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Wealthyonos:
Sometimes when I see the kind of topics that comes to minds, I just wonder if you can't come up with solutions to the problems that faces society everyday instead of all these useless relationship talks.

God bless you... with the level of problems we have in this country people still have time to discuss irrelevant things

bukatyne:
@ bold...

Finally oooooo!

@second bold: sorry about that 🫂 🤗

you are the most gullible person there is here.

PulaPower:
No, I don’t think so. Me for example, I still remember the first girl I knack till date..

So I’m asking you, do you still remember yours or you don forget?

She is incapable of attracting anyone and she thinks men are the problem.

drstranged:
I’ve been thinking about something and I’d like honest opinions, especially from ladies and men with real-life experience.

There’s this popular belief that a girl never truly forgets the guy she lost her virginity to — that no matter how many relationships she has later, that first sexual experience leaves a permanent emotional mark.

But here’s where it gets confusing:

What if the guy she lost her virginity to wasn’t her first relationship?
What if he was her second or even third boyfriend, while the first relationship never became sexual?
So my questions are:
First, is emotional attachment usually stronger to the first sexual partner, or to the first serious relationship, even if that relationship did not involve sex?

Second, does losing one’s virginity automatically create a deeper or more unforgettable bond than a relationship built on love and emotional connection without sex?

Third, can a woman completely move on from the man she lost her virginity to, especially if that relationship later failed or ended badly?

Finally, in real life, which tends to leave a longer-lasting emotional imprint: first love or first sex?

Ladies, feel free to share your honest experiences.
Guys, what have you observed?

Yes, especially if the guy did a terrible job

Loosing virginity is a one time sex. I believe it is as important and unimportant as any other sex. What matter most is the relationship. Both men and women will remember their first sex just like they remember their first day at school. Most people will have better experience and relationship than their first sex and as such will not attach any importance to it.

Yes

These men should allow the ladies speak....ah

A reasonable reason is not a common thing.

Wealthyonos:
Sometimes when I see the kind of topics that comes to minds, I just wonder if you can't come up with solutions to the problems that faces society everyday instead of all these useless relationship talks.

drstranged:
I’ve been thinking about something and I’d like honest opinions, especially from ladies and men with real-life experience.

There’s this popular belief that a girl never truly forgets the guy she lost her virginity to — that no matter how many relationships she has later, that first sexual experience leaves a permanent emotional mark.

But here’s where it gets confusing:

What if the guy she lost her virginity to wasn’t her first relationship?
What if he was her second or even third boyfriend, while the first relationship never became sexual?
So my questions are:
First, is emotional attachment usually stronger to the first sexual partner, or to the first serious relationship, even if that relationship did not involve sex?

Second, does losing one’s virginity automatically create a deeper or more unforgettable bond than a relationship built on love and emotional connection without sex?

Third, can a woman completely move on from the man she lost her virginity to, especially if that relationship later failed or ended badly?

Finally, in real life, which tends to leave a longer-lasting emotional imprint: first love or first sex?

Ladies, feel free to share your honest experiences.
Guys, what have you observed?

First, no female will give you the truth you seek here. All what they will give you is lie upon lies leading to manipulation. A lot of ladies never forget who deflower them; also they never forget their first love especially one they truly love genuinely when they first enter the dating cycle; and they never forget who pound them well after they started jumping from bed to bed.

bukatyne:
@ bold...
Finally oooooo!
@second bold: sorry about that 🫂 🤗

Huh? Folks who lose memory of unnecessary things are not really unlucky... They are better than those who carry what are regrets and sadness everywhere with them. 🥱🥱

Philosopher1979:
She wasn't. I mean she said it in a sincere way. I did not ask her before she said it. When someone is sincere you will know.

Woman tell you that, you say she’s sincere. I bet you have no idea about woman and you no dey fear them😂

Guys, believe these women that are saying NO at your own peril.
Some of them here keep journals and diaries, where they meticulous write the names of all the men they have slept with and even score them on their performance.

It's crazy to me that there are men out there who have never been a woman's first, some of these men are married too.

thomas2024:
✓ First, no female will give you the truth you seek here. All what they will give you is lie upon lies leading to manipulation. A lot of ladies never forget who deflower them; also they never forget their first love especially one they truly love genuinely when they first enter the dating cycle; and they never forget who pound them well after they started jumping from bed to bed.

No female will give you the truth but you are sure without quering any female that all females remember the information vividly. Some of you are just certifiable...🥱🥱

Helpout12345:
Yes and yes. How many women today you hear talk about who disvirgined them??

