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Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by PulaPower: 10:17pm On Jan 03
Kobojunkie:
. My situation is in no way unique. There are so many reasons why people don't always remember their first time... trauma, insignificance of the experience, tragedy, stress, PTSD, etc, that could rob people of such memories. And there is no difference along gender lines. undecided
True

Brain damage is real
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Kobojunkie: 10:23pm On Jan 03
PulaPower:
➜True Brain damage is real
I didn't say anything about brain damage, but real-life brain issues.
➜ 99.9999% of us are walking around with trauma that we have probably yet to deal with.
➜ Stress is common to all human beings — all 100% of us. Sometimes, stress overwhelms the memory circuits, making it harder for the brain to shift memory to long-term until stress levels go down.
➜ PTSD happens to at least 40% of us at some point in our lives
➜ Tragedy is almost guaranteed for us all
➜ As for the insignificance of the experience... yes, some folks don't attach much importance to the experience like many others do, so the brain— maybe to save space— saw no reason to save the face of the individual it happened with to long-term memory
➜ Traumatic experience ... that is also a possible reason for it.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by PulaPower: 10:27pm On Jan 03
Kobojunkie:
I didn't say anything about brain damage, but real-life brain issues.
➜ 99.9999% of us are walking around with trauma that we have probably yet to deal with.
➜ Stress is common to all human beings — all 100% of us. Sometimes, stress overwhelms the memory circuits, making it harder for the brain to shift memory to long-term until stress levels go down.
➜ PTSD happens to at least 40% of us at some point in our lives
➜ Tragedy is almost guaranteed for us all
➜ As for the insignificance of the experience... yes, some folks don't attach much importance to the experience like many others do, so the brain— maybe to save space— saw no reason to save the face of the individual it happened with to long-term memory
➜ Traumatic experience ... that is also a possible reason for it.
Omo, I don hear you
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Meteng: 10:57pm On Jan 03
One banny I deflowered back then can’t just stop gbenshing me even after I got married. All I need to do is carry my phone and she’ll come running leaving her boyfriend to come knack me. That’s the power of proper, quality first time knacking
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Kobojunkie: 10:59pm On Jan 03
Meteng:
One banny I deflowered back then can’t just stop gbenshing me even after I got married. All I need to do is carry my phone and she’ll come running leaving her boyfriend to come knack me. That’s the power of proper, quality first time knacking
. It is 2026... let's stop telling ourselves these ridiculous lies. Let the utterly immature brain farts go with 2025. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Meteng: 11:08pm On Jan 03
Kobojunkie:
. It is 2026... let's stop telling ourselves these ridiculous lies. Let the utterly immature brain farts go with 2025. 🥱🥱🥱
Na you be me. Na me be you
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by BlueEyedBabe(f): 12:12am On Jan 04
Kobojunkie:
It can also be eclipsed by so many other things in life, such as self-love, acquisition of strong emotional and social intelligence, mental illness, stress, memory loss, etc. There are so many things that can literally erase all of the stewpid sentiments that one first held fast to. 🥱🥱
True.
Life is a journey and we all carry baggage on it 😂
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by emmy512(m): 9:50am On Jan 04
Wealthyonos:
Sometimes when I see the kind of topics that comes to minds, I just wonder if you can't come up with solutions to the problems that faces society everyday instead of all these useless relationship talks.
Million topics talking of societal problems and u clicked this one in romance section?
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Baronthecelebri(m): 12:50pm On Jan 04
She can never forget
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by VaginaAcademic: 12:51pm On Jan 04
As for me I done soapy tire but I can never forget the first Toto I shook preek put. I still dey follow her for Facebook sef grin
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by NACE13: 3:12pm On Jan 04
Wealthyonos:
Sometimes when I see the kind of topics that comes to minds, I just wonder if you can't come up with solutions to the problems that faces society everyday instead of all these useless relationship talks.
I just need to know, how old are you? Let me get this straight; You are looking for solutions to societal problems in romance section of a blog and you're condemning those in here. How did you end up here?
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by ArinzeAnthony03: 4:45pm On Jan 20
If na you you go forgot?...
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by TheStoriesOfMan: 4:48pm On Jan 20
PulaPower:
Okay

I’m surprised that you’re not a girl o
Don't mind her. She's not truthful.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by YourGFsnatcher: 4:49pm On Jan 20
Samantha125:
With the way I nearly ran out of the house naked, I don't think I'd have forgotten him had fate not brought us back together...😂😂😂

