters or PHD...

If that's your own mentality of enslaving himself, nah him get him body

spiSeyi:
Sexual strength is not about age but diet, peace of mind and regular exercise. my former landlord @ 90+ still dey make OS mourn and cry

You're still young, so the world appears to revolve around your erection.

spice123:
Op I think this issue is state based. Lagos in particular is difficult to find a wife who will remain faithful because of the environment. Have you seen other states?

This also applies to Abuja

ayclem01:
That's exactly my problem. Hmmm weaponizing sex. Very frustrating. I would have run away but for beautiful kids. I think twice...

It is because she knows she's the only one that's why. Empty your emotions (instantly or gradually, depending on how serious you are with the whole thing), and tell her about having another wife, but before then, start looking for her replacement..

See, what you don't understand is that, if you keep bearing, you will keep bearing till you leave...

kennyz247:
You don spoil everything by saying marry more than one wife..if Ur source of income no strong well,no try second wife ooo, otherwise na headache go send you go heaven

Oga, the problem is that we keep worrying over the wrong things. These days, it is even monogamous wives that are sending their husbands to heaven with headache. Again, control has nothing to do with numbers, a man who can't control can't control. The other day, I almost wept when I read how a monogamous woman beat her husband almost to death. Or is it the other one in Enugu who framed her husband of sleeping with their female children, just so she can continue her adultery with her sugar boy? So on and fort...

There's no benefit in marriage for men.

Majority of this girls are liability.
The only language they know is money.
They never knew the realities involved in marriage.
Bunch of Hungry ladies all around.

yes but not 3m,5m wedding

kennyz247:
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No matter what, money is still involved

the woman didn't mind u were present..inlaw stuff?

Elzazzi:
I once visited my married cousin. He’s way older than me though. But still a young man in his late 30s then. He got married in his 20s I think. I lived with them for up to a month!
But Omo, almost everyday na fight. His wife talks to him anyhow like she’s talking to another woman. You know most of these women think their husbands is another woman. If he talk one, she go reply with 200 insulting words.

include genotype ..

Afikoo:
I am ready for marriage and I am searching.
Let a lady from 24 to 27 who is ready for marriage kindly send mail let's connect .

I am 35, Igbo and a Christian, reside in Port Harcourt.

Please send a mail to avalanchemedia2022@gmail.com

Don't you see the socioeconomic landscape of the world?

What will you then say about men in their 40s?

It's not a competition,mi breda.

GHustler:
Young man you need to reproduce

Not everyone is going to reproduce.

spiSeyi:
Sexual strength is not about age but diet, peace of mind and regular exercise. my former landlord @ 90+ still dey make OS mourn and cry

No be only mourn. Na bury. Ogbeni, you better go and buy Brighter Grammar for your own good

Kenobsky:
Majority of this girls are liability.
The only language they know is monkey.
They never knew the realities involved in marriage.
Bunch of Hungry ladies all around.

No be only monkey. Why not chimpanzee? 🤔

School route at 40?
Ahh

wunmi590:


Marriage is not child's plays, the Tinubu economy has even made matter worst, slot of single who are even earning well are not considering marriage for now, they are even saving up to jakpa....

My friend we graduated together is earning almost 800k monthly, he will be 40 this year, he's not even thinking of marriage for now, rather than to jakpa, as he's still saving up, as he wants to go for school route..

Hhh4444:
That's why it's best to deal with oloshos. They don't pretend to be who they are not and are honest in their dealings compared to regular gal friends. Just pay for service and render service,no room for drama and games.

Ogbeni Poweredcom, do you agree with Wetin this person dey talk? 🤔

Mistersolar:
the woman didn't mind u were present..inlaw stuff?

No she doesn’t. That’s why even my cousins direct younger ones don’t visit. They had serious issues with him because of her and even his mom had some strained relationship with him. My bro, it’s really crazy. After then, I didn’t visit again!

Elzazzi:
Well, that’s not entirely true. I have seen young guys with so much money and marriage haven’t even crossed their minds. They see it as scam or not worth it. Even those born into generational wealth avoid marriage. Their parents fit wan arrange wife for them but dem no go gree. I think of late many guys are losing interest in marriage!