I was going to say same. All the olosho and runs babes in town can't even remember who dis-virgined them. Nobody cares about that anymore. Just manage one ni.

If a girl is deflowered in a very romantic and pleasant manner she will not forget the experience easily that is if her subsequent sexual engagements are short of romantic and sensuality. It takes more than two to four encounters for a proper deflowering. Every encounter should necessitate the next. So a girl can either remember the encounter for a good reason or bad reason, bad reasons wouldn't suffice. But good reason would if her engagements after you are short of the good reason.

This is a really interesting point. I honestly don’t think a woman ever forgets the first person she was with. Even if she ends up resenting him—whether it’s due to a bad heartbreak or something much more serious like trauma—that memory stays. Women tend to have pretty sharp memories; most can even tell you exactly who the first guy was to ever show them interest.

No amount of pornhub prepared me for what I saw... What a waste of data...😒😒😒

brain54:
You this girl...

I don't know what to even say. Words finished in my mouth!

Not today...

YourGFsnatcher:
I wan to hear this full gist

Samantha125:
No amount of pornhub prepared me for what I saw... What a waste of data...😒😒😒

I have fallen off my chair from laughter...


You are the real hero. For taking the heavy duty equipment!

😂

This forum is dead, what manner of questions that came popping up inside the head of people these days is alarming. Of all the problems in the society today, na this one dey bother or worry you pass 😂 😂

zmanto:
God bless you... with the level of problems we have in this country people still have time to discuss irrelevant things

What is relevant to someone might be irrelevant to you. Not everyone is partaking in the same degree of problems as you. If you feel the problems in the country are so much to you and choking you, why don't you go out and protest openly against the govt instead of trying to force others to share equal problems with you.

You dey laugh?😒😒😒... Anyways, I've already revealed to much information, let me keep quiet...

brain54:
I have fallen off my chair from laughter...


You are the real hero. For taking the heavy duty equipment!

😂

Samantha125:
You dey laugh?😒😒😒... Anyways, I've already revealed to much information, let me keep quiet...

😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dzzzz:
If a girl can forget who took her to Dubai,E come be you wey chop opueh..

Hahahahaha...

Kobojunkie:
No female will give you the truth but you are sure without quering any female that all females remember the information vividly. Some of you are just certifiable...🥱🥱

I tossed a coin saying Kobojunkie will mention me on this comment of mine after I typing. Now my guess is right, why? Because reality hits deeper. Point out the lies sis.

Even men on female fonts are commenting.

Nairaland: femboys who hate women circlejerking femboys who also hate women. A case of the blind leading the blind.

I’m out of this thread.

drstranged:
I’ve been thinking about something and I’d like honest opinions, especially from ladies and men with real-life experience.

There’s this popular belief that a girl never truly forgets the guy she lost her virginity to — that no matter how many relationships she has later, that first sexual experience leaves a permanent emotional mark.

But here’s where it gets confusing:

What if the guy she lost her virginity to wasn’t her first relationship?
What if he was her second or even third boyfriend, while the first relationship never became sexual?
So my questions are:
First, is emotional attachment usually stronger to the first sexual partner, or to the first serious relationship, even if that relationship did not involve sex?

Second, does losing one’s virginity automatically create a deeper or more unforgettable bond than a relationship built on love and emotional connection without sex?

Third, can a woman completely move on from the man she lost her virginity to, especially if that relationship later failed or ended badly?

Finally, in real life, which tends to leave a longer-lasting emotional imprint: first love or first sex?

Ladies, feel free to share your honest experiences.
Guys, what have you observed?

Make I ask
Iyatola
Iyabe

And others should take the floor

Philosopher1979:
The thing is the man the lady will marry, like or date will be similar to the man she lost her virginity to. For example a girl that liked said she did so because I resembled her first boyfriend that disvirgined her. So the thing is the men the lady dates after that will resemble the man that disvirgined her.

This is so because you couldn't break the record of the first guy. There are people who come into our lives that we can't forget. Some through sexual encounters, true and tested friendship, family or some sort of bonding. But in relationships women tend to hold find memories forever of someone very special, maybe sexual, emotional, physical or it could even be the way he treats her like no other has or can ever. So any guy she meets after him, keeps being no mber two until someone comes along to break his record.

meobizy:
Nairaland: femboys who hate women circlejerking femboys who also hate women. A case of the blind leading the blind.

I’m out of this thread.

Good for you!