Ladies, if you're reading this and you're still a virgin, make sure you check what you'll be dealing with before agreeing to go all the way, familiarise yourself with that eggplant first and thank me later...😂😂😂
I wan to hear this full gist grin grin grin
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Walz001: 4:52pm On Jan 20
Africa can't think western ways
We have tried it many times
Even the awoo that has the mind was killed

Let just hope for better future
Wealthyonos:
Sometimes when I see the kind of topics that comes to minds, I just wonder if you can't come up with solutions to the problems that faces society everyday instead of all these useless relationship talks.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by MightySparrow: 4:52pm On Jan 20
Wealthyonos:
Sometimes when I see the kind of topics that comes to minds, I just wonder if you can't come up with solutions to the problems that faces society everyday instead of all these useless relationship talks.
This is a big societal problem on it's own. The is one problem of ex's that always a challenge in marriage.
Besides, virginity carries with it some spiritual dimensions.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Tradepunter2: 4:53pm On Jan 20
She can never ever forget..... I have 2 ladies I dated then... I was their first, omoo tho distance broke up the relationship and nature of work broke the second..... they never forgot me.

Married for a while with kids.... so its distant memory now
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by brain54(m): 4:54pm On Jan 20
Samantha125:
With the way I nearly ran out of the house naked, I don't think I'd have forgotten him had fate not brought us back together...😂😂😂

Ladies, if you're reading this and you're still a virgin, make sure you check what you'll be dealing with before agreeing to go all the way, familiarise yourself with that eggplant first and thank me later...😂😂😂
You this girl...

I don't know what to even say. Words finished in my mouth!
grin
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Sirseedorf(m): 4:54pm On Jan 20
False narrative, who the hell still hang on to who disvirgin who, abeg i dey work make una bring reasonable topic.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by bukatyne(f): 4:57pm On Jan 20
Kobojunkie:
First, 1. I am not a girl. Second, I sorta kinda remember vaguely...

2. but bad memory problems over the years have taken much of what happened around that time away from me. So, I can't really tell you for a fact that I do. undecided
@ bold...

Finally oooooo! cheesy

@second bold: sorry about that 🫂 🤗
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Glitcher: 4:58pm On Jan 20
Wealthyonos:
Sometimes when I see the kind of topics that comes to minds, I just wonder if you can't come up with solutions to the problems that faces society everyday instead of all these useless relationship talks.
The truth is the only way we can change our country is through the media, unfortunately it has been hijacked by stupid people who promote tribalism and religious conflicts because they know these are the things that drive traffic.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Yashita: 5:00pm On Jan 20
It doesn’t matter who we lost virginity to. Finding your soul mates & living with them forever is what matters.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Kalulu44: 5:04pm On Jan 20
Starz825:
Na romance section be this bro

if you want solutions to societal problems...go and mingle with them in the tech section

You enter bakery ...dey ask price for bag of rice.
Hahahaha, abeg make una no use laugh wounjure me o. Some people can be annoying eh!
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by SAMBARRY: 5:06pm On Jan 20
grin
Maj196:
Get busy with your life and stop all this irritating topics
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by coputa(m):
Virginity or being disvirgin are all scam,the things a girl or a woman will forever remember a man for is;

1.A man who cared for her and treated her like a princess

2. A man who satisfied her s*xu*lly
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Kalulu44: 5:07pm On Jan 20
PulaPower:
Okay

I’m surprised that you’re not a girl o
Bcus he can fight for girls matter, hahahaha.
But come to think of it, Kobojunkie maybe a lady/woman and just letting you know I'm not a girl
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by ROK123(f): 5:09pm On Jan 20
maybe olden days, girls of nowadays no send
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Kalulu44: 5:10pm On Jan 20
PulaPower:
Omo, I don hear you
Hahahaha, you never see anything. No be Kobojunkie again.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by joachimnkenchor(m): 5:12pm On Jan 20
Yes
When they die
😊😊😊
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by SisterAnn(f): 5:21pm On Jan 20
Please, I don't want to ever remember that foolish boy again in my life. 👹👹👹
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by Lovelife433(m): 5:24pm On Jan 20
Nairaland is gone.
Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by MiddleDimension: 5:42pm On Jan 20
Kobojunkie:
It can also be eclipsed by so many other things in life, such as self-love, acquisition of strong emotional and social intelligence, mental illness, stress, memory loss, etc. There are so many things that can literally erase all of the stewpid sentiments that one first held fast to. 🥱🥱
Eiyah, sorry; your day may come& that is, if you stop hatting on men.

Sorry, eh, pele.
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