Please name 5 people born into correct generational wealth that are avoiding marriage

My guy spent close to 3M on his wedding last Easter. And ever since, it's been one day one trouble for the guy. The last time they fought in public, the girl completely naked herself. Just 2 weeks ago, the guy almost ran mad after he checked his wife's phone and found out that another guy fvcked her last Xmas for 50k. This is a girl with a six month old baby for hand oo. The useless girl dey even codedly beg me make she dey come over for house dey cook for me. I avoid her like a disease. Married men dey truly go through a lot l swear, both old and young, especially the Simps that married to have a personalized pussy at their beck and call. As a man, once your wife realizes that you can't go a day or 2 without pussy, my brother your own don finish be that oo. Cus she will use that her pussy as a bargaining chip to so much manipulate and control your life eh. As a young man who wants to live young, don't ever marrry for beauty or pussy!!! There are millions of finer face and pussy out there. Just marry for companionship and support. And show your wife from day one that you're not a Simp for Pussy. That you can go weeks or even months without begging her for pussy (you can even be getting it outside if need be) Also don't have more kids than necessary, so you can always be free to lock up or walk away when needed, and not be tied down forever by that nonsense mentality of "if not for the sake of my kids eh", while you're slowly dying inside. Forgetting that when those kids grow up finish, they will all find their own way, and may not even remember all your sacrifices at all sef. They even fit dey bring you only hot drinks whenever they visit, while they lavish all their money on their wife, who was closest to them when they were growing up...
This is the word of the Lord...let his name be praised...Shalom!!!

Wotowotoman:
Please name 5 people born into correct generational wealth that are avoiding marriage

Lol. My bro. Do you know all the wealthy families in Nigeria ?

I stay on the island and I know some of these men from wealthy families in Ikoyi, VGC, banana etc. Some of them just get baby mamas wey just born one or two children for them. But dem no gree marry. Lol

Elzazzi:
Lol. My bro. Do you know all the wealthy families in Nigeria ?

I stay on the island and I know some of these men from wealthy families in Ikoyi, VGC, banana etc. Some of them just get baby mamas wey just born one or two children for them. But dem no gree marry. Lol

No be only Island you dey stay. Na for Ikoyi you dey stay. All these ones wey dey stay Epe and claiming Island. Come on gerrout of here

MONEY247:
Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more.
Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy"
Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...

Whats the reason many older men
Avoid marriage this days..?

Because most girls are looking for already made men , the young 30 something guys are still hustling for money , everything is money now, girls are looking for rich men most of them even enter 40 without marrying rich men the ones that marry rich men for men eventually got divorce because rich men want value not liabilities

Goo0dHardDick:
A man with 3m isn't financially ok for marriage but a girl with just 5k in her Opay account is ready for marriage?

A girl who has absolutely nothing doing or receiving salary of 30k with 2k in her Opay account will believe she's ready for marriage while expecting a rich guy to come and marry her? Una no really well

😂😂🤣🤣

Kaczynski:
Marriage is nothing but a legally binding contract that turns emotional dependency into a financial liability. let me break it down for you in terms even your BIOS could understand; why would i voluntarily install bloatware on my life? relationships are just inefficient resource allocation; time, money, sanity, all wasted on debugging someone else’s emotional stack traces. my kernel runs fine solo mfw you’re out here compiling dependencies for a shared life that’ll inevitably segfault.

you sure say you break this one down like this?

Na big big grammar I still see inside the post.

sighh...and i vex wen my gf did dat front of her female work colleague..so wife fit run am....na like dis e dey start...read d topic under my profile

Elzazzi:
No she doesn’t. That’s why even my cousins direct younger ones don’t visit. They had serious issues with him because of her and even his mom had some strained relationship with him. My bro, it’s really crazy. After then, I didn’t visit again!

orikoku:
Single men will never understand what god has done for them until they fall into the pit of marriage. It’s a scam

A very big scam ,the only way I can advise you to get married is if you’re the one that deflowered the girl,she has good job and have Good mother…if she doesn’t posses all these don’t ever try it

Wotowotoman:
No be only Island you dey stay. Na for Ikoyi you dey stay. All these ones wey dey stay Epe and claiming Island. Come on gerrout of here

My bro. Nothing concern me with wetin u believe. I was born and brought up in Lagos. No where wey I no know for Lagos. Currently I stay within the lekki axis. No be every man wan marry. Money no be even their problem. Lol

BarrElChapo:
Papilo is that you ?

🥺kinda with present life situation

I know say one day one day i go make am

Mistersolar:
sighh...and i vex wen my gf did dat front of her female work colleague..so wife fit run am....na like dis e dey start...read d topic under my profile

I just went through your threads and the comments Lol. Sometimes it does happen. I just think you were so in love and too emotional attached to her. Like someone commented, you have a very soft spot for her. I have been there before and I initially thought it was some jazz or something spiritual. I just made up my mind one day. Deleted her number and moved on like she never existed. You just have to move on like she never existed.